156 thoughts on “How To Get Your Ex Back When You Have A Child With Them”

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   Shelly

   October 13, 2017 at 2:17 am

   My Ex & I always had problems & he was always mean to me. When I got pregnant he was great but had his off days. After I had my baby he went back to being terrible. He was mean to me in public & would walk out if we argued & would leave for a day then a few days but he would stop by to visit his son after work but left to go back to his parents. Days turned into weeks & eventually a month or longer. Now he’s gone after a huge fight. His mother has been so mean to me even getting in my face in my home with my baby in the same room & he said nothing to her. I think he has other things going on but he is convinced I’m the problem when I’ve done everything to fix things with everyone. We are going to court at some point but he’s playing games & always tries to use our child to get to me. He wants to visit whenever he wants but weekends he’s always a jerk & takes off fast. If I don’t let him come by he says I’m keeping him from his kid so when I say he can he comes & is a jerk sometimes. I wish things would change & he would wake up & realize what he’s doing & losing but he seems to think it’s a joke & laughs at things that have happened. I ignored him for a few days & he flipped out. I want him to be the one upset about what he’s losing & I can’t seem to get that to happen. He acts mean rude heartless & lies about everything. I need help

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   October 13, 2017 at 7:04 pm

   Hi Shelly,

   You can’t control other people.. That’s why you need to have standards..The more you want them to change for you, the more you’re giving power over to them.. Let him be a father to your child but stop expecting him to change..Move on.. Focus in yourself and in your life on how you can improve yourself for your child and mostly for yourself…

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   Ivette Jennys Lopez

   August 26, 2017 at 1:54 pm

   I cheated on my ex about 2 nights ago. He said he was done and didn’t want to be with me anymore. Called me every name in the book. Yesterday I went over to explain to him that it wasn’t what he thinks although I know that cheating is cheating in the end of the day. He says he’s hurt and shattered and doesn’t want me… It started raining so I told him to get in the car and he did but sat in the backseat. We have 3 kids so the doors are childproof.. Long story short in the end I made my way to him and I hugged him and told him I was truly sorry and for him to give me another chance. He said no but eventually he came around and told me he needs his space and needs to think about it because I hurted him so bad. I’m not sure if he said that just so I can get off his back or if he really means it. We been together for 4 years and I miss him terribly. Please help!!!!!

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   August 27, 2017 at 12:55 pm

   HI Ivette,

   check this one:
   Fix Your Relationship If You Cheated On Your Ex Boyfriend Before Its Too Late (Video)

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   DeeDee

   August 8, 2017 at 10:51 pm

   I just have a question, my ex and I were together for over 2 years we had a little argument and had not spoken for about 2 weeks almost. During that time I found out that I was pregnant. I didn’t want to ruin his birthday so I waited to tell him. When I did he was not happy at all then we got into a huge argument about him not wanting the baby and I did want the baby. We would talk for hours debating this until he finally stopped calling me because I told him I was keeping the baby. I haven’t spoken with him since and he deleted me off of all social media so I don’t know whats going on with him. I lost the baby back in May but was feeling so sad that I did not tell him until last week. I got no response from him when I sent this to him but I know I’m not blocked on his phone because I called him the next day just to make sure but he didn’t answer. Still nothing from him. How would I handle this situation?

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   August 9, 2017 at 3:54 pm

   For me you should move on.. but if you’re not ready yet, the least you can do is start a 45 day nc after this.

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   Travis Patterson

   August 3, 2017 at 6:16 pm

   My ex gf left me. We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter with her. Are these strategies for both men and women? I see her everyday. I want nothing more than to get her back. We have been on again off again for the last two years. She has a imaginary wall built that everytime we get close she pulls away again. I always feel like I am going to be replaced. She tells me she has no feelings for me but I always think there is some there that she just covers up. About two months ago I hurt her feelings real bad. After that I realized that I want nothing more but to get her back.

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   August 6, 2017 at 5:48 am

   Hi Travis,

   Yes, you can use the advice above too