7 Definitive Steps On How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You

5,888 thoughts on “How To Make Him Miss You After A Breakup”

Cassidy

October 5, 2013 at 6:42 am

My ex boyfriend was my first love. We never fought or anything. Everything was perfect until one day he decided he didn’t have time for me anymore. I did the NC rule for a month. He just started talking to me again. What do I do now? How can I tell he likes me?

admin

October 6, 2013 at 12:05 am

Well have you followed the stuff in the E-Book or throughout the long “how to get your ex boyfriend back” article?
Cassidy

October 6, 2013 at 6:47 pm

I did text him asking him a simple question about homework. He replied. I ended the conversation. He texted me an hour later about something completely different. I kept the conversation short and ended it. I brought up a good time in person and ended the conversation. Then yesterday His friend asked me to go swimming with him and my ex. I didn’t but we met up for ice cream after. They also asked me to go a movie, but I didn’t go either. But we made plans for Friday involving the two of them. When would be a good time to pull the jealousy conversation?
admin

October 7, 2013 at 12:31 am

It might be! Remember, if you overdo it though it comes of as really rude. Be very subtle.
Cassidy

October 18, 2013 at 4:45 am

I am about to reach out for the first time about getting back together . What would be a good thing to say?
admin

October 18, 2013 at 6:58 pm

Have you read this article: https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/using-text-messages-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back/
Cassidy

October 14, 2013 at 4:31 am

Hed still be mad and not jealous, Even though I didn’t initiate it and we’ve been over for a month and a half?
Cassidy

October 12, 2013 at 3:45 pm

I went out last night and I got kissed more then once by my ex’s friend. Is there a way I could use this to my advantage without breaking my week of the NC rule? Or how do I use to to my advantage
admin

October 13, 2013 at 8:42 pm

By your exes friend?

Hmm.. what a jerk of a friend (no offense to you of course.) It’s just a true fried wouldn’t do that with an friends ex.

Honestly, I don’t think your ex should find out it may make him relaly really angry and not in the good way.
Cassidy

October 8, 2013 at 4:46 am

I already did the nc rule for more than 30 days. Do I start it again?
admin

October 9, 2013 at 1:47 am

Go back for a week and then reach out again.
Cassidy

October 8, 2013 at 1:04 am

Is it a bad idea to ask you ex to consider getting back together if HE was the one who ended it.
If not, when would be a good time.
admin

October 8, 2013 at 2:16 am

Well, initially you would need to start with a NC rule.
Cassidy

October 6, 2013 at 6:56 pm

Nevermind, I just remembered I already pulled the jealousy card before his friend ask me to meet them. He got injured in a sporting event yesterday so I’m going pull the “showing your support” tactic.
admin

October 7, 2013 at 12:38 am

Good luck!
Cassidy

October 5, 2013 at 6:44 am

He also has Started talking to my mom again and smiles at me when he sees me.
admin

October 6, 2013 at 12:06 am

Hahah I hope you smiled back 🙂

Cindy

October 5, 2013 at 3:13 am

Hey Chris,

First of all, THANK YOU FOR THIS PAGE!

Now, the situation with my guy is that he was my best friend before we would start going out. In the beginning everything was perfect, but as our relationship progressed we began to have arguments over many things. He has depression and takes medicine for it, he came up to me not long ago saying that he needed time to “create” himself and that he was tired of people. I didn’t feel good about this at all and to be honest, it did hurt me, mainly because he wanted to take a break and i felt like i couldn’t help him, that i could not inject some reason into him.
Some days later we had an argument (Saturday), where he didn’t want to break up but saw it as necessary, he didn’t want the ‘relationship’ tag in us and saw that we needed each other as best friends again. I broke out in tears, which i regret, mostly because he didn’t. He tried to explain his point better with the exact words: “Who says i can’t kiss my best friend? Who says i can’t marry her, have kids, and form a family with her?” — We were better when i went upstairs to my apartment. Next morning, after reasoning that i was trying hard to not let go and that he could not even feel enough pain when he mentioned “break-up” i called him and told him that he didn’t know what he wanted and that i was calling for a break up. His last words were “you know where to find me, i have to go” and i dismissed him by telling him to go screw himself and go to hell.
He texted me three days later after this in the morning (it felt like so much longer) telling me to have a good day. — i did not respond. Then about two days after this message he texted: “i want to let you know that i love you.” and again, i did not respond. It’s been two days since the last text i received from him but he has been talking to one of my girl best friends whom is also his friend (we are a group of 5) but he hasn’t insisted on calling, showing up around my house, or the places i frequent every day. He has asked her about me which was two days ago, but from then, no more.
I truly don’t know what to do. I have been playing the NC rule for 6 days so far but i don’t want to lose him. He means too much to me.

Thank you for your time,

Cindy

admin

October 5, 2013 at 4:52 am

Your welcome for this page!

Question: What are YOU during with your time during NC? This is soooo important.
Cindy

October 8, 2013 at 12:23 am

I have been focusing on painting, school work, and friends; he is in my mind everyday though. He always believed that he was not good enough for me and that i deserved someone better. My reasoning is that if he cared he would try harder to talk to me, but i don’t know if i should do it instead.
Cindy

October 5, 2013 at 3:20 am

he would not even SHOW enough pain when he mentioned “break-up” *****

He doesn’t show his feelings by breaking into tears but holds everything up inside and i know when it is difficult for him. But this was my reasoning at the moment.
admin

October 5, 2013 at 4:53 am

I am similar to a point. Don’t worry people who bottle stuff up always tend to explode at some point.

Dee

October 5, 2013 at 2:43 am

I have been dating this guy for about 7 1/2 years. We actually lived together 4 years then he moved into his own place,then we moved in again but I recently kicked him out. It’s complicated b/c we have a child together so is the NC rule possible? He says he loves me, doesn’t want to lose me but his actions say otherwise. He has never been one to communicate,and he need to grow up the reasons I told him to leave. In March, he did buy me a ring&propose, but since this last episode he doesn’t call often. As far as support, I have a court mandated support order for our child so he pays regularly. I see him a couple days out the week when I drop off our child so I can attend class. Otherwise, that’s it. I miss him and I want him back but the more distant he is, the madder I get. What should I do?

admin

October 5, 2013 at 4:51 am

Well, yes NC rule is still possible read this post: https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/get-your-boyfriend-back-if-you-have-a-child-together/

shell

October 4, 2013 at 8:49 am

I was with my bf for just under 2 years,he is younger then me but didn’t think it would be a problem and sooner or later we would meet in the middle and he would catch up to wear I was in life,he took partying to far one weekend so I had a rant at him,next thing I know he’s telling me it won’t work with us and I need someone better then him ect, (all over text msg) its not like I expected him to never go out with friends or stay in all the time,he seen his friends a good 4 times a week for sport and maybe once for a drink at a weekend then spend the rest of the time with me.I really didn’t see this comeing as he was always the one to chase me if we fell out.its not nice being on the other side of it. I’ve tried NC but its hard at nights when all I can think of is him but have been strict with myself,I came off fb as couldn’t handle the questions or him deleting me or reading constant updates of his now great single life… The next day he txt saying I can do better then him and its all for the best and why had I come off fb.. I answered very short with I can’t handle that as well,he relpied with 🙁 sorry… Its only been a few days and scared the NC thing is giving him time to forget me and get over me without any hassle rather then miss me and wonder why?

admin

October 5, 2013 at 4:10 am

That is a common concern with NC and all I can do to cure your fears is tell you my personal experience. I don’t forget ex girlfriends. In fact, I think about them way after a month has passed so if he is anything like me he won’t forget you at all.

In fact, I would say most of the time you screw things up by contacting him instead of opting for NC.

triste

October 4, 2013 at 5:57 am

I was with 42 yr old ex for 4 1/2 yrs until about 3 months ago that I decided to break it off. I’ve been out n about with other people but I’ve not gotten him out of my mind. We have texted throughout this break up a little bit, we seen eachother once and every once in a blue moon we have spoke. We have held conversations on everything. He is the quiet distant type of guy which makes the knowing a guessing game to figure him out. I have a feeling he maybe with someone and he won’t tell me. I’d love
ototo give it a chance but I wonder if it would be the correct thing t do.
Please help. I do miss him, I do want to see hum

admin

October 4, 2013 at 10:06 pm

What gives you that feeling that he is with someone?

Have you tried NC yet?

Terry W

October 3, 2013 at 4:39 pm

So my boyfriend and I have been together a year, we were living together this whole time and then I go home and all his stuff is gone and he wont talk to me, he said he needed space. Through a friend I have heard he still loves me and that sometimes he felt like I was his mom cause I wanted to spend time with him, he works alot so wud be gone most of the day sumtimes. I have tried calling and text, we still have things that belong to each other, do I have hope to get him back what do I do if he wont talk to me, how long should I wait to try again or is it really over, this just happened last week

admin

October 4, 2013 at 1:03 am

30 days in NC is usually what I recommend.

lola

October 3, 2013 at 4:05 pm

Hi, my ex and I broke up about a month ago. He broke up with me because he knew he didn’t deserve me by the way he was treating me and he also said he lost feeling. After the first week we would hang out and he would walk me to class. He said he still loves me but is unsure of what he wants. Yesterday I decided I should cut off contact for a bit and maybe he will then be able to figure out things because I don’t want to be confused forever. He has called me about 8 times and left a few texts. When should I stop ignoring him and am I doing the right thing?

admin

October 4, 2013 at 1:01 am

You are doing the right thing and you should stop ignoring him when you feel that YOU are ready to talk to him.

Jenna

October 3, 2013 at 12:56 pm

My ex broke up with me a week ago and I feel that he is really confused about what he wants. He said he doesn’t want a girlfriend right now as he has loads of studying an work issues, he also seemed to make excuses such as me not being able to drive or cook, he has been texting me everyday acting normal but without the girlfriend tag and this is really confusing me, what do I do?

admin

October 4, 2013 at 12:51 am

What does he just want a woman who cooks for him? Some men are dumb when they think this. You should NC that fool.
Jenna

October 16, 2013 at 5:38 pm

Since then I’ve done the NC rule, we bumped into eachother on the weekend and it was the first time I’ve seen him, he came over and started speaking to me like normal and was bringing up stuff we did together. When I got home he texted me saying it’s not really what he wants and it’s not that he doesn’t want me, confused!

OBreguiss

October 3, 2013 at 3:14 am

Thank you so much for your comments!!

It is worth a try. We already are seeing us and talking again like the good friends we are. I am just so scare of so many problems, his and mines. Goshhh..Life is not easy and feelings are in the middle.

Best wishes to you and all on this site.

admin

October 4, 2013 at 12:13 am

Definitely worth a try and please don’t be a stranger. Keep me updated on your progress.

Alyssa

October 3, 2013 at 1:13 am

My boyfriend and I were dating for almost 7 months when he said he had a gap for some reason after got back together after taking a break because he needed to think about us since he’s going in to the military. The break up was mutual and I felt so good after and now I’m just a mess. It’s like the saying “you don’t know what you have until it’s gone.” We text and he wants to hangout but I’m not one for going out and he loves it. I had some medical things including a bad ankle sprain and an illness so going out really wasn’t on my mind. I know I should have gone out before but I have anxiety and I don’t know I’m very insecure. I just wish I went out when I had the chance. Anyways do you think I could get him back? I feel lost and that I took him for granted. I just want to start all over if its possible

admin

October 4, 2013 at 12:03 am

Yes, I think it is very possible but as long as you take a few weeks away from the situation. It is a mess right now so just let things cool down before you go on the attack. Have you read the rest of this site?

Amanda

October 3, 2013 at 1:08 am

So me and this guy met at work and he seemed really into me. We went to the movies and I hung out at his house and even stayed the night, but we haven’t slept together. And we used to text all the time. But about 3 weeks ago we stopped texting as much and when we would talk, he usually initiated the conversations. I would do it sometimes as well. But he would stop mid convo or just keep replying with “lol” or “Alright” so I would stop and he would reply a few days later. But not once in the last month have we hung out. In the last week he switched over to my work shift and so now we see each other all night. We’ve said “hey” and I ask him how he likes work and he smiles and laughs. He also comes up to me and initiates conversation with me just like his texting and he texted me and it seemed like he wanted to hang out because he was saying, “I’m bored.” and “What time do you go to bed?” but I had to go out of state suddenly because of a death and now he’s gone back to taking his time texting again with one word answers. How do I win back his adoration and maybe does he still like me? Please help!

admin

October 3, 2013 at 11:59 pm

Sounds like the distance is making him kind of distant. The two of you aren’t broken up yet right?

Marga

October 2, 2013 at 10:06 pm

Hey! I need help. My boyfriend and I broke up after our 2 years anniversary for around 6 months. Our relationship wasn’t the best at the moment so we agreed it was horrible. He needed that space, he went out and dated people and me too. After a while he contacted me probably 6 months and wanted to get back together. He went back home to visit his mom and said he realized what was important and wanted to try I said no at first I was mad because of the break up and I was trying to move on. We got back together and everything was good trying to work on things on issues then he gets a offer job two states away. He’s been wanting to get a job away from this city since the first day I met him so he took it. This is after 3 months of being back together. He was pretty optimist that it was going to work that we were gonna make it but now not so much. It became very hard we would argued a lot. He’s the type of guy who doesn’t show much of emotions so it was hard to fulfill my needs emotionally in a LDR I would ask and probably argue about it he said he would try it was something every weekend the past week we were ok we talked he was trying but I knew he was somehow going through a lot because of it. He seemed ok the week and I was fine but then Saturday morning he woke up very cold I asked what was wrong after a few try’s he said that he wasn’t feeling happy with himself and he didn’t think he could give me what I deserve that I was a great person and great gf but he didn’t know how to deal with things. It broke my heart I tried talking but then I accepted I said I was going to visit him to talk more and if we were not gonna continue then we could have closure after a fee try’s he agreed. This is a person who would text as much video chat every night but he have up when I was always the pessimist. I feel this is the second time this happens with him and I’m mad but I feel he’s my soulmate and don’t want to give up. Idk how to handle when I go up there because I don’t want to sound needy but I want him to know we could do this. What do you think is going on with him? And how should I approach it when I go to his house?

marga

October 3, 2013 at 2:24 am

the link says error.. can you please fix it?
on the other hand, idk how to act when i get there?
annything other advise before i go 🙁 please
admin

October 4, 2013 at 12:05 am

I just checked the link and it works perfectly fine! The site was having some issues earlier so that is probably why it didn’t open properly.
admin

October 3, 2013 at 2:04 am

Just be cool!

You might want to read the later half of this article:

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/the-definitive-guide-to-making-your-ex-boyfriend-love-you-again/

Malin

October 2, 2013 at 5:43 pm

I’ve been in NC with my ex for 18 days now, is it a bad sign that he hasn’t tried to contact me?

I’m starting to feel like I have no chance if he doesn’t try to contact me and maybe I should just let it go.

He’s out of town for the next couple of months, so there’s no chance of me bumping into him. Although, I do go to the same college as his bestfriend’s girlfriend and we see each other around fairly often. Every time I’ve seen her since the break up, I’ve always had a huge smile on my face, I’m sort of hoping she’ll mention it to him, that I’m happy.

Maybe I’m just getting impatient with NC, it’s been easy up until now, and I’m doing great. I just wish he’d try contacting me, make me feel like it isn’t hopeless.

admin

October 3, 2013 at 1:46 am

No I understand where you are coming from completely.

It isn’t a horrible sign. Obviously ideal but it may just mean that you will have to be the one to initiate contact after this is over.
Malin

October 3, 2013 at 2:09 am

I still plan on trying, I think. I already have every step planned out. I’ve read every post, bought the E-book, I’ve even read the comments. I’ve done everything right so far.

I also don’t really know how I’m supposed to convince him to give it another chance if distance is still going to be a problem. I know we can try all the things that make it a bit easier, skype, calling, etc.

Your site is very helpful though, it gives me more hope and it seems very genuine. I’ll be sure to keep reading new posts during the rest of my NC journey. I actually reread the posts whenever I feel myself slipping.
admin

October 4, 2013 at 12:09 am

Yes, you are doing everything right so far. Also, don’t be afraid to branch out and get other opinions. While I do my very best to be truthful about everything sometimes it is good to get another opinion.
Malin

October 4, 2013 at 3:58 am

I’ve looked at so many other sites and there isn’t even a comparison. This site is much better than any other I’ve seen.
admin

October 4, 2013 at 9:46 pm

Thats what I am going for! Hahaha that means so much. Seriously!

Brittany

October 2, 2013 at 8:25 am

Hey,
I started dating my boyfriend right at graduation from high school. We had been very good friends for the entire year and we went to Prom together. We dated for 1 year and 3 months and all of that time was awesome. We didn’t fight. We didn’t argue. We just loved each other and we could talk to each other about anything and everything. At the end of the summer he said that we should take a break because he doesn’t like the emotional strain that we had when we were in separated colleges and couldn’t see each other. But he said that he wanted to keep in touch and see me every single month. I mentioned the fact that I would be willing to move to a vet school near him once I graduated from college and he loved the idea. About a month later I went up to his college to see him and I hung out with him for an entire weekend. 3 weeks went by after that and he called me and said that I shouldn’t come up and stay with him for the entire 5 day break that I have. Especially since we aren’t in a relationship. Then he said that he doesn’t think we will get back together because he will be graduating school in 1 and a half years and have a grounded job, while I have 2 and a half years and then vet school. And he said that he just doesn’t have the passion that he had before we took a break. Also he says that he has been talking to this new girl at his college but he isn’t sure how he feels about her because his is in a weird place right now. I told him that I needed time to heal because my heart was broken and that included not talking to him. But he said that it was stupid not to talk to him and he hated the idea. So should I continue to talk to him and try to show him how connected we are through our communication or should I ignore him? I just don’t want to push him away and towards this other girl by ignoring him. We were such great friends before and still are I just want our love back that we used to have.

admin

October 3, 2013 at 1:05 am

Ok, I understand where you are coming from I really do but what you are doing now obviously isn’t working so I think you should give NC a try.

Rashda

October 2, 2013 at 8:11 am

Well I was in a relationship with a guy for 7 months we met on Facebook but we are distant related… Anyways we used to have arguments here and there and even before the relationship started I thought he was like the other men I’ve met so I used to ignore him sometimes and so on. Its was him who fell for me first and as I went through a difficult marriage before I was scared but slowly fell for him he did so much for me spoilt me lots even though he lived far he would send gifts he even paid for my holiday to go see him and family in Mauritius but when I got there we clicked instantly however one month down the line he left me because we were having more arguments and my anger towards him was bad… But he also had faults but I accepted him for who he was and I thought he’d do same despite after the break up I didn’t leave him alone in my mind I didn’t want to lose him so I’d meet call and so on silly yes I know he even told me instead of bringing him closer I’m driving him further away… But he confused me because he would still tell me I had a chance… When I came back to U.K I tried again but it was less day before yesterday we had a big argument because I feel he hates me I just feel like he will never miss me or want me in his life but he’s done so much… What results do you feel I will get from the NC which I’ve already started please help thank you

admin

October 3, 2013 at 1:01 am

I am hoping you get good results. All I can say is that most people who do NC get something out of it. The key is what YOU do with the NC time though.

Nina

October 2, 2013 at 8:06 am

We were together 6 months and 3 weeks ago we broke up in mutual understanding. We were seeing each other about 1-2 times a month. Not much I know, and that was the reason we split. I wanted more but he didn’t have enough time for me. He is very commitment by job and he travels every week. We both have 2 children (aged 10-16) from previous relationships that makes other challenges.

I realize I miss him and I had my NC rule running only two weeks until he called me. He was asking my work situation and few questions how I’m doing and said he had his marathon and results are in webpage. I answered shortly but by time when I asked how he is doing, he wanted to end immediate saying he’s at the restaurant and his turn came, he has to go. But in the end he highlighted my work situation that it was the reason he called me (?). He does that blocking often. He doesn’t want to talk about himself. Sometimes I get impression that he is hiding something and doesn’t act as normally open person do. I know him so little and feels he knows me much much more. He mostly talks his job, food, travels, sport activities, his daughters and so, but not himself. He is a very cool person and speaks calmly but he isn’t shy tho. Why he does that?

I promised to check his marathon time on the phone and I did so after 4 days we had our call. I sent him txt “Finally I had time to check. I think you didn’t focus on winning in Rio (Olympics), but it seemed to go well. Great! Again next year. Now I have to go swimming. Have a nice day at work!”

Now I wonder do I stick with NC or should I make next move? Was my txt too open and did I reveal my BF-back plan?

(Sorry my spelling mistakes. I’m from Finland)

admin

October 3, 2013 at 12:59 am

No, I think that was a pretty neutral text. Do you feel (since you have a gauge of the situation) that you can progress or not?
Nina

October 3, 2013 at 10:22 pm

I’m sorry to write wrong way. I wrote “Now I wonder do I stick with NC or should I make next move?” I meant now when he has made a call this soon, should I still stick to my NC (to go trough whole progress until his mine) or am I “allowed” to start contact with him more often and how. I really want him back and ready to commit my progress.

I actually read the rest of links you have and I kind of pick the bigger picture of how this progress works. So the answer probably is yes for NC rule, even we had a light contact on the phone. I’m ready to do this more than one but less than two years if it requires. If it doesn’t seem to work, I just have to accept my fate and learn to let him go. Autch, it might hurt but I’ll probably survive. I don’t want to turn my feelings from missing to addiction.

My main problem seem to be now his blocking or how I say the silence of himself. He really talk a lot other subjects, but seems to shout his mouth up, when questions turns to his matters. He’s been asking a lot of my life, but I don’t even know what are his goals in this future life, or relationship needs. The only light expression of how he feels is that “Nina you are kind of different than the other women and that’s why I like you”. I said to him couple times that I’m been delighted/enamored/attracted to him, but he didn’t response. (In Finland word love is a very strong expression to use and word love requires promise to lifetime commitment. Before engagement or moving together we say I like you, I’m attracted to you etc.).

What the blocking sign means in men’s world? Why?
What kid of change do I have to get him back? How my situation looks in your side? Any specific advice?

Brenda

October 2, 2013 at 12:56 am

I was with my bf (now ex) for a year and a half and in the beginning he was crazy about me, told me he loved me 2 months after we started dating. It was long distance but it felt pretty real. We would skype all the time, talk on the phone, started planning our marriage after he came to visit me for a month last summer. Then things began to get weird. He would be really quiet and wouldn’t contact me for days until i would have to initiate contact and be like “are you ok? Are WE ok? Why are you so quiet?” He would always say that he was busy and I would believe him and get over. But he did this very often. Things would be ok with us for a few days then he would be quiet again.

Anyway this has been happening for a long time and we had been on and off because of his behavior. I thought he might not be interested anymore or maybe liked someone else but he would deny it and act all sweet and lovey.

Recently, two major accidents occurred where he lost his grand mother and his sister seriously hurt herself, and both times he never told me. He never bothered to text, call, or email me. He disappeared and once I confronted him and told him I was worried he would tell me whats going on. I was so hurt and upset bc I should be the first one he should call but no. It took him about 4 days to tell me so when the incident with his sister happened (and God knows if it actually even happened), I blocked him on whatsapp to show him that I was pissed off.

I blocked him for a little over a week and then I unblocked him to see if he’d contact me. He did contact me. He told me he doesnt know why I stopped talking to him but that my “behavior” made him realize that this relationship has to end. He basically broke up with me when he’s the one who didnt bother telling me he had a family emergency. I’m so lost and confused and I even apologized for blocking him but he’s not talking to me anymore. He blocked me and won’t pick up my calls. I’m not okay with us breaking up because of all the emotional investment from my side but what should I do? Should I let him go? Should I email him telling him my side of the story, how he made me feel?

admin

October 3, 2013 at 12:10 am

I understand where you are coming from. All that emotional investment and now you feel like you have nothing to show for it.

I would try a no contact rule if I was you. Have you tried anything like that before?
Brenda

October 2, 2013 at 1:02 am

One quick thing I wanted to make clear^ …when I blocked him, I wasn’t aware of his family emergency. He told me his sister got hurt when I unblocked him a week later. I don’t know if that was his excuse of not talking to me for that long or if it actually DID happen.

Jennifer

October 1, 2013 at 10:26 pm

Plz help me

admin

October 2, 2013 at 12:28 am

Of course! But with what?
Jennifer

October 2, 2013 at 12:33 am

I wrote the post before but u didn’t answer it yet:s
It was my second post
admin

October 3, 2013 at 12:09 am

I am sorry I can’t find it? Do you remember what you asked?

jenny

October 1, 2013 at 8:45 pm

hey!
I ve been searching for smth beneficial and i finally found ! but i need your help more.
I ve been dating a guy for 6 months..at first we started dating and he was sooooo inlove with me like super care,attention,calls,texts 24’24,whatever i want etc.. and then thngs changed. he still talked to me all the time and i knew he loved me but he gave me not that attention like before. and i tried to explain that to him so many times,and every time we fought so much .because he said i am nagging and not appreciating what he is doing. we broke up several times,and i had hope he would change,but..he didnt. every time after a break up or if we are in a very big fight and he is wrong i come to his house and try to fix things up,because i know he will not. He hides his feelings so much,he is ready to die from pain only because he doesnt want to admit it. I was done that everytime i fix things and he is not doing anything.. everytime i told him its the last chance and he said ok..but 2-3 days and he changed back for bad him.
few days ago we broke up for the same topic ..that i dont like his attitude and that i am nagging.. and his phone was off,so yesterday he turned it on,i called him about 5 times and he didnt answer,nor answered my text messages.His mom told me that he is feeling soooo bad and in order to make him back and to know my value,she said not to talk to him at all! so he will run after me !
but…i am scared ..that he will think i dont love him and move on..
what to do?

Jennifer

October 2, 2013 at 10:57 am

Noo,he is not . He is just keeping distance because he is feeling so down.
My main problem Is that in few days we are having our anv ,and only that day I can go out because of my family circumstances . I booked a spa day for us both,and romantic stuff and I already payed the half.I don’t know what to do.. To go to his house and tell him I payed so let’s check it out? Or to tell him this is ur anv gift I want u to c it. Or what is right?
Jennifer

October 2, 2013 at 11:04 am

I don’t want to him that I fully forgave him and not waiting change from him.
admin

October 2, 2013 at 1:09 am

Well, do you think he is getting annoyed by the calls?
Zina

October 2, 2013 at 3:14 am

Ok. Yes, he blokked me from whatsapp. Maby i dont know him for a long time. But i will keep the no contactrule because my feelings tells me to do it. And i cant talk to someone who i cant sent messages to because of the block and he is still mad. And since yesterday i feel like i start to move on. But he is bringing me mixed thoughts and i think that he is thinking hard of the relationship and i have read about the mixed feelings in a book. Its because he maby wants to return or he is having jealousy thoughts or else he wouldnt check me up everyday and i do not have photos on my whatsapp with friends so it isnt the jealousy about guys and going out. I decided to let him stay unblock on my whatsapp, then i would let the opportunity open and so i can see if he is interested. He was acting jealousy the last times. And saying it in a very short message: We didnt knew eachother that well and he was talking very ruff to me and so he is. He (almost) always runned from the problems we had and now he is having more rest in his head and probably he is feeling that im respecting him because of saying nothing at all the last days. It isnt that i did talk too much in his head in personal. I was crying more then talking like everyday. But in the messages i begun to talk more about the relationship and that is where the headache begun. I know he dont deserve me the way he treats me because he said very bad things to me and that is also childish. I told him that he can come back but not with that behaviour. And the last times he kissed me and gaved me hugs and telling me that he dont loves me. I dont believe he dont. I will let him keep stalking me on whatsapp. But i wont play any games or miss any good opportunity. And when its time and the madness is gone i will talk to him maybe. I feel like i almost know what to do, and when and maby i do know. Thank you for your first reply 🙂
admin

October 3, 2013 at 12:43 am

Yes, let him keep stalking you on whats app hahahaha.

When you do talk to him though make sure you focus on controlling conversations!
Zina

October 3, 2013 at 2:06 am

Thank you. Im just enjoying the mixed signals he is giving to me. Hahaha. While im the one who is getting over him now and i aint crying and thinking a lot anymore he is the one who is thinking of me. I will see what it will bring out.
admin

October 4, 2013 at 12:07 am

In other words you are slowly but surely feeling better about the situation?

Zina

October 1, 2013 at 6:31 pm

Hi.
I have been in a relationship for almost 3 months with this guy and he has blokked me on whatsapp but he want to keeps me unblock but not talking to me. Since last sunday he is deblokking me every day but not the whole day. I think just to check if im still mad on my status or to see what kind of person i am after the break up. I aint gonna expect to much because we dont know nothing for 100% in life. But this is a difficult thing for me to understand right? because every person is different. What do you think about that deblokking and checking me out? By the way whatsapp is the only thing that he can checking me on.

admin

October 2, 2013 at 12:55 am

Sorry I am a little “old” with the deblokking lingo.

Does that mean he unblocked you from whats app?
Zina

October 1, 2013 at 6:36 pm

And the days that i didnt let him heard from me started on the day that he was checking me out. Like i gaved him kind of rest in his head.

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