572 thoughts on “You Broke Up With Your Ex Boyfriend And Now You Want Him Back”

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   marry

   August 6, 2013 at 2:51 am

   My ex and I did long distance relationship for 3 and a half years seeing each other in the summer and on christmas last october I started getting tired of this whole sotuation I felt like gicing up especially that he was leaving for med school for 2 more years.things were dieing and I just wanted to jabe a normal relationship I needed someone in my life I was feeling so alone so after 4 months of confusion and taking breaks and he did mention meeting someone new but I thought he was just making me jealous I decided in march that ot would be best if we just went our seperate ways. Riggt after we broke up I felt like it was the biggest mistake ever so after 2 weeks I called him and wanted to get back together vut his parents stood in the way played alot in his head and he told me I gave u ur chance now I have to gove it to someone else so him and thay girl actually started dating and it got serious right away I kept texting him and I even went in may for 2 weeks to see him but he treated me like shit and his parents kept pushing him away and till now he’s stilk with thay girl should I just forget about him? Move on?

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   admin

   August 6, 2013 at 3:55 am

   Have you done anything this page has suggested yet?

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   marry

   August 6, 2013 at 10:28 am

   I thimk im too late tp start the nc rule I mean when we broke up in march I kept texting him all the time while he went to another relationship right away I even crossed oceans for him in may and stayed in contact woth him after I came back from this horrible trip where I saw a different person I always get weak and text him its been 5 months since the breakup so I dont think I have any chances left

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   admin

   August 7, 2013 at 2:50 am

   It is never too late to start the NC rule!

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   Jasmine

   August 5, 2013 at 5:43 am

   Soo One day we had this argument b/c he said that I talked to too many guys&&I stopped talking to all of them for him..but like 2wks later one of his side chicks inboxed Me on Facebook talking crazy
   &&I told him that he needs to choose between me&&the hoes. He said that he chose me but like the next day I called him&he didn’t answer so I left a voicemail saying that I loved him&&that he should call me back..&&he txtd me saying that he promised to call me later but..he avoided me fornine days straight. So when he finally did Txt me. Back I told him that it’s over! But I still love him..but I can’t deal with the sidelines b/c I want to be his one&only! Does anyone know how I can deal with this?

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   admin

   August 6, 2013 at 3:02 am

   Start the NC rule and stay strong in it Jasmine. That means you can’t have any breaks and no matter how much he begs to talk to you don’t do it.

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   ndawson

   August 4, 2013 at 10:37 pm

   I dated a guy for over a year. We are so perfect together. I did not mean to fall in love with him. He was going through a break-up from a 8 year relationship and I was the friend that stood by him and then we fell in love. He was living with me part-time because he was not in my home when my daughter was with me. My daughter, age 16, did not like him and then was able to get my whole family to turn against him after 3 months. We continued to date and was hoping with time we could work this out with my family. In December, he broke up the first time saying my family will never except him, that he can’t accept my love and that things moved to fast. Of course days later we reunited. The following month, I told him I wanted a commitment or I was walking away. That my family has to accept this and that he needs to decide because I was not wanting his back and forth excuses that it’s my family. My daughter was opening up and was giving him a chance. My family refused still. This past May he again broke up saying that he wants to be accepted by all my family. And a few days later he and I reunited. This past June he again was breaking away saying that there is no future because of my family. A few days later he asked to reunite because it was stupid to not be together because we love each other so much but just can’t get my family to accept us. At the beginning of July he then tells me that he still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend, even though she has moved on and wants nothing to do with him. He said he has always had those feelings and is having a hard time moving on. I immediately made the decision to break up with him. This is the first time I broke up. I was not going to be in competition for his love. His heart belongs to her even though he knows she does not want him. I didn’t want to break up but I wanted him to understand that it’s 100% me or nothing. I asked him to let me go and to not contact me. About 2 weeks went by and he called me over this past weekend and wanted to reunite. He said he sees my status on FB and knows I am moving on. He sees I am busy and always out with friends and staying active. He said he missed me more than I missed him because he has no friends. He said that he wants to be with me 100% and that he just needs time to get over the last girlfriend but that he does not want her back. He is trying to move on. I gave him the chance. I asked that he communicate with me daily because he is horrible about communication. It’s so simple. The next day he said he would call and he never did. He went out that evening without me knowing we were trying to get together that evening. I asked him why he didn’t call and he said he didn’t have an excuse. I feel used. I gave him a second chance on a Friday after him begging me to be a couple, and then the next day, Saturday, he never called. I feel lost. That maybe he was just testing me to see if I was over him. I believe we do have something very special. I just don’t know what to do… He needs to learn to communicate with me. I understand he is still trying to get over his last girlfriend. And we still have the issue with my family. And numerous people tell me that my family does not dictate my life. Just so lost. Don’t know if I should just let him go… To move on.. Or how to get him back and change the way he communicates. I want to be with him. What do I do? He watches my FB…

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   admin

   August 5, 2013 at 3:40 am

   Try doing the stuff on this article.

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   summ

   August 4, 2013 at 4:47 pm

   we were in a relationship for 2yrs.. we were happy when suddenly he change.. not in a negetive way but its like he started suspecting me.. so i moved on to another guy. its been 10months since i broke up with him .. i want him badly.. what should i do? we were so perfect with each other

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   admin

   August 5, 2013 at 3:32 am

   Are you still with the other guy?

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   Rachel Sequiera

   August 3, 2013 at 6:03 pm

   Hie Chris, I’m Rachel writing from India.
   I’ve just been through a breakup, was going through the internet to find help and found yours to be the most captivating.
   I was in a relationship with this guy for over 2.5 years and we were each other’s first crushes too. We’re the same age (20 now) and our parents didn’t know about our relationship. I tried telling my parents once but they objected because he is from another religion.so we just pretended to be friends before our parents. Things were going well, he told his siblings, cousins and friends about me and he would always keep talking to me about his family and how I would have to take care when I meet his family in future etc. We came into a long distance relationship since my university was in another corner of the country. We managed this well and even the usual fights. There was this one time where i casually logged into his FB account and found out that he was in really good talking terms with a girl(xyz) who lived in his neighbourhood. Their chats on FB seemed to show that they were pretty close to each other and had been chatting daily. I confronted him when i went back but he said that they were just good friends.I was broken and since I had read their chats I couldn’t believe him so I broke up. But we got back together 2 weeks later since he kept asking for forgiveness although he never admitted that he liked her.
   Few months later, we have a talk about our future. And i thought it was best to break up since things were getting too complicated especially our future and families. He didn’t say a word during the breakup,just accepted.
   We didn’t talk for a week then. I returned to my university and few days later realised i made a huge mistake. I spoke to him alot about getting back together and he said he still loves me (and always will) but doesn’t want to get back since he’s scared that i might breakup with him again in future! He said it’s not worth it now!
   I tried alot to convince him but in vain and stopped contacting. It’s been 2 weeks now. He called twice in between saying he wanted to check if i was ok.Last night I saw that he had sent one of his pics to that same girl(xyz) during the period where i was trying to get back together. I’m shattered now.
   I kinda hate him now but the good memories i had with him keep circling in my head.
   I still love him but I’m not sure what to do.
   I need your advice!
   Thanks..

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   admin

   August 4, 2013 at 3:17 am

   Have you tried NC yet?

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   Rachel Sequiera

   August 5, 2013 at 5:08 pm

   Yes, its been almost two weeks now..

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   admin

   August 6, 2013 at 3:22 am

   Well, you have two more weeks to go!

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   linda

   August 3, 2013 at 4:13 pm

   I just broke up whit my boyfriend after 13 years. Our relationship has been up and down for many years. Whdaughtersthat we love and ador but in mars of this year I dissated to break up with him he took it rbad I regret braking up with him now and whis I could get him back I have not been with another guy and don’t want to I just don’t know how to get him back he lives in another country we talk in a good way just like friends but it feels like he dosent want to come back to me what can I do.

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   admin

   August 4, 2013 at 3:05 am

   He lives in another country huh.

   Do you see him often. In person I mean?

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   shauna

   June 24, 2013 at 5:52 am

   But it sounds as if the guy she dated was just a rebound to get over you…its something I did after breaking up with my ex.I wish I’d hadn’t but I felt the need to force myself to move on.only to realize that the rebound boy is a nut case whom I’ve never really liked or been attracted to and that no matter what happened I still wanted to be with my ex. I will never find another like him..but like you are doing to your ex girlfriend he is ignoring me..it hurts. But then again I did not! Break up with him because he was not my type.though many people said he wasn’t. I broke up with him because he just seemed depressed by the presence of me and the fact that he cursed and fussed about problems in our relationship I did not know we had.I ground out and ended not for me but more for his happiness. I begged him countless times to just talk to me about anything he felt..he never did. So question is do I leave him be as he asked me? He also mocked me with my first attempt of reconnecting

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   Narjiss

   July 15, 2013 at 2:06 am

   I’m in your same situation Shauna, I felt guilty when I broke up so I just found myself with a new one, after I knew that something went wrong with me, so I start to talk to him many times, i beg him a lot … But nothing is positive … Sorry, but have you found a solution ?! Tnx for reading .

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   kenjiK

   June 21, 2013 at 1:46 pm

   as a guy who got dumped only to have my ex try to get me back, my advise to the girls is not to wait too long esp he did not do anything to justify you dumping him. my ex and i met in college.my ex dumped me suddenly about 1 year into the relationship saying I was not really her type.my ex was pretty and funny but could be a bit high maintaince. I was deeply in love with her. I had my suspicions about the real reasons but I decided not to confront her. why bother she is leaving anyways. i was hurting badly so i buried myself in my studies and gym workouts. i was in deep depression for 4 months before i began to recover. we had no contact with each other no e mail no text, nothing. i had resolved to recover fully and take a break from dating. my ex then began texting me. when i ignored her texts she called me directly and asked to meet. i said i am still the same person so i am still not your type so why meet ? she said that was not the real reason and she would like to meet to talk. i had my suspicions about the real reason and i agreed to meet in a week to buy myself time to do some snooping. i found out that she was dating another guy from another college that was like me only rich and to be honest better looking not by much though. my female cousin knows the guy from the other college ( she studies there too)and confirmed that she seen them there. they broke up for whatever reason and now my ex wants me back. i then texted her and said i did not wish to meet after all. i did not tell her i knew about the other guy.

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   abby

   November 16, 2013 at 6:29 am

   hi kenjik. i want to ask. what is your advice to girls who dumped his bf and what should we do to get him back?