How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back If He Has A Girlfriend V. 2.0

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Rachel

May 1, 2015 at 9:14 pm

My ex and I have know eachother from middle school. Every year since 8th grade he asked me to be his girlfriend and every year I said no till senior year. I don’t date much and wasn’t ready till senior year. We dated and we’re happy. We split due to going to different colleges. He is not a person that can do long distance. So for about nine months we were practically in a long distance relationship just wouldn’t call it one. Until one night I went to visit and he saw me cry. From then on he started to pull away. We spoke everyday after he saw me cry and he was sweet. But I think he was shutting off his feelings toward me in that way. I put all my feelings out there one day and he said that he had moved on. He said after he saw me cry he knew we could t be a thing anymore. I stopped speaking to him and that was about a week ago. The night he saw me cry was about four months ago What I didn’t get is two weeks before he told me he had already moved (which was a week ago) on he said that I was still special to him in that way. But now he says I’m still special to him just not in a dating kind of way. I asked him about it but he never answered he stopped texting me and got mad when I said that he had stopped fighting for me that he had given up on me. It’s only been about a week since we stopped talking. He is not in a relationship right now but I think him and a girl are getting close to one another. I still have not said a word to him. I may be moving closer to him in about a year but I fear that by then there will be no hope. I don’t know if every couple of months I should remind him of me or what. I know my chances are low but I’m willing to fight for him. He was mind kind of perfect. He made me want to be a better person. He was Always encouraging me to do the things I wanted. Answering my never ending questions. If we were to have failed because we weren’t right for one another I would walk away. But I know if we hadn’t moved away from one another that we would still be together. I feel like if I got a chance I could make him fall in love with me again. I
Just afraid a year is too much. If you could give any advice that would be great.
Jen-Jen

April 28, 2015 at 11:14 pm

Sorry if this a duplicate comment, it doesn’t look like it went through the first time.
4 1/2 mos since breakup. Been very slow but positive progress w/ last 3 mos, on the phone call stage. He’s had a gf the last 3 mos, but she never worried me. I’m way better looking & she’s very insecure, which I know he hates. They got into a fight about him talking to me & now he’s completely ignoring my texts & calls. I only texted twice & called once a few days apart, but it’s been over a week w/ no response. I’m confident he’ll reach out again, but slighty worried that he took her side over me. Do I start NC over again or shortened NC?
Jen-Jen

April 26, 2015 at 10:34 pm

4 1/2 mos since breakup. Last 3 mos have been slow progress, but we were at phone call stage & he was doing most of the chasing. He’s had a gf this entire time, but I was never too worried about her, I’m way better looking, we share an amazing connection & she’s totally insecure, which I know he hates. They got in a fight & now he’s ignoring my texts. I sent 1 w/ no response, waited few days & sent 1 more, so no response for a week now. So at the moment he’s choosing her over me. Not good I know….but w/ the progress I made, how long should I go back into NC?

Jen-Jen

May 3, 2015 at 4:14 pm

Did over a week of NC, sent a text & no response. Been over 2 weeks now since we talked.
Chris Seiter

April 30, 2015 at 4:49 pm

Try a week!

avi

April 23, 2015 at 9:21 am

after 30 days NC, i spewed out my feelings and went emotional. so i waited 2 weeks to retry texting her again. the first response i didnt get a reply, i waited another week and i got a few neutral ones. then i didnt get another one. on social media i posted a picture of me at the hospital from overworking and passing out from not eating… the next day i got a response of asking if i was okay and i told her. should i try no contact again or should i just continue to try and talk to her more?
A

April 16, 2015 at 4:10 pm

My story is pretty messy, and Im sure you will tell me to move on from him, which Im trying to do. I’m here more about understanding him as a person. We dated 1.5 years long distance. About 5 months in, I found out he was seeing AND sleeping with other women, though we claimed to be exclusive. Flag one. I broke up with him and sent him home. He aggressively sent tons of texts and calls apologizing, that he loved me, and would never do this again. About a month later I gave in(excusing it for early stages in the grey area of a long distance relationship). He had a problem drinking alot, being out with his single buddies getting wasted at the bars. I find that inappropriate when you’re in committed relationship. Flag two. I eventually moved in with him, and that’s where I got to witness what his life was really like. I basically became the caretaker of everything. He didn’t have a car, so I lent him mine. I ran the home while he ran the bars. A year into living together I found his old broken phone, and I found texts to his friends about a girl he spent a couple nights with in a hotel, picture included, right after he got back from me taking him on a birthday road trip. He denied it, but the proof was the. Anger rising. This happened for months after our five month break up!! So obviously he didn’t learn his lesson when I first caught him.
The resentment in me is building now, one year living with him. Other females are texting him, I confront them. They go away but say I should be worried about my bf, not them. He still drinks and bar hops, leaves me home at nights. The fighting starts. I don’t make enough money to live on my own, I have pets, poor credit, and moved to his town. I’m stuck. I’m angry. Then comes…the drugs. I’m not educated on coke so I am not aware of when someone is on it. But after speaking to some close friends they were surprised I didn’t know. Its not occasional, it’s all the time, while heavily intoxicated, half the week. I’m left at home, we fight incessantly because I was so upset. Tired of being rejected, being alone. Then the worst part. Another woman. She is aware of me, aware of his addiction and starts sleeping with him. She is 19, her and her friends drink and do drugs. He is 39!!! They have been sneaking around for four months! She says he has been talking to her for 8!!! He denied everything. We fought like enemies. He chose her, he moved me out. I rent a room until next month when I move back home.
It’s been six weeks since I moved out. He still calls and texts. Im very angry and hurt. We still fight. I told him I’m moving home and he asks why I would do that. ??? He says he never wants another relationship. He doesn’t want to be controlled. Ive grown codependent because of his problems sms taking care of him. He says she means nothing, but im sure she thinks otherwise. He tells me I was the best girlfriend he ever had, but look what he has done. I told him to clean up, he promised to, but hasn’t. He said he stopped seeing her, but I’m sure he hasn’t. Im dealing with two selfish people here.
I ignore him, he sends sad texts, blows me up. Wants to be friends!!! I tell him no way. Drug addiction, alcoholism, infidelity, I got the worst kind of guy. 3.5 years wasted on someone who wad never real to begin with. Maybe you can write a new article on the darker side of relationships? I don’t want him back, I want someone good!!!
Slightly Confused

April 15, 2015 at 8:06 am

What would you suggest doing if you successfully completed NC for 40 days, reinitiate contact where he’s friendly but then find out he’s dating someone new. I read your article about the no contact and that? Shall I restart it? I got kind of angry when I found out about the new girl and cut all contact from the LDR. Appreciate your thoughts 🙂

Chris Seiter

April 16, 2015 at 3:47 pm

Did you showcase your anger to him after you found out?

Lala

April 10, 2015 at 2:25 am

Hi Chris, I like your new website design, it’s cool. But I think it’s better if you put the newest comments on the first pages because it’s kinda crazy to hit ‘newer comments’ millions times to get to the newest one lol. Except for that, everything is perfect 😉

Chris Seiter

April 16, 2015 at 4:40 pm

I fixed it!

A.

April 6, 2015 at 11:06 pm

We broke up about a year ago and have been on and off since because I kept failing at NC. Anyways, he told me yesterday that he was seeing someone but he wasn’t planning on dating her anymore, and he told me to try to date this new guy again (which made me think he’s jealous and still bothered by the new guy???).

My question is would the break up still be considered “fresh” since we never actually stopped talking?

Also, a month ago he told me he still loved me and 2 weeks ago he still had feelings for me and was willing to take things slow. I realize a year has passed since the initial break up, but do you think given what I’ve told you, this girl is a rebound?

A.

April 6, 2015 at 11:08 pm

** wasn’t planning on dating her anytime soon…

Eva

April 6, 2015 at 9:04 pm

Hi Chris,

I never did something like this before. I need help. My story is not about an ex-boyfriend but a guy I wished to be boyfriend and he found a girl.

Six years ago I had a very ugly experience with a guy, which made me even more cautious with men. I have a pretty face, I am not overweight, and am usually described as intelligent, funny and good natured. My friends say there is nothing wrong with me expect I am a bit shy and can not open up easily.

This story with this guy (the first I was interested in for 5 years) started in December 2012 when sitting in my fave restaurant (I used to go there once or twice a month) I realized one of the waiters had an eye on me. Years earlier he had served me and I remembered his name. As I was still recovering from my bad experience I was surprised that someone even noticed me. I grew intrigued, but I did not see him again for a year.
In December 2013 our eyes met and I saw he remembered me. From that date I became a regular guest again. At the beginning of 2014 I met him in the restaurant four times – and begin to feel butterflies in my stomach whenever he looked at me in such an intense way. I was cautious so I checked him on Facebook -no girlfriend. He was smiling, giving me the eye.
I really wanted to see him more often, but for 4 months somehow I never went there when he worked. Bad luck. His Facebook activitiy still did not show any relationships, maybe only his desire to have a girl in his life.
In July after 4 months I had luck again. I dined there and he was so pleased that I am there again, almost froze when I entered the restaurant (he was talking to a guest but stopped mid-sentence and just stared at me as if he could not believe his luck). I did not sit by his table but all evening he kept looking at me, smiling in that I-want-to-make-a-good-impression way and giving me the eye, and nodded at me when I left. Next month I saw him again, and the same things repeated. I could hardly wait to see him again, but it is always a gamble whether he works on the day on my visits or not. (I can not organize my visit to make them reliable.)
Life was great then –I regained my self-esteem, and other guys kept noticing me and flirting with me, too. It felt fantastic to step into a café and feel the men’s eyes on me.
In September I saw him again – this time he was more interested than ever, always around me even if mine was not his table, and when I was alone for two minutes he gave me a card securing me -10% off. It had his name on it, and he said ’In case I am not here, just show this card to your waiter and you will get the discount.’ I thanked it but probably this was where I blew it – he looked so expectant, as if he was waiting for something – maybe giving my phone number? Finding him on Facebook? Two days later I saw he found me on Instagram (I followed him back) – so he could easily search me up on Facebook as well. It is definitely a sign that he was interested, isn’t it?
From that day I made some of my funniest Facebook posts public, in case he took a look. Afterwards it happened sometimes that I felt that his public Facebook posts were reflections to mine.
I did not see him again for two months but I November we met again. He did not work that evening, just hopped in for something and smiled, was definitely pleased to see me, gave me the eye and when he left he waved at me. I thought things are going well, slowly, but I did not mind. I admit maybe my reactions were shy. I thought next time I will initiate some conversation and perhaps ask him about his finding me on Instagram. I also know some of his collegaues know he likes me.
Again I dod not see him for more than two months and by the 31st of January – he was in a relationship.
Soon I found out he befriended the girl in mid-December, so they probably met then, and she is from another country (she worked in our city for 5 months) and by that time the relationship became official on Facebook (less than 2 months after they met) she was already back in her country. So it is a long distance relationship.
A week later they had become an item officialy I paid a visit in the restaurant (I had publicly announced it on my Facebook-profile in advance). When I entered he noticed me and I thought he is the same as ever, but later in the evening he almost made a show of ignoring me and not looking in my direction. However, before I left and put my coat on and was zipping it, I felt his hands on my upper arms – he was sidestepping behind my back among the tables by unnecessarily gripping my arms for a longer time – now that is what I call an unnecessary, provoking and unexpected touch. So to pay it back on my way out I simply asked him ’How did you find me on Instagram?’ and he was embarrassed, and managed to say ’Oh, is that you?’ I told him I liked his photos on Facebook (photography is his hobby), and he smiled and I left.
In mid-March he and his girlfriend broke up (the girl even defriended him), and I was happy to have a chance again but 5 days later he was in a relationship again. Two days later I went to the restaurant – I already announced it on Facebook – and although according to his Facebook-profile he was supposed to be at an event, he was working. I said a cool ’hello’ without even looking at him – he had a girlfriend after all. He was different from last time – he was looking at me again, sometimes smiling, maybe not as much as earlier but still – if I did not know he had a girlfriend I would not feel much difference. And two days later his girlfriend – whom he befriended again – came back to the city for a ten-day holiday. Now I see them together on photos for the first time. It hurts. She is supposed to be back in her country soon and I do not know when they will meet again.

To sum up: I gradually grew interested in this guy over a year, even if there were 3-4 months when we did not see each other. In fact I met him 10 times only last year. Things looked promising, he showed interest, but suddenly a girl came into the picture and he is now in a long-distance relationship.

I am desperate at the thought of not seeing him again, I can not eat for more than a week and I take tranqulizers to be able to sleep. I already envisage him moving abroad to the girl or her moving here. Finally I found a guy I am interested in and who seemed to be interested in me and I have bad luck again. Mayvbe I did not show enough interest.
I know that I am coming accross as a real looser. I know it always takes so much time for me to like someone. But I also feel my timing really sucks.

I want a chance to find out if he and I could have something.

What is your advice?
1. Is this all over, or is it worth trying something? I saw him first, after all.
2. Shall I keep the 30 days no contact rule? Woud not it seem as if I was licking my wounds? I was planning to dine out next week there. Shall I go somewhere else? It is not that we were in contact… so how would I conctact him again?
3. Is time working against for me? They can not meet often, but also do not know when I will see him. What if he will forget about me?
4. What should be my strategy and attitude? Totally disappear for a month and make my FB-posts hidden, not searhing for him on FB to see how things are with his girlfriend and hope that one day I emerge again (and accidentally bump into him) he will be single?

Thank you if you have read it all. I am totally desperate, confused and hurt and helpless. I had no clue I could feel like this. I surprised myself. I never felt like this.

Eva
Brittany

April 5, 2015 at 3:03 am

After break-up we actually never really spent time apart. For close to 7 months we stayed friends, talked everyday and would still see each other. It obviously wasn’t over emotionally for either of us. We also were sexually intimate throughout these months. I did however find out the last month of us hanging out that he had a girlfriend and was cheating on her with me. I was hurt and disgusted and hated he put me in the position of being the other woman. I had no idea and would never be part of cheating.
So we went on to be civil but do your “no contact” situation. During that time he got a “gf” and I say that in quotes because in no sense does he really claim her as that but told me they are a couple. Their pics on FB look like they are friends, however she lives 2 hours away and they do spend every weekend together, either him down there or her here (sadly I know because when we broke up he literally moved out and across the street).
It has also led now to him not texting me even on a once every 3 weeks thing and he unfriended me on FB soon after I posted something about the guy I had started dating. When I see him in person (works at a gas station) we talk and are fine but I am absolutely sure this girl (different girl then who he rebounded with and cheated on her with me) is making him cut me out because when she first came around we were all hanging as friends. They got closer but being around us she knew our feelings so she has made him ditch me. I feel he doesn’t want to but is pleasing his girl. They do not have a serious relationship at all; not sexual, see each other on the weekends and act like friends really when together. They have very little in common and absolutely no chemistry. I don’t get it; he Skypes me messages about how he misses me and still loves me and wants to come back when he gets his life straightened out but why does this involve having to be with her in the meantime? Why can’t he be single if no affectionate and or sexual needs are being met and if he needed those I could meet those until he was ready for us to get back to a serious relationship?
BTW we were together a month shy of 2 years, lived together a year and 7 months. We were engaged and this is the first time he said he truly knows he was in love. Felt he loved his previous girlfriend of 3 years but until we met he then realized that was more of a friendship that he had love for her and they were affectionate.
Help please. This is my future husband and he still loves me and please trust my judgement in that we still have all we need to work this out and be happy forever. He will definitely come back at some point but I want it sooner then later and I need to get him out of this girl wasting his time’s grip.
Brooklyn

March 31, 2015 at 12:02 am

Hi, my situation is that my boyfriend of almost nine months broke up with me saying that i didnt treat him right, granted i have been rude (i have a lot of underlying issues) he started talking to another girl immediatly and then told me he was sorry and that we were going to get back together and that he loved me because i agreed to change, because i was a terrible person sometimes, he kiss me.and everything was fine then the next day he put on fb he was in a relationship with her, that day he told me that he didnt accept it and he was gonna tell her the next day, he put pictures up on fb of him and her. Then i saw them at the pool hall and they were all over eachother. Is he trying to see how ill react to this or does he really not care anymore?
chetna

March 26, 2015 at 1:58 pm

Hi Chris,

So I’ve got a problem. When my ex broke it off with me (2.5 months ago) he gave me a bunch of reasons: he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship, monogamy might not be for him (he hasn’t dated much and neither have I so I’m thinking this is more a grass is greener issue since he’s been jealous of my students hitting on me before – I don’t pay any attention to them doing that nor do I encourage it), apparently we’re not compatible (although we can talk for hours on end so yeah we’re not compatible?), he can’t give me what I want, etc, etc. I’ve posted on here before so if this sounds familiar that’s why.

Following your advice I started NC about 2 weeks after the breakup for 30 days and then sent him a quick text about an event I thought he would like. He responded well and asked how I was doing. I did exactly what you said: told him a few new things I was doing with my life but not too much detail and then after a few texts back and forth I cut it off saying I was going out – and I was! I’ve been trying to keep myself busy and find new things to do so I’m not lonely or just sitting at home pining over him. We texted a little after that and then he started texting me during spring break asking how I was enjoying my trip. I didn’t respond right away to most of those – I waited at least 10 mins to a few a hours since I was out having fun. At a certain point he stopped messaging me and over a week went by without a message. Now he’s back asking how I am again and how my work is going and what am I doing with my spare time, etc, etc, except I feel like I’m getting mixed signals from him. I posted a bunch of pictures from my trip and afterwards and he went on a liking spree so much that even a few mutual friends noticed. Then when he started texting me again he takes hours to respond but his messages show him engaged and there’s always a smiley face or !

And now here comes the real reason I’m on this page, I recently looked at his Facebook page (I know bad me) and there’s some girl posting to his wall recently who seems to share interests with him and now they’ve got plans with some others to go to some event out of the city this weekend. She’s got a daring outrageous look to her (think punk rock with short bright pink hair and piercings) and she seems to share enough interests with him so I worry that he’s found someone new and is just friend zoning me. When we broke up he said he wanted us to remain friends and that he didn’t want to lose me from his life. I could see us being very good for each other and being together for a long time (he challenges me in the right way and we work on things together really well), but I don’t know what to do right now. Do I friend zone him back?

It’s been a while since the breakup so I know this may not be a rebound relationship if they end up dating (nothing confirmed yet). We were each other’s first real relationship and maybe I’m old fashioned but I think when you find a real connection with someone it doesn’t matter how many people you’ve dated, 1 or 100. A real connection with someone is rare and I wanted to work through our problems but he thought it was too much work and a sign we weren’t meant to be.

Any advice on how to proceed? Is he playing with my head because I feel like it.

p.s. sorry for the rambling but thank you for the advice and the rest of the website is great! It’s been really helpful to me.

admin

March 31, 2015 at 8:45 pm

2.5 months since the breakup…

Hmm…

How long did you date him ?
chetna

April 1, 2015 at 2:27 am

Almost a year, 11 months to be more accurate. He’s been pretty responsive to text messages I’ve sent and has even initiated contact with me so I’m hoping thats a good sign but I don’t know. Gah. Please help.

Not sure where to go from here

March 26, 2015 at 11:20 am

Hello Chris,

I have recently been out of a relationship of 8 years. last 2 were LDR. He broke up with me and immediately started dating another girl. Not even a week after we broke up. They have been together now for almost 6 months. I haven’t talked to him in 3 months. Last time we did talk we talked on the phone we talked for a few hours like we were still friends. that was 3 months ago then nothing. He hasn’t tried to contact me. I want to contact him but haven’t because I’m not sure if that will do more harm or good. I am surprised he could turn 8 years off like it was nothing. I would like to talk to him but not sure how to get him talking to me. I have used and read your other articles but I always contacted him first but I stopped hoping he would contact me. How do I get him to talk to me? If you can answer this great if not, your opinion is welcomed. How did he move on so quickly and forget about me?

admin

March 31, 2015 at 8:35 pm

Are you against contacting him first again?
Not sure where to go from here

April 1, 2015 at 5:38 pm

I was against contacting him first but I have done 3 months of the no contact rule. He did not reach out to me at all.I am thinking about contacting him. If everything goes well, how often and duration do I keep contacting him?

Caitlin

March 23, 2015 at 1:48 pm

I found out he was dating another girl last month, when she posted a pic of them (at her birthday party, which was on a night he text me!)on his Facebook wall. We had been talking off and on during the two months after we broke it off, and he mentioned here and there how “great” it was when he was with me, but I always just sort of played it cool, because I figured if hr REALLY wanted back with me, he would really pursue me, instead of me initiating most of our texts and phone calls. When I saw the picture, I text: “Cute picture of you and your girlfriend!” He quickly responded, “Thanks.” I then asked how long they had been dating, and he said, “For a few weeks.” I told him I was glad he was happy, and he started asking what I had done over the weekend,etc. I told him I had to go. I entered 30 days No Contact, and right before the 30 days were up, they stopped seeing each other. After one more week, I called, but chickened out after two rings. He called back immediately! I answered, and we had a long friendly talk. The subject of me moving for law school in two months came up, and he asked if I had made a decision. I told him the two I am choosing between, one of which happens to be in the city where he lives (I’m currently an hour from him). He goes, “You’ll be living wherever you decide to go, right?” I said yes, and he actually started talking up the school in his city, and I agreed, it is a good school and cool city. I then said, “Well, I’ll just have to see. I have a couple of weeks.” I then told him I had to go, talk later. All in all, pretty positive discussion, but today I saw he “liked” some pictures his ex-gf posted on Facebook. So…

Question 1: Where do I go from here? He is obviously OK with talking to me, but I don’t want to appear too aggressive (aka “crazy”, to use guys’ favorite term for girls they don’t like).
Question 2: Am I being friend zoned? After all, he didn’t say he would like to see me if I move to his city.

admin

March 24, 2015 at 8:53 pm

1. Be cool with things. You are progression (slowly) but progressing.

2. You should be friend zoning him!!!!

Courtney

March 19, 2015 at 2:53 pm

THEY BROKE UP!
Hi, Chris, I’m a girl who had been talking to her ex and missed the hint to get back together 🙁
He started dating another girl, for about a month. I entered 30 days NNC when I found out. After 30-something days passed, I sent him a gift for his birthday. I got a text saying, “Thank you for the gift! You are always so thoughtful.” I still have not responded (it’s been 3 days) What do I do? If we start talking again, how do I make sure I don’t get “friend zoned”?

admin

March 21, 2015 at 4:10 pm

Don’t jump on him just yet.

If they broke up then that means that he is still hurting and you should probably ease your way in and take it slow.

shay

March 17, 2015 at 12:14 am

Hi Chris,
My ex and I broke up 2 years ago due to long distance, but by then I was pregnant and we have a child together and kept in touch. (strictly about our kid) He soon got a new girlfriend and dated her for a long time and I have been dating too. Suddenly a few months back his interest started to build up I used a 3 months NC.

We just talked after NC and he was super interested in my life and wants to be helpful. How do I subtly find out if he is still in a relationship?

Thank you!

admin

March 18, 2015 at 8:38 pm

To be honest I think it will come up naturally if you keep talking to him.

Belle

February 27, 2015 at 10:52 am

Hi ,
Here is my situation. I really love my exboyfriend. We have been together for 2 years. We had some difficulties in the beginning of our relationship because we lived 400 km apart. I didnt know if he was the right one and also before i have met him i kind of liked another boy. But as he was the best friend of my brother i knew it cannot/ does not work out. But to let jim go i needed to talk to him one time. But instead of talking we had sex.. it wad a big mistake and i told my boyfriend. He was disappointed but stayed with me. I was thankful and did everything for him. So things went well untill the day he hit me because he was drunk. That was the day where i thought to myself i dont want a boy who hits me. So, i broke up in septemeber. He begged me to come back but i ignored him. After 2 months i was strong enough to talk to him and we have met. We both wanted to try it again. Things went quit good i would say for the first 3 weeks. But then he said he doesnt want me anymore and start dating this other girl. Meanwhile he always told me he loves me and misses me. The strange thing about the girl: she is a ladyboy. Im afraid that he is gay ? Dont get me wrong, i have nothing against gay People. I did the mistakes as you mentioned like begging etc. But now i am trying the no contact rule. Do you think there are any chances or shouldnt I expect to much?
kim

February 27, 2015 at 9:26 am

Hey, I’m 20, I really have a problem now. 15 months ago my LDR boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me (reason: LDR). During the last year I moved to another country (actually he lives nearby now) and I was trying to move on because he has a girlfriend. I thought I suceeded and I even started dating another boy one month ago. But now I’m assuming that my ex and his girlfriend broke up and since then I can’t think of anything else but my ex. I want to talk to him, met him, get him back,… . But I also don’t want to hurt my boyfriend, he didn’t deserve that. However, right now I have more feelings for mt ex than for my boyfriend :/ I’m confused…
I always wanted my ex back at some point in the future, but I didn’t expect it could be now.

kim

March 2, 2015 at 12:01 pm

He texted me now and we talked about our plans for the future

marry

February 26, 2015 at 5:54 pm

hey chris i know it’s so complicated but i hope you can help me.my ex broke up with me 7 months ago i did no contact and lately we’re talking on facebook the thing is whenever i talk with him he’s sweet and all but whenever i call him at night he doesn’t answer and he told me to not call him at night and that’s what made me suspect that he has a girlfriend but when i asked him he said no.and when i said i want to get back with you he said no too and this is the second thing that made me think he has a girl.otherwise he would get back with me because i’m sure he still has something for me .my question is if he really has a girlfriend why he’s hinding her from me .and my 2nd question is what should i do about it sit back and watch doing anything or triynig to make him say the truth or delete him from facebook and go for no contact for the 2nd time !! thank you

admin

March 1, 2015 at 6:29 pm

Is that all you did though?

The NC?

You have to do more than that to get him back I hope you realize.
marry

March 1, 2015 at 6:54 pm

no of course not. at first i did no contact for 2 months and then i texted him few times and talked on the phone with him but he never talks with me more that 15 minutes and never at night and whenever i mention meeting up he has an exuse to report it to another time which didn’t come.is my situation hopeless plz tell me the truth i’ll take it and if there is hope tell me what should i do now !!!!!!

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