140 thoughts on “A Comprehensive List Of No Contact Rule Success Stories”

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   Em

   May 15, 2017 at 5:27 pm

   Hello,
   Me and my boyfriend were together for over 3 years. He started to distance himself and next thing I know he is at my house in the middle of the night saying a hurt him because he read my text to my friend saying I’m hurt by his actions. I haven’t heard from him for a week. I did all the bad things. I tried to text and call the first few days. But I just started the no contact. I’m not crying anymore and I feel some what better but I really do miss him. I cut off everything from him and it hurt but it needed to be done. However I don’t know if this will even work. I know I can do this. I just don’t know if he will ever miss me.

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   Jenn

   May 5, 2017 at 10:15 pm

   Hi Amor,
   My ex boyfriend and I dated for over three years. A year and a half ago he broke up with me out of the blue (I thought). We were long distance at the time. At first I freaked and begged for him back. Then I stopped doing that and when he saw me in person he immediately wanted to get back together. He said breaking up with me was a mistake and he would never do it again. Fast forward a year and a half later and he did it again. He says it’s not me, he’s unhappy with his life and needs to figure things out. He says there’s no hope for us again, but he said that last time. I don’t know what to think. Is there any chance?

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   May 6, 2017 at 4:43 pm

   try to do nc again, do at least 30 days.

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   Lynn

   May 3, 2017 at 9:47 am

   My ex boyfriend broke up with me four months ago. After a while talking sometimes, I decided to go NC because he was very distant and that was hurting me. After those weeks we start talking again like friends, from time to time and about books, movies, tv… Sometimes he sent me things saying “it made me think about you”. We usually to have short conversations, once a week or so. I miss the times we texted each other all day long). We have a common chat group with mutual friends and he doesn’t talk directly to me there. Since I`m not having a great time with this situation and I miss him very much, I am feeling “invisible” to him. I don’t know what to do to get him back… He is very stubborn and said that he is not in the “us” page anymore and the fact that we live in different cities (but near) isn’t helping (he hated distance due to a past experience). If we could met in person… He said that he wouldn’t mind met and go to the movies or something like that but as we barely talk, it is not possible arrange a meeting, I would be forcing things and wouldn’t work. I really want to make him “addicted” to talking to me like before, I need to gain him back but I don’t know how

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   Lynn

   May 4, 2017 at 11:00 am

   Many thank you for this Amor. I was thinking…when we met, I liked him a lot but I was afraid of my own feelings, so he had to fight for us, he “chased” me, put a lot of effort…and I think he kinda liked it. Later he felt too comfortable and I started to be insecure, needy and clingy, since I was scared that he had lost interest (no, I can see it clearly now but…too late). So I think that “the ungettable girl” could be the perfect method for me. Furthermore, not only at the end of our relationship but during the first weeks after the break up I was the one chasing him and he torn cold and distant. I never begged, but I tried to reason with him, explaining why we would be perfect together… Useless, obviously. Now after NC he seems to be a little more confortable talking with me, he even initiates contact so… Yes, I will try your method. I hope it works. Thank you again

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   May 4, 2017 at 3:37 pm

   That’s good!You’re welcome!

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   May 3, 2017 at 7:59 pm

   check this one:
   The Ungettable Girl

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   Tiphy

   May 2, 2017 at 5:35 pm

   Hi after an again and off again relationship with this guy and a massive fight last week where horrible things were said.. i decided to go on no contact and it worked well … i stopped no contact when he called me 3 times and sent more than 4 positive messages in a day, the number seven Chris recommends … We talked, he apologized for all the things he said and said that he would die without me… etc etc… we got back together on Friday i guess. On Saturday, i said “c u Wednesday” there was gonna be a long holiday but i thought he would text during the weekend… nope he hasnt texted since Saturday… like one or two texts on Sunday, i texted, he replied. A couple on Monday, he texted and said he was busy w some friends. And today no texts in the morning, i texted him and he said he was at the mechanic and taking care of his sister’s baby… i asked him why he has ignored me so much after all the things he said on Friday… he said what was said on Friday was totally true but that he had been very busy lately…
   dont know if im too needy or what… or it is his fault … advice please… should i play the ungettable girl with him? Thanks

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   Tiphy

   May 4, 2017 at 1:20 am

   I ruined it being a dramaqueen … i restarted no contact and as i work w him, it will have to be limited no contact im going on 30 days no matter if he begs or looks for me.. im fij8shing the 30 days and improving myself… is 30 days enough?

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   May 4, 2017 at 3:23 pm

   Yeah, I think that’s enough

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   May 2, 2017 at 8:41 pm

   yes, because you should actually be an ungettable.. so, in the mean time that you dont feel you’re an ungettable girl, fake it but aim to be a real ungettable girl

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   B

   May 2, 2017 at 9:03 am

   2nd break up with the same guy and NC for more than 30 days now… still no contact from him… and I don’t wish to text or initiate contact first because I believe that if he wants to talk to me he truly will. It’s better to give up right? Since I don’t see any hope..

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   May 2, 2017 at 7:23 pm

   if you want to, that’s your choice, and your right to move on..

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   Paupa

   May 2, 2017 at 7:26 am

   I have texted my ex-boyfriend after 23 days asking him not to contact me unless he changes his mind. At the break-up he was really desiring of us staying friends. Telling him that I do not bate him and If se happen to meet on the street se can say and ask about accomplishments each have. But not to contact me as a friend anymore and I wish him all the best. Does this ciunt as breaking the NC? He never texted me sincer I started IT. But I felt like de can not Be friend, nor stranhers If se happrlen to meet on the street. He broke up with me. No one cheated. He said he does not want a wife, ever, I am not The One anyway, so se should break up(eventually admitted that its his lack of confidence in himself to keep me happy long-term that made him leț me go)

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   Paula

   May 2, 2017 at 7:28 am

   Sorry, I meant I texted him after 13 days. Sorry about the grammar. I was using my phone

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   May 2, 2017 at 7:09 pm

   yup, you have to restart it.