How To Get Your Boyfriend Back If You Have Children Together- The Complete Steps

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Rach

June 14, 2014 at 9:11 pm

Hey Chris!

My boyfriend broke up with me after 11 months of being together and a few days later I found out I was pregnant ( he is clearly not happy and doesn’t want to get back together)
We decided to go to counselling and try and start a fresh relationship taking things really slowly but I know he doesn’t really want to he just feels like he has to to try for the sake of the baby.
Should I try the 30 day no contact? Will be tricky as we have counselling sessions each week and if I do start it should I tell him I want space or just ignore him and see him each week at the session? He will be so confused if I just stop texting him as we decided to “start fresh”
In saying that he has said that he doesn’t want to be with me and doesn’t see us getting back together but things counselling will at least be able to get our communication sorted for the baby… Tricky!

Thanks 🙂

admin

June 15, 2014 at 6:16 pm

This exact situation happened to a friend of mine. (swear to god)

NC is soooo essential.
Rach

June 15, 2014 at 11:27 pm

Sweet will do that and miss the counselling as well for the 30 days?

Thanks! Your a star 🙂
admin

June 16, 2014 at 2:18 pm

I think the counseling is good but maybe if you went alone…

Jay

June 10, 2014 at 3:07 pm

So how long after the positive contact do I wait before addressing ‘US’? So far, after a really nasty break-up while I was 6months pregnant and 3months of absolutely no contact AFTER our daughter’s birth, the texting and face-to-face has been quite positive. He initiates a hug after each visit, and ensures that there will be alot mote in the future. It has only been 2 weeks, for the most part communication has revolved around the baby and our individual progress since the split. It feels like interest is still there but I’m afraid to bring it up because in the past it caused him to feel pressured and grow distant. I don’t want to spoil anything yet….advice?

admin

June 11, 2014 at 4:23 pm

A little while… A week or two depending on how things start flowing.

Kay

June 10, 2014 at 1:20 am

I love this! I am going to try it as I just recently broke up/left the apartment me and my BF were living in. We have been together for 5 years(high school sweethearts) and just had our first son. Throughout our entire relationship he cheated on me, but I chose to stay with him because I loved him and believed he would change..honestly he has changed quite a bit in that department but upon getting pregnant he would still talk to a few girls here and there. Our son was born a month ago and after all this drama that his mother started he wants to break up with me. No kidding, his mom had minor issues with me just based off her assumptions, but she got her whole entire family involved. It feels as if there is no turning back now, but I really want my little family back. How can I get my now ex to understand that we are his immediate family that need him. His blood family will always be there but they aren’t there for him like I am?

admin

June 10, 2014 at 3:51 pm

Sounds like she didn’t raise him right if he was cheating on you….

Tobiloba

May 27, 2014 at 2:53 pm

Hi, am sorry for my long write up. Here is my story,I’m 25yrs, in Year 2011 I was in 300level, I met dis guy who was in 400level tru a frnd who shared ma 2go id 2him, and we became friends, then later started a relationship. 2months into the relationship, I discovered he has other gf’s. We quarrelled over it, still made up again. Fastforward to 2012 wen he went for National Youth Service, I discovered am pregnant, I called to tell him, all 4me to receive d shocker of ma life, he told me to move on, even abort. But then I didn’t, I let ma parents know, and my mum was really supportive. Few months to delivery, his family came 2 meet mine and we did smtin like an introduction. I had d baby in july via C.S, his pple came 4d naming, he even arrived d 2nd day I gave birth. Two days after d naming, a lady contacted me on facebook, she is his gf where he is serving. Shez a muslim. She went ahead and told d babe thrash about me, dis I got to know d day d babe and I had quarrel online, where she called me a ‘Cyber Whore’. I love dis guy so much that I wasn’t even 6weeks after delivery b4 I gave in to his sexual advances, all cos I don’t want him sleeping around wid other girls but it never stopped him, as I got to know that the muslim girlfriend aborted for him twice, the 1st abortion was before she knew about me, while the 2nd was after she got to know about me. He explained everyting 2me though, he said that’s the reason why he can’t just breakup with her, cos he doesn’t want any lady to attack his family, so he said he’ll talk 2her that his parents said he must marry me and since shez a muslim, that it can’t work out. Even after den, dey were still seeing each other, another one appnd wen he started asking another lady out, not knowing d lady is a friend’s friend. She told me everyting, and u won’t bliv dis same guy told dis lady thrash about me as well, all to look good to d gurl. After he got a job, with an ‘Ok’ pay, he do send us tokens once a month, and come to check on us, cos I’m currently doing my National Service . I started having some nagging feelings at the beginning of this year, cos his dad and mum loves me and are always calling to check on me especially d dad, buh since January, it reduced drastically from like 90percent to 5percent, he rarely calls or text, once a while wen I call him, he’ll tell me not to be angry that it is work. I mean the guy’s dad. Sincerely I had thought my child’s father was changing for the better, nt knowing I was wrong. 2 days ago, he came to visit us, den I decided 2 pik up his fone, I saw that he deleted all his texts, leaving only d ones sent by me. But I overlooked it, then yesterday afternoon, he was outside playing with our son, I sprayed d room to get rid of mosquitoes, den a text came in, it was frm anoda lady hez dating, who I once asked about her from him, but he said she is “a friend to all”, after I read d text, I went to gave him his fone, den I discovered dah he changed d name with which he saved the gurl’s number. Then after leaving, dis morning, he sent me a bbm msg saying he doesn’t like wat I did by reading his text, then I sed I fink if we av nothing to hide from each other, then there is no big deal, den he said either he is plain or not, I shudnt read his text. Then I told him, I knw d text is from his gf. Then he said something to me that wenever d result of evrytin comes out, that we will all make do with it, then I asked ‘is it the result of wat u wanna do’ then he replied ‘the result of what he is already doing’ then I said I knw the height of it all is ‘breaking up with me’ then he said its okay. Then I told him dat “whatever he wanna do, he shudnt think of taking my son away from me’. He even told me that even if we get married, I have no right to his phone or to ask who the recent gf is to him. Pls I really need help, I am only trynna pull maslf together physically but emotionally I am torn apart. Please I really need ur advice, pls help a sister, what do I do? I am already loosing it.

admin

May 28, 2014 at 2:36 pm

Ok, I am very confused.

300 level and 400 level???

Sandra

May 23, 2014 at 7:03 pm

Hi and thank you for this web site.

I dumped my boyfriend almost a year ago when I found out that he was cheating on me. We have three young children together. Soon after I broke up with him I realised that it wasn’t what I wanted, yes he cheated on me but the more I thought about it the more sure I became that him cheating was just him not dealing with the problems we had.

I tried to do the minimum contact for a while but it didn’t work to good, because he doesn’t leave me alone, he keeps phoning and contacting me, he for examples comes to my house about every other day (to be with our kids) and then he usually phones me everyday, at least every other day and sometimes more then once a day, if I don’t answer he gets mad.

One might think that by doing all this he would be showing interest in getting back together with me, but he is still seeing the girl that he cheated on me with, so what should I do? I have been thinking if I should maybe stop allowing him to come so often to my house and stop answering him when he phones even though he would get mad? But it also would be hard for me to do that because I know that he also wants to pay close attention to our children and if I prevent him to see them and hear news from the so often I would feel like I would be standing in the way of him and them to be in a good relationship.

I have been thinking also to let anyone of my children always answer the phone when he phones and let them tell him that I am to busy to talk to him when he asks to talk to me and also to leave my house when he comes to see the children. What would you recommend?

admin

May 25, 2014 at 2:13 pm

Is he still with the woman he cheated with?
Sandra

May 25, 2014 at 7:44 pm

yes

Liz

May 22, 2014 at 3:53 pm

I just recently found out I’m 4 weeks pregnant. Me and the baby’s dad are no longer together. We broke up due to arguing. I told him I was pregnant and he said he’d be there for the baby and would help with anything and everything that he needed too. He said he didn’t want to be together because of how much we argued while dating and that us being together with a baby would only complicate everything. However, I want us to be a family and work things out. How do I do this?

admin

May 23, 2014 at 5:12 pm

Well, you may have to try limited contact. Why doesn’t he want to be with you?

Angel

May 13, 2014 at 3:54 am

Am mother of a toddler. Am 24 years old. My x is 27. We started dating back when I was in high school senior year and dated for 3 years and half, we got separated because he was tired of my fighting and jealousy as result of that he left me. During our separation we would still see each other and have intimacy I loved him and during those activities I came out pregnant. We try going back but I felt like he wasn’t into me. We didn’t spoke during my pregnancy until my daughter was born. Since my daughter we see each other and in some occasions we end up having sex when I tell him my feeling for him he tells me that he cares about me but doesn’t love me. But I want to try to go back with him but I don’t know if he really has some type of feelings towards me? Is he having sex just for fun?

admin

May 13, 2014 at 5:07 pm

You probalby shouldn’t sleep with him until he commits.

glee

May 9, 2014 at 9:50 pm

Hi im mother of two children im 18 and my x is 19 we was together for 5 years in the first 2 years he was flirting with a girl than we had our first baby he stopped talking with her he didnt cheat on me in the last 3 years we was happy together like any other families but i messed up everything i was selfish i treated him bad i leave him for nothing and it’s all 4 weeks we aren’t together in the first 4 days he start talking with a girl and i asked him to come back he keep teling me that things arent over i tells him if he dont stop talking with the girl everything will be done forever and he keeps telling me that he dont want me to go away, that time will tell if in the future we can have another chance, that it will hurt than he asked me for time and i was there everyday crying in front of him trying to convince him to come back i asked him if we can try he did it but for one week i think i wanted him to fast back and it didnt work was scared if he goes in a relationship with her i asked him to stop talking with her he did it but i after a few days they begin to go out i talked to him every day and he keep asking me for time that he need to think that he love me but i was to broken and i didnt give him time to think after 2 weeks i went taking with the girl trying to make her go away than he came talking with me that he dont want nothing with this girl and now that i I’ve talked with the girl he dont want nothing more with me i and i didnt talk with him for 3 days he came one day i was on fb he broke my cell he was jalous i think but i wasnt doing anithing bad i dont know if i really ruins everything of our relationship i dont want to lose him i love him he was always nice to me he treated me right he was always talking about us in the future i dont know what i need to do because we see each other everyday i dont want him to go away with other girl i dont know if i really needs to give him time im scared if he will never come back i dont know if i need to go on without him or wait for him till hes ready because seeing him with an other kills me deep in side and he know that i just dont know what to do </3

admin

May 12, 2014 at 5:11 pm

My goodness… you have two children and you are 18?

God bless your soul.

Have you tried a limited contact rule.

Annay J van Rensburg

April 29, 2014 at 8:21 am

my x and I was together for 6years. our girl is now 3 years old. about the last 6months we started fighting more and more. now we are apart and a week after me and my daughter moved out, he was with a new girl. my daughter is to small to go visit alone at his place, and he has to come see her at our place twice a week. how do I implement the no contact and no face to face rule with this situation? I love him to heaven and back and want to get my family back as it should be. Please help!!!
jasmine

April 28, 2014 at 11:42 pm

Hi been with my sons father on and off for 10 yrs we decided to have my son two years ago. I we were both unhappy because of our living situation and i figured when we moved into a place of our own. I found out he had been seeing someone else he admitted to it and said he felt I did not love him and that I was jot affectionate to him anymore after having my son. He said he warned me he was not happy and I ignored him. He is with this girl right now and he always says he wants to come back home but hes scared that I wont change for good it will only be temporary. when comes over to see my son he tries to kiss me and he talks ahout how he misses being home.

admin

April 30, 2014 at 1:06 am

10 years together and no marriage? Have you two talked about it?
jasmine

May 4, 2014 at 10:49 pm

Hi yes we have talked about marriage. I want to see we dated on and off since were 16 we are 26 now. When i moved away for college i didnt have contact with him for three years then we got back in contact in 2011 and we moved really fast moving in together and having our son. I feel like the biggest mistake was moving so fast. Sincee we planned to have my son it hurts even more that were not together and im not going to lie I i try the no contact thing but when he comes to pick up our son he hits on me or flirts and I ignore and he tells me he loves me but we cant be together right now and it confuses me

Sophia

April 28, 2014 at 3:19 pm

How do I use the MC rule when my ex insist on coming over to see the kids eat dinner, and put them to bed 3 days a week? And he is also talking to another girl who we broke up over because he lied to me about giving her a gift for vday. However, he says they’re just friends but ever since he left our family he’s constantly flirting w/her and he likes to ask me if I’m jealous about it too….

Sophia

April 28, 2014 at 3:27 pm

And we also have the same best friends…. Were like HIMYM or Friends…. That’s how we ended up together. So birthdays, grad school gruations, etc are coming up….. And a lot of his stuff is still at our home, but he hasn’t asked to come pick it up. And he still has all our family pictures posted all over FB and IG. And not everyone knows were not together anymore. It’s been officially 1-2 weeks, but we were previously on a break for 1-2 months, the 1st 1.5 month he asked that I tell no one what so ever. We eventually told 2 of our friends and only our immediately family knows. He went to my best friend after I got fed up and said I’m done with the wishy-washy stuff. and he told her to tell me to move on (which I already told him I’m fine doing)…. But I’m confused. And idk he acts like everything’s all good when I see him… So friendly, even flirty. We stopped having being intimate 1.5 weeks ago Bc I felt like I didn’t want to be part of his games and lies and him flirting with his coworker (who I’ve spoken with but regret doing and never will do again) I’m just so lost!
admin

April 28, 2014 at 4:27 pm

Two shows that I absolutely LOVE!!!

You can still talk to the friends and stuff but during NC no talking to him.
Sophia

April 28, 2014 at 5:10 pm

How do I maintain MC is he wants to come over to the house and make small convo with me about life? The kids don’t even know what’s really going on…. Should I leave?
admin

April 30, 2014 at 12:55 am

You will just have to keep the interaction short and sweet.
Sophia

April 28, 2014 at 5:32 pm

And would you consider his coworker as an emotional outlet or rebound?
admin

April 30, 2014 at 12:55 am

Absolutely.
Sophia

April 28, 2014 at 3:32 pm

The vday gift was a pez dispenser set btw and we’ve been together for ~6 years.

P

April 20, 2014 at 8:13 am

I am somewhat embarrassed to say that in my heart I still care for my baby’s father and want him back despite him having abandoned me and our child. Our story is that we dated on and off during grad school. When we found out we were pregnant, he insisted I get an abortion. When I refused, he freaked out and cut off all communication with me, pretended I didn’t exist, and ran immediately into a new relationship. He refused to acknowledged my updates on the baby’s development during the pregnancy and after the baby was born, I went silent and stopped reaching out to him for over a year. A few months ago, I finally sent him some pictures of our son and he has taken a positive interest in meeting him. We had a nice hour-long one-on-one video chat conversation, where we spent time catching up and laughing like old times, and we have exchanged a couple of brief friendly emails since them. He wants to meet our son in May, but he just emailed me saying that first we need to meet just the two of us and that there are a lot of things we need to discuss. He then made a joke and said asked that we please be strong together. My heart skipped a beat reading the email, but I’m not sure what to make of it. I don’t want to get too excited because I know through mutual acquaintances that he’s still very much in a relationship with the woman he left me for while I was pregnant. Do you think there is a chance that if I show up dressed and made up attractively, acting friendly and confident, that he will want to leave this woman for me? I would love for us to rebuild a romantic relationship and for my son to have both of us together again. Our child is so little and so innocent and I want him to have the best family unit possible. I don’t know what to do or what plan, if any, I should implement. I also don’t know what to do if he brings up that he has a girlfriend and asks me how I feel about it; I’m afraid I’d break down into tears. Please help and offer your guidance, Chris! Thank you so very much! What you’re doing truly makes a difference to many lives.

admin

April 20, 2014 at 9:03 pm

Wait, he does have a girlfriend? Or is that just a hypothetical you are asking?
P

April 20, 2014 at 10:08 pm

Yes, he left me as soon as he found out we were pregnant and ran straight into the arms of another woman. He has been dating that same other woman for 2 years now.
admin

April 21, 2014 at 4:11 pm

Oh my god… that is despicable. I am literally disgusted…
P

April 21, 2014 at 8:49 pm

He asked me to get together just the two of us. It will be the first time we’ve sat down together in 2 and a half years. Do you think there is a chance that if I show up dressed and made up attractively, acting friendly and confident, that he may want to leave this woman for me? I still have feelings for him and want our little son to have his parents together.

cameren

April 15, 2014 at 6:29 pm

My boyfriend and I of 2 and a half years just broke up because I lied to him. I pretended to flirt with this guy so his baby mother could see just how much of a dog he really I’d because she deserves better. My boyfriend and I have a one year old together and my son from a previous relationship he loves just like his own. I lied to him in the begining of our relationship about me living in the same house with my sons GMA and father. He hadn’t gotten over that lie and everything since then has been a constant checking my phone and talking to me as if I was a child in a way. There was no trust even though he kept saying he did trust me. Everytime I would leave his sight he was always trying to find where I was.we tried to stick it out through the hurt but no matter how hard I tried he always felt I was giving my sons father more attention then him mind you my sons father lives 12hrs away. He claims because I lied about my living arrangement I made him insecure but I just don’t think people make you ibdexure. A lot of our damage came from his insecurities. Well after 2 1/2 years of breaking up and getting back together were finally over and I still see the good in our relationship because the kids deserve for us to really try. He still picks up both of my kids and feeds them. and he still wants to be involved in my sons life. I know that he is hurting but he isn’t showing it. But when I don’t text him he will call me with our baby on the phone to make her talk and ask me where I am. But his text show a more neutral side

admin

April 16, 2014 at 4:13 pm

Was he mad about the flirting of that guy?

Jess

April 6, 2014 at 4:47 pm

What if he has a new gf that he got while he was cheating on you.

admin

April 7, 2014 at 4:53 pm

Then that says a lot about his character…

admin

April 4, 2014 at 4:52 pm

Have you just tried to sit down and communicate with him very very calmly. No arguing or yelling?
Theresa

April 2, 2014 at 6:20 am

Hi Chris, Theresa here again. Well, he introduced his girlfriend to his family–so I guess he wasn’t serious about anything we had spoken about last week. Quick question, with mc, do I keep it strictly about the kids and NOT text him other than pick ups or drop offs? Our youngest is hitting many milestones, should I text him about those? Or do I just not tell him and let him find out himself? Thanks.

admin

April 2, 2014 at 5:46 pm

Yup strictly about the kids.

Jennifer

March 31, 2014 at 7:57 pm

Me and my ex were on and off for a year. I found out I was pregnant back in april. I just had my second son, his first boy in january. I have been trying to get back with him for awhile now. Everytime he’s drunk, needs help, stressed, sad, or just needs someone there he always comes running to me. Recently he said he was going to talk to me about us getting back together but later on that next weekend he had seen his ex from his childhood an d now they are back together and living togerher. He loves me and he won’t tell me to move on and I love him and I just want my family back. I just started this nc thing is there anything else I can also do to get him back?

admin

April 1, 2014 at 4:54 pm

Did you try any type of no contact or limited contact on him yet?

Theresa

March 31, 2014 at 3:11 am

Hi Chris,

I had posted back on 21 Feb, but I understand, as you must be very busy. Anyway, I had started the MC, and kept the texts and calls strictly about our daughters. I started dating this man (I don’t feel very attracted to him, it would seem he is ok just seeing each other but not taking it to the physical level). So my ex went through my iPad and saw some texts between this man and I, and I also write in the notes app, kind of a journal. Anyway, somehow he got into my iPad and blocked and deleted this man from my contacts. Then my ex starts hanging around more. Then he asks to take me snowboarding (we didn’t end up going).

Now he has reached out to me and told me that he misses our daughters and hates that he learns about them through text/FaceTime/phone calls. That he isn’t with us everyday. I kept trying to separate myself from his feelings, offering to stay away when he comes to visit, and he can call me when he is done visiting. He said he didn’t want that. That he enjoys being with all of us. But is scared to fail us. And wants to come back home for himself, and for me, but right now he feels like it’s just for the kids. And he also fears that he will resent us because he won’t have his girlfriend anymore. He also fears that by being with his girlfriend, he will resent her because he isn’t here everyday and misses out on our kids. He claims to want to devote himself to me and our kids (he specifically told me that the girls and I are a packaged deal). But that “we have the rest of our lives to figure us out and where we stand”. I basically told him he needed to figure out where he wants to be. And that there are downsides to all decisions, so being with his girlfriend, the downside is missing out on our kids. And coming home, the downside is not having his girlfriend. I told him that I didn’t think it was good for him to come home right now, because I’m still reeling from his treatment to me, and that I want to move past all that has happened. And that everyday I feel stronger and better. That he still needed to figure out his priorities, the girls are not getting any younger, and his girlfriend gets more and more attached as time passes. I told him I understood that he and I were done, but that I could help him by disappearing when he visits the kids. He then told me that he and his girlfriend almost broke up that day, and he was disappointed when she didn’t. He also told me that he is embarrassed to face me everyday. That it was never that he didn’t want me. But since then, he still hasn’t broken up with his girlfriend. I also recently saw his overnight bag in his trunk (I was using the car for grocery shopping,( part of our arrangement).

Not sure what any of this means, or if he is just trying to put his foot in the door.

Theresa

March 31, 2014 at 5:58 am

I do want my family back together, but I don’t know how to respond to him. It’s been a week since we spoke about everything (and it was only last Friday I saw his overnight bag).

Stephanie

March 30, 2014 at 6:43 am

Hi I came across ur website. My baby father and I was together for about eight year until I had my daugther. When she was three month old I left him because I thought he couldn’t provide for me and her so I ran. My daugther is also 6 years. The past 1 year and 4 months he Was with someone and she now left him. He has her name tattoo on his neck. But I want him back. He told I have to show him different and tell him want he wants to hear. What do I do? Wanted to know if u can help?
candace

March 29, 2014 at 2:40 am

Me and my ex broke up 6 days ago. We have been together on and off for 5 years due to arguing he cheated before and when things get hot for our household rather than stepping up like a man he runs from the responsibility he begged for me to do for him. . We are both 23 years oldAt one point we were planning on getting married and we have a little 1 year old boy together. It is day 4 of strict NC. Im doinh NC and not LC because whenever we arent together he goes sometimes 3 weeks without asking about him so I know for a fact at this point its about both me and mu kid or nothing at all and then when I say im done with him then he is all of a sudden my son this my son that. So ive attempted nc before and never finished and made progress but took him back too early he changed a little but then went back to being lazy as far as our relationship. So now I am determined to do 30 day NC. I know him well enough to know he is going to pop up at our house if I ignore him. He is currently staying at his mother’s house. What do I do about that? And after the 30 days is up im going to tell him his cousin asked me to come over to try to have sex because we broke up and I cursed him out. This cousin is the same one who tries to put him on with other women and mess up our relationship and he hangs with them not really realizing they dont give a crap about him. Even at one point a underaged high school girl was messing around with him. Just horrible. I have been trying to get him to cut them off and grow up and be committed and focus on our family. He is 100% great till he gets around his cousins and then when he does cut them off by his own choice they show up unannounced to our house to try to get him to party with them. They all cheat on their girls and are whores. They are his poison I feel. So my question is: what to do when he pops up unannounced during the 30 day NC, what to do for him to permanently change and value our family if he doesnt want to lose us and be committed, and what to do after the 30 days of NC detailed so I dont mess this up. Im tired of on and off and just want this to be permanent. We all know he is going to try to come back. Whole family says it infront of me and him. What exactly do I do for those situations so I dont mess up?

admin

March 30, 2014 at 8:42 pm

You might have to talk to him about these bad influences and how you don’t want to be around them anymore. Even if they are his cousins. You have to do whats best for you and your child.
Candace

March 31, 2014 at 3:40 pm

I did tell him that but he doesnt realise the truth right in front of his face he is in denial but now i have proof, my plan was to do nc and work on me and ignore him for 30 days then after the 30 days of nc if he contacts me after that im going to tell him about what his cousin did and foward him the messages so he sees the truth, and then i dont know what to do from there so right now its day 7 of no contact, he hasnt contacted me at all but he did like a video i put up of our son, at this point i dont know whether to delete him from facebook so he cant see my page, and i know for a fact before the 30 day nc is up, when he decides to contact me and realizes im ignoring him that he is going to pop up at our house, i dont know what to do in that situation to keep walking like i dont see him or to tell him to go away. Im tired of this off and on but i know when he stays away from them things are perfect, so what else do i do to make him realise this is serious and if he tries to come back it has to be a permanent change? and should i delete him from my fb?
Candace

March 31, 2014 at 9:10 pm

by the way i just snapped and wrote him a long nasty letter which i know was completely wrong to do about how im tired of him being a coward and begging to be a family and the next minute running out, and also what his cousin did, so i said if you arent gonna get your stuff together i dont ever want to see or hear from you again, i cant take it back but i guess ill have to stick to it and start from day one of nc again and also when my 30 days are up ill just continue nc till he messages me or sees me after that. im so sorry but now i dont know what to do….
candace

April 4, 2014 at 3:48 pm

He messaged me on facebook asking to bring our one year old over at night time. He knows he sleeps at night. And got upset when I never responded to him. I think he is just using our son to see me because he knows im not going to leave him there by himself. Should I continue my nc or break it and bring our son but no talking at all to him there? I dont know what to do

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