How To Get Your Ex Back When He's Moved On To A New Girl

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Nicole

December 12, 2017 at 3:07 am

My ex and I were together for 5 months. Everything was perfect…we had met each other’s families, talked about our future, never even had a fight, etc. I always had his phone and he was never bothered by it until one night he kept hiding it from me. I caught a glimpse and saw a girls name. When I asked him about it he said it was a girl he worked with and I had nothing to worry about. I believed him. A few days later he started acting really distant and I asked him if everything was ok and he said he wanted a break and when I asked him if it was so he could talk to that girl he just said no we just needed time apart…the next night I asked him about the girl again and he admitted yes they had been talking and I asked if he wanted to be with her now and he said yes. One week later he’s in a relationship with a completely different girl..not even the girl he left me for. He’s 29 and this girl is only 20 and they had only talked for a few days before changing their relationship status on FB! We are still friends on all social media and he still watches my Snap stories. My gut tells me that we were getting too serious and he freaked out…but who knows. I plan on doing the NC (it’s almost been 2 weeks), but I’m just wondering if it’s even worth the fight. I do still love him, but I don’t know if I’m blinded by that and won’t accept that he’s just not the guy I thought he was…I’m just so confused!

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 14, 2017 at 9:02 am

Hi Nicole
Honestly, he sounds like a player.. You saw him talking to another girl but then he jumped into a relationship with a different one

Kiara

December 10, 2017 at 4:28 am

Hello there ,

So three years back we were in a sweet relationship until shit happened. My mom and sister didn’t like him and they caused so many problems , due to that he took a step back cause he knew I love him so much that I can’t let him go. Yet we made it somehow fighting against the odds for a year and I left him on 2015 , cause it was hurting me more than anything to know that he’s falling out of love (he said that to make me hate him).
We haven’t spoken to each other since then , I blocked him from every social media and all possible ways of communicating, I never really forgot him I loved him and I still do crazy. 2 months back , we spoke to each other via Instagram and felt like nothings really had changed. He still knows I love him so much , but he has a gf and they’ve been dating for 9 months now and she’s in Maldives and they’ve never met each other yet.She knows about me as he says he always had been talking about me with whoever he meets , he says he likes who I am cause I’m very different from the other girls and he loves my character. I surprised him on his 21st bday and he had some conflicts with his gf . He says me all the issues , I keep listening that supper his thought but it’s killing me on the inside, but I don’t have the right to nag and pick about the issues. They broke up 2 weeks back , and he’s been talking to me all day and night. Now she showed up 3 days back .. and they are sorting out problems.

I’m afraid I’ll never get him .. I’m afraud they’ll date again.

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 12, 2017 at 2:19 am

Hi Kiara,

check this one:
How To Win Back An Ex Who Is With Someone Else

Ary

December 9, 2017 at 11:45 pm

My ex and I broke up a month and a week ago. I have been doing the no contact rule for 38 days and still ongoing. I’m still doing it because I know he’s a stubborn person. I thought I was okay and already emotionally and mentally ready until my friends told me that they found him with someone else. It hurt me to the core. He was the one who broke up with me (had been cold for almost a month before that) and saying he wanted to be open and see other people. I asked him if there already was someone else and he denied. At first I tried saving the relationship but in the end, I gave him his freedom. I even gave him a closure message 2 days after the break up and he replied too. 1 week after the closure message, I texted him because I found out his grandpa died. When he replied so late still, that was when i realized and started the NC rule. And now, I’m so confused on what to do. I thought about still continuing the NC until 90 days just to make sure that I feel better emotionally and mentally again (and I’ve been working out on my physical too and had good results so far). If you have any idea on what I should do, please let me know.

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 12, 2017 at 2:11 am

Hi Ary,
I’m confused. When did you asked him if he’s seeing somebody else? Was that after 38 days?

Polly

December 2, 2017 at 7:09 pm

My ex broke up with me a month ago. Today I reached out after no contact and we spoke. He said he likes a girl from work and has been hanging out with her and is going to her place tonight. We flirted and he said he missed my body but doesn’t want to get back together. I don’t know what to do next

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 5, 2017 at 1:10 am

Hi,

the more you do nc, the less it works.. so, make this your last nc, do 45 days and then take it slow in building rapport after nc and check this one:
My Boyfriend Says He Wants To Date Me and Another Girl

Ella

December 2, 2017 at 4:02 am

Almost 2 months ago my ex broke up with me and a few days later he got into a relationship with someone else he told me how she makes him happy and how shw treats him good 9 days ago when we were arguing through text one of the last things he said to me 9 days ago was I don’t want you in my life I am happy he then changed his number and deleted his whatsapp do I have any chance of getting him back or should I just accept that it is over ?

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 5, 2017 at 1:13 am

Hi Ella,

why not try the no contact rule first? Have you tried our quiz?

Clara

November 28, 2017 at 9:09 am

Thanks for replying, if she is a grass is greener kind of thing, would that mean that she is unlikely a rebound? When he had the conversation with me he said he still had feelings for me but he was tired of missing me and being lonely and just really wanted both of us to move on as this wasn’t healthy anymore.

He also told himself after i left his city that if he did meet someone, he wouldnt let waiting for me get in the way of it as he didnt know how long to wait. He just never properly communicated this to me. Should I just move on or try the above?

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 29, 2017 at 2:05 pm

She’s less likely a rebound.. Try the advice above first, if it doesn’t work, move on..

MaryK

November 26, 2017 at 2:46 am

Hi EBR Team, My ex-bf and I were in a serious relationship for 4 years and were planning our wedding. A month ago he said he doesn’t think he can marry me because of our different cultures. He also said he doesn’t want mixed children anymore and his family is embarrassed of my dark skin colour. We broke up and I implemented no contact for 30 days, where I was improving every day and posting.
After 30 days, I text him first contact texts for 2 days and he has responded extremely favourably. On the 2nd day he said he wanted to share something with me since he wanted to be open with me. He told me that he is “talking” to someone, and unsure of how I will react by this news (is this a rebound?). I acted confident and told him I was happy for him and that I am doing the same. His reaction was not that excited but he wished me all the best. Should I still continue to text him and build rapport and move on to meeting up? Technically he’s still single, but talking to the other girl. How often should I text/meet up with him in this case? Although he always responds, what if he never initiates the texts?

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 28, 2017 at 1:47 am

HI Mary K,

For me, you shouldn’t get back with a person who thinks of you like that.

MaryK

November 26, 2017 at 2:23 am

Hi EBR Team, My ex-bf and I were in a serious relationship for 4 years and were planning our wedding. A month ago he said he doesn’t think he can marry me because of our different cultures. He also said he doesn’t want mixed children anymore and his family is embarrassed of my dark skin colour. We broke up and I implemented no contact for 30 days, where I was improving every day and posting.
After 30 days, I text him first contact texts for 2 days and he has responded extremely favourably. On the 2nd day he said he wanted to share something with me since he wanted to be open with me. He told me that he is “talking” to someone, and unsure of how I will react by this news. I acted confident and told him I was happy for him and that I am doing the same. His reaction was not that excited but he wished me all the best. Should I still continue to text him and build rapport and move on to meeting up? Technically he’s still single, but talking to the other girl. How often should I text/meet up with him in this case? Although he always responds, what if he never initiates the texts?

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 28, 2017 at 1:47 am

HI Mary K,

For me, you shouldn’t get back with a person who thinks of you like that.

Clara

November 25, 2017 at 3:14 pm

Im sorry that this will be a long one but I really need your advice,

Hi, I was in a long distance relationship, for almost two years and for the second year of the relationship i moved to a city close to him but had to leave the country after a year due to my visa running out. We had ups and downs in the relationship mostly due to the stress and uncertainty of me being able to stay but We talked about marriage frequently in the future and always felt we were the ones for each other. In fact, my ex would repeatedly tell me that he felt so strongly that I was the one for him which he had never felt before in previous relationships and that’s why he continued to do the long distance although he had never believed in them before.

After i came back to my home country, we kept in contact and both agreed to face reality but we still always said we loved each other, we still talked about marriage and sometimes agreed that it was the right person but wrong timing. I would still hope to get a job in his country but only time will tell how long that would take.

Three weeks ago, he stopped initiating conversations with me and the texting reduced alot . he called me last night and told me that he had met someone in the last three weeks and wanted to pursue the relationship because he felt that this wasnt healthy anymore. I was beyond shocked but i did understand when he mentioned how he missed being in a relationship etc and that realistically he never knew when i could come back. he also wanted to tell me that he was going to stop talking to me so much as he felt this was for the best and he didnt want to string any girl along ( me or the other girl, he chose the other girl obviously) . I was upset and was emotional and upon stalking the girl ( i am ashamed to admit this) she seemed like the complete opposite of me and I cant help but think it could be a rebound? I said i would accept his relationship but that i did love him. we got into an argument which made him eventually say that he didnt want to give me false hope and we should not speak anymore so that we could both move on. Do i have any chance at all?

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 27, 2017 at 8:26 am

Hi Clara,

If he met her during your relationship then she’s more of a grass is greener..you can still try the advice above and see if it will work.. Of ot doesn’t, then at least you did the right way of trying to get him back before moving on

Lonely

November 16, 2017 at 12:16 pm

I met this guy nearly 3 years ago 3 months later he asked me to be his gf but by the end of july that year he turned our relationship into fwb that we continued for more then 2 years during this time he introduced me to his parents some of his friends even up until recently he introduced me to his best friend who he also works with I used to sometimes hang out with him at work about a month ago we slept together days later I went crazy and snapped and he ended things with me less then 2 weeks later he told me he recently started seeing someone else he told me that he simply cannot trust himself around me then he tells me she makes him happy and how she treats him good and he doesnt want to mess things up with her and we are never having sex again Im not sure if he was telling me this to make me jealous or if he was telling me the truth but the other night he sent me a message telling me how he was changing his number and how he was having alone time and jerking off but I knew that was his way of telling me he was with her fast forward a few days we talked on the phone and he tells me after I asked him he tells me he did want to be with me we ended the conversation by agreeing to be friends but he wants no contact from me for a month during that time he wants me to work on my issues work out where I went wrong and he wants me to get my life in order and find myself he also told me if I can bring the old me back we are good as gold and I will have a friend for life if I do what the article says will I be able to get him back ?
or do I need to accept that he has a girlfriend and move on ? I dont wanna lose him

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 18, 2017 at 2:26 am

Hi Lonely,

check this one:
EBR 006: How To Turn Friends With Benefits Into A Relationship

Hayliey

November 15, 2017 at 12:37 am

Hey, so i dated this guy maybe 4 or 5 years ago and we broke because he found out that i cheated on him (keep in mind we were in the 8th grade) and we have not spoken since. Now that i am single and more mature, I’ve been very drawn to him and i keep catching myself staring at him in my English class and he recently added me on snapchat and im really debating if i should message him or not .. the problem is he has a girlfriend.. what should i do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 18, 2017 at 1:55 am

Hi Hayliey,

do you want to try the advice above? Aside from that, check this one too:
How To Win Back An Ex Who Is With Someone Else

Gigi

November 2, 2017 at 2:12 pm

Hi guys, great article. How about if this is not a rebound? My ex and I broke up two years ago, I left him. For over a year he tried to get me back, but we fought because he always did it while dating other women. We both cried a lot during this time, and in January I asked him to go no contact. He then started dating this woman and February! And have been together since. That’s 8 months now, and, after not seeing him for 7 months, I found them at a park where we had released a memorial for a baby with lost. It was a huge surprise to see him there. We started emailing again, and earlier in October he asked me to do grief therapy with him. It seemed very strange to do it almost 2 years after the breakup. We have had three sessions, to have been incredibly emotional, with crying from both of us, with his long-term therapist. But it seems to be couples therapy more than grief. And afterwards, he always wants to have a couple drinks and talk some more. During this times he just stares at me and cries more. I asked him if he loves his new girlfriend, to which he said he does and looks down to the floor when he mentions it however, he writes and tells me that things are not the same, and that there are very specific things he’s missing about us. And he wonders if he will ever be able to love like that again. I know the new girlfriend is a very powerful woman, and Rich, and everything in her CV is what he had professionally longed-for. I don’t know how to bridge my emerging feelings, and have requested to stop therapy. I know they fight because she doesn’t agree with the therapy, obviously, but, he really wants to continue doing it. He also says that he loves me still. I don’t think she’s a rebound. Is she? And, what can I do to turn this around? Thank you for all your help!

EBR Team Member: Amor

November 4, 2017 at 12:28 am

Hi Gigi,

check this one:
How To Win Back An Ex Who Is With Someone Else

Kris

October 20, 2017 at 3:54 pm

My ex broke up with me over a year ago and we were close to getting back together once last winter. He’s now on his 3rd relationship in that time. To sum up our relationship, very little fighting and connected very well and that connection has remained.

Last April we had a falling out when he started dating this girl. Didn’t talk at all for 2 months. And only here and there to get a couple of my things when he moved. Early September they broke up and he messaged me. We talked and he told me how lonely he’s felt and that he’s been living a forced life and missed having a connection. We hung out once. They then got back together after a couple days and he blocked me on just about everything. I was able to speak with him once and he did that to try not to be tempted with me. He unblocked and refriended me aftee that. But it sounds like his gf is emotionally abusive and controlling. He told me he’s not allowed to talk to girls especially exes and he has to make her happy. And that he can’t talk to me bc he didn’t want to get “stabbed”. I’ve never heard him sound so defeated.

Since then he would like and immediately unlike my pictures on Instagram so I get the notification but his gf can’t see it. He lives with her and yesterday he removed his relationship status and took off one picture with her and she his her status. Now he has it back to in a relationship with her.

He clearly doesn’t seem happy. She’s the one that always tags him in pictures and he has never tagged her in anything other than memes. I know he misses me and at least wants to be able to talk to me.

Any advice on how to proceed? Their relationship is unhealthy but I think he’s being manipulated. Thought about in a couple weeks just seeing how he’s doing. Last time we messaged was real quick on my birthday a little over a week ago.

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 23, 2017 at 11:26 pm

Hi Kris,

It may seem like he’s being manipulated, but he’s an adult.. Unless there’s a gun pointed at him, every decision he made, he made it on his own.. And let’s say he is being manipulated, do you want a guy who can’t stand up for you, choose you or only chooses you when he’s having a problem with whome he’s currently with and then ignores you when they’re ok again?

Mhai

October 17, 2017 at 1:56 am

Hello, thanks to this article. I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. However, we totally broke up last month. After a month, He texted me and even invited me to go to his wedding next year. But I was just wondering why he said that to me yet he’s still courting the woman at that time.

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 17, 2017 at 8:19 pm

Hi Mhai,
Probably to see how you would react

Anne

October 16, 2017 at 2:41 pm

Me n my ex been together for 2 and a half years n we had a very rough time. He is a very nice guy but he’s mad he tend to scream n shout n he never let me win. N slowly i change to become like him eventho he’s slowly changing. I keep seeing his old mistake n after a while he said to me that he was tired. N he just doesn’t want to do this anymore. I tried to win him n at first he said dont put too much hope but after 5 days he’s start dating new person. N now he already found his new gf. We just broke up 2 weeks ago. N he’s changing 360. He’s not the type who like to post woman pic on ig bc of family members are following. He only like to post the view but now he started to post his new gf photo n his gf are doing the same too. I feel like I didn’t know him anymore. We had a bad fight before n now im trying to apply the ncr. Will this work? Pls help me.

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 17, 2017 at 12:13 am

Hi Anne,

It’s not a guarantee to work but the advice above helps increase your chances..so, yes… Try it..

nina

October 7, 2017 at 10:15 am

hello!
I broke up with my ex about 4 months ago. After a month I realized I made a mistake and wanted him back. We started talking and suddenly I found out he has been dating a new girl so I freaked out because he told me he still wants me and we had a huge fight. I haven’t contact him then for about 3 months and one day I called him and we talked things out.. how do I proceed now? He is still in a relationship and I still wamt him back what should I do? any reply would be helpful.

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 8, 2017 at 11:00 pm

Hi Nina,

Check this one:
My Boyfriend Says He Wants To Date Me and Another Girl

Sonam

October 1, 2017 at 8:42 am

We are LDR and broke up in January, I went straight into NC for 35 days. I think he went straight into a relationship with another woman, they were also LDR. He never mentioned being in another relationship. That relationship now seems to be over since he went back to work on a cruise ship mid August.

However, there seems to be a new OW, they work on the same cruise ship and I think the relationship maybe about a month old. Again he hasn’t mentioned this new relationship and has been talking to me as normal. We talked about meeting up in November when he is leaving that ship to join another ship. But this last week he has been less responsive and pulling away, he hasn’t even read my last message.

My question is, how do I proceed with this? I won’t message him for again for a few days but I don’t want to go NC for too long because they will be in their honeymoon phase of the relationship and NC from me will surely just bring them closer together? She already has the advantage of proximity and being able to be with him 24 hours of the day.

Should I ask if he’s in another relationship? Or should I continue to act like I have no knowledge since he hasn’t told me himself? Also, does the fact that this will be his 2nd relationship since our breakup worsen my chances of getting him back?

Sonam

October 3, 2017 at 12:13 am

It’s 8 months since the breakup but we’ve had over 3 months of NC in that time due to the sheer complicated nature of my situation. I’ve never stopped living my life in that time though.

I completely agree that there has to be a limit and I have thought about just walking away many times. I also, call him out every time I feel he’s been disrespectful to me because I won’t lower my standards for anything.

When I met him in July he told me he loved me, missed me and that he was sorry for everything. That was the first meet up where we spent a significant amount of time together. Unfortunately, mid August to mid September has been a bad period for us, I did NC for 2 weeks of that time and so progress has slowed down/regressed.

I have no definite proof of him being with any of the OW and until I do I will continue with my contact etc. We are set to meet in November, when he is changing ships. We will again get to spend significant time together and this is my deadline date. We will either decide to pursue a new relationship or I’ll walk away forever.

So I DO have a method to what I know appears like madness haha.

Thank you so much for all your advice and time xo
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 3, 2017 at 9:43 pm

Ok…, you’re welcome!
Sonam

October 2, 2017 at 7:38 pm

Hi Amor,

Thank you for your advice. I will continue to build rapport as I am and not mention the other woman unless he does.

As for improving myself and having more time for myself, I’m not sure how to become more UG? Would love any advice on how you think I could?

I mean not to sound conceited but I’ve always been UG… I’m well travelled, well read. I run a successful business and have just launched a second. I write for fashion and music publications. I have an amazing lifestyle, with great family and friends. I have never let my physical appearance falter and I’m known for my sartorial fashion (both products of my modelling days). I’m not sure I can fit anymore into my life, other than my ex obviously lol.
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 2, 2017 at 10:35 pm

Frankly, you are active and living the ug life..that means you just have to make ug choices when it comes to relationships.. You have to set standards and limits. It’s ok to try to build rapport, but you have to set a limit on until when you’re going to do that..especially that you know he has another girl on the side.. The more ug approach is to ignore the other girl and build rapport but when the time comes that he knows that you know he’s in a relationship, and you’re still there trying, you’re either going to be friendzoned or used.. Because he would why would you invest a lot of time with a guy who’s already in a relationship right? He would either think youre5 just being friendly or you want him even while he’s in a relationship..
EBR Team Member: Amor

October 2, 2017 at 12:50 pm

Hi Sonam,

Don’t mention it because that would mean you’re stalking him.. Continue building rapport but have more time in your life and in improving yourself

Jomi

September 22, 2017 at 2:56 pm

Hello,
My boyfriend of almost 4 yrs recently left me for another girl and this is probably the most pain I’ve ever gone through in my life.

I discovered this website and really appreciate your words. I come here everyday to try to calm down the pain.

I don’t want to make the story long but I want to give some details because I’m reeeally in need of advise.

In the beginning of the 4 yrs. Things seemed to go pretty well. We supposedly fell in love with each other. Well I know I truly loved him but now I doubt he ever did.

Within a few months of being together I discovered he was cheating on me with his roommate. I was 30 at the time and he was 26. The girl was only 15 yrs old. I discovered this was going on for while. I stopped talking to him for a few weeks but then went back with him.

I was also pregnant during this time and really wanted to keep my baby. After a month of him putting me down, making me cry, no support & persuading me to get an abortion he somehow convinced me to get the abortion. Which I completely regret now and adds more to my pain. He later on said that he was really scared and that’s why he wanted me to do it.

I soon discovered many other things like him flirting and getting #s from girls on Facebook and dating websites.

I kept getting mad and stopping communication but I always went back to him after him apologizing.

See all this time I blamed myself and justified his actions because in the beginning of the relationship i would get random texts from ex’s I had nothing to do with any longer but wanted me back.

I loved my boyfriend and never cheated on him. But he never believed me and thought I was cheating on him because of these texts. I re-assured him that I had nothing to hide and would never cheat.

So since he wouldn’t believe me I think this is what made him go on a cheating spree. When I would leave him to try and move on I would try talking to other guys. But I loved him and kept going back to him. I would receive texts from this guy I wasn’t talking to any longer and my ex would get further upset and I would discover even more girls he would be talking to online and probably in person. So in reality I don’t how many times he cheated. All I know is that I was always loyal to him and honest.

During all these time he never wanted to leave me, neither did I so we always got back together.

About 3 yrs in the relationship I got really fed up of everything I’ve tolerated & noticed that once again he was acting strange & distant. I would go to his house be intimate and then find myself be the only one trying to contact him. He would call or text only here and there.

So I told him that I warned him that I was going to change my # because I was tired of everything he had done to me and I didn’t want to continue fighting. He didn’t said ok do whatever u want.. like he didnt even care. I guess he didn’t take me seriously.

So one day weeks later around October 2016 I changed my # suddenly without telling him anything. I blocked all communication with him through social media so he couldn’t contact me ever again. I managed to move on for 6 months. I dated but nothing happened there.

I ended up going back to him after 6 months. I called him and he seemed very happy and regretful for the things that happened in the past. We were talking normally again. I started going to his house and being intimate. He told me he really wanted to work things out this time. So I automatically assumed we were together in a relationship.

But through all the time I contacted him again starting around May of this year he would complain about why I left him for 6 months. That why I left him for someone else he would think.
He was never the type to take blame for anything. So no matter how many times I told him I was just fed up with getting hurt he just didn’t seem to care about that. He just kept complaining about me leaving him for someone else.

He told me he came looking for me outside my house but never saw me come out. And that he tried reaching out to me in any way he could and was never able to. That there were nights in which he would cry.

So we only saw each other like 5x since May of this year and he was acting distant once again. Where I would be the one mostly contacting him. Not on a stalker crazy basis but I would find myself complaining to him that why was I the one contacting him and he would make excuses about the 6 months.

Since May after the 6 month break there would also be periods of 1 and 2 weeks where I wouldn’t contact him at all since he just wasn’t reaching out to me.

We would then get in contact again like nothing ever happened and he would call me “baby” send me kisses and act normal. Until one day he just completely stopped talking to me and started ignoring mist of my texts.

I felt like all this time since May he might have been talking to someone but he always said he wasn’t when I would ask him. Since he wasn’t talking to me or answering my calls even though my calls and texts were sparingly.. I decided to show up at his house. Since he wasn’t talking to me at all.

I asked him once again to Iet me know if he had a girlfriend and for the first time instead of denying it he stayed quiet. So the impression I get is that he definitely has a new girlfriend he found while he was talking to me. And it seems like he’s trying to be loyal and serious this time with her.. And that really hurts. He didn’t even want to touch me.

I ended up seducing him and we ended up doing it. But after that he hasn’t contacted me or anything. It seems like this time he’s actually has moved on for the 1st time and he wants to be faithful to the girl.

I sent him a goodbye letter after asking if he would leave his girl and start over with me because I believe we could work things out. He didn’t respond to that. But he did respond to the goodbye letter with a little crying emoji. He called me right after the goodbye letter and I didn’t answer and right after he sent me the crying emoji. That was on Sunday Sept. 17, 2017.

I didn’t respond to that and been trying to do the no contact rule for 5 days now. But I need your serious advice.. I feel like we already had many no contact situations and this is probably not the right time to do no contact anymore. I really don’t want to lose him. I would like him back and I truly believe we could work things out if he would let us talk and stop blaming me for everything.

Or is that he just never felt anything for me for these whole 4 years and this was finally the opportunity he was looking for to leave me…

Please help.. I would like him back. I assume hes been with this new girl for about 2 months…

Should I really be doing no contact for a whole 30 days at this point… Since I feel like we already had many no contact periods… or would it be wiser to try and speak to him again before he gets even closer to this girl and lose him for ever….??

Thanks in advance! I appreciate your help.

EBR Team Member: Amor

September 27, 2017 at 8:13 pm

Hi Jomi,

check this one:
EBR 056: My Ex Boyfriend Cheated On Me Multiple Times… What Do I Do?

Sun

August 29, 2017 at 4:40 am

My ex left me for someone else. We were talkin and he suddenly said , im in love with someone else.
That was 19days ago. We had a little argument and I stopped talking immediately. I have been going out and posting lots of fun pics and videos for my ex to see. He hasnt contacted me in 19days and neither have I.

How do I text the guy after the 30days as he is with someone else ? He hasnt texted me and that is really sad but im keeping strong. Im afraid that if i text him 30days later, he will get mad at me.

EBR Team Member: Amor

August 31, 2017 at 8:54 am

Hi Sun,
You wont know until you tried.
Check this one for text messages:
The Complete Guide For Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back

And this one:
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alex

August 28, 2017 at 11:46 pm

So, my ex bf and i met on okc on november last year, he lives in Maryland and i live in Peru, we talked for a few months every day all day, he sent me flowers for valentines and a cake for my birthday. In april he came to peru to stay with me for a week and in may i went to the states to study. After a few months, he told me that he needed his spaces and we have a few issues about it but never thought that he would broke up with me. He broke up with me boyfriend 2 weeks ago, we were still living together after the breakup (because of course i practically moved from my country with him to study and i didnt have anywhere else to go) and a few days later he dumped me, he dated a girl from work. This girl texted him a few sexual messages while we were still together and they went on a date, they kissed and she touched him down there. Even when we broke up, he told me that he loves me a lot, that he cares about me deeply but he is not in love. He still wanted to have sex with me, and even after his date we had sex. Im back in my country a week after the breakup, and he texted me today that he miss me. Do i still have a chance to get back with him? or is a lost cause?

EBR Team Member: Amor

August 31, 2017 at 8:36 am

Hi Alex
Check this one:
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