Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

1,415 thoughts on “This Is How You Know If Your Ex Still Loves You”

  1. Tricia Torres

    February 8, 2015 at 12:15 am

    Gave me a 11 signs to know that my bf still love me pllz!! And I want to know if he really have feelinqs for me…

    1. admin

      February 9, 2015 at 4:13 pm

      Haha isn’t that what this article is about?

  2. P

    February 6, 2015 at 1:10 am

    So my ex boyfriend broke up with me cause we’ve been having a lot of fights lately and I tend to be stubborn and say hurtful things. He tells me that he feels emotionally stressed so he broke it off, he also said he wants to see my grow on my win because he thinks he is hindering me from growing (which I don’t agree on cause I’m achieving many things)… I don’t know if he’s making excuses to get away from me or he actually cares. Opinions?

    It’s only been 5-6 days since we broke up and my friends had to tell me it was over. I didn’t hear it from him.. So after the break up I didn’t really know or research much about the NC rule so I was being clingy and desperate. I kept texting and stuff even tho he wanted space. Upon reading a lot of things on how effective the NC is, I gave it a shot. MY PROBLEM IS we go to the same school and I still have to see him every week cause we belong to the same organization working on the same projects. I really want NC to work but it seems impossible… Any tips?

    1. admin

      February 6, 2015 at 2:21 pm

    2. P

      February 6, 2015 at 1:11 am

      *grow on my own

  3. Kmoney

    February 4, 2015 at 7:29 pm

    hi! I was hoping you could just read over this and tell me what you think! please!
    I became friends with this guy and then we eventually started to talk and text more, I didn’t know he still loved his ex at this point.
    they weren’t together but he loved her. she’s done him wrong multiple times.
    so anyway we started dating and it didn’t last too long, but he left me for his ex, and then they dated for a few months and came back.. this has happened a few times. the last time he broke up with her and came back to me. he hasn’t been back with her since. we’ve been hanging out and sleeping together the past year.
    but were also not together. he will call me when hes drunk wanting me to come over, just the way he looks at me I feel like he loves me.
    I have a group of guy friends I hag with, and every weekend for the past few months ive been going over there.. the past two times he’s showed up. ill catch him looking at me.
    but when I try to talk about being together he says he doesn’t want to talk about it or says he doesn’t want to date.
    we get along great we always have fun together and im just super confused because his actions say he’s into me but then he doesn’t want me as a gf, but he will sleep with me. ;(
    I don’t know if im being used or if he actually cares.

    1. admin

      February 5, 2015 at 3:23 pm

      His actions look like someone who is hot and cold and keeps changing their mind.

      I think he cares at times. Other times he doesn’t know what he wants.

  4. SHANAZ

    February 3, 2015 at 12:19 am

    Hi My ex said i should move on, because he was seeing some and he had move on. one month pass and he showed up to my house bering gifts. since that he is constantly in communication with me.

    i am a bit confused.

    What is it that he wants. I do still love him. But am happy to respect his decision. Just a bit confused.

    Is it that he wants us to get back together, or he wants to just be friends.

    help me please. i am going crazy

    1. admin

      February 3, 2015 at 1:23 pm

      Seems like he still thinks about you a lot.

  5. ruth

    January 29, 2015 at 4:08 am

    Hi,i need an advice what to do. i cant say ex bcos we dont have a formal break up. We’re together for more than 2 years and living in 1 house. at first we were so crazy inlove and happy, u will know each other if u stay in 1 roof. To make the story short i got pregnant and its 5 months now. When i talk about his plans etc he told me the important is he loves me but im not satisfied with that. Eversince i wanted us to get married and we talked about that before. Now it changed his decision. He has his reasons. He told me to wait, bcos he is working on a ship after the contract will i know the answer. He is leaving next month and still hoping to propose to me even his he made his decision. he knows that marriage is important to me especially im pregnant now and i am ashamed at the people especially at the church cos im a Christian and he knows that. 1week we dont have communication i control myself not to text him and give him time to think. Please help. Thanks
    Ruth

    1. admin

      January 29, 2015 at 3:09 pm

      I wrote an article on pregnancy and what to do. You should check it out.

  6. GIGIBYOUT

    January 28, 2015 at 8:39 pm

    I’m confused! My ex has a new girlfriend, but he still comes around to see our kids every now and then. We are currently living with his mother because I just moved back from down South and she wants us to stay with her so she can help with the kids. Here’s a little bit of why I’m confused..He has a girlfriend but told my aunt that I have nothing to worry about. He told me he isn’t happy but he isn’t unhappy. When he’s around he’s always watching me, he acts like he has something to say to me but doesn’t say anything, he acts like he wants to come back to me and our kids but won’t, I catch his sister and him whispering in private areas of the house, and when I don’t give him the attention he wants he goes out of his way to get it from me…I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong, I’m like in a state of distress. There’s so many mixed signals and he knows that if he came to me today and said I want to work things out, I would say ok lets talk! I’m tired of playing cat and mouse, when I come to him on my own terms trying to see how he feels and all, he says he doesn’t want to be with me right now. I don’t get whats going on, everyone whose around sees this and sees that I’ve changed and improved myself as well. Please help me! I want him back but don’t know what to do at this point.

    1. admin

      January 29, 2015 at 2:45 pm

      You are doing the NC rule I am assuming?

    2. GIGIBYOUT

      January 29, 2015 at 3:33 pm

      Yes I am doing minimal contact.

  7. Mel

    January 25, 2015 at 11:43 am

    Please can you tell me if I still have a chance with my ex? Our relationship was going well although he was in a bit of trouble with police. I knew from the start as we had met a yr earlier. As the date of bail came closer he wouldn’t answer calls or text. Eventually he replied he needs time and space to sort his head out. That he will be bk and he still loves me, this was a few daysbefore cChristmas. So I gave him space, but rang him Christmas day to say happy Christmas, he declined my call, same new year too. Since then I have text and tried to call, he just ignores me. We have had a brief conversation since and he told me it’s over, because I kept contacting him, but also was really low and said he had tried to take his own life. After that I couldn’t stop worrying about him and I admit gone over board trying to contact him. His bail is extended and he still won’t talk. I contacted him via withheld number several times, once he picked up I froze and couldn’t speak. After several calls he said I know it’s you you just couldn’t leave it could you? Now he’s said it’s over for good. I still didn’t speak. I’m heartbroken because I really do love him. Our relationship was really good before this, he asked me to marry him.He said he was changing his number, we live in diffrent cities, is there any hope?

    1. admin

      January 26, 2015 at 3:46 pm

      Of course there is still a chance but it doesn’t guarantee success you know that, right?

    2. Mel

      January 26, 2015 at 4:39 pm

      Yes of course. Right now he has changed his number and I’m blocked on Whatsapp, I have just started the no contact, which seems a lot easier than I thought as I have no way of contacting him anyway! Will he contact me again?

    3. Mel

      January 26, 2015 at 6:09 pm

      I feel he has made a rash decision based on anger and other situations that surround him as we made plans for the future etc. I feel he loves me, even now. Shall I just give him time? Our relationship was fantastic we really connected on an emotional level and spent hours talking and laughing with each other. We even spent days working together when he had decorating jobs to do. I miss him so much, but I know I can survive without him have done before, from when we first met. Was love at first sight for me, and he said I stole his heart. We got back in contact and decided to give things a go. I really can not understand how someone can go from chatting 3,4 or maybe even 6 times a day to nothing within a few days. I find it very harsh, and do now wonder why? Of course I can’t get answers as I am blocked.

  8. Shaz

    January 23, 2015 at 11:35 pm

    Hi,
    I only just discovered your website. I made the decision to move out after 5 yrs (we both have kids but none together) but this made it a big deal as my kids and I had to move as it was his house. After a couple of weeks out of the house I did the NC for about 3 weeks. His birthday and xmas were on this time and he texted me but I didn’t answer. He tried to ring a few times and then stopped for a week but then sent me another text and said he wishes if talk to him and he still wants to be friends. I had nov choice after 3 weeks to contact as I still has some stuff at his house needing sorting out. So last 2 weeks he has been texting or Emailing about every second day. I have started up two of the text conversation but the rest have been him initiating it. He has admit infer to do doing something wrong by me and holding into guilt for last 2yrs and it felt such a relief for him to finally tell me as this was impacting on us and causing so much strain. I knew something was off and that’s why I’d withdrawn in the relationship while he went from trying to fix it to giving up at times also. We had two very hard years. I asked shim why he never asked me to leave if he felt so bad and he said he never would’ve kicked me out and that he was hoping for a miracle. He said in a text he knows I would never get back with him now after what he’s admitted to but he wants to be friends. he says he thinks about me
    Most nights falling to sleep and a couple of days ago sent me a text saying it’s been over a month since weve seen each other in person. So why doesn’t he ask direct to to see me or try to get me out in a ‘friend date.’??

    1. admin

      January 26, 2015 at 2:36 pm

      May I ask why you moved out in the first place?

  9. Jessica

    January 12, 2015 at 7:01 am

    Need some advice,
    My ex and I dated for 2.5 years and we broke up. That was back in 2008. I was still in love with him and we were in and on and off relationship for a long time. Every time he tried to talk to another girl online, when it didn’t work out, he came back to me and we started the relationship again. This went on for more than 5 years. During these times, we would go to lots of trips together and he would buy me lots of stuffs like a pearl necklace set. He would also get jealous if guys checked me out. Four months ago, he told me he is planning to see someone else and we ended our relationship after that. He told me, it happened too fast and he was sorry for the things he did and promised me that he would never do that to me again and really “treasured the 12 years that we been best friends and dating”. He said he would want to make it up to me. I was still angry at him and told him to give me some space and do not text me until I told him to. For the past three months I had no contact with him. He also didn’t contact me during the 3 months of NC. After the NC was over, I was invited to a Christmas gathering with some mutual friends of ours. I went and I saw him there. However, we both didn’t talk to each other I was not able to make the move to talk to him because I was shy and did not know what to say to him. During the dinner, he mentioned to all of us that he is still seeing the girl.
    Later on that night, we went to our friend’s house. I gave everyone a Christmas card, including him. That night I had to leave early, so before I left, everyone stood up and gave me a hug except him. He just sat there with his hands in his pockets and said “Merry Christmas” and did not acknowledge me when I said “bye everyone”. I was hurt by his behaviour and wondered why I spent 12 years in being friends and even date and love this guy. I found out from a mutual friend that my ex was not feeling well that day. On Christmas Eve, I sent him a message and wished him “Merry Christmas” and saying that I forgive him for the things that he has done and also apologized for the things that I have done and need some more space so I can move on from the past before we can be friends again. He never replied to that message.
    My question is I do miss him as a friend and would like to ask him to meet up to see how he is doing and listen to his side of the story about this whole thing before I make my conclusion of not seeing him ever again. Because He was always there for me when I needed someone there for me.
    And is this a rebound.. they are still dating after 4 months and he started things with her before he ended with me, and he also apologized to me before about 4 months ago and said it happened so fast..

  10. magdeline

    January 8, 2015 at 10:31 am

    Hi Chris my ex boyfriend broke up with me because his fiancee found out about us I ddnt know he was engage and he got engage while dating me he told me I destroyed his life because I confessed to his women. We have been staying together for a year I tried to beg him to take me back bt he refused saying you and I we will never be together he blocked me on whatsapp and unblocked me saying we can be friends and told me to move on with my life worst part is I still love him a lot despite wat happened m thinking of going to his place and talk to him and m the last person he want to see what xld I do I love him m willing to do anything

    1. admin

      January 19, 2015 at 3:10 pm

      Whoa, why would you want him back?????

      I mean, you were the other woman to him.

    2. magdeline

      January 20, 2015 at 6:58 am

      Because I love him and its hard for me to deal with the break up pls help me get him back and being another women to does it mean he was plying me but we stayed together for a year

    3. jasmine

      February 18, 2015 at 12:55 am

      listen you should email me and i could answer

    4. magdeline

      March 3, 2015 at 4:20 pm

    5. Dylan

      January 24, 2015 at 1:05 am

      If you would be a guys second choice, you shouldn’t make them your first

  11. Raquel

    January 7, 2015 at 3:03 am

    Hi Chris.
    I’ve had an on and off boyfriend for the last 2 years. Normally our breakups are a cause of stupid things he does, but he always comes back. The longest time we’ve completely broken up was for 3 months or so. Before our breakup everything seemed to be perfect, he was sweet, romantic, caring, and loved to talk to me at all times. We had recently split due to the fact that he drank a lot and went out a lot, I didn’t have a problem with that but it was getting out of hand up to the point I genuinely worried for him. He came back to ask for my forgiveness and another chance, he promised to change and stop his drinking, not because I told him to but because he realised it was taking him along the wrong path. So eventually I let him in again and everything was going perfect, I felt really good and happy. On december, he stopped talking as he used to, he slept earlier and we rarely spent quality time together, he was also not as romantic as before. I mentioned my concern to him which he quickly brushed off as “being more busy or tired” and said he’d try his best to spend time with me. I gave him more time but nothing changed, I repeatedly told him things like “talk to me” or “You’re acting weird”. Not long after I decided to break up with him because I didn’t see the relationship going anywhere. I started by telling him I wasn’t sure as to stay together or not and told him why. He said he completely understood but he didn’t notice he changed. I know he loves(loved?) me and he repeated that multiple times. He also said he did feel things were different. I then proceeded to tell him this was the last time we tried to be together again because we’ve tried a MILLION of times to be together and it just doesn’t work out. I told him it wasn’t fair for me to keep waiting for him to decide he wants to be with him just so that he leaves or changes when he wants, I told him it was a cycle. He said he knows it isn’t fair for me and he won’t hurt me again. Two days after, he texted me so that I helped him with a project, I briefly explained and helped him until he fell asleep and texted the next day saying that, I didn’t answer. On christmas, I texted him wishing him and his family a merry christmas. At first he seemed uninterested but then started to ask about my cousins and what did I get for christmas. I haven’t talked to him since then and the last thing I know is he told a friend of ours he still loves me but things just won’t work out he asked him who broke up with whom and he responded he didn’t even know. I re-read some of our old conversations from november and started to miss him like crazy, in those conversations he really did show he loved me and care for me, and we talked non stop. I just don’t know what went wrong and wish he was still with me. That lead me to think I shouldn’t have broken up with him just yet but things just weren’t the same. My friends tell me it’s him who should come back but I don’t know if he ever will. I want to know what’s going on in his mind and if he things it’s my fault or loss because I initiated the break up. I know he is talking to more girls than he did before and takes a lot of pictures with them so I guess it’s to make me jealous. I really don’t know what to do to make him want to come back!

  12. Andrea

    January 6, 2015 at 8:38 pm

    hey there i dumped my ex bf bc i was always seeing comments on other girls pages and we were always getting into fights bc of me and my jealousy then 2 or the next day he got a new gf but he telling me that he still likes me thats what he told my friend but the thing is that my friend also likes him .
    my ex supposly likes me but when i dumped him he told me ight w.e then 13 minutes later he said y exactly tho i said seriously you aren’t gonna fight for our love he said its just a dam girl there are a lot of girls out there i told him him your fucked up .. n he said well gn ttyt idk if i love him but i think he wants me back

    1. admin

      January 19, 2015 at 2:51 pm

      The question is do you want him back?

  13. set

    January 6, 2015 at 3:58 am

    hi i am 24 yr old , married already for more than 2 years… but i was wondering about my exboyfriend (we’ve been in a relationship for almost 1 year) when he sent a friend request on facebook, i accepted it,unfortunately after that he posted his own picture on my profile, he also liked some of my picture there, and leave a comment, saying “wow , nice huh,, u’r looking cute … he also changed his profile immediately a picture of him together with his girlfriend… i don’t know if he is only disturbing/kidding me or he still likes me… hope u can answer this question 🙂

    1. admin

      January 6, 2015 at 2:04 pm

      Whoa… you are married and have been dating someone else for a year?

      I am confused. Did I read that correctly?

  14. Julie

    January 5, 2015 at 4:50 pm

    Really confused, please help.. So me and my ex was together for 3 years, just recently broke up haven’t spoken to him in almost a month.. I kicked him out due to many things, not feeling appreciated, loved he stopped doing the things he did to get me.. Anyway after a week of us not being together I found out he was back with his ex, so I’m trying to move on but just yesterday out of the blue he text me I text back I was busy and couldn’t help him out at the moment.. It killed me to lie to him I love him so and want him back.. So my question is could I get him back even thou he’s with his ex now?? How if its possible?

    1. admin

      January 6, 2015 at 1:53 pm

      Well, NC is what I recommend to everyone starting out.

      How did you find out he went to his ex?

  15. mariz

    December 30, 2014 at 1:21 am

    Hi. My boyfriend and i have been for 3 months. We are in a long distance relationship. We were lovers without seeing each other. We fell in love vial texts, calls, and chats. A friend of mine gave my number to him who happen to be my friend’s friend too. When we were, i always made the fight and always asked him for breakup but he always didn’t agree. One day, he told me he’s pretty losing his affection due to non-stop fights. That time i decided to breakup with him thinking i can but unfortunately i can’t. I really can’t. a day without communication with him is so hell so i decided to go back to him. But this time, he refused and asked me to give him more time to think. Thinking him losing his feeling with me is killing me. So i decided to insist myself and ask for a second chance to be better. He agreed but he told me i may be hurt again. I did all my best to win his heart again and he acted the way before but can’t hide the feeling of being cold. One day, i asked him on how can i fix things, how can i bring things back again but he told me to don’t because it’s just a waste of time. That statement pushed me for breakup again. I know it was just a 3 day getting back together but i found out losing any hope to fix things right. I did it at night and talk to him in the best way i can. At first he’s asking me why?? Asking what am i planning to do?? Then i told i’m letting him go. Am freeing him. He got upset and ask me why do i have to do this to him. Why am i asking him to look for another. He ask me things like did i found someone else then i told him of course not. Things are in favor of him to think. Early in the dawn at 3am he texted me that because i left him again and hurt him again, he doesn’t love me anymore. That he doesn’t need to think because everything is over and all we have to do us to move on. it happened 2 days ago and i’m now following the no contact rule. I don’t want to expect to get back together because he’s the one who ended it up. My question is.. does he still care?? Does he miss me too cause i’m missing so much. Is it possible for us to get together again?? need your opinion.

    1. admin

      January 5, 2015 at 2:39 pm

      Question, have you ever met him in person yet?

  16. Sara

    December 7, 2014 at 7:23 pm

    Hello Chris ,

    After No Contact , as i said on your other post on ” how to make him regret leaving you …. ” , i sent him a picture message with a text in Italian ( the language he love and knows sort of) ….As i much as i though he won’t reply , her replied back in 10 minutes , and said “Good Job :)” to my improvement in Italian. And i thanked him, the text ended there.

    So do you think that this is a good sign ?
    I really like to know your opinion … And what to do next !

    Thank you

    PS: I am not sure if he’s dating anyone right now.

    1. admin

      December 8, 2014 at 12:48 pm

      Neutral/good in my opinion.

    2. Sara

      December 8, 2014 at 5:48 pm

      So, is it possible in any way to suggest me what to do next ?

      Thank you

  17. Melissa

    December 2, 2014 at 7:46 pm

    Well, my ex and I dated for 4 years. Broke up a few months ago. Since then he’s emailed me constantly, I changed my number after we broke up due to not wanting any contact. I deleted over a hundred emails, and just recently started talking with him again via email. I just wanted him to calm down before we began speaking again. Now we go to movies or out for a brew every so often. I’m confused. I am still kinda in love with him and am pushing my true feelings for him aside because I don’t want us to end up the way we were in the past toward one another. I guess I’m trying to force myself to move on even though I still love him. Life of love is so damn confusing :/

    1. admin

      December 3, 2014 at 4:53 pm

      Hmm…

      I think you need to figure out what you want.

      I think it comes down to one simple question.

      Do you see a happy future with him?

  18. Kay

    December 1, 2014 at 7:27 pm

    My ex an I split up. The split up was a mutual decision. We have been arguing an awful lot lately and we had a physical altercation. We both were to blame he would often call me names and I allowed it, I would normally bite my tongue until the day that I slapped him and he pushed back multiple times. We have 2 children together, thankfully they were both asleep when the physical part happened. We didn’t speak for the first week then I messaged him via facebook and he read my messages but would not reply so I called him to arrange access with our children. I didn’t bring up us just focused on the children, he got very mad hung up and called me names so I let him cool down for a couple of days and then called him back in hopes of setting a firm schedule for access. I asked that he get a third party to do pick ups/drop offs and he said he couldn’t arrange that and then went on to say how I’m the most amazing woman he has ever met and how he will probably never meet anyone like me again and he is sorry I feel he isn’t ‘the one’ for him. He thinks I’m seeing other men even though I haven’t indicated that, he is just suspicious because I added an old guy friend to my facebook. He said he can’t stand the thought of me with another man and said I should just delete him so he doesn’t have to hurt anymore. He said that he will always love me but we are done for good. I don’t want us to be done I would like some time to work on myself though. We were best friends even though around the end we fought like cats and dogs. We had both talked about marriage and had set future goals together. I still feel like he is the love of my life but we need to work on ourselves now. Any suggestions?

    1. admin

      December 2, 2014 at 2:46 pm

      Physical alteration.

      Who hit who?

    2. Kay

      December 3, 2014 at 3:09 am

      He shoved once I slapped once

    3. admin

      December 3, 2014 at 4:34 pm

      Hmm… Definitely not good from either party.

      How long ago was this incident?

    4. Kay

      December 5, 2014 at 4:50 pm

      About a month ago

  19. Jordan

    October 31, 2014 at 12:57 am

    Hi really looking for some advice ASAP. So long story short, my ex & I have been friends for 10 years, we always had a thing for each other but neither one of us knew & being in other relationships stopped us from being together. She moved away to another state for a a few years & we stayed in contact. Well about 2 years ago she was single & I was single & we just started talking one night & basically found out that we both wanted the same thing out of a relationship. It was instant that we fell in love. W called each other soul mates. She moved back to the state that I & her family live in for me because she wanted to be with me. Everything was perfect, literally. We had an amazing chemistry, our love was strong, we had respect for each other. People would always say that they wanted what we had. It literally was like a dream come true for the both of us. Then one day after 11 months she said she didn’t love me anymore & was done. No signs or nothing leading up to this, just bam, I was hit with this. She immediately moved out and went to go live with her parents. I did the no contact rule for months. She would text me here & there with stupid stuff like “I miss your foot massages” or “I miss the things we used to cook in the fall”…anyways, for the most part that was it, she never said she missed me or anything even though I missed her like crazy. She still knew how I felt about her. Well after a whole year, she asked me if I would do a favor for her mom which I agreed, her mom loves me. It was the first time we saw each other in months. The whole time she flirted with me, she brought up memories, she asked for a foot massage & I gave her one & I kept seeing her give me the looks she used to give me when we were in love. She took her cold feet after the massage & put them in my shirt to keep them warm…when we were leaving she stopped me & said “give me a hug” so I did. She held me, like the old times. She pressed her neck against my lips & I just wanted to kiss her but I didn’t want to cross that line. I feel like she felt something that night, that chemistry that we had. Anyways, I thought about it all the way home, how much I still love her & want to be with her. The problem is, she’s moving out of state again in another month. I don’t know if I’ll ever see her again. So, I wrote her this letter basically saying that I’m proud of her & that I’m not asking her to stay but to go on & achieve her dreams. In the letter I brought up the other night about how I saw the look in her eyes & asked her if she felt something, things like that, my question is, what is this? Does she still love me? Should I give her the letter? Please help me figure this out. Thank you for your time.

    1. admin

      November 3, 2014 at 3:56 pm

      Have you seen my other website, Ex Girlfriend Recovery?

  20. Alex

    October 30, 2014 at 7:06 pm

    My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago, because he’s a Baptist and I’m a Catholic and his family wouldn’t approve. He has issues standing up for himself, so I’m trying not to take it so personally. We had an awesome, awesome relationship. We were friends for a year first and then dated quite seriously for about 6 months. He never introduced me to his family because he knew how they would feel, even though he didn’t feel that way about our religious differences and even went to church with me. So, the problem is, 1. I still have that stupid female hope and desire to get back with him, and 2. I see him pretty much every morning, 6 days a week, at the gym. He started coming to the crossfit I go to. I’ve tried to remain quite civil and mature (I’m 37, he’s 27, so there’s that young fear in him which I just don’t have anymore). We don’t really talk much at all at the gym, and not at all in any way outside of the gym. He returned some stuff of mine today and asked for some papers back that he left at my house. What am I suppose to do? Can I be nice to him at all at the gym? I want him to get back with me.

    1. admin

      November 3, 2014 at 3:19 pm

      Do you think his family didn’t approve because of the religion or the age difference?

    2. Alex

      November 3, 2014 at 4:42 pm

      Could be either or, but he said his father only said something about the religion (his dad is a born again Baptist). Although he did send an email saying he should wait for a “young lady,” so maybe he was passive aggressively saying something about my age. I never met his parents though, at all. Well, they don’t live near where we live..

    3. Alex

      October 30, 2014 at 7:09 pm

      Oh, I forgot to say, a few days after we broke up, I wrote him a civil, non desperate sounding email explaining why I thought we should try and overcome his fear of other people’s opinions. We went back and forth for like two emails each, where he ended up telling me he was sticking to his decision but that I was welcome to attend his church or speak to his family. I answered that anything else we had to say to each other could be done in person, and then I never tried to confront him about anything. That was over a week ago and I’ve seen him several times since.

1 12 13 14 15 16 28