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Kayla
December 2, 2013 at 3:14 am
So me an my boyfriend broke up after going together for a year the breakup was basically mutual but not Im missing him an its hard to tell if hes missing me we so the NC rule an it’s going on our 3rd week without any contact but he has posted stuff on social network saying he’s ok an hes not stressing referring to our breakup
admin
December 2, 2013 at 7:00 pm
Surrrreeee he is not thinking about the breakup at all… Yea right.
Jejo
December 2, 2013 at 2:49 am
Hello. My ex and I broke up about a week ago. He texted me twice. The first time I ignored it and the second time was to drop off some stuff of mine. I told him thanks and that he could leave it on the back porch. He texted me when he was outside my house and asked if I wanted to see him. I didn’t respond but then later apologized for not coming to see him, and said that I was just feeling uncomfortable still about our sudden break up and that I hope he has a nice day. Do you think that was too much? Can I still implement NC effectively or do you think he already feels smug and empowered?
admin
December 2, 2013 at 6:59 pm
You can still implement NC.
Mirryah
December 1, 2013 at 8:01 pm
When I was 14 I met this guy named Myles, we texted and wrote each other on Myspace, for a about a good 5 months but never met in person. The day I met him in person, he told me I was ugly. I got over it, when I was 16 I ran into him again, it was love at first sight. Well I played hard to get at first. We started talking and hanging out all the time and he treated me like a queen, we had talked about getting married and starting a family. Finally I gave birth to our daughter when I was 17. He was 20. During my pregnancy, he was there. He never missed a doctors appointment, always made me feel so worthy. As soon as I had our daughter, things started to get rocky, and falling apart. We started breaking up and getting back together. I remember a time when I felt like the spark was gone and I just did not love him anymore. I never told him that. But I remember feeling like I wanted to go out with friends again and not care. And I did, and he would chase me, and smother me. Our first real breakup was September 2012. He left me and I was begging and begging and begging for him to take me back. I realized I was screwing up, as soon as he left. He told me no he was not coming back this time. I begged for about a week. Then I started hanging out with another guy. As soon as he found out that I was moving on, he came running back. He told me how sorry he was and he knows what it’s like to live without me now and he does not ever want to live without me again. I gave in, because I loved him and I knew it would be better for our daughter anyways. We spent the holidays together. And as soon as he got me, he stopped trying. He acted like he didn’t care anymore. I told him I never wanted to experience the heart ache I felt again. Here I am, a year later. And he broke up with me on Halloween of 2013 This has been THE longest time we have been split up. I want him back so bad. I do not want anyone else, The past year it was me smothering him. And he hated it, just like I did. know he’s the love of my life. he has told me this time “I don’t love you anymore” “you need to accept reality that me and your time is over” “you need to move on, go on dates to realize were done” He’s never told me these things before, he says the spark is gone. He is feeling like I did along time ago. But I still keep begging and begging. And I’ve been begging for a month and 1 day now. I will blow up his phone and send him pictures of us, or pictures of me. And be like “I wish you wanted me” this January our relationship would be 5 years. Our daughter is 4 now. I’m scared to death he’s gone for good. I don’t want to live without him. I’m hoping he is going through the phase I went through when I was 19 – 20. I am 21 now, and he will be 24 this month in December. He is a Sagittarius , and I am a Taurus. Our compatibility is very low. And I should have focused on how I could have went about things differently.. I’m desperate for help. He won’t text me or call me unless it’s about our child. And I can’t control myself to let go. It’s been the worst time of my life. I need to make him want me again and be the person I was in the beginning. I don’t want to smother or control him. I don’t know what to do.
admin
December 2, 2013 at 6:35 pm
Myspace hahaha I remember those days.
Have you been in NC yet?
Erika
December 1, 2013 at 7:09 pm
boyfriend and I just broke up today. been dating for 2 years. after 9 months we moved to different colleges in different states and only saw each other for thanksgiving, christmas, and spring break. i moved back to our home state and hour away from our hometown to be closer after i finished school. we spent the summer seeing each other on weekends. when he went back to school ( 8 hours away) we were prepared to continue how we did the previous year. i visited his college and he came home for my birthday. he just said this time he came home he didnt feel the same about me. after we talked the first night he was home, he told me he had decided to stay togehter and we continued on like normal for the following week. then on friday he said he had just got caught up in the moment the previous week and he still doesnt feel the same. he didnt want to hurt me, he was just as emotional as i was. he says he can see us being friends in the future. he also says a part of him will always love me. he also left to go back to school today. so my nc period starts tonight after he texts me he got back to school safely. any other suggestions on what i can do to make sure he is still thinking about me?
admin
December 2, 2013 at 6:32 pm
Sorry about the breakup :(.
NC should do the trick initially but maybe using Facebook in the right way could help as well.
Erika
December 2, 2013 at 10:33 pm
i decided not to use facebook at all and keep him wondering. theres another part to the story i should mention though he swears up and down it has nothing to do with it. he admitted to me that he was starting to have feeling for another girl. i met her when i went up there and she was not afraid to make it known that she liked him in front of me. last year she told him she liked him and he told her to back off, but this year i guess he got more curious because he says he felt like we were growing apart so he let himself get closer to her. i know that was shitty on his part, and he knew it was wrong. but he didnt realize how severely wrong it was. i just feel like he gave up on me because its easier to be with someone he basically lives with. but then i think about how upset he was over the breakup too and wonder if he is just using the “i dont love you as much anymore” as an excuse to himself. to make himself feel better beacuse the actual reason is he still love me, but doesnt want to put in the work. do i have any chance at all?
admin
December 3, 2013 at 7:34 pm
I think you do. I think this is worth a try.
Rose
December 1, 2013 at 7:03 pm
So, I’m at a loss… Although part of me does really want him back, I mainly just want to apologize to him. I said some really harsh stuff, and said/did some other stuff I’m not proud of. I was completely run by my emotions. And so he thinks I’m crazy now. Honestly, I feel that that is completely fair, and don’t fault him. I completely agree. But that’s why I want to apologize. And I can’t text it to him, he doesn’t have my number, and I can’t send it over Facebook or something either. Personally, I just want to apologize in person. It’s not like I’m expecting forgiveness or anything, but I don’t want to mess up again. And I feel like I’m running out of time, too. He has severe health issues and he graduates this summer. And about no contact, I’m not sure how long it’s been, but I think I haven’t had contact at all since September, I was trying not to focus on him at all. It’s just that the last few days/weeks I’ve really been missing him and hurting. What should I do?!
admin
December 2, 2013 at 6:24 pm
May I ask why you haven’t tried reaching out to him yet if you have indeed been in NC that long?
Rose
December 2, 2013 at 11:19 pm
I’m not sure whether or not he does indeed hate me, or not. :/ He has said that he does, but whenever he is with my friends, I always get brought up. Pretty much unconditionally. I can’t tell. Personally, it doesn’t quite make sense. It’s like I want to reach out, but I don’t want to mess up again and make things worse like I have in the past if he really does have distaste for me. And if he doesn’t, I don’t want to give him the wrong impression. I also didn’t reach out because I wanted to make sure how I really felt.
Molly
December 1, 2013 at 2:59 pm
Hi, So my boyfriend and I broke up at the end of October. We had only been dating for about three months. When we first started dating he was so into me and it took me a while to really like him, but of course the second I fall in love with him everything changed. random, but i it true that if you do sexual things with a guy before he loves you that he’ll never be able to love you? That’s what i’ve been told and people are saying that’s the reason he broke up with me. Anyways, it’s been 5 weeks since the breakup. I for a while felt like he didn’t care about me enough and so i made the fatal mistake of saying “i think we should talk” and of course he broke up with me three days later. he said it was because hockey season takes over his life in the winter but i feel like that’s just a lie. We always had such a great time together but it was long distance so I would only see him once a week. I made the foul mistake of texting him about a week after the breakup saying that everything is cool between us because i figured i should stay cordial. of course it turned ugly, because i poured my emotions out and he never responded. I didn’t contact him and three weeks later exactly he texted me saying “I know it’s been a few weeks now but I just wanted to say i feel bad about what i did. really hope we can get along in the future”. I didn’t ignore him, I said we could get along now. It made me crazy though because he called me “mol” and not “molly” at the end of the text. then a few days later I though maybe I should reach out and so we snapchatted (we’re in high school btw) and he said “i miss you” and “i haven’t seen you in so long”. A few night later he snapchatted me and we were joking and I think he was flirting because he sent me a snapchat of money he got as a gift and i jokingly said “i’m expecting a big christmas gift now” and he said “maybe ill take you out to dinner”. but then he ended the conversation later that night with “have a good weekend” with that cute emoji smiley face with the red cheeks. So basically he was saying he didn’t want to have to talk to me all weekend? So, I really love him and I’m worried that I messed up the relationship because we did things before he loved me and that it changed his opinion if me because I could tell he really really liked me when we started dating this summer. It sucks because we have to work at the same camp again this summer and thats where it all started. should I try and stay friends to fix the relationship? i’m not planning on reaching out but should i respond if/when he texts me? Please help. Will I ever be able to get him back (sidenote- He’s jealous and It doesn’t help that i’m much more popular than he is i think. I mean he has quite a healthy ego-but according to girls at his school no girls really like him so i don’t think he broke up to see another girl. I’m so confused with the mixed signals of “i miss you” and then “maybe ill take you out to dinner” and then “have a good weekend”…HELP i love and miss him and I can’t stop crying and ti’s been 5 weeks since the breakup and 7 weeks since i’ve seen him….
admin
December 1, 2013 at 7:09 pm
Have you been able to do NC yet?
Molly
December 1, 2013 at 11:36 pm
I mean I can do the NC but everyone keeps saying I should be friendly
admin
December 2, 2013 at 6:53 pm
You can do what you want obviously just know NC is a pretty successful tactic.
Makenna D
December 1, 2013 at 1:34 am
Hi,
I have read several of your articles and find them helpful. My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago because I he needed to focus on school. The relationship was taking too much of his time and he felt pressured because I wanted to talk all the time and him there all the time when he couldn’t be. He said his feelings for me have changed and he doesn’t love me in a romantic way anymore. He also told me that he still cares about what happens to me and if something ever happens that I can always ask him for help. I love him more than I’ve ever loved anyone and he gets along with my family and friends. However as of now I have to initiate the texting and I am backing off big time but what are some more ways to get him to feel the way he did for me again? And do you have any specific advice for my situation? Another note-He does want a stuffed animal (child memory) back that he gave me but offered to give me a different one. Anything I can do or certain way to dress or act when I see him next?
admin
December 1, 2013 at 6:35 pm
Yes look amazing and act as classy and kind as possible. That is the best way I can put it.
Lindsey
December 1, 2013 at 12:43 am
Hello –
This website seems helpful, but I feel like my situation is different. I met my ex in sc and fell in love. We both lived in sc for about 6 months when he decided to move back to his home state mn. I either had to loose my love or move with him, so I did. I lasted about 7 months away from home, family, and friends. Being such an independent women it was hard for me to rely so much on my ex. I decided to move back home to sc and he did not want to come. The truth is, Im home now with my family and friends but the love I have for my ex has never stopped. He wont come here. Should I give it another try?
admin
December 1, 2013 at 6:29 pm
I think you should but only if you want to.
sasha
November 30, 2013 at 8:35 pm
we broke up because of distance and he said we should keep chatting and see where things lead to. But then I’ll text him and get some odd replies. So I stopped texting and after a week he texted me back being all nice and saying things like I wish you were here. So I kept on texting and being friendly but again I get mono replies. It was just annoying so I decided to stop being all friendly when he texts me. Of which I am never the one to initiate the text. Recently I have totally blocked out,even if I want him back. Its been weeks and we have not talked,I miss him like crazy I think he knows that but I have told myself not to say a word at least until next year.
admin
December 1, 2013 at 6:19 pm
Would I be right in assuming you were in a long distance relationship?
Neha
November 30, 2013 at 5:45 am
Hi,
I have been in a relationship with this guy for above an year. we were friends for around two years before we fell into the relation. after about sometime. he was very conservative and had problem even if i wear sleeveless dresses. i changed myself for him, behaved and looked the way he wanted. to start with we used to fight a lot over silly matters and we kind of broke up four months before. i could not imagine of surviving without him. i begged and he said we will give the relation another chance. i sometimes feel he is heartless.I ve been crying over him and he says he can survive without me. and he is not desperate to be with me as much as i am. last month he again said this relationship is not what he wants. he wants apace and i am not giving him that. i again cried and tried calling him. he didn’t attend my calls and blocked me. Yesterday i texted him i wont try anymore and I am officially moving on with my life as i have realized that there is no future for us. He called me back and said its not that i don’t love you but i am tried and sick of the fights and i want both of us to move on in life. and i need you to take a break from me for six month and enjoy my life and all. I lost my patience and said i don’t want your sympathy and i will move on with my life. Please don’t contact me ever and u are never going to get me back. this happened yesterday and i have been desp from morning. i feel like calling him and speaking to him. i don’t know. Its has been not even a day and still i cannot do it. how will i do it for above a month??? help me…!!! is the No Contact rule going to changes things and will it make him come back??
admin
November 30, 2013 at 6:58 pm
Its not going to do all the work for you BUT it will improve your chances ofgetting him back drastically.
Neha
December 2, 2013 at 4:51 am
dont know bt i desperately want him back.. help me.. please.. i haven’t contacted him for 3 days and its killing me…!!! please
Mariah
November 29, 2013 at 5:33 pm
Hi, I wish I would of found this post earlier. Me and my ex were in a relationship for about 2 years. He decided to break up with me about two months ago. In those two months (about a month after the break up) we hung out and he said he missed me but by that point I felt very good about myself and we decided not to get back together. Now I do want him to want me back but I’m not sure if it would make sense to start the NC two months after the break up. Like I said, I wish I could of seen this sooner!
Stephanie
November 29, 2013 at 9:40 am
I implemented the no contact rule after he wanted to be friends. We were together for 7 months, and he said he needed space and didn’t want to talk to me. I blocked him on Facebook, ok cupid, tango, all other media sites and my phone. Unfortunately, the phone blocker didn’t work and his call came through. He wanted to know why we were not friends on Facebook anymore, and I politely told him that I was giving him space. He went on a date that night and was promptly in a relationship within 2 days on Facebook. (A mutual friend told me and was wondering what was going on)
I advised him that I had blocked him from the previously stated sites, and my phone. Since the phone block didn’t work, I asked that he not call our text me again for at least 6 months, perhaps then we might be able to be friends. I also told him that since I had foolishly fallen in love with him, that friendship will not be possible for a while. I understand that we will have to learn to be cordial eventually, as I will have completed military training in June, and I am assigned to the same squadron as he is. Awkward to say the least. This was on the 16th.
He showed up to my work on the 25th, with one of my old t-shirts and a bottle of wine from his last mission to Hawaii….
He taps on the office window and mouths “I need to talk to you NOW.”
So I go on break, smoke a cigarette and ask “can I help you?”
He apologized for barging in at my job, and hands me a bottle of wine and shirt.
I asked why, and he said that he promised to bring me something back from Hawaii.
He also mentioned that he was selling the Michael Kors watch he had bought me for Christmas on e bay, and wasn’t getting the price he wanted for it. I jokingly said he should just give it to me anyway, which he promptly did as he had it with him. I told him he should give it to his current girlfriend, because she would love it. He looked at me funny, and said that it was a gift for me……
I politely asked how his gf is doing, to which he just looked at me and shrugged.
We chit chatted while I finished my smoke,
(He wouldn’t stop smiling and hugged me, I didn’t return it)
he apologized again for visiting me at work and said that I could continue on pretending that he never existed, to which I said: yes, pretty much, thank you.
He hugged me (again) and said “you’re still my bestie, I better let you get back to work” and later messaged me on Facebook, which I read but didn’t respond.
What I’m wondering is why in God’s name would he bug me at work after I made my intentions clear? Why the gifts? I figured I had made my point by blocking him and telling him I didn’t want him to contact me.
I apologize for the story, but I’m rather confused and you seem like a guy who has seen it all (or read it).
You’re input would be fantastic!
Happy Thanksgiving!
admin
November 30, 2013 at 4:29 am
Whoa his actions seem like someone who is trying to get a gf to me… but.. he is being weird for sure I will just say that.
I am a bliever in looking at actions over words… so what are his actions saying?
Hani
November 29, 2013 at 2:20 am
Hi,
I am in a dilemma. I have dated an older guy since 2011 and had hopes of starting a family with him. Sounds pretty easy enough right? Well, not- he is older by over 20 years, he is of a different race and different religion, the latter which we both hold very dear. This man has been very nice to me, I met his family and he has met most of mine. It was my understanding that he would convert to my religion so we could get married, but I realize almost three years into the relationship that he will not change. I love him dearly , but I am not sure about his feelings to towards me. He doesn’t call or text as much as Id like, he doesn’t spend enough time with me , and I think he has just lost interest in me. During the summer he broke up with me and I devastated. I did the NC thing and he came back and begged me to take him back. I did, but he hasn’t changed. I also saw that he continued to make me an option instead of a priority so I decided to call it quits. I sent him an email explaining my reasons. He did not even rebut any of them, but agreed to do it. He did not fight for “us” and that was really painful for me. I decided to block him entirely on my phone, fb, email etc. I have not heard from him even though I would like to reconcile and work out our religious difference. Do you think it is worth a shot? What should I do? Please advice me.
admin
November 30, 2013 at 4:10 am
Sorry abou tthe religious differences..
Have you been able to implement a NC yet?
himanshi kalra
November 28, 2013 at 3:11 pm
hey,, i am an engineering stdnt. I like my lecturer who is only 3years eldr than me. Bt we have cast problem. He is jaat n am punjabi. Earlier he didnt care abt me. Bt suddenly he started caring abt me.. He cleared dt we cnt marry,bt else whatever i ask he used to give diplomatic answer. He is vry simple n sober. He didnt ever talk to any girl in his life.he liked a rajput girl in his degree,,bt she refused by saying dt u r desi. Everytime i fought wid him becoz of his diplomatic answers. I think, he want to be wid me,bt dsnt want to commit anythng. Nw i swear on my dad dt am gng frm his untill he wants me bck.he knw this n he msged on the next day of my desicion,it ws a normal msg. Bt didnt msg him bck. Nw its abt 16 days no talk,no cntacts.even i hve blocked hin on fb. Earlir when i told him dt i won’t call him,i wsnt able to keep my promise n i called him aftr a month,bt at dt time ,, vo mjhe kbi call nai krte the.i use to do dt. Bt ab khud call krte the,even if i called him yesterday only. Nw i dnt knw hw to react in frnt of him. When he use to enter canteen or any other place, i move out frm there. Am frm delhi n he is frm a typical village of haryana. Nw i dnt knw will he be calling or nt. I feel he waits for my call,,bt no idea what to do? We cnt marry bt i love him.i jst want him to be wid u,even as a frnd. I ruined evrythng becoz of my impatient nature. Plz help me out.
admin
November 29, 2013 at 1:53 am
Well… You still have 14 days left of NC.
himanshi kalra
November 29, 2013 at 1:37 pm
hw should i react,when we suddenly get meet?
admin
November 30, 2013 at 4:35 am
Have you read my stuff about going on a date yet?
Jess
November 28, 2013 at 5:02 am
Hi, first off I want to say that it is very nice to know that I am not alone in all this, it is nice to know that I might be able to have someone to help me through this. I’ll try to sum this up. My bf and I just broke up(official as of today). We have been together for almost a year and half and have a house together and 5 kids (but none together, all kids are from previous marriages). We have had a lot of amazing times together but I also have a lot of trust issues due to a previous marriage where I was treated very wrongly. This did cause some conflict between us during the relationship but all in all we had a lot of good times to. I am a single mom so I don’t have help with my kiddos and we never were really able to get much “me time” together. Anyways I do have a problem with being very snoopy through his email and texts and last Friday I found that he had signed up for an online dating service (specifically designed for sex). I was so angry I just didn’t understand! We have had a close relationship I thought and our sex life was amazing!(not trying to give to much info) I confronted him about it and he said that nothing had ever happened and that he wasn’t sure why he did it except that he was curious and that if I hadn’t of been so snoopy we could be having and great thanksgiving break and nothing would have come of it. I was not okay with this! I thought it was a horrible thing to do to somebody you love and know has insecurity problems from being treated badly before. He did apologize and say that it was in the wrong and that he loves me very much but instead of him coming after me to try to fix this he told me that he was moving out. He said that he loves me but it wasn’t something that he thought id be able to get over right now and that I wouldn’t trust him. He also said that we never had quality time together (which is true) because I always have my kids (which is also true) but I don’t have help with them which is not my choice and I don’t feel I should be punished for such a thing. He says that there are other things he wants to do in life besides (not his words) but basically have my boring lifestyle and that he loves me and wants me but I don’t have time to pursue anything else cause I am so busy with the kids all the time. I always asked him if he was sure that we (my kids and I and him) was what he wanted and he always looked me in the eyes and said yes and was great with it! he has severely broken my heart, I have been nothing but wonderful to him and he says he knows this and I deserve a man who would want that life style. I don’t get it though because for a year and a half he has been happy with this lifestyle and I can’t believe that he has basically just dumped me after I have been so good to him and he is the one that made the dating site, Not ME!! I don’t know what to do, I am really hurting and I can’t stand the thought of him being intimate with some one else. If we weren’t meant to be then I just want to stay strong and move on, which I am horrible at. I at least want him to miss me and realize how bad he messed up. I know he loves me and he is not a bad guy but I can’t believe he would do this to me and my kids who love him. He said he could step back some but he know I am an all or nothing kind of girl (which I am) because I don’t want to just sit around and wait to see if he wants us fully or not. I am also horrible at not texting him, I don’t know how to stay confident and strong. Please help. Any advice would help. Thank you so much for your time. How can I make him miss me and realize he messed up big time?!
admin
November 28, 2013 at 5:55 am
Single Mom WOOT WOOT!
Happy Thanksgiving BTW!
Have you tried any form of NC yet?
Beverly
November 27, 2013 at 11:41 pm
And he said hes moving on with hes life how do I make him want me back please help sap
Beverly
November 27, 2013 at 11:33 pm
Hi my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago it was a bad brake up he said he couldn’t trust me anymore he don’t call or text the only thing he text me for is to check on our unborn child how do I make him miss me? please help
admin
November 28, 2013 at 5:37 am
Have you read this page? Hahahahah!
You might want to read this regarding trust: https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-make-an-ex-boyfriend-trust-you-again/
Silenced heart
November 27, 2013 at 10:59 pm
I’ve been dating a guy for about 8 months(doing distance dating about 4 hours drive away’ but saw each other every weekend almost and some long weekends) Last Monday 11/18 we ended things because (due to his inability to plan or follow through with things he’d say) he’d continue to hurt me. He was in the process of moving to the city I live in for a new job, and also to be closer to me. He supposed to move and start work next week.
We’ve had a fight about once a week for about a month and this last time after a few days of silence I contacted him and said “are we done?” He said he felt we shouldn’t date anymore because I (me) deserve better and he needs to work on his flaws blah blah blah it’s me not you crap. I said fine.. He said he deeply cares about me and I truly care about him and contacted him a few days later following up on some health issues he was having, I said I genuinely care about his health and we’ll being, he said he cares about me too and that he said he was grateful not bothered that I texted him. I told him to keep me updated since I always seem to initiate contact and his last response on 11/22 was “I will initiate conversation… I realize I have not been.. That is on me.. Will take the lead on letting you know what’s going on… I am sorry. How are you doing?” I said I’d appreciate that and I’m okay, have a good night”… I haven’t heard a word since. 🙁
I’m not sure I even want to continue dating but I don’t understand why he says he’d contact me and he hasn’t . Not only am I concerned about his health issues, but is he still moving here and starting the job… Or did he bail out of all plans, including being with me? Should I contact him again ? By him saying he will contact me and hasn’t, is another “not following through” but I don’t understand continuously saying things you don’t mean.
Thanks in advance for your input and happy thanksgiving.
admin
November 28, 2013 at 5:33 am
Happy thanksgiving!
SHave you read my LDR guide yet? You might find it helpful.
Silenced heart
November 28, 2013 at 6:21 am
No, but the LDR is over, I would like to know if I should call him?
admin
November 29, 2013 at 1:20 am
Only if you think you can evoke a positive response.
Helen
November 27, 2013 at 11:58 am
Hi Chris!Congrats for your excellent job and your patient with women!
I broke up with my bf 2 weeks ago and it’s the 5th time.We were together about 2 years.On this period we were fighting very frequently.Every time he asks me to break up and then he returns begging for a second chance.But this time he gave me his word that he will never bother me again.Every time, I’m doing the NC rule(before your article ;))and he’s back.But know I feel it’s over.He blames me for lack of understanding and trust.I saw him yesterday incidentally and at first he acted like he didn’t see me.I feel liable about this situation and it’s really sucks…Like a guy,you think is my turn to fix all this?
p.s sorry for my english!
admin
November 27, 2013 at 8:33 pm
Patience with women is probably what I need to be congratulated with the most haha.. (sorry todays been rough.)
So you got him back?
Have you read this: https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-keep-your-ex-boyfriend-once-you-get-him-back/
Helen
November 27, 2013 at 9:33 pm
No,we don’t talk.It’s still very soon.Thank u Chris for your advice!Hope the best for you!!Greetings from greece!
admin
November 28, 2013 at 5:14 am
Greece that is amazing!
Suzie
November 27, 2013 at 3:53 am
We were friends first and we’ve been on and off all year. Both of us just got out of long term relationships early this year. From July to October, things were going great, then he started avoiding me and blowing me off when we had plans. Last week, I told him I think we should just be friends because I know he doesn’t want a relationship and we’re both unhappy. (But I didn’t want to end things.)
Anyway, we didn’t talk for a few days. Yesterday, he texts me, “Heyy where you at?” I said, “Home. Why?” and he texted back, “No reason just wondering”
What does this mean? Why would he text something like that?
admin
November 27, 2013 at 7:56 pm
He is just seeing where you are.