How To Get Your Boyfriend Back If YOU Cheated On Him- Advice & Help

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Victoria

March 25, 2017 at 11:08 am

My ex and I broke up five months ago. I cheated and messed up several opportunities to fix it. We had broke up before that (because of cheating and everything) and were only together for three months before breaking up again (this time only because of trust issues)… Which is where I’m at now five months later. When we broke up the first time I bought EBR and tried no contact and during it he wanted me back so essentially I failed no contact because I broke it when that happened. When we broke up again it was because of trust issues. He’s always been super insecure and had trust issues way before I ever made the horrible mistake. So we both decided to breakup. Since then we still on talk every day and he even still tells me he loves me every day. Recently when we talked he said he still and always will love me and be attracted to me but he won’t be with me. He said he didn’t want to have to trust me anymore. Which is fair but I feel like I’ve grown. It was so stupid and I hate that everything happened. I know there’s nothing I can do but the thing is I don’t even think I have a chance anymore. I feel like this is as good as it can get with him. It sucks because it’s like a fwb but doesn’t feel like it but if I face facts it is. In his mind he’ll never commit again and why would he I mean this is all my fault. I hair don’t know what to do. Do I give up? Do I try again and try to win him back and show him I’ve matured? What do I do about our situation now. He’s still my best friend and there’s not a day where we don’t talk. He said he doesn’t want to see me with someone else but he can’t stop me but there’s no one else I even want to date. And for himself he says he never wants to date anyone else ever again because of the whole having to trust thing. Sorry this is so long I just don’t know who else to ask and I really could use some advice. Thanks.

EBR Team Member: Amor

March 26, 2017 at 1:15 pm

Hi Victoria,

try 45 days this time.. and then slolwy rebuild rapport..if it doesnt4 work later on, move on..

K

March 12, 2017 at 3:34 pm

I was in a 2 year long relationship. It began the spring of my senior year in high school and ended, just recently, in the spring of my 2nd year in college. We met as a hook up and then is flowered into the most amazing relationship both of us could have imagined. We loved each other whole heartedly but we were both so afraid of loosing one another that our communication suffered. The beginning of my college year I cheated on him. It would our school’s “wet day” where the campus was allowed to have alcohol on the premises after a period of a “dry week.” Being new and stupid and a college freshman girl, i went out to frat parties and found myself sleeping over at another guy’s dorm. We did not have sex but sleeping over with another guy is still very much cheating. I came clean to him after this happened. he was so hurt and he had every right to be, but somehow we gave me another chance and took me back later that night. he attributed it to the whole new college environment and from that point on i was a saint. I always “proved my innocence” to him by showing him my texts, my Facebook, and my snapchat (basically any form of social media). I never went out without him and i was always by his side. I was afraid to not be near him because i didn’t trust myself. This led to me becoming very dependent on him. We would do everything together. the only time we were apart was class and work. I got so attached. I loved him and the only time i was happy was when i was with him. This led to me being very anxious when i was not around him. i was scared that he never missed me and that he was having fun without me because he didn’t need me. I was so scared that he didn’t love me I had to make myself so relevant in his life that it got very unhealthy (if it wasn’t already unhealthy enough). 2 year past of us being constantly together. Then came the start of the spring semester 2017. He is in a fraternity (wouldn’t say they are the most popular frat since they are pretty dorky and nerdy), so they had spring rush coming along. Their numbers were dropping to the point where they knew they had to get more guys. My ex is a very introverted person so any social interactions, especially with people he does not know, is really stressful and tiring for him. That entire week i was not allowed that the fraternity and therefor i could not see him. The only time we spent together was at night when he came over to my apartment to sleep. By that time when i finally got to see him, he was exhausted. He is working this semester and has to get up at 6am and work till 3pm and then for that week he had to socialize with guy he didn’t know. He was stressed beyond belief. At the end of the rush week i was so happy that i could finally go back to the building and talk with all the friends i had there and that i could finally spend time with him again. At the end of rush i immediately went over because i was so excited to see him. He then broke up with me. I was devastated. I begged him to take me back. He said he wouldn’t. I begged him to spend one more night with me and he did out the respect for me. The next morning he left early. He said he had to meet contractors at the frat house. I cried a lot and begged him again to take me back. He said his mind was made up and he left. I texted him asking if he could take me home (i only live a few minutes away from my parents home) but i found out that he was drunk, and that campus was “wet” again, after all rush was over. This hurt more than ever. If felt like all he wanted to do was break up with me so he could go get shit-faced. I found my own way home and cried to my mom. I told her that all i wanted was to have him back in my life. It seemed like 2 year meant nothing to him. I texted him asking if we could talk that night. He agreed. My mom drove me back to campus where he and i talked about our relationship and what he wanted me to do differently. He said he was unhappy and that he felt “whipped” in the past. He said that I was asking too much of him and that i wasn’t independent. I asked him if i could try to be different for him and to make him happy again. he agreed to a week love “grace period” where we would try a new type of relationship where i wouldn’t ask anything of him and he would just do whatever he wanted to be happy. That week he played video games, watched movies with his fraternity, and did whatever he want. I asked nothing of him and i mainly just sat in his room while he did what he did. That week was miserable for me. I felt that i couldn’t say i was unhappy because i was too scared of loosing him again. I was scared that he was think i was being too needy or too dependent. I knew that loosing him was so much worse than how i felt in the time and i thought that this was just a phase and it would pass and i would be happy again with him in time. After about two weeks of my compliance, we went out of town for the weekend. I didn’t want him to leave because i knew i would miss him terribly but i was, again, too afraid to ask him to stay. he knew and i knew that asking him to stay would make him upset. So that friday night i went out with a girlfriend. i just needed to pass the time until he got back so i believed that going out with a friend would do it. Because i had been so dependent on my ex in the past, i never went to parties or anything social other then event with him. This has caused me to have no other friends. So you could expect that at parties i mainly stood in the corner, pretty lonely. Thats when i ran into the other guy, H. I had seen him before and we were acquaintence at best. My girlfriend that i went out with in the first place met some other girls and they ran off together. I was leaving the party because that’s exactly what i knew i should do. That when H decided to invite me back to his and his roommates apartment in this giant group of people. i believe that since i missed my ex so much that this would pass the time even more until he got back. So against my best judgement, i went with the giant group. After some more time standing in the corner alone, i found myself alone with H in his apartment, the entire giant group left pretty quickly. I knew that this was the point where i needed to leave. But some awful and terrible part of my character said to me that my ex didn’t love me and that he was having so much fun without me and he was better off for it. So i asked H back to my apartment where he slept over. No sex but we did kiss. It was cheating. I had cheated twice on the man that i loved. After that i knew i had to break up with my ex. I thought that this was me trying to get out of the relationship. I wanted this breakup to be on my terms and i wanted to do it since i felt so out of control the last time it happened. So I broke up with my ex that following tuesday. Between that friday and that tuesday though i alternated who i slept with, my ex and H. I thought that my ex wanted space and wanted to sleep alone but i couldn’t bring myself to sleep alone so i invited H over those nights. I feel so horrible about this alternating guys. it disgusts me to even think about it. My emotionally loneliness was killing me and i didn’t have enough self control to stop it. After i broke up with alex on that tuesday, i invited H over and we had sex. It was so awful and i felt so horrible about it. i felt so unwanted and undesirable that i felt like i needed someone to want me, anybody. I found out later that he only wanted my body because i am on the dance team at my school and he wanted to fuck someone on the team before college ended. All of this time i kept thinking about my ex and how much i missed him and the relationship. I knew i still loved him and i knew that i wanted him back. He is my everything and i truly believe that he is the love of my life. After a week of being separated from the relationship i came crawling back to him. He took me back and i was so happy. The next day i was leaving for a dance team even that would last all week. So i left my ex knowing that we were going to try again with the relationship that we both loved. That week away from him gave me time to reflect on myself and my actions. I knew i had to tell him everything when i got back. So i did. I came completely clean. He was heart-broken. I had betrayed him and lost his trust. He said he can never look at me the same way again and that the relationship was over. Ive never felt so bad in my life. Hurting him was the worst feeling in the world and seeing him grieve and cry was so utterly painful. I couldn’t believe that i could do this to the only person in the world that i cared about. I cheated on him twice. the first time i didn’t learn my lesson. I didn’t take the necessary steps to become better for it. this time i want to do things differently. i want to be a better person, the type of person who doesn’t cheat and lie. I want to respect the relationship, him, and myself. i want to be the person he can love again.

After a week of no contact and being on my own my ex texted me. Their fraternity was throwing a party that night and he was thinking about the relationship a lot. Whenever there was a party at his fraternity we had always done that together. We would spend all night talking or dancing together so he was reminded of these times. He texted me asking to see me because he was feeling scared and anxious. I was home that night because i knew i didn’t want to be near any parties or loud music. I just wanted a quiet night. But i replied to him and came back to campus for him to comfort him. I broke the no contact rule. We spent that night together and then we went to the park the next day for a walk. That night and the day seemed so normal. Everything was familiar and it seemed comfortable. We were holding hands and talking and laughing. I expected that he was healing and we were going to work through this. But in the end he said we were still broken up and that he still can’t trust me. In hind sight i knew i shouldn’t have broken the rule. I thought that this was the day that everything would go back to the way it was. I know i was foolish and naive. I don’t want think that i ruined any chances i have left to get him back.

Please guide me and tell me what to do. I am willing to go the extra mile and more to get him back and moreover, make a life long relationship with the love of my life.

EBR Team Member: Amor

March 15, 2017 at 8:27 am

Hi K,

are you ready to restart no contact and to follow the advice above? Because what I want to say is what’s mentioned above too.. check this one too:
Fix Your Relationship If You Cheated On Your Ex Boyfriend Before Its Too Late (Video)

Kristen

March 10, 2017 at 12:37 am

I was dating this amazing guy. We broke up due to some complications we where living together. Recently I was seeing another guy whIle living with my ex. He found out i was seeing someone else and is very hurt. We are not even really speaking because he is so upset with me. But here is the catch. I am pregnant with his child and I do not no what to do. I want him in my life and I want him to be apart of our child’s life. What do i do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

March 10, 2017 at 8:43 am

Hi Kristen,

does he know? Are you still living together? If yes, do you have plans of getting your own place? Aside from the advice above, check this one too:
Here’s How To Get Your “Baby Daddy” Back

Shruti

March 7, 2017 at 6:44 am

Hi,

I had dated my boyfriend for 7 years, I loved him deeply but I cheated on him with some one else when we were in a long distance relationship in the 7th year.

For two months I did not confess the truth to him which was killing me, I was indecisive about who to go for. But I finally confessed the truth to my bf and he wanted to take me back in a minute. He loves me truly.

I was still indecisive, because I felt I couldn’t. Have cheated on him if I loved him and I was increasingly convinced I loved the guy I cheated on with.

After initially being there for him in his pain, I blocked him every where for three months, and i started dating the other guy whom i cheated on with.

But after the three months, I started missing my ex bf a lot, it was immense even the new bf wasn’t around..I only thought of my ex bf all the time

Then I told my current bf I’ve still not moved on from my ex bf and I wanted to remain only friends with him till I move on completely.

He agreed, and I started talking to my ex bf occasionally over a period of an year.. And I started developing emotions for him again

Now I want to go back to my ex bf, but I’m not sure if it is love or just the memories that I miss.. The guy i cheated on with wants me to be with him because he loves me truly and has waited for me to move on and now cannot take it that I want to go back to my ex.

What do I do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

March 10, 2017 at 10:06 am

Hi Shruti,

take time apart from both of them.. reflect..if you still want to go back on your 7 year ex, follow the advice above.

Mona Singh

February 12, 2017 at 5:42 pm

Hey Hello, My name is Mona and I hail from India. I just came across your blog and found it interesting… The thing is I always believed that relationships work wonders when two parties communicate in clear sense.. Wow! That’s cool but somewhere I guess people like you can somewhat provide a direction in finding our hidden answers within us. I will start with my part of story. Since, the last four years I have been in a relationship with a guy who unfortunately happened to be my first cousin… This is a serious point I am telling you In a country like India where parents are suppose to be hyper society conscious, I know my parents I know they wont ever accept us if we get hitched together.. Lots of issues.. I wont elaborate.. Point is very clear I wont elaborate.. Now the thing is fr d first two years our love life was in the air.. But things have changed frm the third year..something happened and I realized thar we need to part ways as there is no foreseeable future wd him… So I tried very hard without him being hurt to break up wd him… The more I decided, the more I failed as because he had always been standing wd me thru every up and downs and his care is just the best… So I think for my selfish or self satisfaction but not part ways wd him…morever, i found him a kind of guy..in short not my type.. Simplest eg, m a party girl n he hates that..Then I realized that m not in love wd him anymore but not having the guts… I slept around, in the midway, I fell in love wd two guys – one NRI other a paranoid guy..(names i dont feel like mentiong)who ditched me so hard, whn I was in love wd d another guy, I was still into the relationship wd this cousin boyfnd of mind, so this nri guy happen to leave me for no reason, I have tried hard to make him come back to my life….nope, didnt work… Meanwhile, I again fell in deep dark love wd the paranoid guy, then n there I got the guts n i went to this cousin bf and spitted to him ‘I m not happy, i want to end up these relatnshp, m seeing another guy n moreover all those things that I had hidden frm u is that I had been drinking and smoking all the while. .so I guess we need to part’ after getting this shitty reply frm me… He was desperately hurt n made him way hardr to live … I still contact him you know what we say here is… Console or showing sympathy… On the othr while, yes this paranoid guy I found this guy n I lovd the way he expresses his love towards me n the same way i reciprocated….love is everywhr nt jus air.. I kinna felt like i hd nvr been in love with someone so much as this guy..nw wd time things took out to be nightmare, while love was in the bliss, i found he had become totally turned off from me n finally he left.. I cried n cried n d pain was just miserable.. I can relate to d pain that my cousin bf was suffering from whn i left him.. I think I had very well achievd the fruit of my karma.. Now, the point is this cousin bf still longs fr me n want me back… I have confessed to him evrythng …still his arms are open even today.. I asked my mind, I thought a lot.. I cant get back to this guy due to guilty consciousness on one hand and morever, if i return to him back, a clueless future… Morever, if I happen to return to him again, Again The girl in me.. Like a girl living in her own terms indepndnt n undisturbd would fall in this relatnshp again n then independence buried … Now, I decided that Let me just be friends wd him, But wd time it also seemed hard for me… The othr day we went to a temple.. I saw him offerring prayers , i stared at him… And m so shockd n surprised out of nowhr silent tears rolled from my eyes n out of nowhere, A song came to my head, it goes like this ‘tujhme rab dikhta hai yaara mai kya kaaru’ which means ‘Tell me friend, what should I do , I am seeing God in you!’ … Just believe, I became so perplexd, I just told him that , you know all these cheezy stuffs that had happend to me, U knw, if they hadnt had happen, I would have never understood the value of love You have for me’ he just smiled n we returned home while on the way I kept my head over his shoulders to find an answr’ Do I still love him? Do I get back to him? Will he be able toaccept me like the way the girl m now ?’ I think I just want to love him, love him but wdout relationship ties, may be like a relationship that has no chain… He expresses whneva he misses me n d way he loves me n its me here confusd n perplexd, i too wanted to tell him back but Now even I had lost faith in me I think how can I give faith of my love to someone. Hope you provide to me a direction.. Thanks..love to get back from you.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 13, 2017 at 11:13 pm

Hi Mona,

Sorry, Im confused..Who did you saw in the temple? Your cousin or the other guy? And with your cousin, is it taboo in your culture to date him?

harshita

February 8, 2017 at 3:41 pm

Hi,
I cheated on my boyfriend a few days ago. And I told him the truth later on. He is way too hurt and angry and says that he can’t trust me anymore. I seriously love him a lot but he doesn’t seems to believe me. We are together but he is evidently hurt and has changed the way he treats me. What should I do? Please help

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 8, 2017 at 5:49 pm

Hi Harshita,

Do you want to try the advice above?

vindz

February 2, 2017 at 3:37 am

hi….. I don’t knw from whr to start my story….. I was 18 when I found a guy on fb…. we became friends and soon without knowing much abt him got committed… tat guy was a Playboy…. I’m a simple girl….I value relationships a lot so to keep up that I was forced to make love with him…. but soon his negligence n his other touch ups with other girls made it impossible to stay with him…. I got sure it was not love at all…. then after I found a guy in my class…. I unexceptedly fell in love with him. he is really a very pure n loves me unconditionally. I loved him n he loved me even more…. everything was perfect but then my ex came to spoil everything. I had to tell my bf abt my past which I had hidden from him n that was my biggest mistake…. after that v r still together still in love but not the same love…. he no more trusts me….. he cares for me but doesn’t trust me…… can do anything for me except trusting me…. Plz help me to get back his trust… I love him n he is my only love….

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 2, 2017 at 7:29 pm

Hi Vindz
you broke his trust because you have an ex boyfriend?

Stacey

January 31, 2017 at 11:23 am

i was broken up with because he was too busy at uni to spend time with me, i then told him that i cheated and he said he doesnt know if he loves me anymore and he doubts we will ever be together again, what should i do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 31, 2017 at 4:24 pm

Hi Stacey,

did you really cheat? Do you want to try the advice above?

Tin

January 30, 2017 at 12:52 pm

Hi! I just want to ask. Because as for my situation we’re currently living together as we’re working overseas and due to some financial problems we can’t separate as it’ll be cheaper for us to stay together in one flat; so the 30 days rule doesn’t seem to apply to us. I know i’ve done him wrong for giving up and making out with another guy. the reasons stated above are all true. But i realized that i still want him back.

I actually planned a short getaway for the two of us but he don’t know where we’re going. It’s going to be my birthday celebration in another country and he agreed to come with me. But i recently found out that he is flirting with so many girls and he keeps denying it even if i saw the msgs on his fone.

Do you think it’ll be worth it to still fight for it? Or any other advice?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 30, 2017 at 3:21 pm

Hi Tin,
check this one:
EBR 027: What To Do If You Live With Your Ex Boyfriend

Kendi

January 27, 2017 at 6:37 pm

Hi
I have a guy friend who commented something very disturbing and i wanna confirm if it’s true(hope it’s not ).He said that,if i cheated on my ex with his friend and he accepts me back,it means that my ex is a fuck boy. Is that really true?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 28, 2017 at 9:49 am

Hi Kendi,

not at all cases…that’s generalization..

lily

January 27, 2017 at 1:57 pm

Hi, I cheated on my boyfriend but I was so intoxicated to the point I don’t remember. I was sending guys messages (who I don’t even know it was on social media) and they say I sent inappropriate pictures when I didn’t. His family got involved and we both want to work this out but our families are too heavily involved. I’ve apologized and he supposedly forgave me and it’s gotten so bad to the point of where my well being is Screwed to the point of where I ended up in the hospital. I feel so bad because I would never do anything like this to him, I love him so much and I can’t believe I did that to him. He was my everything and we had plans for the future. He says he still wants to talk work it out but in time we will. I beat myself up everyday because of this because I lost someone who I truly care for and love and I just hate myself. He wasy first everything and it just pains me because I don’t want to see other people. The thought of being with someone else and them seeing the deepest parts of me makes me feel uncomfortable because I don’t want to open up to anyone else but him. I know what I did was a mistake and I heavily regret it but I just wish we could work this out faster.

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 28, 2017 at 3:46 am

Hi Lily,

do you want to try the advice above?

Jazz

January 27, 2017 at 1:28 am

I had a bf n i cheated him by having a another bf bcz i thought that he dnt love me bt he actually did n i realized it now n i want him back i really love him but he absuse’s me by saying prostitute so how can i get him back? Plz rply fast plzzz

Amna

September 22, 2017 at 10:09 am

Hello actually I brokeup with my boyfriend 3 days back we were in relation since 2 years we met only 4 times cuz I live in Malaysia and he is in Pakistan we managed two years very nicely but also had 2 or 3 times relation breaks cuz of family I did not actually cheated on him but it’s kinda similar actually since he was not online 3 days back so I got worried I contacted is freind and the freind told me that I will spend a day with him and then will let u knw about him at night I was like ok then at night when he msgd me I mean the freind he was like I have found out a lot things about him and u should knw I was like ok then tell he was no u hav to give me something in return he told me t send my nudes to him I ignored him forced he kept on doing that for so long then afterlife I got agreed and did a video and he told my be abt that
EBR Team Member: Amor

September 27, 2017 at 5:42 pm

Hi Anna,

just give him time.. maybe a week to cool down..
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 27, 2017 at 11:59 am

Hi Jazz,

are you going to do the advice above?

Ayushi

January 22, 2017 at 1:35 pm

Hey, I read the articles. I read the advice which Chris gave. In the article he’s asking to do no contact for 30 days. But we both are in same company. He wants to move in with me. He loves me for sure but not ready to forgive me or give me a chance. In this case what should I do ?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 23, 2017 at 2:32 pm

Hi Ayushi,

he wants to move in with you? You mwan you’re still together?

Jazz

January 20, 2017 at 4:01 am

Hi.
Recently I cheated on my boyfriend (a week ago). The guy kissed me and I pushed him away but it seemed so much more than that between my texts and the other guys texts. I was asleep with my boyfriend on Saturday night the night after it happened when he woke up and got a random urge to go through my messages. I’ve hurt him so so much and I really don’t know how to get him back. He said to me that I’ve damaged him too much and I f*cked him up way too much, that he isn’t going to come back. We’ve been going out for a year and 15days (it ended on Jan 15 2017) and our relationship has been very rocky. I have been put into bad positions where other guys have kissed me, and I just cried and held my boyfriend and told him I was sorry and that it wouldn’t happen again…but it did. I really need help with this as I’m falling apart without him. He’s my love, my world and my everything and I really need him. But he won’t trust me or take me back after so many times. Please help because he means the most to me and I would do anything for him. If I could take back what happened, I would, but I can’t and I have to live with that now. So PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I’ve tried some of the steps above, but they aren’t working…

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 21, 2017 at 3:08 pm

Hi Jazz,

how did you try it? What did you do? because you said you broke up just last January 15..

Lisa mak

January 16, 2017 at 4:22 pm

Hi!so I ve been with my boyfriend for a year and 7months and no long ago I consciously cheated on him and he found it out by tracking my messages..obviously he broke up with me and I give him the right to do so because I know how bad he is hurt…most certainly I love him and I don’t wanna lose him but on the other hand I really don’t know what to do.because he is definitely not talking to me…I need some helps

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 16, 2017 at 9:03 pm

Hi Lisa,

do you want to try the advice above?

Ayushi

January 16, 2017 at 8:55 am

Hello,
My boyfriend of 4 years brokeup with me because I cheated on him. No, I didn’t sleep with anyone. I was not in another relationship. I was friends with the guy whom my boyfriend hated the most. My guy told me to stay away from that person but I lied to him and still kept friendship with this guy. And last week my boyfriend got to know about our secret friendship and brokeup with me saying that I gave more importance to that person than my bf.
We (I and my boyfriend) are still talking. We are planning to move in together next month. I know he loved me so much and I hurted him so bad by lying to him. I’m feeling guilty that I tried to end up my life. I’m very well aware that I did wrong to him. I also have anger issues. I used to yell on him over small things but always been supportive. He left his family to be with me. And I’m so stupid that I hurted him so so so bad.
I said sorry like thousand times but he thinks that I won’t change and I will hurt him again.
I hurted him alot before on small things but this one kinda big.
I really have no idea that whether he’ll take me back or no. What should I do to convince him. I feel ashamed asking for a chance. I really love him and want him to take me back.
What should I do? please help.

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 16, 2017 at 5:44 pm

Hi Ayushi,

In the articles that you’ve posted and read, do you want the advice Chris gave?

Ayushi

January 15, 2017 at 8:29 pm

Hello,
My boyfriend of 4 years brokeup with me because I cheated on him. No, I didn’t sleep with anyone. I was not in another relationship. I was friends with the guy whom my boyfriend hated the most. My guy told me to stay away from that person but I lied to him and still kept friendship with this guy. And last week my boyfriend got to know about our secret friendship and brokeup with me saying that I gave more importance to that person than my bf.
We are still talking. We are planning to move in together next month. I know he loved me so much and I hurted him so bad by lying to him. I’m feeling guilty that I tried to end up my life. I said sorry like thousand times but he thinks that I won’t change and I will hurt him again.
I hurted him alot before on small things but this one kinda big.
I really have no idea that whether he’ll take me back or no. What should I do to convince him. I feel ashamed asking for a chance.
What should I do? please help.

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 16, 2017 at 5:44 pm

Hi Ayushi,

In the articles that you’ve posted and read, do you want the advice Chris gave?

Emma

January 15, 2017 at 12:53 pm

Hi! So I cheated on my boyfriend with one of my friends. We were on a trip with the entire group of friends and I got so hammered I don’t even remember making out with him. I told my boyfriend immediately the next day when my friends told me about the accident and he was obviously very hurt. Now we’re two weeks down the road and it’s been very difficult. He doesn’t really know what to do and because of this, I don’t really know how to behave. I’ve been texting him but I’m having the feeling he doesn’t really want me to do so. He’s not sure if he wants to break up or not so I’m kinda left here waiting for him to decide, which is hard for me as well because I’ve got no idea what to expect. Should I not contact him for some time? Any advice or tips? because at this point I have no clue what to do.

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 15, 2017 at 6:54 pm

Hi Emma,

do you want to try the advice above? And check this one too:
Fix Your Relationship If You Cheated On Your Ex Boyfriend Before Its Too Late (Video)

rose

January 14, 2017 at 7:01 am

Hi again
So is this guy worth trying to have back?I really love him but I’m confused still. Can he change how he sees me?I want him to not see me as his fwb but his girlfriend.I’m afraid that even after no contact rule he might still not want me to be his girl.What should i do?

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 14, 2017 at 4:20 pm

Hi Rose,
you have to be willing to lose him.. Set standards.. What you allow, is what will happen to you. So, if a person is not treating you according to your standards, then let that person go

rose

January 13, 2017 at 2:58 pm

Hi
I need help please. I have dated my ex for 5 months. We broke up 4 months ago because he found out i cheated on him with his friend.Since then he changed.We have argued so many times and we’ve been having sex since then and i thought it would bring him back. He only texted when he wanted sex and it made me uncomfortable because the other times he would ignore me.I turned into a text gnat for the four months because i wanted to prove myself to him and that i have changed .I felt like he was using me and after i told him how i felt, he said he wasn’t using me. He always seems to be interested in sex but after going silent on him for five days he texted me saying he thinks of me and he wants us to be good friends.He told me i should know boundaries and change on that.It’s as if he is giving me hopes but I told him if he won’t commit i won’t be his friend or have sex with him. I’m currently doing no contact on him and I’m only on the third day of it but I’m not sure he will come back. He has hurt me so many times and he has told me to move on and get a guy but I’m not ready to love anyone. I love him so much. He unblocked me on whatsapp but now that I’m on no contact i decided to delete his number. What should i do?I am going to follow the advice given but I’m not sure he loves me.Concidering he told me he’ll never change his mind about dating me yet he is friendly.

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 13, 2017 at 5:01 pm

Hi Rose,

he’s friendly because you were friends with benefits.. start healing and improving..Check this:
EBR 060: “Dating Yourself” During No Contact With Veronica Grant

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