How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back If He Has A Girlfriend V. 2.0

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Nora

August 27, 2015 at 3:56 am

Hi, Chris. He started flirting with one of his best friends from a long time (those that some mention not to worry about while in the relationship). I believe it was like 3 weeks or so like you mentioned in the article, and the flirting has escalated quickly these past weeks according to a friend. They are dating in “secret.” I notice that he keeps erasing our photos from Facebook from time to time. It’s been two months and I am doing the NC (the 1st one I messed up before finding your page, sorry). I think he is falling hard for her ;/ and I kind of think she has an advantage being the new non-official gf because they already knew each other and got along well. She could be considered an ungettable girl, but she hasn’t been a good person to those that love her or chase her. Do you think she could still be considered a rebound?
Bela

July 26, 2015 at 9:15 am

Hi,
I work with my ex, I broke up with him 3 months ago. He didnt want to and we were both upset but still txt and spoke everyday for at least a month. Then things got harder and we started having silly arguments, I realised after less than 2 months I had lost him and wanted him back. He all of a sudden didnt want us to get back together, he addmited he was ‘talking to someone’ but not ‘with someone’. After telling him how i felt i didnt contact him outside work, and when we saw each other he would be friendly but sometimes awkward. He had no idea what kind of pain i was going through, and last week I broke down in front of him (really couldnt help it) and just told him everything. He was upset and stressed (he cant handle that kind of situation) and ive probably pushed him more towards this other girl (i know in my heart there’s someone else). I think he’s been able to move on because of this other girl, but the thought of it kills me inside. He’s obviously keeping it quiet at work because of me, we share the same friends there. After my break down will that push him closer to her? Will it cause problems with her that he’s trying to keep it secret from people? Should i eventually say to him i dont want to make it awkward for him to move on (even though i do!)? Im truly heartbroken. Help.
August

July 22, 2015 at 2:23 am

I begged my ex Boyfriend of 4 1/2 years off and on to give me another chance , and he will not give me another chance because he is seeing someone new. He says I hurt him too much for too long and says I always say I will change and never do. I admit I didn’t show him how much I love him and I treated him like I didn’t care, because I didn’t want him to know how vulnerable I was to him hurting me in the past. I know he cares about her, otherwise I know he would give me another chance. I begged and begged and cried and cried and he isn’t responsive to my pleads. He just keeps saying he can’t and why I didn’t change when we were together. The new gf is married and cheating with my ex boyfriend, on her husband that’s in jail. Me and my ex also have a baby together. I just don’t know what to do no more. I asked him if he still loves me and he said he loves me to death and I asked well, why won’t you let me show you that I do love you and want to be with you. And he just keeps bringing up the past damage. He basically thinks I’m full of it and he thinks his new gf is an angel from the heavens. I took my baby to go see him and I grabbed his phone, (which I didn’t know anything about until that day) and went and read their text messages. He got her name as “my baby”. I started reading the messages out loud being funny, and he and her said they loved one another. I said, really? I was crushed. This thing they got going on has been going on like a month or so now. I want my ex back. Badly. I’m tired of chasing him, begging him. I’m tired of trying to compete. I know I mistreated him in our relationship, so how can I possibly compete with how I treated him compared to someone who’s treating the way he wants to be treated. He is basically giving me a huge “NO”!
Chanel

July 19, 2015 at 8:08 am

Hi Chris,

My boyfriend broke up with me 2/3 weeks ago because he said he had lost feelings for me and doesn’t think I was ‘the one’ and that apparently he has been feeling this way for 2 months. We had been together for nearly 2 years, and he suddenly said he had been talking to other girls and these girls reciprocated his feelings. About a week after breaking up and in the middle of no contact, he decides to contact me before I’m going out clubbing with my friends and says that he hopes that I don’t get with any other guys. I stupidly text him back and gush my feelings for him, in which he replies that he misses me. The next day I question him about it and he says that he was just feeling weird and to forget about it…he also ends up going on a date with one of the girls the next day :(. I stopped contacting him and now he is going out on a date with a work colleague and he’s taking these girls to places that I recommended both of us go. Apparently he really likes this girl and that she’s adventurous (which I’m not) and skinny (which I’m not).. The girls are complete opposites of me. He has also blocked me on snapchat, whatsapp and Instagram, he unblocked me for a second just to send me a snapchat of him on his date..which really hurt. I’m so confused at the moment, one day he says he misses me, the next he blocks me on every social media and goes on dates! Bare in mind we were in a serious LDR and I haven’t seen him in 2 months, he refused to come down to break up with me face to face. I’m still in NC for around a week (since I last contacted him) and he’s done nothing to contact me. I also notice he talks to the 2 girls ALOT. Do you think he’s over me and will he eventually contact me?
Nat

July 8, 2015 at 5:57 pm

Hey Chris,

Your articles are amazing and extremely helpful! They definitely give me some hope. However I do have a question. I’m kind of in a “different” situation…. My ex and I were together then stuff started going south I stuck by him as he was extremely depressed but I was really hurt and angry. After a while we stopped talking for a few weeks then started talking again…. He really wanted to make things work but I really just needed time to heal and stop being so hurt and mad… We went on a few dates and hung out but then we’d talk on the phone and just end up arguing. We never argued before and I really didn’t want it to become a trend so I told him I wanted to work things out but needed time to heal. He still messaged me asking me to hang out but I didn’t reply. Fast forward 8 weeks I’m feeling way better not angry and ready to work things out so I message him – he responds but was kind of cold… So I kept trying to message him in a positive way… Then 3 days after I sent the initial message. I find out he is seeing someone. So we talk we meet up and talk about how we feel. I told him I wanted to work things out and always did but needed time away from him so we didn’t continue to argue (I was hanging out and seeing other guys during this period but nothing serious). He then tells me that he started talking to this new girl while he still wanted to work things out with me and eventually started liking her because he felt he had to move on because he assumed I moved on because I wasn’t responses. He also said if I reached out 2 weeks sooner he would have been sure that he wanted to make it work but now he is unsure because he really likes this girl. He said that he was going to make their relationship official and that now he doesn’t know what to do because I want to work things out. He also said he loves me but really likes her. I told him that I completely understood and we should have communicated better on what we wanted with each other. I also said despite what he choses I am happy he is happy and can understand that he needs time and will be ok and move on (there was definitely tears involved) should he chose her. He said that he is just unsure and can’t make a decision right now but that he has been honest with this other girl about what was going on and she is scared and he knows it would destroy her if he chose to work things out with me. That was the last time we met. He was crying as was i, overall a really crappy situation. Later on that day he messaged me saying “hey I hope your doing ok it was really great seeing you today”. My response was “hey I am doing ok, given the situation. It was really great to see you as well” and there was no response. Now I don’t know what to do. Logic is telling me to re-initiate the no contact. Obviously my emotions say otherwise. He said he was going to continue to see this other girl while he tries to make a decision. Is there a chance this could work out in my favour? How should I move forward?

Thanks in advance for your help and advice!!!!
Rebekah

June 22, 2015 at 11:04 pm

Hi, Chris.
My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. Everything was fine during our last few weeks together and he dumped me out of the blue, even thogh the day before he told me he was going to work hard so we could get a place together and settle down. He dumped me April 18th.
After we split, he contacted me after a week and asked me how I was and we talked like things were ok. Then, a few days later, he told me he needed some space to figure out what he wants to do, which I eventually respected. Since then, I have had no contact with him.
After another week or so, I was told by a mutual friend that he had a girlfriend. They got together May 13th. She already has 2 children and she lives in a flat and lives on benefits. They have been together just over a month and my ex has already moved in with her, something he told me he wasn’t ready to do with me, yet, which I respected.
I am really struggling, because I see them nearly everyday, and I don’t think she even knows who I am. I still have no contact with him, but I am still so in love with him…
Jess

June 1, 2015 at 6:02 am

I don’t think my message went through.
Hi. I’ve been with my ex for a total of 4 years. We did have a lot of problems in our relationship and was fighting a lot. In January things got really bad and I said things that really hurt his feelings. In February he started dating this new girl. Fast forward. We got into contact on Thursday and he said how unhappy he has been and losing weight because he can’t eat and can’t sleep. He said he really can’t see anyone else being his wife one day but me and he can only see him having kids with me. I feel like his words are genuine especially when he has tears in his eyes. But the problem is he is still in a relationship with his current gf. I feel like he started dating her as a rebound. He has said he wants to get back together but to take things slow as we really do rush into things really quick all of the time. I feel like he wants to see if things will really change. But how long do I let him date this other girl. We haven’t even been talking for even a week yet so I can’t push anything but it obviously bothers me he is still dating her. I need help and advice please. Should I just play it cool and focus on trying to reconnect what we have to make him feel confident things can be different? Should I bring up his girlfriend? I am just worried he will get to a point where he won’t break it off with her and string me along, because he doesn’t want to be with me but can’t let me go. Just really confused. Please help.
Liz

May 31, 2015 at 4:27 pm

My ex and I were together 5 years and lived together the entire time, he even proposed On our 3rd anniversary, but I have bad OCD and anxiety that interfered with my ability to commit. We ended our relationship because of my issues 4 months ago. I want him back but he is dating a new woman for 2.5 months. He cries every time we talk, in person and on the phone, told me that he thought we were over so he moved on but now with my new interest he is “lost and confused”… He says he needs time, that I’m his best friend and “the one who got away” …also says he thinks about coming back to me but would be “risking it all” since I hurt him in the past due to my anxiety and inability to commit. He responds positively to contact and said he’s open to the possibility of us getting back together in the future, yet is choosing the new girl over me right now. How can I make progress even if he is seeing someone? He really is the one. I’m not in treatment for anxiety and working on myself. We have done NC in the past.

Liz

June 11, 2015 at 4:40 pm

Hi! I was told to post my question I this thread instead of the other rebound thread. Any suggestions on my post above? He has initiated contact on Sunday sporadically asking ?s and keeping up convo for 7 hours as well as today. Help would be so appreciated!

Jess

May 30, 2015 at 10:57 pm

Hi. I’ve been with my ex for a total of 4 years. We did have a lot of problems in our relationship and was fighting a lot. In January things got really bad and I said things that really hurt his feelings. In February he started dating this new girl. Fast forward. We got into contact on Thursday and he said how unhappy he has been and losing weight because he can’t eat and can’t sleep. He said he really can’t see anyone else being his wife one day but me and he can only see him having kids with me. I feel like his words are genuine especially when he has tears in his eyes. But the problem is he is still in a relationship with his current gf. I feel like he started dating her as a rebound. He has said he wants to get back together but to take things slow as we really do rush into things really quick all of the time. I feel like he wants to see if things will really change. But how long do I let him date this other girl. We haven’t even been talking for even a week yet so I can’t push anything but it obviously bothers me he is still dating her. I need help and advice please. Should I just play it cool and focus on trying to reconnect what we have to make him feel confident things can be different? Should I bring up his girlfriend? I am just worried he will get to a point where he won’t break it off with her and string me along, because he doesn’t want to be with me but can’t let me go. Just really confused. Please help.
Robin

May 30, 2015 at 10:50 pm

My situation is a little more difficult then just my ex having a new girlfriend. The new girlfriend is also his ex. They stopped dating in November and we started dating in February but he did say they had hung out a few times between their break up and him meeting me. I made a few mistakes i can admit that and they are mostly the reason we broke up. He got back with her for like 2 weeks. They wanted to try things out with my again. That lasted for about a week, my fault again my phone was off while he was away for work so he thought the worst because we were not officially back together. He then that night got back with her and i just found out they made it official and got back together. He always said she cheated and lied all the time shes 18 and hes 25 so they have an age gap. His friends after the initial break up said that I was supposed to be the one, they all wanted us to always be together. They apparently disapproved of his ex always. He has me blocked on email, social, media and I go straight to voicemail. He had the same for his ex when i was together with him. I am starting to feel like i was only a rebound but i also dont know if she is a rebound for me. He always said that when he was lonely he would go to something familiar so he would no longer be lonely. I want to get back with him, but i am unsure of how because of this unique situation.
Jen-Jen

May 25, 2015 at 11:32 pm

Hi Chris, no response to my last comment, but that’s ok, see below. I have a new Q. So from all he told me, red flags galore for the new gf, so don’t see them lasting long regardless of him moving in so soon & blocking my number, not a full block. I’m ready to move on if needed, but hell I don’t give up easy. I know Im better than her & he can’t resist me : ). Since he & I talked, I’ve restarted NC. No FB for either of us. Email or calling my options. What do I say email? Treat it like a text message?
Robin

May 24, 2015 at 10:29 am

Hi chris. the last time I talked to my ex was just under 2 months ago, I told him I still loved him and cared about him(i did what you said not to do :P). His eyes got a little watery and he said he has a girlfriend. There was no anger or resentfulness building up when we talked about our past. He didn’t seem angry or that he didn’t want to see me again but he didn’t reply to any of my messages and ignored me in the following week. It’s been no contact since then.

I was wondering if talking in person would be a better way at initiating contact because if I message him I’m pretty sure he would just think that I’m trying to hook up with him again and not reply to me. I’m almost certain that he won’t reply. he can be very shy sometimes or he could be scared he’ll get feelings for me again( I think he feels he has a duty for his new girlfriend.)

The thing is we go to the same clubs and events a lot but when we’re out we don’t even recognise or realise that we’re both there. So I was thinking I should just say hi and have a very brief exchange with him next time I see him when I’m out and then start texting him or wait till the next weekend to have a longer convo with him.
Laura

May 17, 2015 at 10:54 am

Hi Chris, I didn’t receive your reply, or i don’t know what went wrong.. my story is not getting display.
Anyways, PLEASE I NEED YOUR HELP…. DO REPLY ! PLEASE
2.5 years of relationship, he left me 2months back giving reason that he do not love me and many other reasons like career..
after some days of breakup he told me that I’m with someone and said that i don’t know but I’m missing you.. I don’t took it seriously as he was an engineering student, and my mind was like He cannot get anyother girl better than me 😀 and we had ON and OFF relationship of 2.5 years, before a week from now I called him to meet me.. a girl picks up and then I got to know that he was actually dating someone, I was in extreme shock. I got shattered then after sometime i called him again and his lines were ” i’m sorry i was never in love with you, i didn’t get feelings, You are the best girl i can ever had, No one can love me so much like you do, but this girl is just like me.. i love her. ”
And then i got to know everything, after breakup around a week he went to another girl, they have kissed each other.. everyone is aware of their relationship. That girl is pretty, i know 🙁

after this scenario I became nuts.. I did all the sins , except sleeping with him and Grand gestures” I texted him 1000 of times,
he blocked me, I got desperate, I called my friend to talk to him, just to say him to talk me once, or else I’ll do something to me.
We abused each other, we fought badly, but then also afterwards i apologize him :/
his new girlfriend in a very pleasing tone manipulate me and provoke me to tell what all i had done with him (physical things) and like mad girl i told every bit of it..
and then i fought with her as well.. my ex called me fighting and screaming on me saying never to text his new girl or else he will kill me, he gave me deadly statement ” I’ll do anything but will never be back with you ”

CHRIS, after this WORST SITUATION do you think anything will work out ? Because i still love him and i want him back and I think in 2 years he loved me, But now that pretty girl has changed him drastically that he might kill me..if she say him so.
we were in a great relationship, though on/off but i can say i had done my best, i was a great girlfriend. we were physically and emotionally attached
Right now I’m in NC RULE period.. also tell me whether his immediate shift to another girl within a week can be called as REBOUND ?? or i guess may be GIGS as that girl is pretty.
I’m also beautiful but i guess not like her 🙁 🙁
PLEASE HELP and yeah Your answers are Robotic 😛

Laura

June 2, 2015 at 8:06 am

You didn’t respond to my above query regarding mixed signals.. Chris please :/ 🙁
Chris Seiter

June 2, 2015 at 3:58 pm

Ask it again.

I am getting too many messages and having to skip a few now and then.
Laura

May 21, 2015 at 2:34 pm

Yeah, i’ll try my best.. And after reading your episode of MIXED SIGNALS.. Im confused, dissapointed, my self-esteem has gone down. Let me clearify one more thing, in 2.5years, 10months we were boyfriend girlfriend, then we broke and after 5-6 months he was back, but didn’t commit to me, giving excuses like career bla blahh.. I didn’t gave much attention to it.. He used to meet me.. We used to have a quality time together.. Im confussed.. As i dont know, was it all his physical and emotional benefit from me.. As our parents were not aware of us, he used to come out of my house… And from balcony, i used to wave hand and feel special that he just came to see me.. And he used to say i’ll marry you as you can be the best wife i can ever have..
We rarely hang out with each other, though many times i have urge him.. That lets go somewhere..movie.. But he was having many excuses ready with him… And he used to say that no one can ever love me like you do.. I’m now afraid Chris… he took me that type of a material ???? Or what.. I thought he was in love with me..but now he has given that other girl “commitment”
Can you please explain. What type of a guy is this… Should i get him back.. As now you know my whole story.. WAITING FOR YOUR RESPONSE 🙂
Laura

May 20, 2015 at 8:48 am

Because she is Chris, she is -_-
And yeah, she is above me in 3 things.
First, her figure.. I’m having a little bit tummy which I’m working out by gym, as my ex is gymaholic..
Second, her clothes.. she has a good taste in dressing.. may be because she can afford some luxurious branded clothes, expensive make-up, Whereas I don’t use make-up that much and I can’t afford expensive clothes.
Third, SHE IS PRETTY with long hair and much more fair complexion… I’m also fair but.. okay I’m getting jealous now..
Except all this, I was just a good girlfriend, I had loved my ex like a mother… and i guess he is aware of it..
But right now I’m experiencing Fork in the road. My ex is good with his words and after having worst breakup I’m afraid that he might never return, as it has been cleared that he left me for a girl and so I’m think to choose a path to move on, which is hell difficult for me, because somewhere in my heart i think he has loved me in those 2 years.
Please give some suggestion, What should I do with this Type of a guy who is very adamant.
SHOULD I MOVE ON ??
Chris Seiter

May 20, 2015 at 2:52 pm

…. all the things you listed off you can compete with and you can improve in yourself to match her.

I guess I am just saying don’t think you can’t compete with her looks.
Chris Seiter

May 19, 2015 at 6:23 pm

Why do you think this girl is prettier than you?

Laura

May 14, 2015 at 3:59 pm

hi chris,
2.5 years of relationship and then 2 months back he broke up with me and after some weeks he was with another girl, but he didn’t told me and i thought it is a general break up.. just a week back I got to know about them, she’s a pretty girl beautiful, they have kissed each other and after knowing all this i got desperate and contacted him, he said that i don’t have feelings for you, and i have never loved you. I’m shattered I contacted him again and burst out in anger abusing him.. he blocked me from everywhere but then i apologize for this kind of my behavior, he didn’t replied and then I got too desperate that may be i would have called him 100 of times and 1000 of messages. He didn’t replied to any. Then i did another mistake I TRIED to do things to harm myself I message my friend to text him to unblock me and talk atleast once, He said her ” i don’t care I’ll never talk to her in life i know she can’t do anything”
Many of my friends contacted him to speak to me last time, he just answered that i’ll never talk her in lifetime, i’m happy with my new girl
And her girlfriend message me not to say anything about him she provoke me to tell her what all was there between me and my ex, i burst out everything, he has lied her a little bit, they had fight after i revealed everything but now they are good, happy.
It has been 2 weeks i have somehow manage myself. we were great with each other Chris, physically and emotionally attached very much. and now this girl came in his life and he said that he will marry her. Everyone knows about them family friends whereas in my relationship with him only few were aware.
Right now I’m following your NC rule, but after all of this shit happened.. WILL HE BE BACK IN MY LIFE ????
Is my ex in rebound relationship ?
And LAST QUESTION
we have slept with each, he used to say that no girl will love me so much like you do, and after I had talk to him immediately after knowing he’s with another girl, he apologize me that he have never loved me and said the same above line and added that this new girl is just like me and I love her very much.
He really have never loved me ??? or is it GRASS IS GREENER SYNDROME ????
WAITING FOR YOUR GREAT RESPONSE !!!

Chris Seiter

May 19, 2015 at 5:23 pm

I can’t guarantee anything but I definitely think that the no contact rule is a really smart way to approach this.

dana

May 13, 2015 at 5:54 pm

Hey Chris! Great article! So, we’ve been together for 2 years, 1 year living together. The last couple of months I was very little involved in the relationship, concentrating on the University and stuff, and arguing around with my boyfriend, because he wasn’t willing to put some effort and finish his degree.. Anyway, he was really sad and saw I didn’t encourage his interests and didn’t spend much time with him.. He started to chat with some girl and apparently she had much more interest in him. We broke up. After I told him to make up his mind and leave the house if he doesn’t want to be with me, he turned back and told me he just can’t imagine not being together. We wanted to make things work, but I was overreacting and jealous, so in the end he moved out saying he was 100% sure he doesn’t want this to continue and that we are only hurting each other. Of course I got crazy and sobbed and begged him to come back, etc. He even thought I would commit suicide and was very angry because of my neediness. And of course it didn’t work. Today I saw him and said:” I know you felt anger and so did I. But let us at least say hello to each other and get over this. ” He agreed and it was a nice chat. But I realised just how much I love him and how badly I want him back. Don’t know what about the other girl, I think he has developed some kind of feelings for her (writing to gher that he missed her…) but it is propbably too soon to tell. Is there any chance?? I really thought he was the one, even if we had some issues…

Chris Seiter

May 14, 2015 at 3:45 pm

Have you tried NC at all yet?

jazz

May 13, 2015 at 2:36 pm

Yesterday I had send a desperate message to my ex who is dating a new girlfriend from around 2 months. i just aware him of the earthquake that arrived yesterday in India, and said him “Are you okay ? ” he didn’t replied and I again texted him ” Take care, Be aware of Earthquake”
As i have already sent him this desperate message so obviously he will be thinking that this old girlfriend of mine is so desperate. So should I text him a strong message ?? and then will apply NC rule or directly apply NC rule without sending him any text??

Chris Seiter

May 14, 2015 at 3:44 pm

NC no text.

Independent Girl

May 10, 2015 at 7:29 am

I am just really surfing today and kind of bored. I was in the shower while i was thinking of my Ex-Bf who is in the new relationship that i saw in Facebook today. I was surprise of course so i look at our old photos and the girls profile. She is pretty and we came from the same province of Cebu. I don’t really hate her. Just looking at her looks and thinking how are they doing and how long they would be together. I have moved on thinking from my ex already. Its been 7 months now that we broke up. But today i came across to his Facebook and saw his relationship status. I should admit that it does hit my heart and brain. And reading all this things truly describe my feelings like i want him back or does he ever think of me sometime. Kind of weird for as i attracted to someone currently so far were not in a relationship yet. But also i realise something. I should make y a better person and No contact for him. I take a picture of the text messages anyway. Just incase one day i might want talk to him just to say hi. It looks like a good start conversation. saying seeing a cat that looks like him. Hahahha. It made me laugh out loud lol. Thank you:-). You made day and You gave me the best advice today. This i
s really Interesting article to read. I am very impressed the way everything is written and explained. I bet you have a very special ability regarding to these kind of things. Stay safe:-).

Chris Seiter

May 11, 2015 at 5:30 pm

Thanks!

Glad you enjoyed it.

Jen-Jen

May 8, 2015 at 3:02 pm

So we talked in person, he told me his gf made him block me & he deleted my #. Neither of us have fb. His gf, him & I all own houses in the same housing track, less than a mile apart. He was struggling, sold his house & moved him & his son in w/ her after only 2 months of dating. In person, the connection is def still there, great eye contact & he got teary eyed when he said had no choice to block me. He said that he’s been seeing me out running & said like 3 times how good I looked. His gf is emotionally unstable, very insecure & sees a therapist once a week to deal w/ her emotions. Not sure I have a chance now that he lives w/ her & blocked me for her. Your thoughts?
jess

May 6, 2015 at 9:53 pm

Hello Chris! My ex has a girlfriend of one year, I think (obviously not a rebound). We see each other a lot because we have the same friends. After being almost 2 years apart, he still acts awkward towards me. We broke up due to external circumstances, when we both were in love and things were amazing. We were torn apart by the breakup. I try to act normal around him, even make jokes to make him laugh, but he acts so reserved. When I talk to him, I still make him weak because he acts nervous still. How do I get him back without sabotaging his relationship with his gf?
Tyler

May 5, 2015 at 2:06 am

Hey chris-my name is Tyler. I’ve read a lot of your pages and find them amazing. I was in a 2 1/2 year with my same sex BF, around christmas he said he felt like he didn’t love me anymore, it was very hard and devastating to me. For almost a month we tried to make it work. We both came to an agreement to end it for RIGHT NOW. 2 weeks later he went on a date and got right into another relationship. I told him that I could not talk to him right now. I needed to heal from this if I am ever going to be with him again, he told me he still valued me a lot and that when I’m healed he would be there for me. So I went no contact for 2 months, 30 days was not enough for me being that I was still in a lot of pain at the 30 day mark. This past week I messaged him after 2 months with very positive text messag reminding him about something we use to do. He sent me a very happy text with a smile face, but we texted a little bit more and he seemed to get annoyed with me. Then I sent me a texted saying it had only been 2 months and it was a good idea that we didn’t talk being that feelings might come back, btw he’s still in a relatioahip with the guy he went on a date with 2 weeks after our break up. I told him I thought of him and would always be here for him, I was positive and didn’t saying anything about our relationship. I love him dearly and we were very happy together and adored each other. I feel like I’ll have him back no matter what, but then I worry I’m doing things wrong. I’m sorry for such a huge message. Please help me:( please, Is there any hope of him loosing this rebound and him coming back to me for GOOD??? I’m begging for advice. Thank you so much for reading!!! It means a lot

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