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81 thoughts on “EBR 048: My Ex Boyfriend Unfriended Me On Facebook…. What Does It Mean?”

  1. Erika

    July 18, 2016 at 3:31 am

    Hey, someone help me make a decision 🙁

    Me&& my ex had a rough relationship. Lots of trust issues and arguments. We broke a month ago but right after two days he started to date his ex. We have a child together but we hardly talk or see each other since his family watches over the baby. I dont know what to do since he says he’s really happy now but I love him a lot.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 19, 2016 at 5:11 pm

      hi Erika,

      do you want to do limited no contact? You will focus in improving yourself and only talk to him about the baby..

  2. Letting Go

    July 15, 2016 at 9:53 am

    Hi! I have done everything in Ex Recovery pro and it does all work, however when I got to my third date he told me he still couldn’t be with me. A lot of things have happened since then, we have been broken up 8 months, but we are definitely in NC and I don’t intend on breaking it. Our last discussion was he still doesn’t know what he wants or what the future holds for us, he wanted us to stop talking to each other because it was too hard for us both. When it comes down to it, he left because he couldn’t take the step forward with me because he has only even been with me and has grass is greener syndrome. I am now in a place where I am fully letting him go and moving on, if he comes back he comes back and it was meant to be. I would like to keep the door open to him, however I also want to unfriend him on facebook and twitter and instagram etc, just so I am fully leaving him behind, is this a good idea or am I sending the wrong message? I want him to know he has lost me. We are in a good place when we see each other at the moment at social events and I know if I text him he would text back. Please let me know what you think!

    1. Letting Go

      July 20, 2016 at 10:21 am

      Hi Amor,
      Maybe repeated but great advice that’s why. I am doing that all the time. I was dating too but I keep going on these dates and not having connections with these guys. I have deleted my dating app now and think I will wait to meet someone organically by doing lots of activities instead. Thank you so much for your advice!

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 21, 2016 at 4:07 pm

      you’re welcome 🙂

    3. Letting Go

      July 18, 2016 at 8:39 am

      Hi Amor,
      Well no I don’t want to let go, but I don’t see what else I can do. I still care what message I send because I still want to leave that door open should the time be right in the future. He has told me how much he cares about me and stuff but that he still doesn’t know what he wants. He is 23, he has never been in a relationship with anyone else and says he does not plan on getting in one now as its not what he wants, he just wants to live. I know he has been on dates and that he has slept with someone now because he has been honest about it, he just wants to experience things. I also read your article about why they break up with you, mine is that he was not comfortable with the speed the relationship was going. We moved in after 4 years together and he left after 2 months saying he was not ready. So really he just needs time to grow up and experience life and if it is meant to be then we should come back together, which is what he believes too. For this reason I would like to maintain a good impression and leave the door open.

    4. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 19, 2016 at 6:22 pm

      that’s good.. but you know,I know this sounds like I’m repeating what I’m advising to others but the best move is to have your own life and excel.. to the point that he will want you back because he’s attracted to you and also because he can see that you’re not going to rush things becauee you’re busy with your own thing

    5. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 15, 2016 at 6:24 pm

      HI Letting go,

      do you really want to let go? Because if you do, you won’t care if you’re sending the wrong message..

  3. Cherry

    July 14, 2016 at 7:00 am

    Hi Chris. I broke up with my ex boyfriend one week ago. He blocked me on his phone but he didn’t block me on whatsapp and Skype. He said he will only be ready to get back to me if I act to be a normal loving girlfriend. I broke up with him because of jealous, being paranoid and so many other things and I think he’s tired of me being like that. Now, the last text that he sent to me was ‘ when you’re feeling normal we can try to fix it but im very disappointed about your hateful to me, goodnight i love you’ Then after that It’s been a week now, he’s not texting me and im still blocked on his phone. What does it mean?

    Thanks for your help

    1. Cherry

      July 16, 2016 at 3:35 pm

      Yes, I’m doing the contact rule for 1 week now. Today, I received a message from him saying he loves me, how am i and he’s talking about what’s going on on his job. I didnt reply to him. So, am i doing right for not replying? When should I contact him?

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 16, 2016 at 9:40 pm

      yes, because he’s not actually daying he wants to get back with you… you can initiate contact after nc but of he does not say he wants you back during in it, you can’t break it

    3. Chris Seiter

      July 14, 2016 at 5:48 pm

      It means you have to wait longer and try to take so much focus off of him. You are in the no contact rule, right?

  4. A C

    July 13, 2016 at 2:18 am

    Thank you so much for the reply. Yes it was him, he said he wasn’t ready to fully commit to me knowing that and with how fast it was going. But now the talks are all leading to us getting back together soon. What do you think that I should do from here? And should I forgive him for this?

  5. A C

    July 12, 2016 at 6:01 am

    HI guys, I need to ask for help with this situation. I have followed the steps to a tee so far to get my ex back and it has felt like its progressing for the last few weeks. (Broke up because of commitment issues on his behalf, and I kissed another man) Today we had a long conversation and all signs point to us getting back together. He told me that he isn’t ready to commit at this exact moment but when we decide were going to give it another shot that we will build up to that commitment again. Which felt really great to hear considering the state of the break up for the past 3 months. He made it very clear that he isn’t ready to start it back up right this moment but continuously referred to “when we get back together” , and telling me ways he thinks we can make it better once we do. But, my friend came across him on tinder shortly after (late at night, and his bio only states height and picture links). I should mention that he has only ever had sex with me, and before we broke up our relationship was moving very quickly. Do you think that he is just trying to get it out of his system before we get back together? How should i take this information? And what do I do from here? I do not feel angry or sad at him I understand that being his only sex partner he probably got scared about the rate of which things were moving. But I need advice on what I should take of it and what do to going forward, incase I am on the wrong track. Thank you so much

    1. A C

      July 14, 2016 at 9:32 pm

      What do you think I should do from here? Would it be stupid of me to take him back if he sleeps with someone? Am I on the right track ? Thank you for your help Chris

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      July 16, 2016 at 7:34 pm

      Hi Ac,

      I hope you don’t mind me replying this time.. You are on the right track but you have to be cautious too..if he’s still in tinder, then he’s not that serious with you yet, so don’t get back with him if he’s active there.. take it slow with him

    3. A C

      July 13, 2016 at 4:20 pm

      He will talk about the things he is trying to work on and the things that he thinks will help us “when” we get back together. He said he isn’t ready to commit right at this moment, so we spoke of how when we decide we’re going to, that we are going to date for a little and work up to really committing to build our trust back up. The past few weeks he has been more normal with me than he has in months, and whenever we speak of us he will always say “when we get back together”. But I am pretty certain he is still on tinder, unless maybe he is using this time to get it out of his system until we officially decide to try again.

    4. A C

      July 13, 2016 at 2:18 am

      Thank you so much for the reply. Yes it was him, he said he wasn’t ready to fully commit to me knowing that and with how fast it was going. But now the talks are all leading to us getting back together soon. What do you think that I should do from here? And should I forgive him for this?

    5. Chris Seiter

      July 13, 2016 at 3:26 pm

      Oh goody!

      Give me an example of what these talks are sounding like.

    6. Chris Seiter

      July 12, 2016 at 4:42 pm

      So, who initiated the breakup if you don’t mind me asking?

      Am I right in guessing that it was him?

      He is probably resentful because of you kissing another men is my guess for why he’s on tinder. It’s his way of getting “payback.”

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