How To Get Your Boyfriend Back If YOU Cheated On Him- Advice & Help

1,990 thoughts on “You Want Your Ex Back After Cheating On Him…. Here’s What To Do”

Jessica

April 1, 2014 at 4:20 pm

I cheated on my boyfriend at 8 months, it was a Friday night, and I was talking to my best friends ex, we were friends, and I thought he was kinda cute, although I never wanted to do anything with him (keep in mind we’ve made out before) so one night I was hanging out with my best friend, when he texted me and asked if I wanted to hang out for a little. So I walked my friend home and met up with him. We hugged and talked and soon before I knew it he started to kiss me, I didn’t like it nor did I kiss back..Anyways, I kept the secret from my boyfriend until Sunday, I couldn’t help the guilt growing inside me. Immediately we broke up, but soon got back together..Its now April 1st and he broke up with me because of the same reason..Because he doesn’t think we’ll ever be the same, I think we do though. One of my friends texted him and asked if he was completed done with me, he said that were not completely done, he wants to be friends and maybe someday in the future we’ll be together, but not now. I really doubt we’ll be back together in the future..My birthdays coming up and I want my boyfriend back because that would be the best thing ever..But what if he forgets about me and moves on, should I still do the 30 day challenge..?
Julie

March 31, 2014 at 12:48 pm

Okay so I read this article and I think the “30 day rule” is a great idea. But what happens if your ex contacts you during those 30 days? Do you ignore him? What if, while talking to you, he tells you he moved on but he still loves you?

admin

March 31, 2014 at 3:55 pm

You might want to check out some of my newer posts to give you an idea of how to proceed if that happens.

jamie

March 31, 2014 at 7:45 am

This is my second time posting. I cant seem to find my other one so I dont know if it went through. It has been a month and two weeks since my 7 year relationship ended. I cheated on my boyfriend with my crazy ex. I didnt feel like my boyfriend was putting forth any effort or that he valued me. Ive had a rough couple years losing my dad and I feel like Ive been in a weird place seperate from reality. I have attempted no contact he says we shouldnt see eachother bc it will take longer for him to get over me but he still comes over at least once a week. The longest weve went without seeing eachother is 2 weeks. Earlier I was apologizing pouring my heart out and all he would say is, “Im sorry we cant be together”. I havent brought up us being together anymore bc hearing those words really hurts. I could hear in voice that he really meant it and there was no room for possibilities. When he comes over its a little awkward sometimes bc im holding back whats really on my mind. Im wondering why he is coming to see me if we are never going to be together. I would say sex but he doesnt try everytime. I dont really know what to do next.

admin

March 31, 2014 at 4:28 pm

What made you cheat initially? Especially if your ex was crazy?

Cavia Jenkins

March 31, 2014 at 12:42 am

Hello Chris I cheated on my boyfriend but he cheated on me first and I accepted him back he cheated on me with his child mom for quite a while in the beginning of our relationship we have been together for six years now and I finally made a decision to cheat because he never showed me any appreciation after I decided to take him back I was so hurt by things he had done to me I caught him and public places with his baby mother he would leave me for days and come back as if he never left I was just hurt for so long so finally after all of that past through I and we were finally together of course there were trust issues and I ended up cheated on him and no he is hurt Iam mad at myself because i can’t believe I cheated I have his name tattooed on me his entire name and I cheated on him I feel so bad but at the same time I’ve been him for six years and he hasn’t proposed no engagement not even a promise ring and I still want him back after I cheated on him even though he cheated first I don’t know what to do I guess I never recovered when he cheated on me What am I suppose to do??

admin

March 31, 2014 at 4:06 pm

What is your reasoning for wanting him back?

I am just curious?
Cavia Jenkins

March 31, 2014 at 6:53 pm

We’ll right now we are living together and we are not speaking to each other since he find out I betrayed him we are sleeping in the same bed and we don’t touch each other and I just basically told him it is all up to him if he wants to work it out Iam just in the craziest situation right now. If he is that mad why are you still coming home. We also have a dog that we are both extremely in love with and we don’t know what to do if we actually finalize things who is going to keep the dog we don’t want the dog to be separated from us . Idk idk

izzy

March 30, 2014 at 3:38 am

Me and my now ex boyfriend had been together for about 15 months. And i was dumb enough to not tell him i was going to ask this one dj to dj at a party that i am going to have, so he finds out on instagram that i was getting this guy attention but my ex didn’t know i was doing it for my party he thought I was reaching out to the dj while going out with him. Yes i was getting his attention but just to ask him to be my dj. Now he broke up with me and now i need help trying to get him to believe me in everything i say and get him back. Please help me.
I screwed up

March 30, 2014 at 12:32 am

Hi… So… My boyfriend had a party at his house and all of his friends were there. Everything was fun and fine until about 4 am when we were all drunk and I hooked up with his frat brother in his house. I didn’t even think about what was going on, until I believe he kicked the door open. I tried to deny everything thinking itd make it easier to not hurt him. It wasn’t. He stared yelling at the too do his lungs along with all of his other friends. He told me to leave. Took my stuff of of his room and told me to go away. I began crying hysterically. I love him. That was the first night we didn’t sleep together in bed. I’m currently freaking out. Be broke up with me today at 2pm. It’s been 6 hours but I can’t stop thinking about him, us, and our everyday lives together. I can’t fathom losing him. I love him a ridiculous amount. I would and have done anything to make
Him happy. I fucked up. I miss him so much already. I can’t lose him. Please please please help me

Desperate to bring him back.

admin

March 30, 2014 at 8:17 pm

You cheated on him… of course he is angry.

How far did you get with the other guy?

Leash

March 28, 2014 at 2:15 am

Hi I cheated on my boyfriend 2 years ago and we are still together now, and its sure hasn’t been easy. About a year ago he was sexting this girl while we were together and I caught him out for it but he blamed me for his actions. Whenever we get into an argument no matter what it is, he always throws it all back at me, he says that he treats me the way he does because I cheated and that he’s tried to put it in the past but whenever we argue about something he has done wrong it is not his fault its ALWAYS my fault.
I don’t know what to do, if i should stay with him, give him more time cause I really do love him.
But he has this mindset that we won’t work out, and it is ok for him to treat me like shit because it’s MY fault that I cheated.
Joe

March 27, 2014 at 3:17 pm

Hello I know this article is mainly directed towards the woman aspect of the situation but I would like to try to get advice from my angle. I have a girlfriend with whom I’ve been with for 6 months. There was a situation where I was forced to move out of my previous apartment and my girlfriend suggested I live with her, so I did. It has been 4 months now since then and I have a steady job, working 5-6 days a week, and we had/have plans to move to Cleveland at the end of summer. About a month ago. Now working as much as I do sometimes it is difficult for me to be with her 100% of the time. So she had a few problems she was having where she was depressed and lonely and I did my best to be with her, slept next to her, comforted her when I could. Come to find out a few weeks ago by accidentally over hearing her talk about another guy, one of her best friends, and how she liked him. Obviously i called her on it and found out that she cheated on me twice over the past month. Not to mention my grandfather just passed away and she cheated on me when I was with him in his last hours. Now, sorry for the lengthy build up but it was necessary, even though I felt so overwhelmingly saddened by this I still pushed through and tried to make things work because I truly love her. Now it’s been a few weeks and we’ve worked things out, I talked to the guy and made it so that they can still be good friends, might be dumb but I felt terrible taking away someone like that from her, he is a good person but also helped to hurt me. Her and I are good but I would like to know if this is a good decision. Am I being too forgiving? She says it will never happen again and so does the guy but should I question that? I’ve given her my trust again even after it was broken knowing that I could be hurt again. Am I crazy? Lol

admin

March 28, 2014 at 12:09 am

Check out ex girlfriend recovery.com

Seriously man check it out.

Breanna

March 27, 2014 at 7:33 am

Hi. Gosh, where do I start. Me and this guy have known each other for about 7 years because he was good friends with my older brothers. About 3 years ago he started to hit on me and we started dating and immediately fell head over heels for each other. It was crazy. He proposed to me within two months of dating. Even though i know that sounds crazy it felt so right, I accepted. About a month before our one year anniversary, i found out he was cheating with a girl. After cutting him off for about 2 months, I slowly started to find out details about the cheat. He had sex with her multiple times, took her on dates, and even said “I love you” all while we were living together. I was completely done but he kept persistantly pursuing me, apologized to my family for the incident and would even ask my family to help him to get me to see him. When my family approved of me seeing him, I knew it meant something, and I absolutely love him so I figured he was worth trying one more time to see if he could be faithful and did really love me like he said. However weeks into our new relationship, i had a one night stand with a complete random. I think i did this out of revenge but since then ive hooked up with this one girl about three times ( i’m bisexual), made out with this one guy who i dont remember but was told the next day about the event ( i was drunk), and have had a more intimate phone-call-text relationship with this guy that i ended pretty shortly. Today my boyfriend found out about all this and still hasn’t told me if he’s done with me. I honestly don’t want it to end. I know what we have is unlike anything else. Thoughts….please… thanks.

Breanna

March 27, 2014 at 7:37 am

Also, he found all this out through text messages to my friend. I didn’t confess to any of it.

kirstin

March 26, 2014 at 6:18 am

So me and my boyfriend were in a rough patch in our life’s, we both gained a significant amount of weight, and were Not entirely happy with each other. We ended up breaking up because he was constantly hounding me about my weight, a few days later me and his friend from middle school hooked up, it was one time and that it. Two weeks later we got back together and he knew all about the situation. He was fine at first, and it has been three months since the incident, now he’s getting on me about it. And he says it’s mainly his parents, they’ve been telling him that he can do better and that I’m a slut And He Needs To Move On From Me. I have no idea what to do anymore. We’ve been together for 3 years and I know I messed up but while we were apart he hooked up with a few girls, what do I do? He’s the love of my life and I can’t imagine one without him. (Just some extra information, I live out in Colorado all by myself, my family is in California, I’m 20 years old, and no children.)

admin

March 26, 2014 at 5:42 pm

Have you attempted the no contact rule yet?
kirstin

March 27, 2014 at 7:56 pm

Yes, but it’s more about his parents, I can’t fully get him back if I can’t get his parents to trust me.
kirstin

March 26, 2014 at 6:19 am

Also, I’ve lost 40lbs since the break up.
kirstin

March 26, 2014 at 6:22 am

Sorry, one more thing, we’ve got to church and I’ve sworn to God that I’d never hurt him like that again, I’ve given him my all these past three months and it has drained me emotionally, I feel I have nothing left, I’m desperate.

sav

March 25, 2014 at 9:09 am

My Boyfriend Just Left Me Because He Accused Me Of Cheating On him With His Best Friend. How Do I Tell Him I Never And I Want him Back?? The Biggest Problem Is He Moved Back To Scotland 🙁

admin

March 25, 2014 at 4:48 pm

You didn’t cheat on him did you?
sav

March 27, 2014 at 4:11 pm

No

kelley

March 24, 2014 at 12:47 am

I recently confessed to cheating on my bf a year ago. We both want to be With each other very much because We’ve changed. How do I help him move past this and stop analyzing the situation?

admin

March 24, 2014 at 5:55 pm

Communicate. Have a long talk with him.

xov

March 23, 2014 at 4:58 pm

Hey when my bf and i broke up because of some small issues we had i went out with one of my friends but my bf know him it wasn’t a date and he had his friend with him so i had no intention on cheating on him and i didnt the only reason why i went to see my friend is because i wanted someone to talk with because my bf wasnt here and i felt so lonely. After 3 days we got back together and we went out to see each other and i told him what happened 3 days ago. I didnt expect he would be mad he said that he feels betrayed and he prefers to break up because he can’t trust me anymore. What should i do to prove him that i didn’t mean to hurt him and i will never cheat on him? And how am i going to regain his trust ?

admin

March 24, 2014 at 5:40 pm

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-make-an-ex-boyfriend-trust-you-again/

scared and confused

March 23, 2014 at 1:27 pm

I cheated on my boyfriend while he was away on a cruise to the Bahamas. On his first night back I told him about it and he claims he wants to stay with me and fix things and that its not something that’s going to happen overnight. He has barely talked to me since I told him, and I know he’s hurt cause he cried in bed the other night but wouldn’t let me hold him. I don’t know what to do from here, I still have the man of my dreams but I feel as though I’m going to lose him, that he’ll realize that he doesn’t actually want me or something like that.

admin

March 23, 2014 at 5:06 pm

Well come on now… you cheated on him. He shouldn’t have to talk to you. It should be you inititating the talks and trying to get him to communicate. He feels insignificant to you. He probalby wants you to jump through a few hoops to prove that HE is the only one for you.

xoz

March 23, 2014 at 11:38 am

Hey when my bf and i broke up because of some small issues we had i went out with one of my friends but my bf know him it wasn’t a date and he had his friend with him so i had no intention on cheating on him and i didnt the only reason why i went to see my friend is because i wanted someone to talk with because my bf wasnt here and i felt so lonely. After 3 days we got back together and we went out to see each other and i told him what happened 3 days ago. I didnt expect he would be mad he said that he feels betrayed and he prefers to break up because he can’t trust me anymore. What should i do to prove him that i didn’t mean to hurt him and i will never cheat on him? And how am i going to regain his trust ?
Ella

March 23, 2014 at 9:39 am

My boyfriend broke up with me, I got seriously drunk at a party and me and a guy kissed. It meant nothing to me and I was drunk. I still love my ex to bits but it just seems hes already moved on. He been lying to me since we had broke up and has been saying pure nasty things to me, not about the peck, but about him being single. He has started talking to this other girl and I am aware he thinks this girl is gorgeous because his friends has told me he has started talking to her. I dont want to lose him before its too late, my heart is telling me to hold on but my head is telling me to forget about him because of what hes said to me. It’s like hes changed into a different person in a matter of days. Its like he Doesnt care about me anymore and it certainly feels like that. I still love him, but what can I do?

admin

March 23, 2014 at 5:12 pm

Ok, you are going to hate me for this but I don’t care.

Drop that excuse of being drunk at a party made you kiss a guy. Yes, alcohol affects your actions (and I have been influenced before in my life) but I have NEVER lost control to where I started kissing a girl (even if it was a peck.)

Take responsibility for your actions. I guarantee you that you using the drunk excuse is probably making him so angry. You kissed the guy b/c in that moment you wanted to. Accept that b/c it is the truth.

Also, your ex has a right to be upset with you. Forcing things with him isn’t the way to go here. Lay off for a bit. Let things cool down.

Nar

March 23, 2014 at 7:04 am

I’ve been broken up with my boyfriend for three weeks now after he found out I sent a pic to my ex because he was threatening me. I tried to explain to him but he was so hurt by the situation he said all his trust was diminished and he doesn’t know if he could ever start something again with me. I’m so heartbroken and all I want is him back in my life. I really don’t care at all for any other guy and all contact with my ex has been taken care of and ended for good. I tried to explain this to him but he just told me to move on from him and give him space. What amount of time should I wait to contact him and what do I even say?

admin

March 23, 2014 at 5:03 pm

What made you want to cheat on him?

Rose

March 22, 2014 at 3:28 pm

hello, I have allowed my ex boyfriend to come visit me for 3 days, while I am my current boyfriend he came on Tuesday and I was on my period I didnt sleep with the ex. but I didn’t told my boyfriend that he s here to visit unti the ex decided to take my phone n stole the number of my boyfriend n started whatsappin with him n telling he is in my room. n both agreed not to tell that they have been talking. now he so furious with me n I dont know how do I regain his trust again. please help

admin

March 22, 2014 at 6:30 pm

Well, if you already have a new boyfriend…

Why are you talking to your ex?

I am a little confused?

Lost

March 21, 2014 at 12:47 pm

Hi, I cheated on my ex of 3 years last summer. He kept asking me did I ever cheated on him but I denied it because I didn’t wanna break his heart. He told me if I came clean he wouldn’t leave. When I did he left me instantly said he never wanted to hear from me again. I only did it because he didn’t pay attention to me I didn’t feel wanted. I know I’m young but I know he’s the one I want in my life. It hurts not being around him or hearing from him. I’m willing to give him air but I don’t want no one else to get his attention. How should I handle this
Emana

March 20, 2014 at 6:31 pm

I cheated on my bf with an0ther guy my bf found out and he got realy mad at me. I panikd and i left him but he beged me to c0me back.now v r 2gathr again and he is ign0rng da topic bt i kn0w he is hurt and i would do anytng to make it up to him what should i do?

admin

March 21, 2014 at 6:24 am

What caused you to cheat in the first place?

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