How To Get Your Ex Back When He's Moved On To A New Girl

3,819 thoughts on “Has He Moved On? How To Get Him Back If He Has A Girlfriend”

Mila

June 16, 2017 at 8:33 am

Hello, pls help me…my ex and i broke up since july 2016..things were great between us at the start then i become emotional as i was facing problems to deal with like fake friends, family issues and the death of my father was affecting me…my ex was really supportive and he understood. But i was really moody and this kinda ruined our relationship and he had trust issues because i hide many things from him..he broke up with me. And blocked me everywhere on social media and told me to be independent… After the break up i became clingy af. He said that he would never return back as i needed to change and be independent. I tried no contact but failed at it because he was stalking me on a fake acc on instagram.. Recently he contacted me by unblocking me on whatsapp and he told me to meet him.. The meeting was cold af and he told me i didn’t change and he again told the he can’t return…pls i need.help because i really don’t know what to do now and am lost

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 17, 2017 at 7:50 pm

why did he ask to meet?

sharan

June 14, 2017 at 6:40 am

i want to talk to you pls rep me yar…

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 14, 2017 at 5:02 pm

Hi Sharan,

how can we help you?

lekha

June 9, 2017 at 11:19 am

can you please give me reply?

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 13, 2017 at 6:41 pm

When did you last begged to his family? Check this one:
Does Begging For Your Ex Back Even Work

lekha

June 9, 2017 at 11:12 am

i was in a relationship 1 yr back.my ex dumped me saying that i talked nonsense with his friend actually what happened was his friend was a flirt and he talked sex matters with me but i was unable to cut the call because his friend was the only way to reach him for me as our parents didn’t like our relationship.so his phone was taken by his mom and that was the reason i called his friend . it had been 1 yr since he talked me now i heard that he is in a relationship with another girl and it is so serious too.i don’t know what 2 do.i even called his mom and brothers and cried they also said him to take me back but he is saying that he don’t want me.he is saying he loves that girl and want 2 marry her. moreover now he is saying that the reason 4 breakup was he don’t like talking me with his mom and brothers .i am so confused .i want him back. please help me

EBR Team Member: Amor

June 13, 2017 at 6:42 pm

When did you last begged to his family? Check this one:
Does Begging For Your Ex Back Even Work

Jadyn

June 8, 2017 at 3:00 am

I really don’t know the actual status of my ex and his new rebound. To be honest I don’t even know if he is still seeing her. I never heard they were actually dating, just that they were seeing each other to “see what happens”. Last I know was about 3 weeks ago he introduced her to our friend group. Haven’t heard anything since but haven’t tried to snoop at all either. They work together so I’m assuming things haven’t ended yet but it’s possible. My no contact of 30 days is done!! And I was successful even when the temptation to talk was there when I would go to get me dog for visits. Yesterday would have been our official 2 year anniversary, so I’ve decided to extend the no contact until sometime next week. When I went to drop off the dog today my exes dad was there helping him do yard work. I spoke to the dad for a quick moment, told my ex the dog was good and exhausted from our walk and then I turned around to leave and he said “oh you’re taking off already”. I’m prob over thinking it, and he prob didn’t say it because he was expecting me to talk more (he prob said it just cuz his dad was there and his parents love me) but I was proud of myself because he said it and I didn’t hesitate to say yes. And it kind of felt good to hear that he thought I was leaving so quick (even if it was for the sake of his dad). So now I need to start thinking about starting contact again. Is it a good idea to start contact while he is still in a rebound? Or is the dog meeting enough? I don’t want to overdue it. I feel like regaining contact with an ex in a rebound is different than a regular no contact ending. I don’t want to push them closer together.

Jadyn

June 11, 2017 at 7:47 pm

Ok. He’s for sure still seeing her… he’s not one to post snapchat stories but did today(just now). It was of her and my dog. My heart just sunk big time. I hate this so much. I need to step up my game. I need your help amor. I watched the video you linked. It makes sense. Do you have any other articles or videos on doing this? Any other advice from you?
EBR Team Member: Amor

June 14, 2017 at 10:15 am

List out his interests, everything you can think of and if there are current ones in the news, friends or in the environment, use that..
EBR Team Member: Amor

June 10, 2017 at 7:15 pm

if you want, approach it like this one:
What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Moves On To A New Girl (Video)

Ellen

May 18, 2017 at 8:00 pm

My ex of almost 8 years broke up with me alost 2 months ago. He immedeathly started dating another girl whom I think he was talking to before he left me. We have children so I couldn’t initiate the nc rule. However, I went from begging and feeling sorry for myself to pulling away and I’ve been working on myself. Well, a couple days ago he come to pick the boys up and was making passes at me. He ended up kissing me and giving me a really deep hug. It felt like he actually cared. He told me we’ve been best friends for 8 years and he wants to continue being friends. He called me last night to tell me he’s engaged to this girl he’s been dating for not even 2 months. Then, today he’s wanting to get together to have sex. I thought she was just a rebound but now I’m wondering. What does all of this mean? He has me so confused.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 19, 2017 at 10:11 pm

it means he wants to be friends with benefits.. check this one:
Get Your Boyfriend Back If You Have A Child Together

Charlotte

May 16, 2017 at 5:20 pm

Will this work for a friendship that was leading to a relationship but I pushed him away and now he’s seeing someone else?

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 17, 2017 at 7:23 pm

it’s not a guarantee that it will work, it can only increase your chances..check this one:
EBR 027: What To Do If You Live With Your Ex Boyfriend

Charlotte

May 16, 2017 at 3:52 pm

I have a different situation so I’m going to tell you the story and you can tell me if I’m even on the right page. My best friend and I have feelings for each other. I pushed him and pushed him and pushed him for a relationship knowing that neither of us were in a place to really have a healthy relationship. Fast forward 3 years. I’ve pushed him to point that he is uncomfortable around me and he says even though he has feelings for me I can’t seem to get my s**t together. I have high functioning anxiety and I’ve been letting it run my life. That’s what he means by me getting my s**t together. Anyway. He’s started seeing someone and I feel like I’ve pushed him too far to even have a chance with him now. Will no contact work for this? I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself but because we live together I don’t think he can see the changes or the hard work that goes into those changes.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 17, 2017 at 7:23 pm

it’s not a guarantee that it will work, it can only increase your chances..check this one:
EBR 027: What To Do If You Live With Your Ex Boyfriend

Zoey

May 15, 2017 at 5:01 pm

Will he not move on if i restart the no contact? I haven’t contacted him at all or reacted to his posts. Should i still keep his contact or just stop stalking him..it’s really a hard process but what if he loves the other girl as time passes by? He’s going back to school and he parties a lot and he’ll be around other girls. He seems like he wants to play too. It’s hurting and depressing but how do i get him to notice me and remember i exist when he’s around other beautiful girls while in school?

Zoey

May 24, 2017 at 6:53 am

Is there any other first contact text i could use instead of. You won’t believe what i saw? I’ve used that before..please help me. My no contact is ending tomorrow and I’m happy because my ex tried calling me yesterday after not contacting me for a very long time.. He contacted me on the 28th day..it’s true that some guys take time before they contact you.. Even though he tried calling.. I didn’t pick his call. So how do i start a conversation with him with another suspense text?
EBR Team Member: Amor

May 25, 2017 at 5:17 pm

be natural.. how would open up a talk with a friend? find a common ground.. use topics he always loves to talk about.
Zoey

May 22, 2017 at 4:22 pm

I haven’t gotten a reply yet.. Hope you got my text
EBR Team Member: Amor

May 22, 2017 at 5:43 pm

you just have to avoid posting going out on dates with other guys.. approach it like this one:
Fix Your Relationship If You Cheated On Your Ex Boyfriend Before Its Too Late (Video)
Zoey

May 20, 2017 at 8:39 am

His friend explained everything to me and now i understand why he’s acting that way.
He thinks I can give in to sex with any guy because before we started dating he already knew my story with other guys so that’s why he was saying some things and the fact that i cheated on him after we dated. He is not convinced that I’ve changed because i used to talk to his friend too so he thought that me and him had something going on.
His friend also told me that he’s not dating the girl i thought he was dating..he probably told me that so i can stop being stubborn but they are friends.
He’s somehow secretive so one can never know who is being told the truth.
The friend also said that after I cheated on him,they adviced him to move on but he kept on coming back. His friends hate me except the one who i talked to and now i don’t know how to win their trust back too because we rarely meet.
What should i do to have my ex back?
Zoey

May 17, 2017 at 9:59 pm

Hi?
I have a very tricky situation and I’m not sure how to proceed about it..
So today i found out a conversation between my ex and his friend who is also a close friend of mine.. The conversation was before i started the no contact and it was really heartbreaking.. They always discussed a lot about me and they would say bad things about me.. They would say things like:
I’m naive.. I’m easy to have and convince
I love d**k
He only accepted me back because he wanted sex and I felt he was using me.
My ex would also tell his other friends to come try and convince me to give them sex..
It’s frustrating and it hurts so bad and that’s not the only things they said..
They’d also say of how stupid i am and also when my ex commented about wanting to marry.. The friend asked him if its me and my ex would tell him fuck you( meaning.. That was a stupid guess)and he would say the name of his new girl and it did hurt me that i asked his friend why they would say such things about me..
His friend then said that it wasn’t nice that i evaded his privacy and he didn’t snatch the phone from me because he had nothing to hide..
He also asked me why i deleted our conversations yet he wanted to show my ex and i told him its because he told me when we meet i would delete if i wanted to..
We’ve agreed to talk tomorrow about the whole situation with the friend but i don’t know how to go about it. What should i do? What if he tells my ex about it as he wanted to before i deleted our conversation yet I’m on no contact at the momen?t..he’ll think I’m still the same coz its not the first time i found their nasty conversations about other girls..
It’s like they just want to play..
What would you really advice me to do if you were in my situation?
Not forgetting to mention that during this period that I’m in no contact he unblocked me and added a pic of other girls so I wonder if he wanted me to just see .. I also wonder if the new girl is okay with him posting pics of other girls.. I’m not sure if the new girl is one of them posted but he doesn’t seem like he would want to settle.. He wants to play..
I also don’t understand why he would give out my number during no contact and I asked him not to do it while we were still talking..
I can’t understand his behaviour really and if he ever loved me.. Why wouldnt he let me leave yet he has plenty of girls he could get?

All this craziness started when he found out that i cheated on him with his friend.
What do i do really.. Do i listen to his friend ..who is also my friend then start no contact? And not contact them for a while ..it’s hurting that they talk about me that way even if they hate me.. Please help me
EBR Team Member: Amor

May 19, 2017 at 8:45 pm

how did everything go?
EBR Team Member: Amor

May 16, 2017 at 5:17 pm

chasing wouldn’t help you..it’s not going to raise your value..keep his contact but dont stalk him

Zoey

May 15, 2017 at 8:30 am

What could be the reason he is doing that? It’s frustrating and I’m starting to think i have no chance with him. What do i do and I’m almost through with the 30 day no contact. I love him but I don’t know what to do.. What’s the reason he could be posting the pics and what should i do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 15, 2017 at 4:27 pm

you have to restart the count and be active in posting.. be natural.. don’t look like you’re trying to make him jealous.. just post your activities.. how active are you in improving and what new things are you doing? how many new friends have you made?

Zoey

May 15, 2017 at 7:49 am

Hi?
It’s me again..

I’m just worried because my ex keeps on posting photos of other girls as his profile picture..
It hurts so bad and so far i haven’t posted anything to show him I’m doing well. I’m on day 20 of no contact and I feel like he has moved on. I still don’t wanna react though. What should I do? If i post other guys pic will he not think we are trying to compete?
I’m so confused about it. What should i do?
Alyssa

May 14, 2017 at 7:26 am

My boyfriend broke up with me about 2 month ago after 4,5 years relationship. It came out of the blue because the days before he would tell me how much I meant to
him, that he loved me and I was his everything. He even called me the night before the breakup to tell me he loved me. Then the day after he told me that he was leaving me, because he didnt have the same feelings for me and he wanted other girls. I did the begging part, but only that day. We hung out as friends but he treated me as if I was still his girlfriend. 3 weeks after he suddenly got mad over something he did, but he was blaming me for it, and I decided to cut the contact and focus on myself. I did the NC for a month, and I texted him a week after NC that I was sorry for it all ended this way and I want to be friends with him because what we had was making me happy. He didn’t answer but he saw the text. I met him at the club a week later and when I hugged him, he told me that he was sorry for ignoring me but he have had a rough time. I then texted him a couple of days later to ask if he wanted to hang out, but hasn’t responded. I know he is hanging out and talking to another girl, but this girl is totally oppisite and he has told me that he didn’t put anything into it. But that was a little over a month ago I told me. She may not be in a relationship or having anything sexual going on with guys because of her religion and her parents. They started talking one week before he broke up with me, because their class went on a schooltrip. So what should I do to get him back from here? He has told me that he also hasn’t seen the breakup coming either and he didn’t want to lose me.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 14, 2017 at 4:51 pm

do you want to restart the nc, and do it properly this time and to follow the advice above?

Alyssa

May 14, 2017 at 7:22 am

My boyfriend broke up with me about 2 month ago. It came out of the blue because the days before he would tell me how much I meant to
him, that he loved me and I was his everything. He even called me the night before the breakup to tell me he loved me. Then the day after he told me that he was leaving me, because he didnt have the same feelings for me and he wanted other girls. I did the begging part, but only that day. We hung out as friends but he treated me as if I was still his girlfriend. 3 weeks after he suddenly got mad over something he did, but he was blaming me for it, and I decided to cut the contact and focus on myself. I did the NC for a month, and I texted him a week after NC that I was sorry for it all ended this way and I want to be friends with him because what we had was making me happy. He didn’t answer but he saw the text. I met him at the club a week later and when I hugged him, he told me that he was sorry for ignoring me but he have had a rough time. I then texted him a couple of days later to ask if he wanted to hang out, but hasn’t responded. I know he is hanging out and talking to another girl, but this girl is totally oppisite and he has told me that he didn’t put anything into it. But that was a little over a month ago I told me. She may not be in a relationship or having anything sexual going on with guys because of her religion and her parents. They started talking one week before he broke up with me, because their class went on a schooltrip. So what should I do to get him back from here? He has told me that he also hasn’t seen the breakup coming either and he didn’t want to lose me.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 14, 2017 at 4:51 pm

do you want to restart the nc, and do it properly this time and to follow the advice above?

Zoey

May 11, 2017 at 8:44 am

Hi?
Wrote a comment here but got no reply yet.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 11, 2017 at 4:07 pm

that’s good that you didn’t react..just keep improving yourself and in posting..that’s your indirect way of showing you’re improving

Zoey

May 8, 2017 at 4:46 pm

Hi Amor?
My boyfriend and i broke up two weeks ago. We had so many issues and he said he couldn’t handle me anymore or date me again.
I was depressed about the breakup and I called him and texted him multiple times. He then blocked me and i decided to embark on no contact. It’s now 12 days after i started the no contact and I’m still holding strong.
He then unblocked me yesterday and i also unblocked him too and then today he posted a photo of a girl. I guess his girlfriend. I wonder why he would do that just to hurt me. Did he unblock me on purpose to show me that he has moved on? I didn’t react though and I’m not gonna do it even though it hurts.
I’m faking that I’m doing great but deep down I’m not okay. He has plenty of girls who go visit him and I doubt if he would give me a chance.
No contact is one of the hardest thing but I’m still holding strong to it. Do i even have a chance at getting him back? He has never tried contacting me and I’m not planning to contact him. I’m improving myself, going out but I’m scared that he might have moved on to that girl. He has never posted any of my pics while we were dating so the girl seems special. What should i do to stop feeling bad about it? Do i have a chance with him? The other girls are beautiful than i am and it’s kind of an advantage for them.?what should i do to increase my chances? I love him still and it hurts.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 11, 2017 at 4:06 pm

that’s good that you didn’t react..just keep improving yourself and in posting..that’s your indirect way of showing you’re improving

Zoey

May 8, 2017 at 4:26 pm

Hi?
Did you receive my comment?

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 11, 2017 at 4:06 pm

that’s good that you didn’t react..just keep improving yourself and in posting..that’s your indirect way of showing you’re improving

kathy2

May 5, 2017 at 6:29 am

i had 2 years relationship. mostly filled with arguments because he’s hot headed and angry quickly. We had on and off relationship. When i tried to move on several times, he pulled me back because of jealousy. He also always got jealous of my male facebook friends. I had to delete them from my friend list for his security. Then one day he said he didn’t want any relationship and wanted to stay single. I accepted it after a little argument. He said he didnt love anyone else but me. We were still talking and one day we almost got intimate but i declined because we were just friends. He stopped talking to me for 2 days. Until one day, i confronted my friend who tried to get closer to him while he and I were still together back then. I removed her from my friend’s list and blocked her because I didn’t like her to be my friend. I didnt talk to him about it and didnt plan to stop their friendship. She reported it to him and made him angry. Without giving me explanation he said he hated me and that I made his life complicated. he blocked my numbers and fb. Next day he said he had a new gf and told me to move on and stop contacting him. I stopped contacting him. I later found out that his gf is his friend since long before we met. I was crushed, thinking was he was also liking her while he was with me. Or is she a rebound? He is treating me like there was nothing between us, when two days before he was getting intimate and talked to me on phone for 5 hours in one night. I also thought his reason was because it’s impossible for him to get married with me because of distance, culture, etc and the girl logically a good match for him considering those.

EBR Team Member: Amor

May 5, 2017 at 4:52 pm

it looks like a grass is greener case..

Kathy

April 29, 2017 at 5:56 pm

A week ago, my ex broke up with me, saying his reasoning was because he did not feel the spark in our relationship anymore and felt like he did not feel the same for me as before. With that said, I just accepted the break up if he couldn’t be happy with me, however, I did not really want to accept that he wanted to break up just because he felt like there was no more spark. I wanted to rekindle it and make the relationship work and we have been together for almost 2 years. So, I asked him if we would talk it out some more. The next day, I came over to his house but he was still sleeping. I just let him sleep and wait till he would wake up to talk. While waiting, his manager texted him and I was going to reply for him (his manager and him are friends outside of work and what not and we are familiar with each other). As I opened his phone I saw a message that had no contact name, just the number itself. Curiosity got over me and I opened the message and found out he was talking to another girl a few days right before he broke up with me. I confronted him and told him he basically left me for another girl and he still tried to cover himself up. I just blew up on him and left his house. He never once text or call or said anything at all. Also, I know the girl and she knows me, we met once or twice about almost 2 years ago. I know he has not talked to her before or even hung out with her before, all I know is that he has been talking to her and hanging out with her a few days before we broke up. Despite all of this, I still want my relationship to work. I don’t know if it’s because he is my first everything but I still love him dearly. I forgive him for what he did, and I can really get passed for what he did because he never cheated before. I have not contacted him ever since I blew up on him and he has not contacted me. I talked to a couple friends about this situation and they all believe that he will talk to me again, but possibly as a rebound. But some of his friends are saying that the other girl is the rebound. Either way, I am waiting for the day he does contact me again. I just need more reassurance of how and why he would actually contact me other than what my friends told me. Thank you for your time.

EBR Team Member: Amor

April 30, 2017 at 12:23 pm

You mean, to predict if he would contact you? That’s hard.. I can’t assure with that.. but do you want to try the no contact rule?

AJ

April 23, 2017 at 11:45 am

Years ago, my ex (A) and I met thru a common friend of ours and we started communicating. He courted me for a month and a half and I accepted him so then we had our first relationship together. During our relationship, I had an affair with different guys and because I don’t want to lie to him, I admitted my fault and he had forgiven me (he even cried) until one day, I went to our province, me and my ex (not him) got reconciled again so I broke up with him (A) because I don’t want to hurt him at all but he didn’t agree with it but I forced him to because of my conscience. During those years that we got separated, we had relationship with other people but he never failed to show me how much he loved me and he’ll always be there for me. So after few years of separation, we got back together so we celebrated our 5th year anniversary. Unfortunately, few months had passed, I’ve found out that he’s already with someone so I was so hurt and I even had the courage to congratulate him and said goodbye. A month or so, he tried to communicate with me again and apologized for what he did and because I loved him so much even if it hurts me a lot, I still chose to forgive him. So we got back together. He tried to broke up with his rebound but the girl didn’t let him. She even warned him that she’ll kill herself if he ever left her. (Pathetic indeed!) So I suggested him so many ways on how he will get rid of her but no action was taken. Recently, I got into a relationship with another guy and we had sex. I told him about our relationship cause I loved him that much and I don’t really want to lie to him so I let him (A) know. As expected, he was hurt but I didn’t expect him to be that so mad at me that he even end up blocking me thru his messenger (from his 2 Facebook accounts so that I won’t be able to contact him thru those. Before he blocked me, we argued about my relationship with my bf. I even apologized and said sorry for what I did but he hated me so much. I even told him that I only did that because I was really hurt cause I don’t see any effort from him to get rid of her. I even promised that I will stay away from him, and even from my boyfriend. I also told him that it was really him that I love and not my boyfriend. I was so hurt when he told me that he loves me so much that I will always remain in his heart. And now, he’s avoiding me. I don’t know what to think but I decided to give him so much time and space to think things over because he was so mad and hurt for what I did and I understand him. I missed him so badly but I also respect his privacy. I may not be sure but I’m hoping that one day, he’ll forgive me and get back together. I want to know if there’s still a chance that he’ll forgive me? Will we get back together again and start anew? What will I do to win him back? Is there’s still a chance for us? I know we still love each other just like what he said to me before he said goodbye. I loved him so much that I don’t want to lose him forever.

EBR Team Member: Amor

April 29, 2017 at 7:24 pm

if he just needs space, then the no contact rule is the proper way for you to go.

Melissa

April 11, 2017 at 1:28 pm

I dated my ex for about a year. We did everything together. Super close. It was not too long after moving apart from my babys dad (but we were broken up for a while before that). When I moved out, the breakup of my “family” hit me a little harder. I needed a little space to process it all but the new bf wouldn’t give me that. On top of my needing space, he was being jealous too much. Then he had some tragic life events which made me feel I needed to be there for him. I tried but the no-space brought some resentment and I became b1tchy at times and when I realized, I again told him I need space. I couldn’t move on fully from my past if he didn’t give me time to process the loss. I didn’t want us to be ruined. But he didn’t give me a lot of space. And i was too nice to tell him otherwise so we still had sleepovers and hung out. Then…. I broke up with him. Still loved each other. Still talked sometimes for about a month.
After a month or so I needed a dance partner last minute for a perfomance, he introduced me to a new friend of his, to help. That person and I would be together for hours every day for a few days. I could feel chemistry brewing so I told the guy we had to be careful because of how we met, we cannot be more than friends. He agreed. Next thing we knew (a couple days) we kissed and there began something with me and him. We didnt let my ex that introduced us know. Although he sensed something and wanted the guy to stop talking to me. By the way, the ex was trying to use this guy to spy on me (the guy told me) at practices, see who picks me up, etc and that made me angry. After about 3 months, the guy and I had a fallout and he left for a vacation. During the last month of that though, sometimes we all were in the same group hanging out, ex, new guy, me. My ex and I still hung out time to time casually. He did his best to stay around.

Then after a week one of the new guys common friends with my ex told him about the whole thing(August 2016). My ex was furious. Give me and the new guy shit for weeks. New guy blamed it all on me somehow. Ex hated me. After a few weeks i couldn’t take the verbal abuse and cut ties. Then ex came and apolagized for nasty things he said. He was moving back to another province where his brother and family friends lived since he had no one in my city basically but me. We spent a lot of time together before he left. It was like we were dating. We said our goodbyes on the last day. Exchanged a bracelet and necklace of sentimental value. We still talked and missed each other for about 3months. During that i would try to distance myself from him because i wanted to be healthy and missing him was emotionally draining, on top of him getting on my case time to time bringing up the past. He left the country for a few months to help family. We still connected here n there on snapchat. I had a little flirtation here during that time. January he was back in the country (diff province). We talked and still sent each other songs about how we feel (love/miss etc). By mid feb, I had a dream he moved on. I told him my dream and he didnt comment much. We talked fairly regularly, he would urge me to move on subtly at times whilst also telling me he loves me or misses me. I also told him about the guy I had a thing with too for open/honesty sake. Two weeks of us talking passed, then he tells me he’s seeing someone. I was horrified and angry because he hid it. Anyway he said its not serious and its new. The whole thing was he loved me but couldn’t get over the anger of feeling betrayed by me and that guy. He would talk to me, when he enjoys our talks he feels angry too because of what I did. He said he’s tired of being angry and mourning the loss of me. He wanted space. Until he “dissacociates everything” music and such.
We get into march and around march 14 we had a talk where he ended up telling me to stop talking for a while. After about a week he sent me a song that talks about missing me and thinking about me, wanting me back. (He’s a musician so speaks via music). He also called me twice and messaged me saying he doesn’t hate me he just needs this. And that we both do, hopefully once this storm has passed he will get to see the rainbow. And hoping i understand, he’s still there for me and my daughter, just not presently. I didn’t respond for a week. (I was not avoiding talking to him) then I said I said i was too preoccupied with some things goin on and I’ll respond when I can. I did after another week sending a brief message saying do what you have to do. Thanking him for the msg. And told him hes a beautiful soul. Since then (apr 3) i sent a couple snaps on snapchat. Had very short few sentence chats. He watches my snaps regular. Like within a couple hours he usally checks my story. So i know he’s quietly watching what I’m upto. I post normally as I do. I post inspirational type things and even a performance pic/video here and there. We havent spoken in a few days and I don’t want to lose contact for too long. I am visiting his city for a few days May 4th. He actually asked me when i was going (that was our last msg) so he knows. But its not to visit him (although i would love to see him). I am pretty sure he’s still dating that girl. I don’t know what to think of it.
Any advice?? Insight? That would help me a lot..

EBR Team Member: Amor

April 12, 2017 at 6:56 pm

try at least 30 day nc and then follow the advice above

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