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Monica
October 15, 2013 at 8:02 pm
What about if he broke up with me from 11 months and still I’m love with him and I can’t move on. He dated after we broke up within 2 weeks and they didn’t last for a week ( he broke up with her and I). After they broke up he used to tell me that we are cute couples and what happened. After it for like nearly the whole summer we didn’t talk until him came back from America and he told me that he loves me after I told him who’s my new crush ( I was trying to move on). We didn’t talk for a while again but then he started to start the chat which his hi made my day. Before yesterday we hangout together and he told me in the chat for the first time without minimising the word “I love youu ” . However, the next day I day I saw him he had his cousin and one of his exs and her friend. I was shocked but I actually had fun with her. While everyone was talking his eyes were looking at me and when I look at him he looks in the other way. So does he love me?
Monica
October 16, 2013 at 7:56 am
Chat from 2 days and face to face from a day.
Monica
October 16, 2013 at 7:58 am
Sorry for having grammar problem but I’m writing through my phone.
admin
October 17, 2013 at 2:08 am
Its no problem.
Monica
October 17, 2013 at 5:34 am
I can’t know if he does like me or not 🙁
admin
October 17, 2013 at 6:22 pm
Unfortunately he is the only one with that answer.
Monica
October 16, 2013 at 11:38 am
I forget to say that he has a girlfriend now but he said he’ll break up with her soon and he’s kinda of a player
admin
October 17, 2013 at 2:29 am
Yea hahaha be careful with him.
admin
October 16, 2013 at 2:44 am
When was the last time you talked to him?
Angela
October 15, 2013 at 4:16 pm
I’ve been seeing this guy for 3.5 years now. At first we were infatuated with each other. He was so interested in me and I with him. Always affectionate, spooning, and expressing how we feel and miss each other when not together. Over time we ran into issues….he with his drinking issue which led to many fights, lies he told and his affection growing distant. Ive asked him over and over throughout our 3 years to attend counselling for his drinking but he still hasn’t. I feel he doesn’t care about my feelings on things or he would do what it takes to keep us healthy and happy. He no longer can communicate with me cause he grew an impatience for me. He is quick to freak out at me if I bring up anything that makes me unhappy. I ended it with him Friday past for all those reasons. As I don’t deserve to be treated that way nor do I deserve someone who doesn’t care enough to work on things that make me unhappy(aka his drinking). Since I ended it he has not stopped texting me saying I am his life, he committed his life to me, he loves me so much and wants us together. To me, how can he want all that and not do anything about the issues I have expressed? I would love for us to work it out but after 3 yrs of asking/begging for him to change things why would I think he will now. My tactic is to keep my distance and make him see what he lost. Am I doing this correct?
Angela
admin
October 16, 2013 at 2:28 am
Yes, I would suggest a NC rule for you.
Lara
October 15, 2013 at 1:48 pm
Hello, could you give me some advice please ?!?
This guy I was dating after we broke up one week later he send me a txt asking if we could talk? I need advice?
Pri S asked 3 days ago – 1 day left to answer
I was dating this guy for 3 months and we had a strong connection I meet all his friends and we were seeing each other at least 3 times per week including weekend, out of the blue he start get distant like he was hiding something from me and when I said he was acting strange and if something happened because he was very nice and always show to me how he was feeling and I didnt want to play games and if he didnt want to see me anymore if could tell me.
he said sorry and it was just his job but we could talk better later and I didn’t reply he txt after that 10 minutes later, he txt me and said he sorry and he want to be honesty too and he said his ex gf was coming to the town for the weekend because she sad she wanted to talk with him and he figured it would be impossible to explain for me because I would think he likes her and its not like that and he has liked getting to know me and he didnt want I think he was acting weird, so he said sorry because he was terrible lier and I was not truthful.
I asked him, if he like her and want go back together with her? And he said no but he wants to give a chance to her say what she needs to say because he owe it to her and he wanted I understand that because he want be honesty with me. And I said i dont’ like lies and he should had told me that before and since she was coming to town, we should not see each other anymore and he got upset and said I Knew you would not understand.
I said to him I am not good with lies and you choose to hide me that, so it was you choise and he replied me, That;s why I told you, I am still getting to know you and I don’t want to lie, If you dont want to see each other anymore I understand but I really wanted you to know whats going on.
I said to him he just made me confuse and I don’t like lies and we should not see each other for while and I was going to Brazil anyway. He said he didn’t know what to think maybe its best to give it some time and we will see how the things are when you get back and I need think about things and figure out what I want. I am sorry and i replied Me too. and now after 1 week with no contact he sent me a txt ” I hope your flight went well, Can we talk when u get back? I just replied after 7 hours “Hi sure we can talk when I get back”. And after that I didn’t contact him and after 4 days again he txt me at 6 am saying I wish In we’re here. I miss you… I replied him after 15 hours TOO But I don’t know if we should talk because I like him and I am scary what he wants to talk about, just don’t want to hear nothing from his ex and they decide to get back together, so what I should do? Should I talk with him and listen what he has to say or should I just leave how it is?
admin
October 16, 2013 at 2:16 am
Well, I guess it all depends on your overall goal. Moving on or wanting to get him back?
Still though, talk to him I think it will be ok you can go forwrad from there.
Lara
October 16, 2013 at 1:15 pm
Thanks For ur message 🙂 I do like him and I want get back together but I am just scary what he wants to talk about … After he sent that txt I wish you were here I miss you at 6am On Sunday I got confuse, I wanted to ask if that I was for me or somebody else or if he was drunk.?!? Do u think he could made a mistake?!?
Well we used to spend the sartuday nights together to go out with friends and after I used stay in his place and we used to have breakfast in the morning or I used to leave the place very early if I had something for to do, well we might have this talk soon..
admin
October 17, 2013 at 2:33 am
No it was definitely for you.
Missy K
October 15, 2013 at 11:39 am
Some great tips here, its amazing how sometimes we all can get too comfortable in a rship, that we tend to forget about yourselves, such as those pointers above. Great sound advise Chris.
And the PRO e-book is even more fascinating, thank you!!!
admin
October 16, 2013 at 2:08 am
You might be my new favorite person ever!
Lisa
October 15, 2013 at 11:32 am
is it ok to tell your ex boyfriend you miss them once he talks to you after him having space?! Or do you not mention it.. might push him away more?
it could even be like “hey! how are you stranger, missed talking to you, how you been” or is that too much when he starts?!
admin
October 16, 2013 at 2:07 am
You can do it eventually but not right off the bat. I explain that further in the E-Book.
Sheri
October 15, 2013 at 12:54 am
I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me tomorrowwe’ve been together 4 months. We’ve never even had a disagreement.! However out of the blue he hasn’t contacted me or responded to any of my texts for 5 days now. If he does break it off is there something I should say or do when it happens? I love this man will all my heart!
admin
October 16, 2013 at 1:24 am
Just be really calm about it thats the best advice I can give you.
Brandy
October 14, 2013 at 10:11 pm
I haven’t talked to my ex in over a month. We both attend the same college and even have the same classes together. I’ve been hoping that he would contact me he hasn’t yet and I’m about to drive myself crazy!!!!!!!!! We’re were known around campus for that ‘cute couple’ last year but now it’s always ‘what happened?? You two were so great together!!’ I want to talk again and I’m more than willing to give it another shot.. I just wonder if he is?
admin
October 15, 2013 at 2:44 am
Ah so you are the annoying “cute couple”
JK JK
I think if you really haven’t talked in a month then it would be ok for you to reach out.
Marisa
October 14, 2013 at 5:36 pm
I was with a guy for four months. It was really rocky towards the end and just when things had gotten really good and he was so set on being with me, he ended things a week later. We fought and didn’t speak until I broke the NC order and texted him about 2 weeks after ending things but it was short when he told me that he knew exactly what he wanted and it wasn’t me. I didn’t read to much into it because honestly I don’t think he knows what he wants because he was always all over the place in general. I haven’t spoken to him in a month and I’ve been doing a great job of getting myself in a great place and enjoying life because I felt like id be with him again in the future. I still don’t feel like I’m never going to see him again, but my friend told me he has been ruthlessly trying to get with this girl who I had accused him of trying to get with when we were together. At the time he seemed genuinely not wanting anything to do with her so I am in shock over it but I still see a future with him. Although it’s been a month of NC I don’t know how or if it’s right to contact him because of this, but I still want a future with him and feel no hatred towards him just that I miss my best friend.
admin
October 15, 2013 at 2:28 am
You shouldn’t have broken Nc I think.
Jill
October 13, 2013 at 2:51 pm
So, I was seeing this guy for a week. We know each because our kids go to the same daycare and we see each other at a place we get breakfast. After 3 days we see each other and he is saying I like you a lot, I see a future, I’m attracted to you, I miss you. I’m saying this is too fast but it feels right. Then at the end of the night we talk about love and I kept saying you have love for me…in a playful way. Then the next day he goes he doesn’t want to see me alone because I make him uncomfortable cuz he didn’t want to say he loves me until he knew for sure. I apologized for doing that. Now he wants to be friends and I want answers of why he said all those things to me and just drops me. Now I’m being pushy and I kept pushing the love thing. I can’t be just friends with him after all the words he said to me. My question is how do I make him miss me and want to work it? How do I act when I see him in public? Is it done?
admin
October 13, 2013 at 10:47 pm
NC is PERFECT for this.
Jill
October 14, 2013 at 8:38 am
Even though we said it would be done and we would keep it at saying hi?
Abbey
October 13, 2013 at 12:32 am
Hi! Love this site 🙂
I had been friends with a guy for years when we decided to hang out as more than friends and dated for two months last summer. He was going through things but he wasn’t open about it and we broke up last July. It was over text and when his texts were too vague I called him and we parted as friends but still haven’t talked. I was the one that mentioned the ‘breakup’ after he said he needed space. There’s been a gathering since then (last xmas) and he couldn’t take his eyes off of me.
Also, two months ago, a girl at my work went behind my back and asked him why we broke up. He said that he didn’t feel that he was good enough for me and that he felt looked down upon by a couple of my family members. It broke my heart finding out about that because I don’t even fit in with those family members.
I have not stopped missing him in my life and when my dog died suddenly in May I wished more than anything that I had him to talk to. I still think of him every single day and I think he is the most amazing guy I know. Is it ok to make contact with him now saying that I miss him? I feel like I have nothing to lose by doing so but the last way I want to come across is desperate.
Please let me know if I should gather my courage and make contact so I can stop wondering what if.
Thanks!
admin
October 13, 2013 at 10:26 pm
Well, I would only reach out if you have completed a NC rule and I wouldn’t say I miss you right off the bat.
Emily
October 12, 2013 at 3:15 pm
Hey I’m 16 and i know that’s such a typical age but to me, and to other girls as well, it seems like a big deal. I just need some help.
So, before i started dating my ex i had been head over heels in love with him for about three years. During these three years he went out with the same girl on and off. Now for the past five months we had and on and off relationship. Finally a few days ago I broke it off because he always had time to talk to that other girl but not me. They just wouldn’t stop flirting and i was sick of it. Now I’m here missing him and hoping he’ll want me back but he’s probably talking to that other girl. What to I do?? I just want him to want me rather than her..!
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:37 pm
How old is he?
lisa
October 12, 2013 at 11:22 am
My boyfriend and i broke up around 3 years back,we were in long distance relationship.we broke up on not so good terms.I still love him and he had three relationships after me.W e have recently started talking again.He is always nice to me and we are friends now but i still love him and i want him back. I think he knows i still love or like him and he is single right now.I sometimes feel he still likes and sometimes that he doesnt. He is a very social person and m an introvert.
what should i do?I want him back!
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:36 pm
Have you read the LDR page yet?
ella
October 12, 2013 at 7:30 am
My ex boyfriend and i were together for a little over a year. Just to give you a little background info: He’s 40 and I’m 25. I’ve always been somewhat of a wild child and my previous relationships were always unhealthy and volatile. My ex was the first real nice, well rounded guy I’ve ever dated but that wasn’t enough for me and I messed up… over and over again, despite his many warnings.
When we started dating he told me he wouldn’t tolerate me doing cocaine (I had a bit of a problem before but wasn’t using at the time). Everything was great for a while but then I had to get acl surgery and put on 10 lbs and went berserk. I started using again, lost 30 lbs (I was always very slender, I was actually underweight before I gained the 10 insignificant lbs that really shouldn’t have bothered me, but I digress) and went a little crazy. Long story short, I got busted with drugs by my ex who called my parents who then sent me away to rehab.
Now I’m out and haven’t heard anything from my ex. I’ve been out for well over a month without any contact from him even though he’s still quite close to my family. I can’t contact him because he’s made it more than clear that he doesn’t want to hear from me.
I thought he loved me and, honestly, I’m not accustomed to this sort of rejection. I know I’m an attractive girl and can get any guy that I want, for the most part, but the trouble is I only want my ex. I’ve been asked out by several other guys and even been on a couple dates but the truth is I only want my ex to want me, I don’t give a shit about any other guy.
I will say I made a pseudo form of contact to my ex exactly 3 weeks ago. I feel incredibly juvenile and silly just admitting to this, but I un friended him from Facebook and sent him a message explaining to him that seeing his posts in my newsfeed is still slightly painful for me and wishing him well but that’s it. I haven’t heard anything back from him and I certainly don’t expect to.
I just want him to want me back. We never actually had an official breakup; I was just sent away and returned back a month later to find that he blocked my number and expressed a complete disinterest in ever hearing from me again. I’m doing so much better now and look better than ever, I just wish I could show him that.
What I really want to know is whether this is a lost cause. Should I just abandon the hope of him ever wanting me again and try to move on even though I really, really don’t want to?
My heart is broken and I just need closure at this point
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:27 pm
Well, if you just want clousre and to move on then the advice is pretty simple. Is that what you want?
lacy
October 11, 2013 at 10:46 pm
I NEED help, me AND my fiance broke UP a WEEK ago, he broke UP with me bc he said I “bitch TO much”, AND that we had tried THIS too many times, we lived together for 10 months AND WAS together a total OF 14 months, we broke UP 3 times BEFORE bc OF fighting but IT WAS never like this, THIS time we moved all OF our stuff OUT AND found new places TO live , all he COULD say WAS “I’m done”, I begged HIM BACK all that DAY AND he just said no I’m done… Since THEN we have been civil but WHEN I got my HEAD on straight AND told HIM WHAT I needed TO say AND i told HIM that I hoped we could work IT out AGAIN SOMEDAY he said “we will”, from several people I HAVE already been told that hes already started messing WITH OTHER girls, he wont respond TO ME unless I beg HIM TO call, I love HIM … WHAT do I do
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:18 pm
You might want to check out this page:
https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-get-your-ex-husband-back/
I know it doesn’t match up with your situation perfectly but it can give you a starting point.
Greta
October 11, 2013 at 8:50 pm
My boyfriend and I were together for 1.5 years; we broke up because he wanted a ‘break’ which I think is unfair so technically I decided to end it forever. Three days of no contact later, I call him telling him I miss him, we talk for a bit, and then we end up fighting like usual. He said the one thing that makes my skin crawl, that he wanted to be with other women. So I said some really nasty things which made him never want to talk to me again. That was one month ago. He still talks to my mother, calls my friends occasionally, and even hangs out near my house and on my street corner – but REFUSES to pick up the phone. Could he possibly miss me? Will he ever contact me in the future?
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:12 pm
Of course he will miss you. I can’t guarantee he will contact you but I can say that if you follow what I say on this page you will increase your chances of him contacting you.
Girl
October 11, 2013 at 8:29 am
Hey!
I would really like to ask for some help about my relationship that recently broke up.
I’m a girl and I’m 17 years old. Since a few weeks, since Thursday (October 3) I broke up with him because my boyfriend started to be very aloof to me. And after 3 weeks he suddenly wanted nothing from me anymore he didn’t want my hugs or kisses. His excuse was that he was very busy at school, and that is true he has almost no time for his self. But I know he has a little time to just talk to me or give me a hug. Since he’s at a new school, he is always very late at home like about nine o’clock in the evening. It’s not every day but often. He also has a lot of homework. The reason why everything went bad in our relationship is because he didn’t want or had time to be with me and he told me the last days I was always negative.
I am of myself a thinker and very afraid of certain things such as that I lose people, but I also see more negative things then positive things and my ex told me that he also gets very negative when I I’m negative. He thought he could handle this with me and could help me, but he said whatever I do to help you, you remain in your depression. I promised him that I will work with professional help, but he remained aloof after we had a conversation. He stopped texting me if I wanted something he said to me you can text me back, but we didn’t had a normal conversation like we always had, he only talked to me when he saw me at school and when he saw me it was like hey how are u see u later I have to go my lesson starts.
We never had a fight only discussions and he is not someone who takes initiative when things really go wrong. I wanted clearness of him and talk about it, but he said that talking would not work and that he needed time. After 3 weeks giving him time with very little contact, I became more insecure and I asked him ”it seems like you do not care about me.” He said as excuse again that he had a lot of work and was very busy with school while when he was at home just sitting on his Facebook and liked things and talked to his friends but not with me.
So couple days later I sent him a message with” I don’t not know how to deal with it now.” He said,” you don’t not have to do anything.” So I said to him ” it feels like you don’t want my hugs or kisses.” He then said to me ”I want to study. ”after that I had nothing more to say to him. I was totally speechless I just said ok to him. It felt like he was not interested in me anymore. The next day I broke up with him I told him” I think it’s better when it’s over between us and because you don’t want to make time for me or have time with me.” He said to me” Yes it is better sorry .” My last reply to him was ”I know” With I know I meant that it was better that it was over between us because this way how we are now is nothing no love at all.
So after we broke up I deleted him everywhere from facebook and from my mobile. And after that we never had contact again. I deleted him for my own security that I will not stalk him. But I still love him very much and I miss him very much. He was really crazy about me. We had no secrets from each other it felt like everything was right . We just fit together so well we made each other completely and we also understood each other. We also had the same humor which I found so great , but now everything is gone … He is a very good man . He loves music and wants to have it as future job and is working hard for it . He is a good person and he was very good for me and really had respect for me . But after that conversation he was so aloof he never came by his self to me. It felt like he stopped caring for me, but I feel somewhere that he still cares for me and I hope you can help to bring us back together me. My friends told also to me that it was his fault that we broke up and that he wants to be friends with me because I want to focus on his future, his school. So my question is: Is it possible we can get back together? And how can I get him back if it is possible? I want to thank you for the beautiful site you have that gives me very good tips and thank u for reading this very long messenger.
admin
October 11, 2013 at 6:26 pm
Your very welcome for the site!
How long has it been since you two broke up?
Do you still have access to his number somewhere?
Girl
October 11, 2013 at 9:20 pm
Thank u!
It has been 10 days now and yes i have his number I wrote it down on paper so that I wouldn’t lose his number (sorry for my bad english I’m dutch)
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:13 pm
No your english is fine!
Sorry for the late response. It has been a hectic few days.
Girl
October 14, 2013 at 6:23 am
No that’s okay 😉 Do u have any tips for getting maybe my ex back?
admin
October 15, 2013 at 1:50 am
Plenty! This whole site is basically the answer to that question hahaha.
Girl
October 12, 2013 at 8:18 am
If you meant how long we have been together that’s 6 months 🙂
Renee
October 11, 2013 at 3:50 am
I met a guy that I like thru a mutual family member. Me and this guy wud FaceTime each day multiple times a days and things were cool for a few weeks. All if the sudden he drops of the face of the Earth. I texted him and I asked if everything was cool btwn us and if he still wanted to be in contact. He explained that he did, but that he’s been working on endorsements for work (he’s an athlete). I thought I was over reacting and I smoothed things over btwn us. But then he was still distant so I broke things off with him. The same mutual friend told me the following day that the guy I liked had a death n his family and that with respect to work, he was stressed because he’s new to pro football and there’s a lot of pressure on him being a rookie and also due to the fact that he was a first round pick for his football team. I immediately felt stupid, and like I brushed this guy off without knowing the full story. Our mutual friend reminded me that the guy I like prob didn’t tell me these things b cuz we just met and he has a lot going on. How do I fix this? I wud have never told him goodbye if I wud have know WHY he was being so distant. But I don’t wana look stupid by reaching out after I’ve already told him I was done with him. How should I handle this? HELP
admin
October 11, 2013 at 6:22 pm
Ok, I have a question. Did the two of you ever officially date?
Renee
October 13, 2013 at 3:27 am
Officially no. We jus talked non stop and it was like he was chasing me down calling and FaceTiming me all day. Now, he will only return calls or facetimes, but won’t initiate any contact. I just want that interest back. That chase. Also, I sent him a funny and encouraging text both yesterday and today Abt his new career in the nfl. And he responded both times, but with short answers like “thanks I really appreciate that” and responded “lol ur crazy” when I sent him a joke Abt Dominicans (I’m dominican). But that’s all. It’s like, now a days if I don’t reach out, he won’t. That’s hurts. I know he knows I’m not a gold digger b cuz I’m 27 with a masters degree and a BMW and I own my house. He always used to compliment me on those things when we met, b cuz he knows I have my own. Now things are just different. HELP! How do I get my control back and get things back to the way they were?
admin
October 13, 2013 at 10:27 pm
Was it always that way? You would have to be the one to reach out first?
Renee
October 14, 2013 at 1:09 am
No. He was always chasing me. Now he won’t initiate any contact
Renee
October 12, 2013 at 7:54 am
Hey Chris. No we never officially dated. We just talked a lot and made plans for me to fly out, and then all of the above stuff happened. I actually texted him today a funny picture and he responded. After a few mins I apologized for dismissing him and I explained that I understood that Breaking into the NFL is hard and that I was rooting for him. He simply texted back “ok”. So I asked if he cud contact me, and he said “sure. I’ll call as soon as I get home” but he never called
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:30 pm
Yea, do NC for a while.
Renee
October 12, 2013 at 7:59 am
I jus really miss talking to him thru FaceTime multiple times in the day and having him call me so much. I just want him to have that contact with me that he used to have. That interest. U kno?
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:28 pm
Yes I do. Be patient though be patient.
Renee
October 12, 2013 at 8:00 am
U think he’s done with me?
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:28 pm
No
Bobina Bobertson
October 11, 2013 at 2:42 am
This is kind of a weird situation. My ex and I were together 1.5 years. I found out at the end that he was addicted to painkillers and lied about it our whole relationship. I still love him, and want him to go to rehab and fix the relationship. He said he loves me and always will but realized that he was making me incredibly unhappy so he decided to end it when he realized he wasn’t going to change (he is addicted physically). I contacted him, but have decided to go NC. I told him that I don’t think we should talk unless he gets help. Should I keep this up? For how long? Is there any hope?
admin
October 11, 2013 at 6:16 pm
Try 30 days to start.
Christina
October 11, 2013 at 1:35 am
So my ex boyfriend messaged me after 3 months of no contact. He sent me a facebook message ‘hey’. I didn’t reply, finding it completely irrelevant. I also noticed his visit to my job. I didn’t want to speak to him at the time so I stayed clear of him. Basically I’m just wondering what to do next? Keep playing hard to get or go ahead & message him? I’m quite pleased that the NC rule worked though, especially since I was the clingy one in our relationship!
admin
October 11, 2013 at 6:11 pm
It worked! Took a bit longer than expected but it worked.
Louise
October 10, 2013 at 11:00 pm
My ex and I were together for just over a year but we lived together that entire time. About 4 months ago we moved into our own place after living in a share house with friends, and things seemed to go from bad to even worse. Over about a 3 month period we would break up for a few days and then get back together whilst still living in the same house. Roughly about the last month or so he moved into the spare room and I thought that this must mean it was completely over for good. We had little communication and would constantly argue. I wanted to be with him, but it was obvious that he’d done trying and wanted out. I went away for a weekend and came home and he was also home, we ended up getting into yet another argument and he turned around and told me he never wanted to be with me again. I left the house and went to my parents. When I came home later that night he’d gone along with everything he owned. I obviously contacted him the next day stressing to him that he was on a lease and we were going to have to come to some form of arrangement, some of the text messages sent back and forth began to get heated and I began struggling. So I’ve decided not contacting him for a while may help the situation cool down…do you think the no contact rule would work here and my ex could possibly miss me?
admin
October 11, 2013 at 6:06 pm
Of course! BUT in order for it to work you have to be commited to it and that means no slip ups.
Louise
October 13, 2013 at 10:47 pm
He still has some belongings at the house we used to share together (I’m still currently living there so he has been in contact in regards to those). To begin with I didn’t respond to his messages but he became agitated and angry. Therefore, we both end up getting a bit heated in our communication. I sent him a text saying that I just wanted him to think about us and not forget me and he responded with ‘how can I think about it when you keep going on about it?” what does this mean? I’ve told him I wont be contacting him from now on…have I missed out on my chance of getting him to come home? or can it still work?
Thanks
admin
October 15, 2013 at 1:29 am
Well, I am confused now.
Do you just want to move on from him or do you want him back?
Sorry I am just tired and not thinking great today.