6 Signs That Prove Your Ex Is In A Rebound Relationship (And What To Do With Them)

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Tine

March 10, 2014 at 1:57 pm

My ex and I were together for 6,5 years, but had difficulties due to a rough start. In the end I suggested to move out for a while, so we could work it out. He broke up 10 days later. But he broke up with the words: “You’re my soulmate, I love you more than anything, I still hope we’ll end up together and starte a family, but I need to be alone – right now.” His words gave me hope and I decided to fight for him, which he was well aware og and allowed. We kept seeing eachother once a week (with sex and general relationship behavior), so that he also could have some alone time. Over the next three months he repeated the wish for us ending up together, but that he wasn’t ready. But he started initiating contact more and even invited me to a concert. Four days after the concert I found out from a mutual friend, that he was seeing someone else as well and had been doing so a 2-3 times a week for two months. I confronted him and he was very embarrased. He said that he isn’t in love with her or anything, the sex isn’t as great, she isn’t as beautiful as me (which, thank god, is true. I know I’m being petty…), but that it is problem free and straight forward to see her. I decided that I couldn’t be part of that, so I don’t see him like that anymore. But he still says that he hopes we end up together, he loves me and all that. We saw eachother last week to switch old pictures, I made him dinner, but kept my distance and suddenly he was extremely flirtatious and interested. He still sees his Plain Jane, even though he gets furious when I call her his girlfriend. And because I am a damned fool, I for some reason still wants him back. But I told him, that if that was ever going to happen it was his turn to prove him self, even though I didn’t believe he would do that. He started crying and said that he would fight for me. He is just not ready now. So what is going on? I get it, she is a rebound, I am just afraid he will end up becoming her boyfriend because it’s the easiest. Is there anything I should do or should I just wait it out? She doesn’t know that he’s been with me at the same time as she has. It is really gross – but I still love him. Help…
Monica

March 10, 2014 at 1:36 am

He called. Friday, I missed the call, I did call back 2 hrs later, he didn’t answer, should I reach out again?

admin

March 10, 2014 at 5:51 pm

No wait a while and text him.

Pam

March 8, 2014 at 8:34 pm

Ok chris im not sure what the hell is going on with my ex but maybe you can figure it out. We have dated 2 years and 4 months, well in february i found a letter from another girl saying she desired him. I confronted him about it and he continued lieing. Well he finally told me he was seeing her and that they have a lot in common but that they are just friends. Well he hasnt been talking to me like he used to. I went to go see him last thursday we went to a movie. When i first saw him he was texting her. After the movie we got in his car, he said i feel guilty. Im guessing he felt guilty for seeing someone else. Anyways we both started crying and he said he wants us to focus on getting through school and after we get though with school he would take me back. I said i will always love you and he said he will always love me. So im not sure if the girl is a rebound or not. He says they are friends that he broke up with her because he still loves me..but he wants to remain single and focus on being successful. He texts her alot and they still see each other. Im not sure what they text about.

admin

March 10, 2014 at 5:22 pm

1. Your ex is kind of an a**hole to do that to you.
2. Right now it is in rebound territory but the question you have to ask yourself is if he is even worth trying to get back.

Jesse

March 8, 2014 at 2:56 pm

My ex boyfriend and i were together for 9 months but were friends for a few months before that. Our families were really close and my ex boyfriend and i were best friends. He chased so hard to get me, going through tears of seeing me with other guys and being friend-zoned. When were were together we spent everyday with each other. We lost our virginity to each other as well. He broke up with me 2 months ago because “he lost feelings” but it was really because of this guy i was talking to you. I kind of flirted with the guy and my ex told me to stop but i didnt. My ex was really hurt by this and embarrassed to tell anyone about it until a month after the split. Now he has what i believe is a “rebound”. He told my friend that he trusts her (he doesn’t know were friends) and then asked her for help with talking to this new girl. Of course my friend tells him shes a rebound and its not a good idea. My ex kind of agreed and said that he just wants affection. He then poured his heart out saying he thinks of me a lot and they’re all good memories that make him smile, but they’re more like memories with a friend. He said he tries to convince himself he doesn’t miss me though. Then he said “honestly maybe we’ll get back together when things calm down.” But he’s still snapchatting this girl all the time. A couple days after the first conversation he told my friend that this girl is really sweet and he likes her and that he doesn’t think of me as anything but a friend. They’re going to the same party as me tonight and apparently him and his rebound are meeting there. Im scared. Please help me. Do you think this is for sure a rebound? Do you think him and i have a chance of getting back together?

Cat

March 9, 2014 at 8:31 am

Hey Jesse, I’m in the same exact boat as you. Me and my ex have dated for close to a year. Problems arised when this guy that I had a thing with before I met my ex started flirting with me again, and at that time me and my ex had a rough patch so i flirted back with the guy. My ex told me to stop but I didn’t, I ended up making out with the guy when I was drunk at a party, and my ex found out. That was when he decided he can’t trust me anymore and he was really hurt because he had done so much for me and I had betrayed him, despite all my apologies. He gave me a second chance, but it wasn’t the same. I felt it going downhill for the past 2 months when he met this other girl and started snapchatting her a lot. He broke up with me about a week ago and told me we’re just going to be friends but for now we should keep the no contact rule. I hesitantly agreed. The next day he asked me to go out to dinner with him. I ignored him. The day after he initiated contact again in which i replied with 1 word responses. He asked me to go to dinner with him again. I asked him “what are the chances of us getting back” and he said “we’ll discuss that over dinner, buns”. And we ended up just catching up for a bit. I’m just really confused, but I’m positive the new girl is a rebound. It’s just going to hurt when I find out they hook up and stuff.
Jesse

March 8, 2014 at 3:04 pm

Sorry i meant “talking to” not “talking to you”

sabrina

March 7, 2014 at 7:18 pm

Hey chris 🙂 90 days of NC, 4months with his new girl. If you have time please make an update guide on rebounds 🙂 does rebound same as Grass is greener syndrome?

admin

March 8, 2014 at 7:00 pm

I think that’s a good idea. An update on rebounds.

Jenny

March 7, 2014 at 4:35 pm

Hi I’ve been dating a guy over a year and he recently broke up with me because I am getting a job out of town and he thought us being together would make me miss opportunities along with him because we’d be worried about each other all the time. I would say a week or two after we broke up, he began talking to someone else! Mainly texting and I know they hangout some… No telling what else. We had a great relationship so this doesn’t make sense to me how he can already have feelings for someone else????

Jenny

March 9, 2014 at 5:48 pm

And he kinda acts like he wants to ignore me which of course makes me want to keep fighting

Monica

March 7, 2014 at 8:10 am

I feel all hope is lost for me and im moving on, we were together for 3 years , he moved to NC in sept and we had a LDR for 4 months, I was going to move down in March, in jan we got into a huge argument. I gave him space b/c he was so upset with all the fighting. I didn’t call for 2 weeks and when I did he was so mean and angry! Long story short I asked if he’d met someone else he said yes, then hung up on me. I called him back and the woman answered told me not to call her man anymore. I felt he was just upset and trying to hurt me. I went NC for 40 days. I broke contact today and he answered,. He. Aviods me, he tells me he will call me nack. Then I look on instagram and see him and his new GF

admin

March 7, 2014 at 6:59 pm

Is his new gf long distance too?
Monica

March 8, 2014 at 9:40 am

I think I panicked yesterday, its weird seeing the man I have been witj for 3 yrs tell this chick he loves her n vice versa, he literally jumped in this relationship a week after we broke up, I think he’s transferring all the love he has for me to this rebound! She always had men problems and he use to console her to some degree b/c they were friends, he dumped me but I beleive he is using her as a crutch for his emotional needs, and she is genuinely falling for him, its the honeymoon stage so its pure lust and attraction, which can be confused as love. thursday when we spoke I let him know I know abt this new girl and I hope he’s happy and god bless, kinda letting him know I accept the break up and im moving on, I think he is surprised I did not continue to chase him and harrass him after that txt message, and he called me yesterday but I missed the call thank god, I did call him back 2 hours later but he didnt pick up or return my call… its fine tho b/c he must have been thinking of me to call me. I was a.great girl to him, his own childs mother told me I was the best gf he ever had as well as the longest relationship he has ever been in, I been hitting the gym hard and been looking better and better! I know I have to be patient so I am. But im also going to start dating again. I am 25 and he is 34 his rebound is 32, I don’t have kids, but I know his rebound has a 12 yr old daughter, I seriously doubt this woman would just up and move herself and her child all the way to NC to his 1 bdrm apt! Lol after only 2 months of dating! Now the more I look at this logically I blv he is def in a rebound relationship! Do u blv this woman is a rebound chris? Even tho he has known her for some yrs? Does that have any bearing on if its a rebound or not? He seems really happy and so does she, she calls him her hubby and even her mom is. Calling him her son in law! I don’t see this ending well since he friends with her brother when this whole thing ends! They are in a ldr as well.
Monica

March 7, 2014 at 7:10 pm

Yes, this girl is from harlem ny, when I looked on instagram it looks like she spent like a month down there, I feel hopeless b/c he’s known this girl before he even met me. Hes so affectionate with her and he tells her he loves her and vice versa! Everything started 9 weeks ago with them and thats when we had the big fight. Idk of I’d consider their relationship a.rebound b/c she’s been a friend, it kills me to see how happy he is when im hurting. Idk if she plans on moving in with him since she was in the same boat as me as far as distance, I was gonna move in march, there is no recent posts of them together, last one I see is 4 weeks ago on both their pages. But she puts up little collages of them, most recent a week ago n she said happy 2 month anniversary I love u, n he told her I love u 2

kate

March 5, 2014 at 8:21 pm

Hi,

I was with my ex fiance for nearly 10 years we broke up about 10 months ago,but also kind of kept seeing each other up to 5 months ago, and now I really want to work things out. However he started to see this 19 year old ( he’s 27) about 3 1/2 months ago. I just want to know if this is a rebound because he didn’t start to see her till about 7 months after our break up… I have spoken to him and he admits that dating this girl is the reason why we are not trying our relationship again. I don’t know what to do how do you convince someone that they are making a mistake. How is it possible for a guy that loved you so much he proposed in a helicopter over the harbor bridge,fast forward to a couple of years later put some 19 uear old infront of me? How do I get him to drop her?

admin

March 7, 2014 at 6:12 am

Wow… It really seems like a rebound to me. Logically it doesn’t seem that a 27 year old man is going to settle down long term with a 19 year old girl.

Samantha

March 4, 2014 at 6:29 pm

My exfiance/baby daddy and i broke up a few days ago — he decided to go after our daycare gal who’s 18 (we are 24) – i cant help but be angry and embarrasssed. He’s never been a good dad or partner for that matter, but the way he is going about it is all wrong — he tells me i dress like a slut(which i don at alll) whenever i want to go downtown and many other harsh names. I’m sure its a rebound, it has to e, right? #stupidboys
Zel

March 3, 2014 at 12:47 pm

Hi Chris,

I’d like to know if my guy’s new girl is a rebound or not.

I dated this guy for 2 months, and during the first month I let him know I like him too by kissing him back. He was frank about not being comfortable with committing to a girl because of his responsibilities regarding his family (he’s the breadwinner) and serving his community. Because of that, I told him I understand him because I also have responsibilities that take a lot of my time (being a breadwinner and a single mom) I can’t have sex with him if he can’t commit.

I let him do most of the work since I feel that I’m the girl and he shouldn’t feel that I like him a lot. I do show him that I appreciate his efforts by thanking him, talking to him on the phone often (but I’ve never called him), and kissing him. We just one issue which is not having enough time to be together, and we’re already lucky if we get to spend 2 hours of dating in a day. But we had good memories when together most of the time.

But 2 months ago, we had the chance to meet at my place and we made out. I wasn’t just comfortable doing that at my house and I told him that, because I wanted him to feel that my parents’ house isn’t really the best place to do it. He said before he left that we’ll still see each other and exchange text messages. Yet I noticed something strange: he borrowed my laptop to do social networking stuff, checked on his photos and showed one to me, mentioning a female co-worker of his out of the blue. I didn’t feel good about it but I didn’t show him that I was that bothered.

I noticed that after that day of making out, he started disappearing little by little…no text the whole day, then the day after that he just sent me a text that he has a lot of problems. I told him to keep praying, since it was the third time that he told me he has a lot of problems and he didn’t talk much about it when I asked him the first and second time. Days after that I got no texts and I found out later on that during that weekend that we were supposed to meet like always, he went on vacation with his colleagues (and that girl he talked about) and they, not the company, paid for it. It made me feel bad because he didn’t tell me anything about the vacation, and he said money was a big problem to him that time during the first time I asked what his problem was.

When he came back from vacation, he didn’t even explain why he didn’t text me that long…he didn’t even apologize. He instead started treating me differently and would just send me general good morning quotations. In person, he was already avoiding me. A few weeks after, he and his colleagues went on vacation again (he also paid for his share) and I saw their photos online that he was always beside that female colleague.

What made things worse for me is that I saw him, two his colleagues and the girl in our own hometown. He brought them over and showed them around. I was so curious if he already has a relationship with the girl, and I had the chance to catch them on a double date with the two other colleagues. I could tell with the look on their faces that they never expected me to see them on the spot, yet I didn’t make a scene. I just stared at him and the girl and didn’t make a scandal or confrontation. They can’t stare back at me long enough, so I assumed they were guilty of making me look like a fool for a long time.

Since then, I never made an effort to contact him. He didn’t contact me either, and I noticed that after the incident, he kept creating shout outs online that he’s happy and in love (without referring to any girl in particular) and the girl would give comments that weren’t too obvious that they’re already an item.

What hurts me is that the female colleague is a bit older than me, not the type who has simple needs and wants (he would often say that what he wanted in a girl is simplicity since he’s a simple guy), and is too convenient for him that I thought wouldn’t be a challenge to him at all unlike me that he pursued for 5 months (I didn’t like him at first so I would really ignore him). I just don’t understand if my being a single mom was really an issue, since he told me from the start he accepts me for who I am (unless his family’s totally against the idea), or he’s just a pathetic flirt. Another is he can make time with her even on weekends, unlike with me before. Yeah sure, she can go out with him even during late nights because she doesn’t have a kid and parents to take care of. I also made it clear to the guy on the first month that we were dating that I can spend time with him late at night only if he’s already my boyfriend or we’re with friends (if we’re not yet a couple). I don’t want him to think that I can easily be that comfortable around him and he just might take advantage.
Jenn

March 3, 2014 at 5:30 am

Enjoyed reading your article.
My ex fiance started a rebound a couple of days after I called it off with him. He knew her from work. She’s 11 years younger than him, so I know this is just a rebound, because he cannot be alone and handle the break up. After finding out about her, I don’t want him back but I am still bitter about him moving on so quickly. As for myself I have not had a rebound or have let anyone get close to me. I’m just trying to figure out what’s going on in his head.

admin

March 3, 2014 at 6:35 pm

She definitely seems like a rebound.

Sabrina

March 1, 2014 at 5:55 am

My ex for 4 years is with this girl for 4months, only 60% chance that this is a rebound right? I lost my chances ;(

admin

March 2, 2014 at 7:13 pm

Correct… the longer he dates her the lower the possibility of her being a rebound is.
sabrina

March 3, 2014 at 2:31 pm

But it does have signs of rebound, how long does the honeymoon phase last? The girl knows that if they broke up, my ex and i will be together, and shes doin everything for that not to happen

Sarah

February 28, 2014 at 6:54 am

Is it still a rebound if he moved on with one of his closest girlfriends??

admin

February 28, 2014 at 10:57 pm

How long have they been dating?

Emma

February 27, 2014 at 1:50 pm

Hi, I just saw your website as I was looking for some insights about relationships. I was wondering what kind of relationship my ex is into. So here’s my story.

My ex and I were highschool classmates but we lost contact, and by the end of 2012 we had communication again after a long while. He works for the military and was heading back home from a deployment from the middle east. Since then we were talking until he came back and we dated for almost a month but sadly he needs to leave bc he enlisted again for another duty. Then we decided to make our relationship offical Mid of 2013, obviously it was a long distance relationship. Everything was rosey, then he was deployed. By the end of 2013, our warm relationship started to get cold and boring, i thought I was just busy with work and he was just stressed from his situation too so i tried to understand and hold on with the relationship. As a GF i was his only emotional support that he has but then he suddenly mentioned that i was far from him that it was hard to love someone that’s far. He gave me reasons to break up with him but when i asked him, he gave me a confused answer. Obviously the distance was killing our relationship and in the end we endup fighting coz we got frustrated and disappointed on whats happening to us. He kept saying he wants me/us but he was unsure on how he feels coz he think the spark’s gone. So in the end i felt we both fell out of love. When i had enough heart ache from whats happening i decided to break up with him even tho i didnt want to. Coz i know deep down inside me i still feel something for him but i guess it just died coz of the distance. So after the break up, i accidentally found out that he was already dating an Asian chick while we were still together, they met by the end of 2013. So he was already swaying when we were still together thats why he became suddenly cold. So after the break up, he came back and asked for a 2nd chance to start over..i wanted too accept him again but when i confronted him who was the girl (maybe it was just a friend) he admitted that he loves her already. So in the end he cheated on me. But by the time he admitted it, he doesnt want to get back together anymore and he chose her bec she’s physically there. So our relationship ended start of this year. Im quite nosey on somethings and i found out that this girl can’t even speak english well. My ex and i could talk bout almost anything, i know he was emotionally dependent on me. So since the break up, my ex contacted me 2x and was sharing his problems again and i felt that he needs an emo boost and support. We did talk to comfort him a bit but i told him that he needs to talk these out to his new GF. Then we both wished luck bout our future and havent spoken fora while.

Idk if he’s serious but he told me he has no plans of leaving her there even he comes back State side. His deployment will end mid this year. It was quite painful for me coz we were already talking bout marriage before this chick came into the picture and now he says he plans to marry her. So i was thinking if my ex’s new relationship a rebound or do you think he’s infatuated or serious? Idk if i have a fight on this coz we were only physically together for a month but we were emotionally connected since 2012 compare to his new relationship that started late 2013 with a girl who’s physically there with him, who doesnt speak english well plus culture differences too. (Idk am I bias?) Obviously im still a little hang up from the relationship. Hope you could give me some insights bout this. Thankse
Nitika

February 25, 2014 at 2:08 pm

The thing is i didnt date him but loved me fore 3 years. it’s a very complicated story. he was my best friend and i never realized that i fell for him too. but when he proposed me 6 months ago i turned him down. after 2 weeks he got into a relationship with another girl. aftr sometime i realized ive loved him all this time, any way whenever i tried talking to him, tried to make him understand my situation. he thinks im playing a game and i want to just break up his relationship. i used to call him at night so whenever i called we wpuld talk for hours,cute and lovey things but every morning it would be like ghost of girlfriend’s past, u know sleeping with someone and waking up to no one. he always chooses her gf over me. the last time we tralked he proposed to me and said he will leave his gf but old habits die hard, so that same day he went all like Nitika i cant leave her, my friends are saying choose M. i told him to think once again, talk to one person and then decide. he chose her again. he didnt say but we didn’t talk for a day. when i broke up i wrote “goodafter, it’s over 🙂 tc” and he replied “oh” . we’re in school, so after a week when i saw him he passed a smile, he kept looking at me for 5 secs. then he smiled at me few more times and did 2 things to get my attention. now i dont know what he wants,i think he wants me to be hooked to him. the day he we got into a relationship i think he met her and i think they kissed. she cuts her hands for him, so she mustve done that.

admin

February 25, 2014 at 7:02 pm

Sounds complicated… you didn’t date him ever?
Nitika Jain

February 26, 2014 at 6:22 am

3 years ago, he was obsessed with me. I didnt know what to do so one day i said yes to him and after 2 days i broke up with him. But last oct when i talked with him, i said i dont remember being in relationship with you. he cried a lot and said he was suicidal and because of this break up he hasnt ever trusted me much.
And this 11th feb he proposed to me i said yes. We talked for 2 hours like a couple and at that time he was dating her and i knew. He said he was going to break up with her but he didn’t. His friends keep telling him to choose the other girl or may be he’s just playing. I dont get why he would spend hours talking to me when he says he’s serious for the other girl. He’s probably attached to her because they’ve made out.
The moment his relationship had a bad phase, he came to me. Am i his back up or what?
Nitika Jain

March 2, 2014 at 1:14 pm

?
Really need some advice.
Nitika

February 25, 2014 at 2:14 pm

but he has loved me for* and now 4.
he thought i was playing and he still does*
good afternoon*
whenever ive talked to him, he was the one to flirt.
ive never said i love you to anyone with my whole heart but when i say ily to him it means the world to me. ive cried a lot for him but he thinks im a heartless bitch

jessicca

February 21, 2014 at 9:16 pm

me and my ex broke up in july and then in september i found out hes going out with a girl .. they have been going out for 5 months now .. about to make 6 months now .. im trying to move on but i still think abotu him and idk if hes in a rebound relationship

jessicca

February 21, 2014 at 9:21 pm

but his friend used to hit me up once in a while like in december but it stoppped soo .. and me and my ex talked like once 2 months after his new relationship

Louisa

February 21, 2014 at 10:23 am

My ex and I broke up about 5 or 6 months back and I just found out he has been dating someone for a few weeks. We didn’t have a clean break up. We work together extremely closely in a creative industry.. So we’ve been around one another at times almost every day and even have to go away together. So it’s really hard to get any space or distance for me to get over him.

It was a hard break up, we loved each other a lot and were best friends as well but he being younger freaked out I guess about the seriousness of it all after 2-3 years.
I know he felt terrible about breaking up and second guessed himself often, and he would still even a couple of weeks back cross the line with physical ness with me.

I just found out he’s been dating someone for a few weeks. I was distraught and probably over reacted, cried a lot because I wasn’t ready. He said he’s still not over me but knows he should move on. He says he still thinks it’s the best decision for now for us to break up.
I am worried that I am replaced (and it’s so hard to work with him through out this).

Is this a rebound or a relationship?
serena

February 21, 2014 at 12:59 am

Well I’ve done nc for 2 weeks now, I tell you 1 thing is that you do feel better when you actually finally do go nc. It puts a lot in2 prospective. I still love my ex boyfriend but what I feel now is that if he is happy so be it with his new girlfriend… If we was meant to be he would of came back or even we would never of broke up in the first place. I don’t no if he misses me who knows. I’m sure he does. We had a good 2 years together. Its just a shame we can’t be friends, well not right now anyway. It still hurts a little but I gotta get on with my life and see where that takes me. I wish we did work but we didn’t and now I have to start a new life without him. Who knows what the future holds.

admin

February 21, 2014 at 6:19 pm

Good for you! I hope you continue your progress of kind of getting over him.

Lucy

February 19, 2014 at 4:07 pm

I know my ex loves me. There are like so many signs. He knows I have added him on whatsapp caz once I msged him by mistake. So he starts putting up photos of thay rebound girl. Once he put up a photo of him wearig a shirt, which I had gifted him. He wants me to see all this and melt.

And theres this anonymous question site. Ask.fm where you can ask yourself anonymous queations. And he asked himself. “Why did you break up with A, anyways B is the bomb” he thinks im stupid not to find out who sent him this. And he replies saying “idk she didnt keep me happy” and what not.these questions gt posted on fb. And I used to stalk his fb. Now I have stopped..and hes doing all this on purpose because he knows I stalk his fb. Cause I have told him before hand im a big stalker . And he knows I used to stalk my previous ex. So hes got the brains and he knows im on his profile. Now I got of it.

And in this anonymous site, the site will ask you questions by itself if you click the qiestion button. And theres something called the question for the day. There will be one common question for all the ask.fm users. So once the question of day was ” what are the two things youre good at” and he replies saying football and massaging. And he used to massage me. And I used to tell him I love his massages and he knows that. Ive told him this whenever he used to massage me. And then another day a qiestoon was “what name would you wish to have if you had a different gender?” And he replied saying urm…hard but I guess fiona? And we both had planned before that we would bame our kids name as fiona. So you see what hes doing? Hes tryna make me remember all these and expext me to think about all this and come and cry. And he also expects me to read them. Which I used to. And not to forget, anothee question how was your new uear celebration? He replied saying the beat with my girl. And another question was what do you expext in 2014? More time with my gf. All this hes doing to piss me off.

That bestfriend of the girl hes dating is my good friend and she told me, they both have not even made out, itseems my ex told, lets not go physical dor a while. And hes in rebound with her for 2 months. And for that both the months I cried my ass out, irritating botht the gf and my ex. And now its good. And also he got in a relation with her within a week after we broke up.

And we dont have a proper reason why we broke up. He saus different things to different people. “She broke up” ” I broke up cause she doesnt treat me right” “she didnt keep me happy” “she had guy friends”

He has no proper freaking reason. Reasonless.

Tell me what should be my next step and wwhat does all these signs show? And also would he come back?
Lucya

February 18, 2014 at 7:01 pm

the problem which im going through is, we were an amazing couple. We dated for 1.6 years and it was going really great. We always fight and get back the same day. But we had a fight and it was really pointless and I obviously knew we would get back! So I didn’t contact him for 2 weeks, and then later on after 4 weeks you started dating another girl. She looks ugly and her hair is till her mid ear and everyone makes fun of her. And makes fun of him to be with her. And that girl isnt into long terms. She dresses up like a guy and is almost a tomboy type. And as soon I heard it I met him I cried under his knees to take me back, (which I realize I shouldnt have done) and he just rejected me repeatdly. And now decemember passed by, it was jan, and I stalked him alot on fb, and ALOT OF SIGNS SHOW he is trying to make me jealous in all way possible believe me. And then on jan 12th I called him and cried on the phone saying I miss him and he just cut the phone. And jan 26th we had some program in our school. He was walking around searching for me, and as soon as he saw me, he put his arm around her waist. And I acted like I didnt see and I kept ignoring him completely. He tried to highlight that he was there, but I ignored him.

I was clicking selfies and stuff with a friend, and he stood in front of me with her to just burn me. But I didn’t bother. And my friend also tild while I was clicking a selfi he was staring at me. 😐

And finally jan 29th was my birthday, he called and wished me in a nervous weird manner, I answered the phone and I went like who is this? And all that ddrama. And he goes like I just called to wish you happy birhday. And im like okay. And he just cut the phone. After that he called me 3 times. And I didnt pick up 😀 and ignored it.

And now here I am its ffeb 7th. I havent contacted him reading all your blog. And I have stopped stalking him. But right now the problem is idk if ibam ever getting him back. And all the signals im so confused. And I dont have him anywhere facebook or twitter or anything I have deleted him off. And the girl and him never used to talk while I was dating him.

He startes dating her quickly in those two weeks. Im so confused why would he do this and what is this guy upto and what should I do? Please advice me.

admin

February 19, 2014 at 7:13 pm

Do you think he met her while you two were together.
Lucya

February 19, 2014 at 7:39 pm

NOPEE NOT AT ALL. NOT A WORD.

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