About a month ago I got a really interesting email from a woman named Jessy,
The gist of the email from Jessy said that she broke up with her ex and using Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO she ended up getting him back. Not only that but he proposed and they got married.
Now, this actually hasn’t been the first time that I have had a hand in getting a couple married.
Some of you may remember Marueen one of my original success stories but this was on an entirely different level.
Why?
Well, it’s probably due to the fact that Jessy was so forthcoming with her situation. She was willing to get on camera (with her husband) and make a testimonial for me,
And on top of that I actually got her to agree to coming on the podcast to talk about what she did to win her ex back.
Honestly, I think it’s best if I cut right to the chase on this one.
Imke
December 6, 2024 at 5:40 am
Hy! So my boyfriend broke up with me after 3 years because of stress for school and because he thinks he loves someone else, will no contact work on him? The first 5 days after the break up we did message back and forth a bit but in the fifth day I went no contact and been doing that for almost a week now. He also started viewing my TikToks. Will no contact work and should I ignore him if he texts me?
isabella iraca'
June 12, 2021 at 10:25 pm
Can I use the no contact rule even if he (adismissive avoidant) keeps reaching me out once a week after his decision to break up with me at the end of May?
Thanks❤️
EBR Team Member: Shaunna
June 13, 2021 at 2:51 pm
Hi Isabella, yes you need to make sure that you stick with it and do not reply.
nicole
April 19, 2020 at 7:40 pm
Hi Chris! My ex boyfriend and I are both 23 and we started dating when we were 18. About a month ago my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. I was actually getting ready to move in with him when he called it quits. His initial reason was that he still loved me but couldn’t be in a committed serious relationship at this point in time. Obviously being heart broken I tried searching for answers and tried to find a way to fix things with him but I was getting nothing. For the next month of being broken up we did still talk every 4 days or so but we kept having the same conversations of me being heart broken and him being okay with his decision. He kept saying that he doesn’t think were actually meant to be and that this relationship wasn’t working for him anymore. He also said that we both changed and that our relationship was way different from when we first started dating. He said that at this point in time he doesn’t think he will change his mind because he thinks its the best decision for both of us because were not meant to be. he says he will always love me and he will always keep an open mind about a future with me. Im not really sure if he’s lying when he says that but i do really want to believe that. He keeps trying to convince myself and himself that this is for the best and he’s so dead set on never changing his mind. We both agreed that talking was making it worse for the both of us to move on from this breakup and try and be happy so we both agreed to go at least 1 month without talking so I can try and cool down and he can have the space that he’s been asking for. I really want my ex boyfriend back because I truly think we are meant to be and I am trying to respect him by giving him the space. We had an amazing relationship but im really scared that no contact will make him realize he doesn’t need me in his life. How on earth do I get him back when he’s making it impossible for me to get him back?
EBR Team Member: Shaunna
April 25, 2020 at 6:15 pm
Hey Nicole giving that you work on yourself during your NC – there is information about the holy trinity and about being Ungettable on this website and then reach out with a text that Chris suggests. Then you of course have a chance of getting your ex back giving that you keep emotional control and understand this process takes time.
Anon
July 7, 2017 at 5:54 am
Hi, my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago after being in a two and a half year relationship. We started having problems a year ago, where his mother didn’t like me and felt like we were not compatible. Furthermore, I was a controlling girlfriend and I was also very possessive, which is something he did not like. So we broke up end of last year once, and decided to get back together and try things out again after a week break.
Things got better and I was not controlling or hot tempered anymore. We went on a trip together and things were going well. However, after I went on an overseas trip for 2 weeks and then he left for a trip for another week, so about a month of not properly meeting and communicating, he decided to break up with me again. He felt like our relationship was going nowhere and we had no future together, and he didn’t love me and he was tired of trying.
I really don’t know what to do, because I really want him back but he already “committed” to the idea of breaking up and he doesn’t love me anymore (though his actions had said otherwise before I went away for the trip) through the 1 month of no proper contact and meeting up. I feel like it is a cover up reason for him not wanting commitment anymore as he is going to university and this relationship did not value add to him and will distract him. Also he was probably tired out from trying and he has this negative association of me with controlling and possessive even though I am not anymore so he feels like he doesnt love me anymore even though we are very comfortable with each other and enjoy each other’s company.
He is also convinced that he cannot love someone for long periods of time because of his parents’ failed marriage and has lost faith in love and marriage. Is there still a chance for me to change his mind and help him? Please help thanks!
EBR Team Member: Amor
July 9, 2017 at 4:58 pm
Hi Anon,
Check this one:
My Ex Boyfriend Told Me He Loves Me But Won’t Commit
TERESA PR
April 24, 2017 at 4:34 am
I been dating for 6 months but we have know each other for 20 years. He been keeping in contact with me but during he started having problems with sex. He is not able you get my direction. I was getting a little frustrated cause I though he didnt want to have intercourse. Than out of the blue he told me he went to the doctor and found out he has low testerone level. He needed to start taking shots will I be willing to give them to him and of course I said yes. We had ups and down in the bedroom but read a lot of articles how to help him and didnt force intimacy or criticize him in any way even he didnt preform that night and gave him encourament to not to worry so we huged each other and kiss and it was fine with it plus I felt his affection no matter what. Now he has been very distance from me like he is trying to avoid me. He has cancel and sometimes flake out on dates but still does contact me within an hour after of him doing this apologizing. My patience is running out after this last episode with by parents were in town and we had a big family event to go to which he was supposed to attend with me. The day he was supposed to meet my parents he send me a text that he was tied up with clients so he couldn’t make it but contacted me when he got done which was 10pm. We didn’t see each other all week cause he been extremely busy with work and his new business. I was pissed that he didn’t make any time to text or call me like he has always done. The day before my family’s big event with a lot of family coming in from out of state. He sends me a text telling me that he won’t be able to attend and that he has to go out of town to help his Aunt out of town that he is sorry and hope that I can understand how busy he has been and that in time I can forgive him.
I was so disappointed since he knew about it for 2 months. I was looking forward to attend the event with him. I never responded to his text I wanted too but I was so upset I didn’t want to say something I will regret later so I havent. He hasn’t texted me since than it has been 3 days since his text and I haven’t texted him either. After reading a couples of your articles concerning the NC rule. I decided I will try it. Do you think I am over reacting? Should I try the NC rule or not? I been in love with him for years but I feel that he doesnt appreciate me or consider my feeling or opinions when he is making a decision. I have not told him I am in love with him. I have only told him I care for him and have strong feelings for him.
Please I need some advice can anyone help me?
EBR Team Member: Amor
April 29, 2017 at 8:17 pm
Yep! You should try the nc rule.
Megan
November 12, 2016 at 6:00 am
I finished NC and sent my first contact text but he didn’t respond. I sent “oh my gosh! You’re not going to believe what just happened to me” I don’t understand why he doesn’t want to talk to me. I thought the text would work 🙁 what do I do now?
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 12, 2016 at 2:42 pm
Hmm.. when and why did you break up?
Megan
November 5, 2016 at 5:53 pm
I am on my last day of NC and haven’t heard from him yet. Should I be worried? And should I go ahead and send a first contact text tomorrow? (the day after 30 days) I’m just so worried that he won’t respond.
I feel like I have improved in myself over NC. I’m focusing more in my school work and getting my degree. I’m getting better grades, really pushing myself to do better. I’ve also been working out a little, and hanging out with my friends more often. I have also taken time during certain days of the week to pamper myself and build my confidence. And I have been posting on Facebook about fun things I’ve done and sharing funny videos, hoping he will take notice.
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 6, 2016 at 8:40 pm
Hi Megan,
Dont worry about it too much. You can initiate contact. Check this one:
EBR 053: Deconstructing The Perfect First Contact Text Message
Cree Bashford
October 25, 2016 at 10:46 pm
I’ll start from the begining, my ex boyfriend and i’s relationship has been perfect for 3 years, hes my best friend, we get along like a house on fire, never have a dull moment together, never ever argued it was perfect! There had been a few things that had happened, like his parents told him they didn’t really love eachother anymore and they might break up but they seem to be trying, but as he is 23 and very sensitive and still lives at home it hit him really hard, he also got made redundant from the job that he loves.
At the end of July he sat me down and told me that something didn’t feel right, he said he thought the spark had gone, he didn’t want to see me as much as before, didn’t think about me in the day that much, doesn’t want me to come out with his friends that much any more, and he basically said he felt bored. After this chat we went on a 2 week break with minimal contact to see if he missed me as he never did.
After our break he said that nothing much had changed but he wanted to try and bring the spark back by dating once a week and seeing a little less of each other as we saw eachother a lot. We tried for about a month, we even stayed in an expensive hotel and had an amazing dinner one night and we both said it was amazing. But a few days later after one of our dates he said to me that he didn’t think he was in the right state of mind to be with me right now, he said he loves me more than anything in the world but he just needed to be by himself for a while. This broke my heart, he kept saying things like so many couples break up and end up getting back together it’s really normal, we just needed to take some time out. Every time we spoke about these problems, when we went on our break and when we broke up he was crying so much telling me how much he loves me.
This was 6 weeks ago, i tried 30 day no contact and he contacted me on the 30th day and we’ve had a few more chats that lasted all day since then. I want this man back so badly, ive never felt a connection with someone like him ever i love him so much! But what i need to achieve is to make him miss me and want to see me as thats why we broke up.
What can i do to make him want me back?!
Cree Bashford
October 26, 2016 at 9:21 pm
I think ive improved myself, i know what went wrong on my side and i know what not to do if we gave it another shot. Ive tried working on myself like working out etc. no we haven’t spoken on the phone, but we never really did when we were together as we both prefer to text eachother. Whenever he texts me i do make myself available to reply but he hasnt asked to meet or anything yet.
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 28, 2016 at 7:04 pm
It’s ok not to progress to calls if you’re not really doing that when you’re together. You have to continue improving yourself.. What’s essential right now is if you’re building up rapport, if yes, then it’s ok to initiate a meet up. Raise it before ending the conversation at high note.. when he’s in a good mood.
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 26, 2016 at 9:49 am
Hi Cree,
how much did you improve during nc? And are you still doing so now? You said you’re still texting until now, did you progress to calls? if you dont really call each other before, are you building up rapport? Are you always available? If you compate yourself now, to the old you, how many new things have you done and how many new friends have you made?
Esther
October 23, 2016 at 10:42 pm
Well my ex fiancé have been broken for 9 months now. How will ex boyfriend recovery pro help me get him back and to improve myself? I only got him back once useing nc then he broke off the engagement a second time. The reason I want him back is because I love him very much. Plus he lives 5 hours from where I’m at. I went on a few dates last summer, today I treated myself to a frappe. I need help, last time I knew my ex fiancé had a new girlfriend since Augest 24 2016. I can’t do the being there thing I don’t have a car or my license. I’m on idk of Nc. Help please
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 25, 2016 at 4:08 pm
Hi Esther,
If you’re ldr and he has a gf try the advice in the link below..
And also the improvement is solely by yourself.. You can do it even without us.. You have to improve your health, wealth and relationships aspects of your life..
why did he break up with you the last time?
EBR 015: How To Get A Long Distance Boyfriend Back If He Has A New Girlfriend
Hello
October 22, 2016 at 7:25 pm
Hey there! I read in the podcasts’ page that we could send our own question via voice message that could be later answered in a podcast so I sent mine. I understand that you guys must have lots and lots of messages to feature but I wanted to know what my chances of getting an answer are. Thank you very much in advance !
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 23, 2016 at 7:41 pm
Hi Hello!
🙂 If you’re situation hasn’t been covered yet in our articles or podcasts, there’s a higher chance you would be chosen