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cheryl
September 4, 2014 at 2:35 pm
Please help I just broke up wi my partner of 3 n a half years because he found out I had been txting my ex behind his back. I know I made a mistake and I miss him so much and want him back we have a daughter together who is only 1 and when I asked him to come bk n talk with me he refused n said I cant cause I can’t trust you anymore n I got angry with him for not giving it a try n I messaged him in anger prob shouldnt of done that accusing him of being happy without me. I have to see him when he comes to pick up our daughter so I cant do the no contact thing. How do I fix this? Please help
admin
September 5, 2014 at 12:00 pm
Limited contact.
And you were texting your ex. Were the messages flirty at all?
Lillian Taylor
September 3, 2014 at 9:27 pm
I am in desperate need of your help. I just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago and I am miserable. He found out that I cheated on him and lied to him. He says he is disgusted with me and that he will never ever let me get close enough to hurt him again. I’m scared that I lost my bestfriend and the love of my life forever. Please help me.
admin
September 4, 2014 at 12:14 pm
What caused you to cheat? Was it something you were lacking in the relationship?
Jess
September 2, 2014 at 6:10 pm
Hi
I really need your help please
I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. I broke up with him in jan 14 because I had found messages/ emails from girls from our work which were quite flirty etc about a year ago and we just argued about it all the time. He was more interested in work and rugby and it used to get me down so I broke it off. About 3 weeks after I started meeting up with this guy I knew from school ( I know a bit to soon!) we went on some dates and ended up sleeping with each other for a few weeks. I wasn’t thinking straight and when I thought about everything I cut it off with him and cut him out of my life. I got back with my ex a few weeks after and we had a house together so I moved back in. He knows exactly what happened with this other guy. I’m trying my best by booking time away so we can keep busy, buying him things, talking to him when he feels down, reassuring him, hardly go out unless I see my family ( he hates them too) he says I don’t the worst thing ever ( which I agree) and that he will never trust me and he feels I’m not proving I care enough! I don’t no what to do or say to make things better
If possible please can you give me some advise
Thank you in advance
admin
September 3, 2014 at 2:39 pm
You didn’t cheat on your ex though so why are you posting on this page?
Kimberlynn Pettway
September 1, 2014 at 11:55 pm
I cheated on my boyfriend and we only been together 4 months I fell in love with him when we first met he just always made me happy when I first met him he dud the have a job and I held him down he got a job like 2 weeks later and my bday was this week he bought me some shoes and when he found out I cheated I took them back he is very stuck in his ways I tried apologizing to him and everything but he keep saying he done with me I don’t want him to be I just want him to forgive me because everyone makes mistakes please help me
admin
September 2, 2014 at 1:54 pm
Why did you cheat on him?
Kimberlynn Pettway
September 2, 2014 at 4:42 pm
It was my birthday weekend and he was being selfish towards me, when he came to the hotel room he found evidence that I cheated what can I do to fix it right now he just keep saying he’s done with me. I know what I did for him and he know I care does he really mean he’s done or is he just mad right now.
admin
September 3, 2014 at 2:33 pm
What evidence?
J Perez
September 1, 2014 at 2:13 pm
i have been in love with my my ex boyfriend (and still am) for about 6 years now. We had been dating for almost 7 months and he found out i was talking to his close friend. JUST TALKING. i never kissed, held hands, hooked up, or even hugged the other boy. all we would do is flirt over text message. my ex said he would give me another chance but the next morning he decided to just end things… he says he can’t give me another chance and says it needs to end now, but i know we have something that can be saved, he loves me he just doesn’t know how to show his feelings anymore i guess? i’m willing to do anything i can to get him back.
admin
September 2, 2014 at 1:23 pm
I don’t get it… You didn’t cheat on him. You didn’t even come close. What is his problem?
Keanna
August 27, 2014 at 3:54 am
HEY. So I cheated on my boyfriend of two years. He’s my first love and I am his. I never told him I did though he found out by someone else , but when he asked I told him the truth. He broke up with me the same day & got back with me the same day. Now a month and some ago he started , I guess , thinking about the mistake I made and broke up with me over it again
admin
August 28, 2014 at 12:28 pm
Give him some space right now.
Why did you cheat?
Andrea
August 26, 2014 at 4:54 pm
I’ve posted several times but I never see my post once I come back?.. But anyway.. I was with my boyfriend Luis(who is now my ex)for about 6 years. We met each other when I had just turned 16. I am now 23, and he’s 26. We lived in the same city (bradenton, Fl)for the first 3 years of our relationship, then he ended up moving to Orlando, Florida with his mother so that he could go back to school and he didnt have to worry about any expenses. Things were good for the first couple months, then we broke up and got back together a couple times. I broke up with him ending of July of last year to be with one of his good friends (Gabriel), which now I realize I should have never ever done. His friend and I were together for about 5/6 months and then Luis came back into the picture. We texted each other back & forth about the whole situation one day and how he forgave me for what I did. We slowly started talking again, and the love started coming back. We both felt like it was like starting fresh, turning a new page & starting brand new.
Everything was going real good, until this past weekend when I went out, got really drunk, and decided to call Gabriel. We ended up meeting him at a bar.. then going back to his place, and i ended up sleeping with him. I figured that was it – nothing more to it. So i thought. I guess Gabriel found out that Me and Luis had gotten back together, so Gabriel called Luis & told him I has slept with him. Luis told me that Gabriel called him and told him all this. Luis told me He didnt want anything to do with me anymore, and that i was a piece of sh*t. I completly take responsibility for what I did. I should have never done it. 2 wrongs dont make a right, But Luis has cheated on me in the past (not with one of my friends) but I still took him back? I could really relate to the “medium time line” with the amount of break ups we’ve had, and the amount of time its taken for us to get back togeher. I’ve lost track of how many times we’ve stopped talking and ended
up back together.
This is probably the worst way I could have hurt him.
But will I ever be the “ungettable girl” again for him?
I’m just so confused with what to do. I love Luis. I dont want to lose him but I just dont know why we hurt each other so much.
I have read your enitre post on “Learn how to get your ex boyfriend back”, & “how long will it take to get your ex boyfriend back” and its been some what helpful, but do you have Any other suggestions?
admin
August 28, 2014 at 12:00 pm
What kind of suggestions are you looking for?
Jordan
August 25, 2014 at 7:57 pm
My boyfriend recently broke up with me. I have cheated on my boyfriend… multiple times. (5 times, to be exact). But, in those cases, alcohol played a big role. After each time, I felt like crap the next morning, when I woke up and realized what I had done. I know that what I did was wrong. These incidents were at the beginning of summer, (today is august 25). I stopped after the 5 times because I simply could not do it anymore. I did it because my boyfriend hadn’t trusted me in the first place, and would get angry when I would go places or hang out with people without him. This, I completely understand, now, because of my actions. But, his distrust was what led me to betray him in the first place. I was angry at the beginning of summer, because I didn’t want him to be upset if I wanted to go out with friends. I never had any intension of cheating on him. I would have loved if he wanted to go out with me and hang out with friends with me, but he never wanted to go out. He never wanted to go to parties with me. Therefore, I went without telling him. Wrong choice there, but I didn’t want to be held back if I wanted to have fun. After the first time I cheated, I felt awful, and told myself I was never going to do it again. But, my friend was always asking to go to parties and hang out with guys. I said yes, because she was just getting over a break up herself. I wanted to be a good friend, so I would go along with her, with no intension of cheating. But there was alcohol involved, and I must say: alcohol is horrible, and it changes people. So, one thing led to another and I would wake up the net morning feeling like crap again. Now, in the beginning, I cheated because I didn’t think my boyfriend (exboyfriend) ever wanted to have any fun with me. I was feeling like he was turning into a homebody, and I didn’t want to do that to myself. So, I went out regardless. But, as the summer went on, I started to realize that feeling like crap was not worth it. I just couldn’t do it anymore. And this was towards the beginning of summer. So, even though I cheated 5 times, it was for a brief period of time, when I just wanted to have fun. I think that is the worst part: my unfaithfulness was never because I didn’t feel loved. I felt very loved by my boyfriend, and I didn’t cheat on him to fill any sexual needs that weren’t being met. I made several mistakes, and tried to fix them. I stopped hanging out with my friend that wanted to party all the time, and I spent my time with my boyfriend. I was trying to show him that he really was what mattered to me. I was trying to push my own actions out of my mind, in hopes that he would never find out. Because I truly do love him. I moved away from that lifestyle and have really changed, because I know how wrong it is. I still can’t believe what I did, and would do anything to take it back. The times I was having “fun” weren’t even fun. I just wanted my boyfriend. But, he wasn’t there, and I had drank a lot, and that led me to cheat. I know that what I did was wrong. Anyway, even after trying to move past what I did, and after going on vacations with my boyfriend, he found out what I had done. I couldn’t lie any longer, so I confessed after he accused me. I wasn’t going to try to get out of it. I didn’t ever want him to find out because I knew how despicable it was. I tried to move forward with him because I believe what we have (had) is special. I made a mistake. Five mistakes, and I feel horrible for what I did. I could never do that to anybody ever again. And I have no intention on that. I have gained the self confidence and strength to just say no, and do what’s right. I want my boyfriend back, and hope he sees how awful I feel. Is there any advice you can give me on how to go about my situation? They say “once a cheater, always a cheater” but I don’t believe that. I have changed. I changed way before he ever found out, but it doesn’t matter because I did what I did. A year is a long time to spend with somebody, and I realize that he’s the one I want to spend more time with. Please help my situation.
admin
August 26, 2014 at 1:43 pm
Read this, it’s right up your alley,
https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/you-cheated-on-your-boyfriend-and-now-you-want-him-back/
cindy
August 25, 2014 at 7:09 pm
We is nowll the father of my child which is my boyfriend went through my phone and found old and recent pictures of my ex. He wants me out of the house and said he will get me back, I know his hurt but I didn’t cheat nor have no contact with the guy , I never deleted these pictures because they weren’t something I looked at on the daily so they been on this app for years and the recent ones where sent by a “friend” who was trying to get me to leave my bf (father of my daughter) He is now ignoring me won’t talk to me ignores my calls and text messages but we are still living together at his parents house I don’t know what to do for him to believe me I know it looks bad because it is my ex but I don’t want my ex nor did I cheat but he thinks I still want my ex simply because the pictures wh r e there.
admin
August 26, 2014 at 1:29 pm
Did you explain to him your side of things?
Nikki
August 15, 2014 at 10:30 pm
I was dating a guy for 9ish months. He just recently went through my phone and found I was texting other guys, very sexual things, and he broke up with me. I tried to explain to him that some of them were from before him and I got together, but there were a few messages, to about three different guys, and they were more recent. Recent as in I was dating my boyfriend and I was texting these other guys. Throughout my relationship with my boyfriend, I always accused him of wanting to be with other girls or his ex, because he followed them on social networks or he would snapchat other girls. He and I would fight all the time about stupid things, and most of the arguments were ones that I would start. When he found out what I had done to him, he was so hurt and angry. He broke up with me about a week ago and I have talked to him pretty much everyday since then. When I talk to him on the phone, he says that I should be texting and calling him everyday so that I am always on his mind. I think it’s the opposite because I want to give him space and time. I would much rather him hate me for right now. Also, when I tell him that I love him, he always says that if I loved him, I wouldn’t have done what I did. I’m thinking about just moving to another state in a few months to just start over and start new. But, I am truly in love with him and I want to be with him. I told him I would do anything and everything I needed to do to get him back and to prove to him that it won’t ever happen again. But, it just seems like he doesn’t want that. I also think it’s going to be really hard to not have communication with him for 30 days. I’m just not sure what to do here…
wowman
February 2, 2015 at 11:03 pm
Nikki T?
admin
August 18, 2014 at 12:33 pm
Well, I dont think you should have even entertained those other guys with sexual text messages at all.
Here is what is going on in his head.
“If she is willing to text sexy things to these guys then she is probably willing to cheat on me.”
Greg
July 14, 2014 at 1:40 am
Chris, can we be honest about something? You basically started this blog to try to bang the girls that post their sob stories here. This is pretty sad to look at. You give one-sentence replies to huge walls of weeping text. I’ve never seen a guy so desperate to be the shoulder to cry on.
Mary
July 7, 2014 at 5:53 pm
Hi. My boyfriend moved to out of state a month ago for training for his new job. At first I never wanted him to go because I hate long distance relationships and not only that, I just wanted to be with him. But there was no way that I was going to stop him from his dream of a job. Well, my coworker before he even left had been flirting with me. And I just thought he was doing it to do it. Come to find out though, he really did like me. Because I’ve been so lonely, I decided to accept his invite to his house for a fourth of july celebration. I’ve been attracted to him and honestly I have liked him. I had been honest with my boyfriend and told him exactly what I was going to be doing on the fourth of july. Well, I ended up spending the night at my coworkers house and we ended up making out, but that was it. I had come clean to my boyfriend and at first he broke up with me, but then I explained everything to him and he decided to stay with me.
Well, he has basically been punishing me for my actions and has made me feel worse, which trust me…I completely am taking full responsibility for my actions. But because of it I got really high and actually ended up sleeping with my coworker two days later.
I feel like I don’t like my boyfriend any longer. I’ve only been with him for about four months, but I am struggling here what to do….Am I just confused, how do I help myself?
admin
July 8, 2014 at 1:56 pm
The fact of the matter is that you shouldn’t have put yourself in a situation where you went with someone who has a massive crush on you and stayed overnight at his house. If someone did that to me I would break up with her too…
Imagine if he did that to you?
How would you feel?
Jeniffer
July 2, 2014 at 6:00 pm
My ex boyfriend and I had been dating for 4 years and 5 months. Two years ago, one of my ex hookups started to text me and I texted back, however I did not flirt with him, though he did. I hid the messages from my bf under a different name and talked to my friend on how I should tell him about it. Unfortunately, I did not hurry that conversation up, and 2 weeks later he found it on his own. We broke up for about a week. This past February my mom went out of the country due to health issues and I was in school and taking care of my younger brother and sister and household duties. My bf was working full-time, and we did not have time to see each other, barely at all. Our conversations for the past year have been pretty dull, our communication has gone downhill. Nonetheless, in April I began talking to one of his coworkers through Facebook. Normal convos at first but then I drank one night and flirted with him. My bf found out about it through him and when questioned, I lied about it but confessed later on bc he read the convos. We tried to work things out right away but it became stressful for him, and he ended it in June so it’s been a month now. I admit cheating was wrong on my end; I handled things the worst way possible for lack of attention i wasn’t receiving and bc our relationship wasn’t the way it used to be. I know he needs time to heal, but I’m seriously afraid he’ll a) meet someone b) hook up with someone or c) start to lose feelings for me. Worst part of this is: he was going to propose to me in July on our vacation, which obvs we are not going to anymore. I want to give him his time and space to heal, more than anything I want him to heal, but should I just wait until he reaches out to me? I don’t know exactly how to reach out to him bc i don’t want him to think I’m being pushy or putting pressure on him.
admin
July 3, 2014 at 1:05 am
When you say you flirted with one of his coworkers define flirting for me… What do you mean? Were you sexting or something?
Jeniffer
July 3, 2014 at 5:31 pm
I said to him, “There are some things I can’t say because I’m in a relationship.” Meaning I couldn’t tell him I thought he was cute. I had no intention of getting with him so I don’t know why I took it upon myself to handle things the way I did. I had been telling my bf for about 6 months that our relationship wasn’t the same; I wasn’t getting the attention I once received, and I’m in no way justifying what I did at all bc I had a choice, and unfortunately I made the wrong decision in doing what I did.
Kel
July 1, 2014 at 12:33 am
Hey,
So ive been with this guy for a year and i have done some really horrible things to him in the process. I have cheated and lied constantly over and over again. I cheated on him with my exboyfriend/babydaddy that i was with prior for 5 years. I really dont know why i lied and cheated. The only thing i can think of is i wasnt over him completely. Bc of the way we ended i still feel like i did something wrong. But today is my anniversary with my new boyfriend. i love him so much. He has put up with so much and shown me love ive never had or seen before.. The love i have always wanted he gives it.. ive been battling myself trying to make myself figure out why i did it. But it wasnt because of sex or love because my new boyfriend gave me all of that. My new boyfriend told me today that he dont know if he could ever get over what i have done. I really want to know what can i do. Ive cut out communication to my ex all together except for when when have to meet with the children but nothing more than that. My boyfriend calls me a liar in everything i say or do. It hurts so bad because i know i gave him a reason to call me that. Please help me because i do have two little ones involved that love him.
admin
July 3, 2014 at 12:45 am
Well, you kind of dug your own hole here. I actually suggest you read my page on rebuilding trust b/c you have some work to do there I think.
Tasha
June 20, 2014 at 8:16 pm
I cheated on my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years about 2 years ago with a childhood friend of his. I’m not even sure why I did it (which I will be doing some soul searching to figure out why), but anyway, it recently just came out because his “friend” basically ratted me out. This shocked me and somewhat hurt me because I thought that his friend & I had built a friendship. Even after we had done what we did, we kept in contact from time to time. I would give him advice on his personal troubles, etc. When my boyfriend initially asked me about my infidelity, I lied because I was afraid of losing him. I think my boyfriend had an idea about what really went down to begin with. I made the mistake of giving him my boyfriend’s number because tensions were running high between the two (or so I thought) & I was under the impression that they were just going to talk about other problems they had with each other. They did talk about other problems they had with each other in the past but unfortunately, my infidelity was also exposed. Long story short, I tried to hang tough & not crack under pressure but I did when my boyfriend told me that I had been ratted out. Now my boyfriend.. well ex now has broken up with me & I’m just so lost. I know that I was wrong for what I did, but I also feel betrayed because I was ratted out by the person whom I thought I had built a legit friendship with despite what we had done. And once again I cheated almost 2 years ago.. we never did anything else after that. I’m trying to make my boyfriend realize that I’m not that girl that I was 2 years ago. He’s the only person that I want to be with, I love him & I’m in love with him. He was my first everything & we’ve been together since senior year in high school. I just want my baby back 🙁 Please help me
Trixi14
June 19, 2014 at 2:24 pm
I cheated on my boyfriend four weeks when he left town and I was drunk when it happened. I don’t remember most of it. I told my boyfriend and I believe were breaking up. I don’t know how to fix things. I don’t want to lose him because I feel like he is the one for me. I feel perfect with him. I of course kept texting him like an idiot and made him angry for not giving him space. He left town again for two weeks and he said that were already broken up but took it back and told me he’d say it to my face when he gets back. I haven’t made any contact at all and it kills me so much. I want to win him back badly and I hope these two weeks are enough for him. I’m still calling him my boyfriend because I consider him that since the break up isn’t official. I love this man and I’d do anything to win him over. What can I do to regain trust? To show him he’s my only one? What can I do to make him feel special?
admin
June 21, 2014 at 7:14 pm
You should read my latest cheating post.
Sarah Schwab
June 15, 2014 at 12:26 am
I have been with my boyfriend for three and a half years. I cheated on my boyfriend with my soon to be ex husband that I was with for 10 years. pretty much at the beginning of our relationship with my boyfriend. I fell in love with my boyfriend after being with him for three years I don’t know why it went and saw my husband and I just really don’t because my relationship with my boyfriend is so much better. then my divorce papers started coming in and it started to make it a little bit more complicated for me and it said on my divorce papers this is what got me. if this marriage is not able to be saved. me and my boyfriend basically I moved out of town to where I’m originally from into another town I started talking to my husband for a little bit but my heart still was to my boyfriend. those things got a little bit more complicated in my relationship I ended up basically being roommates with my husband learning more about him after being away for 3&a half years and I realize that nothing I liked about him was attracted it was like I was I was so about my boyfriend Paul and we were rooming I am did up telling my boyfriend the truth but I never cheated on him within that time and I can only imagine what is going through my boyfriends head and you probably thinks my cheat it on him again. so here I sit here trying to get my boyfriend back the one I love he still kisses me still tells me he loves me but I’m packing my stuff in my house I used to live in and close to moving back to my hometown but he’s packing all of her stuff separate like my phone with me and I’m still waiting for him to move over um his job tells him while he says his job says that they need him for one more month but he tells me he’s coming over the next month but I don’t believe him he eventually added his ex fiance on his facebook and she has his phone number I’m clueless how to go about this but I really want my boyfriend back because what we have is very special he’s a good guy he’s never cheated on me he’s never been mean he’s not physical he takes care of me and I just don’t want to lose something that’s that good is anybody can help me with any advice I would really appreciate it thank you.
Sarah Schwab
June 15, 2014 at 12:32 am
Oh not ex boyfriend he gave his ex fiancee his number and is talking to her she lives states away and is married but I feel she is making it difficult for me and my boyfriend to work things out.
Brittany
June 14, 2014 at 1:20 pm
Hi,
My ex and I are both 27. We would’ve been having our year anniversary in August. I made a terrible mistake. I went to my cousins wedding and had too much to drink and ended up sleeping with another man. The thing is, I had so much to drink, I don’t remember doing it. I only know from other peoples accounts. His friend was also a DJ at this wedding and had told him some things. We went two weeks and I was trying to redeem myself, but we got into a small bicker the other day over something completely un related to this. He was rude to me about something and I called him out on it and he said I was the one with the crappy attitude when I wasn’t. now, he doesn’t want me anymore.He said he shouldn’t have to put up with my crappy attitude after what happened. Which he’s right, but I shouldn’t have to put up with his either because he can’t find something. He brought the whole incident up and doesn’t believe that I don’t remember. I am determined to get this man back as he’s the love of my life. I have not contacted him, I don’t want to look needy. What should I do? How do I prove to him that I love him and it won’t happen again. I have already stopped drinking because of this.
admin
June 15, 2014 at 5:57 pm
Did you read my latest post?
T A
June 14, 2014 at 12:23 am
My boyfriend and I were together for about a year, dated in college, and were somewhat long distance up until the point when I left to live overseas for the year. We’re both Christians and have had a great solid relationship and were very open with each other about everything. He was the man I gave my virginity to. Yet, I cheated on my boyfriend there, I was in England for 8 months, overseas playing basketball, and we were trying to make the long distance thing work.. It was rocky most of the time, but within the last couple months my boyfriend really put it all out there and we were talking all the time about being excited when I got home, telling each other I love you all the time and everything. In that time period however, I ended up seeking out and meeting a guy on a local university team there and we went on a blind date, and within weeks, things had gotten very intimate with this guy. I would stay at his place or mine, and things were getting sexual, and I was really shady and never talked about my boyfriend or even told this guy anything about him. My boyfriend even saw a picture online of the two of us and asked about him, but I played it off and totally lied right to him about all of it. We ended up continuing to go on dates, and doing a lot of activities and stuff, and my mom even met him which was a really big deal. I kept on hiding everything though, and lying, all the time about it. I got home, and saw my boyfriend, and it took me weeks to even come out and say that there was more that happened with this guy.. But I continued to lie, I would only say that we kissed a couple times and that’s it, or then, we only had a couple dates, then, well I stayed at his place, that it was more sexual, but really that’s it. But there was always more. So I kept breaking him down, he would try to work on forgiving me and starting to trust me again, but then I would come out with more crap, and it took me so long just to finally come out with the full truth, after he had to pry it out of me basically. I was so scared that by telling him it all, that we’d be done, but I ended up hurting him even worse by what I actually did do.. Now, he’s hurt, broken, we’re still struggling, I have hid other stuff, or lied about other, less important, things to him, and he just doesn’t feel like he can keep trusting me, but he’s still here and still wanting this, so we’re still trying to work it out. There’s also a lot of sexual insecurities that stem from this too, and I’m just wondering, how can I show him and tell him that I want this and to build up that trust and confidence he once had within this??
admin
June 15, 2014 at 4:16 pm
Why did you go on a blind date when you had a boyfriend…..
Bailey
June 13, 2014 at 4:50 pm
I cheated on my exboyfriend of 3 years. I did it with my best friend. My boyfriend found out I lied about going somewhere with my bestfriend and said we’d work on things. So for weeks after that we were both trying and fell back in love. Then my ex best friend told my boyfriend that we had slept together and he left me. He’s in a band and is gone a lot. He said we’d never be together again but he wants to be friends eventually. I’m so heartbroken because I realize the mistake I’ve made. I’m trying to better myself and give him space but it’s really hard. I can’t stop thinking about him and I see him everywhere due to his band. I was in a depression at the time I cheated and am working on fixing that. My ex told me to move on because he is, but it hadn’t even been a week. I can’t move on. I can better myself and try to address my issues but he is the love of my life.
admin
June 15, 2014 at 4:09 pm
Give him some time. NC.
Bailey
June 18, 2014 at 7:10 pm
That’s what I’m currently doing. It’s almost been 2 weeks with NC. He’s advertising up and down how single he is (which he has every right to do). I’m just starting to wonder if I should hold onto this hope of us getting back together or not. I’m willing to do whatever it takes to get him back. I got myself into counseling and am trying to be a better person to show him rather than just telling him.