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1,988 thoughts on “You Want Your Ex Back After Cheating On Him…. Here’s What To Do”

  1. Michelle

    September 24, 2013 at 6:32 am

    I cheated on my boyfriend on Sunday.. I was out and had way too much to drink. I know that being drunk is not an excuse, so I’m not going to use that. I don’t remember anything from that night until I received an email from my now ex that next morning saying that we were over and he wishes me the best.

    I kissed another guy while I was drunk and my friend called my bf to pick me up and take me home. I didn’t realise she had called him and he rocked up with me aparently in the arms of another man.. He tried to take me home and I wouldn’t stop calling him names and running away from him..

    I still have no clue if he knows I cheated on him or if he’s broken up with me for the way I spoke to him and being in another mans arms.. I’m sure he’s thought the worst.

    I ended up getting in the car with this other man and he dropped me home- (this is all I do remember) my bf aparently saw me get in the car with the man and drive off..

    I feel so horrible that I have behaved this way, and I know that this is my own responsibility. I can’t imagine how he would be feeling..

    Do you think I should tell him that I kissed the other guy if it comes up? I’m afraid if I do, then it will totally ruin the chances of us getting back together.. But then again I don’t want to lie to him. Maybe he knows I cheated on him.. Or maybe he isn’t sure. He never said in the email that he knows I cheated.

    We have only been together for a few months, and he is the best bf I have ever had.. I can not lose him.. He means everything to me.

    Please help me 🙁

    1. admin

      September 25, 2013 at 12:46 am

      Well, I think you have to come up with the decision so I am not going to help you with that. I will tell you though that if you do tell him he is likely to get very angry but you will feel better about yourself.

      the cheating was it just a kiss or something more?

    2. Michelle

      September 26, 2013 at 6:46 am

      It was a kiss.. A very drunk meaningless kiss.. He is talking to me now I stayed with him last night and he is full of different emotions.. He told me he hated me for breaking his heat and then started calling me names- probably out of hurt to try and hurt me.. He said he wanted to kill himself.. Then he cuddled me, then he became angry again.. he is a wreck. I have told him how horrible i feel and that I will do anything to fix our relationship. When I went to leave on a few occasions because I couldn’t put up with him calling me names anymore he didn’t want me to leave.. I wrote him an email today saying that I think he needs space and time to figure out what he wants..
      I relise there’s going to be a long road to recovery if we do get back together.. I have promised him I will change for the best.. I know only time will heal this.. But I’m so scared he won’t give me another chance.
      He tried calling me after I sent him the email.. I don’t know if I should give him time and ignor his calls etc so he can think what he wants or should I answer him?? I’m scared he’s not emotionally stable and I want to help him but I also don’t want to smother him.. Please help me x

    3. admin

      September 27, 2013 at 3:49 am

      Let everything settle down a bit. Nothing good usually gets accomplished when someone is emotionally unstable.

  2. Erin

    September 23, 2013 at 4:33 pm

    My situation is slightly different- I jut move out across the country while my bf gets his PhD, and we moved in for the first time together. I cheated on him a few months back when he was on east coast and I was still on west coast. It was with a coworker, happened twice, and he just found out from somethig on my comp. We had been in a distant relationship and I had last seen him In march and I cheated in June. He didn’t kick me out and said that ultimately he wants me in his life but if I ever do anything remotely like this again, tht it’s over. This is the only secret I’ve ever kept from him and I knew it would bite me in the ass like it did. He is very Stand offish which I would expect, so what do I need to do now? The 30 days of no contact would e impossible because I live with him and he didn’t break up with me. I’ve only lived out here a month. Should I just go through my daily routines like he’s not there? I don’t want him to think I’m ignoring him though… Help?

    1. admin

      September 24, 2013 at 2:47 am

      I have a question.

      Are the two of you still together?

  3. Amber

    September 23, 2013 at 3:02 pm

    I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year now and I basically cheated on him. I sent a picture to another guy and tried to hide it, but he found out anyways. I love him to death and I need him in my life. The picture receiver means nothing to me and I don’t know why I did it… What do I do? Please help!

    1. admin

      September 24, 2013 at 2:38 am

      Wait, was the picture bad or was it just a normal picture?

      I am guessing it was “racy”

  4. Morgan

    September 23, 2013 at 4:25 am

    My ex boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. I found out he cheated on me in feb. Two months prior through a text he had gotten from a girl. I told him I forgave him and I would try to move past it, but I grilled him about it constantly. Two months later I cheated on him. Told him right away… We broke up for a week he found out I was still contacting him. He asked to quit my job because the guy was a coworker and I quit last May. We have been trying to work on it since but he constantly was bringing it up and asking specific questions allllll the time everyday. Finally, I told him he needed to figure out if he was actually going to forgive me and be with me or not. His problems are that he doesn’t feel like I’m sorry for what I did. That I’m not changing anything to make him feel better about the situation and that he thinks I’m going to do again. Let me just say that we are so INLOVE with each other he is the greatest companion and amazing lover. I guess I’m not sure what to do because I am sorry for hurting him but I’m. Not going to beat myself up over it. I’ve never cheated before this on anyone. And I honestly don’t think I would have if he wasn’t the one to cheat first. If we can move past this I honestly think that we will spend the rest of our lives together. I just don’t know how. I tried the no contact thing and he won’t have it. He said wants to stay in contact but then I feel like it makes me crazy when I can’t talk to him.

    1. admin

      September 24, 2013 at 2:25 am

      I would definitely do NC if I was you. Not only for him but for your own sanity.

      Also, you might be interested in Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO.

  5. patricia

    September 22, 2013 at 11:38 am

    Hi Chris,i’ve been doing the NC for ten days now.Today my ex boyfriend send me a text message asking how the baby is doing and how i’m doing too,so i said the baby is fine and and i didn’t tell him how i was doing sohe asked me to send him a picture which i did send.So i want to know if this is a good thing to talk to him while I’m. trying to give him some space or should i stop responding until 30 days ?

    1. admin

      September 22, 2013 at 11:01 pm

      No, I think you are doing perfect b/c he is entitled to know how his child is doing and it will paint you in a bad light if you ignore his inquiries about his child. That’s my view anyways.

  6. Ame

    September 21, 2013 at 1:53 pm

    So I haven’t actually cheated on the ex but he thinks I have cuz went on a dating site when we had a little break the last time n I didn’t delete the evidence even tho I didn’t flirt or give my number out. But m
    I applied the nc rule for a week he got in contact came back for a day n then left as he said he couldn’t get the thought out of his head.
    Do I restart doing the nc rule or will it not work now??
    To make matters worst I’m pregnant with his kid n only have 6 weeks left til my due date x

    1. admin

      September 21, 2013 at 11:23 pm

      I think you should go into MC (minmal contact) meaning the only contact you have should be about the baby.

    2. Ame

      September 25, 2013 at 11:31 am

      For the first couple of days he started messaging me nasty messages asking if we were going to meet up about the baby and how he was going to fight me in court, I ignored him and didn’t meet him as could tell by the messages he’s still angry have I done the right thing? I haven’t heard from him for 2 days now.
      His mum has messaged me saying that he’s feeling really depressed and that he’s living out of his car and she THINKS he’s waiting for me to ask him bk or contact him but I don’t want to contact him n blow my chances am u right sticking to the nc??
      Some days are harder than others lol

    3. admin

      September 26, 2013 at 2:50 am

      Yes, you are doing the right thing! Stick with it.

    4. Ame

      September 30, 2013 at 6:31 pm

      Ok so it’s now day 9 of nc and he’s still being horrible writing on my FB and arguing with ppl that are sticking up for me, and because I’m not replying to his messages he’s bringing up the dating site. How long does it usually take for a man to calm down a very stubborn one?? And is it good that he’s still being like this? Cuz it must mean that he still is emotionally connected right?? I just wish I could get him to c that I haven’t cheated on him n never would. Our baby is due a week after I can start contact with him n I want us to be a family x

    5. admin

      October 1, 2013 at 2:48 am

      Don’t rush this process. The more you rush the more it’s not done correctly and will hurt your chances.

      I think he will see that you are not a cheater but it make take some time.

    6. Ame

      September 27, 2013 at 6:10 pm

      As time in the nc goes on it gets harder cuz he’s not trying to message me anymore and I feel we Are slipping further apart. I tried to make him jealous by putting about being at the cinema on FB and he messaged me the following day saying he don’t care who I get into a relationship with as long as it doesn’t affect his child which has broken my heart. Although I don’t know if he was expecting me to say there’s no one only u?? Bit I didn’t I just ignored it! Today is 6th day of nc and it’s killing me! My ex is the most stubborn Man U would ever meet. Once he makes his mind up about something then that’s it n I’m worried that he’s not going to miss me or take me back

    7. admin

      September 28, 2013 at 3:22 am

      Well, it is still very early in NC!

      And while it may seem like hes made up his mind I am here to tell you I am cut from the same type of cloth and even my mind can change sometimes.

  7. admin

    September 18, 2013 at 3:19 am

    Definitely try out the steps. You might also want to check out this page: https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back/.

    Or if you really want the in-depth step by step instructions pick up Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO.

    1. Alayna

      September 20, 2013 at 4:17 am

      Hi can you please delete my first comment? I’m sorry but I have a restraining order against someone I shouldnt have posted personal info in the open please thank you

    2. admin

      September 20, 2013 at 5:32 pm

      deleted.

  8. Anna

    September 17, 2013 at 1:38 pm

    I have cheated on my boyfriend multiple times but I have never stopped outside of our relationship sexually. We have recently broken up because I have text a friend that I love him. He flipped out! Of course i called him over and over and begged him back. I get responses but its “stop texting me” or “leave me alone!” “I will never get back with you!” or “you should’ve thought about this before you cheated”……do you think he is really done?

    1. admin

      September 18, 2013 at 3:17 am

      If you keep doing what you are doing he will be.

  9. Jade

    September 15, 2013 at 1:51 am

    I cheated on my ex over the summer with another guy. It was a kiss, at first. I decided to take a break very quickly from my boyfriend to see what I wanted do. My ex was out of the states at the time so I couldn’t see him. We were already having our own problems and felt a little under appreciated,kind of like he didn’t have time for me. And.. I felt like I didn’t get the reassurance that I needed. If anyone would ask me why I did it, it would be be that. Even though my boyfriend at the time was.. stressed, being over states and everything, I just wasn’t very supportive….But AT the time, the other guy was giving me everything that my boyfriend wasn’t. And I fell for it. He made me feel…good. Anyway, after the break.. I told my ex that I still wanted to be with him, but I somehow still had feelings for the other guy. My ex came back from the place he was at, and I wanted to tell him. I TRULY wanted to tell him. But I wasn’t going to able to see him until like, the next week so I freaked. I couldn’t be with him knowing what I did, so I took the easy way out and broke up with him. Afterwards,I still tried to be friendly b/c I didn’t want to loose him as a friend, and I guess I came off too strong when he needed his space, so I gave it to him. ( I didn’t know about the NC rule :/) I backed off for the rest of the summer, and into the beginning of my senior year. For a month, during that time.. I kinda carried on a relationship with the other guy, and that didn’t work out very well, so it ended a few weeks before school started. No feelings left for him, whatsoever. I saw my ex at school, face to face, and we stood there for like 3 seconds and I didn’t know what to say,so I guess that’s why he walked away. I was very hurt, but what did I expect? So I did the same, and tried moving on, but inside I felt…so heart broken, even though I was the one that cheated. I tried talking to him and through text saying hey and I left him a text asking if there was a way I could fix things, and he never responded. That was a few days ago. Today was his birthday and I wished him one and he said, “Yeah, thanks” So… I’m not so sure what that means, I feel like..it isn’t good, but I said you’re welcome and asked how his day was going, no response so I left it at that. I’m just wondering if I should move on and let it go, or try and keep working at it.. b/c honestly… I don’t want to let him go. I’ve tried over the past… 3 months almost… and I cant. He knows so much about me, and I’ve told him things no one else in my life knows. He really does mean a lot to me. I still have A LOT of feelings for him. And I don’t know how to go about telling him about them. Should I tell him what I did? Should I keep trying? I don’t know what to do. I need help.

    1. admin

      September 16, 2013 at 3:45 am

      Well, I can’t make a decision like that for you.

      In the end I think you have to ask will this person be able to forgive me.

      So, how long exactly have you been in NC?

    2. Jade

      September 17, 2013 at 2:15 am

      Maybe….I’m not so sure if he can forgive me, I mean… I’m scared to tell him. I think that maybe I just will be making things worse…But then again, apart of me thinks that maybe he already knows, or he wouldn’t have been acting like this for no reason. As for the NC thing, after I broke up with him I tried to stay in contact. When I realized he wanted his space I backed off for the rest of the summer leading into the school year. So…July 15 was when I stopped talking to him, and I sent him that text last week..so it had been a month and a couple of weeks. He didn’t know at the time what I did. Now though, I don’t know what he knows. We spoke today IN PERSON for the first time in like 3 months and this is after the text asking if I could fix things and the wishing him happy birthday and all, and it went fairly well. Kinda. It was light talking about school and such. I didn’t bring up the texts, nor did I tell him what I did. Idk if that was a good or bad thing to do/not do. I don’t know if I should… keep trying or just.. wait for him to make the next move.. or just move on entirely…What do you think I should do now?

    3. admin

      September 18, 2013 at 2:48 am

      Well, I think you can move on and try to get him back at the same time with the NC so I highly recommend that to you.

  10. patricia

    September 13, 2013 at 8:08 am

    You know Chris,he said that if i had given him the time that he requested perhaps non of this new girlfriend would have occurred.He said that i pushed him to the new chick,now i ask myself if its to late to get him back after all the mistakes i have done.

    1. admin

      September 13, 2013 at 6:22 pm

      I think you give him space and anything can happen.

  11. patricia

    September 12, 2013 at 10:31 am

    I have been dating this guy for 3 years n last year in September i cheated at him with a colleague and i regret it everyday of my life because i didn’t love my colleague ,the thing is me and my boyfriend never had some quality time together because he was always taking of his family business and the only time when we had some time together was at night or when takes me to do my hair.I have tried explaining this for so many times but he doesn’t seem to understand.I give birth with his child this year in June and since then i have tried getting back with him but he doesn’t want too.Last week he told me that to stop calling him because he has a new girlfriend,and he won’t leave her for me.I really love him and i want to be with him.Please help me.

    1. admin

      September 13, 2013 at 3:51 am

      For now, give him his space. You can try a limited contact rule.

  12. Lorena

    September 11, 2013 at 9:44 pm

    This guy has been hitting on me for about a month, i always said no, i’m not cheating but a few days ago we went out and i got very drunk. It was not by drinking too much, it just hit me all of a sudden and can’t even remember getting home. Me and my now ex boyfriend live together, so when i got home i went to bed but the the guy (who is my friend’s friend) and my friend was still at my house. After a while he came into my room and kissed me. I don’t remember it too well and as soon as i realized what happened i pushed away, but not before kissing back and my boyfriend seeing. I would never think of doing this and ruining 3.5 years, i’ve never done it before and will never do it again. My ex is very angry and says he will never forgive me, wants to move out but needs a while to get himself together. I feel awful and cannot imagine life without him. I know alcohol is not an excuse but awake i would have never done this.i apologized, begged and all sorts millions of times, but with no use. I understand what he’s feeling, but i do not want to let him go. I want to prove that it was a mistake but he will not allow me. Please help, i am at the end of the rope.

    1. admin

      September 12, 2013 at 3:58 am

      Thats like straight out of a movie.

      Probably don’t get drunk again for a while and have you tried NC?

  13. Marta

    September 11, 2013 at 7:37 pm

    Hi Chris. I dated a guy for 6 years and broke up with him on february. “Technically” I didn´t cheat him, but i started flirting with one of my classmates who seemed to be much more in to me than what my boyfriend actually was. I felt so sorry for this, because he felt betrayed just the same, so i decided to broke up in order to not to hurt him anymore and so that we could think about our relantionship, and maybe fix it. We spent five months without talking, texting, etc, but this summer he phoned me and asked for a date. After that we kept on seeing each other quite often, he seemed to be really happy and in love with me, and i was really excited as well. But suddenly he told me he needed more time. There is this girl, that he has became really close to, and I started to feel very jealous, although he told me he liked me. So i stole his facebook password to check out whether he liked this girl or not. After that I felt so sorry (again), that I told him what had i did, because I felt I couldn´t go any longer keeping a secret from him. Obviously, he hasn´t talked to me again. He doesn´t even want to come with our friends when he knows I am going out with them. I know i have spoiled it, but there must be something i could still do! Do you think the no contact rule will work to get him back? Are there any other tips you could give me to sort this out? So sorry for my English, I am Spanish an I know i have lots of mistakes. I hope this all makes sense. thanks a lot!

    1. admin

      September 12, 2013 at 3:43 am

      NC rule is definitely the way to go. You might also want to check out Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO!

      And you didn’t cheat just flirted?

    2. Marta

      September 12, 2013 at 7:32 pm

      just flirted! but he was really upset! thanks for your advice!

    3. admin

      September 13, 2013 at 4:02 am

      How did it go?

    4. Marta

      September 15, 2013 at 12:47 pm

      well, it worked! he has already texted me! hahah

    5. admin

      September 16, 2013 at 4:06 am

      SWEETNESS!

    6. Marta

      September 14, 2013 at 2:06 pm

      well…one of my friends told me that he is spenidng a lot of time with this new girl, so i´m having a lot of trouble with the NC. It´s been just two days and i´m freaking out!

    7. admin

      September 15, 2013 at 1:38 am

      Two days and having trouble haha. Don’t worry it’s not uncommon. What are you worried about?

  14. Angelica

    September 11, 2013 at 7:47 am

    I cheated on my boyfriend a couple months ago. We were together for 5 years. I got a new job and was not getting any hours in at work so I had a lot of free time. My ex-boyfriend worked so much that I grew tired of just staying home alone. My so-called best friend started calling me more to go out to parties with her and I began staying out until 4 or 5 in the morning just at parties or getting food from the convenience store. I did apologize and he he told me to just be careful and to stop doing it. I told him if I stayed out later I would call to let him know where I was at who I was with etc. All this took two weeks until 4th of July night came around and he was working. I was out with my friends and went to my brothers for a cookout with my family. We were popping fireworks too. My ex-boyfriend texted me and asked if i was going to the firework show. I knew he was going to be mad but he was at work..I told him yes so he asked who I was going with. I told him and he was upset and he asked why was this certain guy there and I simply told him that he was with my sister which was completely true. He was trying to date her but my sister didn’t like him that way. We argued and then he asked me the most ridiculous question ever.He asked how it felt to cheat on him. I was pissed and decided to stupidly drink a lot. I was so offended that I just made it even worse that way. I drank until I didn’t remember anything. The reason why he thought I was cheating was because I was talking to this guy more and more because I was trying to help him win my sisters affection. He was so sweet at first. He would tell how much he liked her and I honestly felt bad. I wish my sister would have warned how he really was and what his motives were. I did grow comfortable around him because I began seeing him like a brother in a way..The night I cheated was with him unfortunately. I didn’t know what happened, everything was such a blur. He was already drunk at the party we were at and I was getting there. I was playing beer pong with him so I could see how it escalated. I lost complete control of myself. The party got busted so I remember leaving to the guys house I cheated on my ex with to his house with my sister my best and her guy friend. I needed to go to the bathroom to puke I was so drunk and sick I was stumbling everywhere. My best friend went with me but then left the bathroom to “get me water”. She never came back because she went to sleep with a guy that lived there too I soon found out. The guy I cheated with then came in and I was rinsing my face off and I told him to get out next thing I know we were sloppily making out I was telling to stop but its not all his fault. It was my fault for being there and getting drunk. My sister saw it happen my boyfriend asked my sister and she told him. I tried to explain that I didn’t cheat on him because I wanted to, I was trashed. It’s not an excuse but I loved him if i wanted to cheat on him I wouldn’t have done it while my sister was there in the first place. I would have been a lot smarter about it. We moved out of our apartment and I begged and begged him not to leave me. My next mistake was returning to the guys house and talking to him because I didn’t see it as a big deal because the way I saw it I didn’t cheat on him. I tried to ask the guy why did that happen and told him I thought you liked my sister I thought we were friends. He really couldn’t answer me. I should have stayed away I know but I was thinking. I was so wrong, and blind. I called him almost every night crying and texting him not giving him any space at all. Which pushed him away further.I mean he would still text me about once or twice a week to hang out so We were intimate about two weeks after we moved out and then about two weeks ago so he lead me on to believe that I still had a chance because if he could still be intimate with me he still loved me..it was so real and passionate. Almost two weeks later, he started seeing another girl. She even stays the night and hes only known her for a week now. Shes a year younger than I am So now Im confused he said he likes her. He said she makes him feel good because she talks to him. I suspected he was lying to me about something during this week because he’s just not good at lying. He’s usually really honest which is why I’m confused as to why he wouldn’t just tell me about it..I asked him a week before this girl if we still had a chance at being together and he said yes but he said he needed time to think and needed more space and that he wanted me to grow up and to get my stuff together because he wants someone who can take care of themselves. So why would he date someone younger? I’m about 21, He’s 23, That girl just turned 20. I’m confused and in need of some serious help because I still love him and want him back..I don’t know what to do. I’m afraid I lost him. Please help me..

    1. admin

      September 12, 2013 at 3:10 am

      Have you started NC yet?

    2. Angelica

      September 15, 2013 at 12:25 am

      So, you don’t really think he has moved on?

    3. admin

      September 16, 2013 at 3:37 am

      I think that, that remains to be seen to be honest.

      Only time has the correct answer.

    4. Angelica

      September 12, 2013 at 6:50 am

      No..

    5. Angelica

      September 12, 2013 at 6:51 am

      I mean yes but its only been four or five days. Has he really moved on? We have been broken for about two months..

    6. angelica

      September 13, 2013 at 9:03 am

      We dated for five years. He also just unfriended me on facebook. What should I do? I’m just really worried I might not have a chance.

    7. admin

      September 13, 2013 at 6:19 pm

      Tends to happen when you break up with someone. It’s no big deal it just means he is going through the breakup motions.

    8. admin

      September 13, 2013 at 3:39 am

      How long did you date?

      I doubt he has moved on fully.

  15. vida

    September 9, 2013 at 7:38 am

    i ve been wth my guy for one year and i cheated on him wth a friend who forced me to ve sex wth him.i couldnt tell my guy wen it happened but told him a week after
    now thgs are worse wth him. i know i did a mistake by not telling him.he is now down and blames me for everthg that happened
    i dont want him to leave please help me

    1. admin

      September 9, 2013 at 7:51 pm

      How does someone f*rce you to have sex with him? I am just curious.

      Go NC immediately.

  16. rosie

    September 7, 2013 at 1:13 am

    Hi..just want ur comment..if in the case was involved with cheating. How can we get our exboyfriend back if trust wil be the main issue, curiousity and things werent be the same..

    1. admin

      September 7, 2013 at 2:11 am

      The cheating party will have to regain the trust very slowly.

  17. Hannah

    September 5, 2013 at 6:27 pm

    Chris,
    I dated my boyfriend for two years. We dated our senior year in high school, attended the same college, and dated for most of our freshman year there. I cheated on him with a friend when I was drunk and told him the next day. We tried to rebuild something after that, but he couldn’t forgive me and broke up with me a month later. After that I did a lot of the things you explicitly said NOT to do in many of your posts, i.e. being a text gnat, begging for him back, flirting with other guys in front of him at parties (bad jealousy tactic), etc. When summer began I decided to give it some time and didn’t talk to him or hear from him for a month. Then I asked him to grab coffee and we’ve seen each other a few times since. Once again, I told him that I wanted to get back together, that I’d changed, and he said he didn’t want me back (he doesn’t know if he can ever forgive me), but he’d like to be friends as if we were acquaintances or neighbours. We head back to school in a couple of weeks. I’ll have to see him every other day because we have a class together. I have no idea where to go from here. Should I switch out of the class? What do I do when I see him around campus or at a party? And where the heck do I go from here?! Should I go back to the NC rule? We had coffee the other day and it went well.. but I don’t just want to be friends. Please help! Your website has some amazing tips, but I have no idea which ones to employ in this situation.
    Thanks for everything,
    Hannah

    1. admin

      September 6, 2013 at 2:24 am

      I would say try a limited contact rule. Meaning no contact at all except when you are forced to see him.

  18. akki

    September 5, 2013 at 1:36 pm

    i know u may call me crazy…i was in relation with my ex since 4 years..our country has problem with intercaste marriages..he had to marry a girl of his community forcibly..he didnt inform me as i had my exams that time..but when i got to kno abt this,i was completely shattered..i was in pain and was so heart broken that i got involved with a guy nd ended up sleeping with him many times..i did this to divert my mind..but soon i realised tht i made a huge mistake,i was still in love with my ex..i left this guy and after sometime i again got in contact with my ex..he still loved me, he had not even seen his wife’s face after marriage..we gradually got on a normal track..we decided tht he will take divorce nd then we could think of our future..but unluckily..tht old guy who i used startd blackmailing me..nd i had to tell evrything to my ex….and now he has started hating me, he doesnt even want to talk to me..he says he needs a time of 3-4 days..he is extremely angry with me..nd this is killing me..i’m dying to talk to him…i cant live without him and i want him back..i’m worried if he starts any relation with his wife..this could ruin everything we planned..i dont kno what to do…but i just want him back…please help me….please…

    1. admin

      September 6, 2013 at 2:13 am

      I am not sure I feel comfortable helping you get a married man…

    2. akki

      September 6, 2013 at 4:28 am

      i know it sounds weird…but we both love each other..will u still not help me? i want him back..i know we are doing wrong but in our country and in our communities marriages like ours are not allowed..even if he wasnt a married man..we had to fight for us to get married or to have a future(since its an intercaste marraige and we both are of anti-castes)..we had planned evrything….and i ruined it…if not help..then atleast advice me something..please….

    3. admin

      September 7, 2013 at 1:41 am

      Well, he is already married so I am not sure anything I can tell you will help.

  19. Aly

    September 5, 2013 at 6:29 am

    Ok so I cheated on my bf who I had been with for about 2 years and 4 months. I was out of town. Actually out of the country. I got really drunk one night and went to a club and my cousin’s bf asked me to dance. I, thinking nothing of it because he was my cousin’s bf, agreed. I thought nothing was going to happen and mid song he kisses me. I was shocked and I remember walking out of the club. I told my boyfriend the next day and he broke up with me. It’s been a month and he asked me to go to his house to talk. We talked and he kissed me. I have no clue on how to convince him to take me back. I know I messed up but how do I prove that I’m willing to try everything in my power. How can I convince him to give me another chance to prove it to him.

    1. admin

      September 6, 2013 at 1:48 am

      Question: when the guy kissed you did you have a chance to kind of say “GTF off me” or did it happen so fast you couldn’t react?

      For now I would stay in NC. Also, highly recommend you check out ex boyfriend recovery PRO

  20. jen woods

    September 2, 2013 at 12:06 am

    recently I have cheated on my partner of 4 years with a previous boyfriend/bestfriend. I have told my current partner everything but what now? HELP!!!

    1. admin

      September 2, 2013 at 2:47 am

      NC and give him A LOT of time.

    2. jen woods

      September 2, 2013 at 2:09 pm

      whats NC?

    3. admin

      September 3, 2013 at 2:59 am

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