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C.Marie
November 27, 2013 at 7:01 am
hi there, so me and my boyfriend of 3 months broke up because of too much fighting it was really complicated, he used to flirt with other girls and things like that but he loved me and i knew that because he’d cry almost everytime we nearly break up, however this time we broke up 3 days ago for real and ive never felt so lost and lonely before. and i just dont understand he says that he loves me but we can’t be together now but maybe later on in the future what does that mean ? and i told him that i wouldnt wait for him, because if he did love me he’d want me back now im just so confused, and ive already started the NC rule, and its the hardest thing, like i just sit there staring at his fb chat waiting for him to inbox me, sometimes i log off and i put my phone and laptop away and go for a shower to try ease my mind but i just run back to see if his said anything and its driving me insane… please help. i really want him back, but i dont wanna look like the “desperate” one because i want him to fight for me.
admin
November 27, 2013 at 8:26 pm
If you dont want him back then check it out: https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-get-over-your-ex-boyfriend/
SheilaE
November 21, 2013 at 12:29 am
Hi Chris! First I want to thank you for this informative site! Now on to my issue. I’ve been dating this woman for 3 years and we recently broke up. At first she asked for a break saying that she needed time to focus on herself and grow. At that point we were already living together. We established rules for the break which included we would not see other people. She broke that rule and of course I got upset so I moved my things out. We still have the contractual obligation which is the lease so I have to communicate with her because of that. About a week ago, our conversations have taken a turn. She has been contacting me nonstop saying that she wants me to be her future and keeps telling me that she loves me. Meanwhile she’s still dealing with the other woman. I’m trying to employ the NC rule but it doesn’t seem to be working. I won’t respond to texts or answer phone calls. When I go the day without responding, she will contact my family members to get in touch with me. How do I employ this NC rule in my situation?
admin
November 21, 2013 at 6:50 pm
Hahaha don’t get in touch with them if they get their family memebers to contact you.
redasandiego
November 20, 2013 at 4:00 am
Hi, My name is Reda, i been divorced for 6 months, for the last four months i didn’t call her talk to her.i let her go. we started talking for one month now. we are very nice to each other now. two weeks ago, i told her, i like to take you out for a coffee, she agreed, 2 days later i told her that ” this last week something amazingly wonderful have happened to me, then i realized, if it wasn’t for you this wouldn’t have happened. i want to thank you for having the audacity to terminate the marriage, you have opened my eyes to a world of desires and opportunities. i appreciate what you have done, you are astute. i guess things happen they happen for a reason. i revere you. thanks”
the same day she texted me and said ” i am happy that you are happy”
three days later she texted me and said “so what was the amazing thing that happened to you”
what would i reply to her.
Help me please.
admin
November 20, 2013 at 5:44 pm
Have you read the ex husbadn guide?
Baishali
November 14, 2013 at 1:07 pm
hey… i want to know that i’ve followed the no contact rule for 2 months…now my ex bf jst look at me and stare me fir a while…….i want him back…please help me…..i really love him but he is dating another girl (maybe) i ignore him and dont give reply to his calls and texts……….please tell me how can i get him back….how can i make him fall for me again…
admin
November 14, 2013 at 8:07 pm
Have you read the other guides on this site?
Baishali
November 15, 2013 at 3:19 pm
he is not taking intrest………he dont even message me……so should i message him first or not..?
admin
November 15, 2013 at 8:16 pm
Wait a few days before you send a message.
Baishali
November 16, 2013 at 11:13 am
i mean step by step………..and what type of behaviour should i do in front of him
admin
November 16, 2013 at 10:13 pm
I pretty much cover that in the ebook…
Baishali
November 14, 2013 at 1:04 pm
hey… i want to know that i’ve followed the no contact rule for 2 months…now my ex bf jst look at me and stare me fir a while…….i want him back…please help me
admin
November 14, 2013 at 7:55 pm
Have you messaged him ata ll the way I recommend.
Gee G
November 13, 2013 at 6:32 pm
My situation is kind of complicated. I was in a relationship with a guy for a year and 2 months but we broke up because of him changing his religion, and then he confessed that he had cheated on me. From that, I felt heartbroken and cheated. However, I felt that it was for a good reason because he wanted to change. For over a year, we dont have communication, he texts me apologizing for what he did. And then one he texted he out of nowhere saying if he continue to talk to me, will it stop me from moving on. From then we started as friends again, and he said he got out of the church he joined couple of months ago. We started as friends again and he asked if he could date me again. I didn’t say yea right away. I made him work for it. He said things that he regret and will not do again. I forgave him, I felt he’s saying the truth. We got back together for over 5 months. Then after, we had fight and all and told me one day, he’s not happy anymore, that he has no faith on us anymore. I asked him why and he didnt answers, so I asked him a different question. I asked him if he doesn’t love me anymore, it took him a while to reply, and then he answered, “I dont love you anymore.” I asked why and he didn’t answer. I called and text him the next day, asking for reasons and explanations. he called me back, he told me he wasn’t happy anymore 2-3 months ago, then he confessed again that he cheated on me again, and this time he slept with two other women. He said thats how he is, and nobody can change that because he likes how much pleasure it gives. He was the first guys i love this much.. I know people would say I should forget about him, but its hard. Yeah, I’m in pain, double than before. I dont know why after everything he has done, I still love him. Yeah, I’m angry and all but thats part of a break up stage. I don’t know how I can make him regret causing me pain so much and chase and get jealous of me again.
admin
November 14, 2013 at 6:03 pm
What have you done so far to get him back? From this site I mean?
Gee
November 14, 2013 at 9:25 pm
We just broke up couple days ago. I’m starting to not contact him, just that.
Gee G
November 13, 2013 at 6:46 pm
We fight but after a big fight and we talked about what we want, we’re okay. we fight because if how busy he is, And has no time to see me. But one day, he posted pictures of places he been to that past weekend, I got mad at him. He said friends visited him and hang out. After that we’re okay again, we changed we started texting again and saying love messages but when the day of out break up, he told me he was lying about it because he doesn’t want to break my heart. how can a person lie and make someone believe that its true. I want to make him jealous and want me back again, but with my situation i dont if its going to work.
admin
November 14, 2013 at 6:06 pm
Have you read my guide on lying?
Gee
November 14, 2013 at 9:25 pm
I haven’t read it. I asked him what was his reason for lying, he said because he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. Does that mean he still has feelings for me? He kept saying that he’s not the right guy for me. That he doesn’t know where we going with this relationship. He also said he doesn’t see being with him anymore. With these reasons he has, will I still be able to back to him?
admin
November 15, 2013 at 5:41 pm
You should definitely read it.
It means he cares about what you think about him.
Gee
November 15, 2013 at 7:19 pm
I’ve read your guide.
Does that mean he only cares about himself? or does he still has feelings for me he’s just being in denial because of the mistakes he did?
admin
November 16, 2013 at 8:00 pm
Its hard to say. I think everyone cares about themselves but at the same time I do believe he has some feelings pent up for you.
Gee
November 16, 2013 at 8:59 pm
Can a guy forget about his feelings that easy? What else can I do for him to talk to me and love me again?
admin
November 17, 2013 at 6:59 pm
I think it is hard to forget about strong feelings unless the girl does something really bad.
Sydney
November 13, 2013 at 2:59 am
Okay. Ummm I haven’t talk to him in 3 months and my friend talked to him saying “I talked to Sydney I think you should talk to her” and he asked “why” and she said “because” and he said he does have my number so he can’t and my friend told him she’ll give it to him tomorrow and he walked away with a smile on his face. She said he has been looking sad everyday and walking with no one now and etc etc. and I don’t know if he is even going to call me or text. But I just don’t know what to do. Do you think you have any advice? It would be helpful.
admin
November 13, 2013 at 7:30 pm
I think you can text him eventually but maybe in a week or so.
Sydney
November 14, 2013 at 12:50 am
Lol aww thank you I do love my name. And okay I’ll wait a week or so. I am a very patient person.
admin
November 14, 2013 at 7:02 pm
I like that you are patient! I am very similar to you in that regard. Though while I may seem patient on the outside sometimes I am screaming “TEXT ME BACK” on the inside anytime I am interested in someone hahaha. Something tells me that you know the feeling.
Sydney
November 15, 2013 at 4:18 am
Lol yeah but you would be suuprised. And I’m not going to call or text him anymore. Long hurtful story. Lol but thank you.
admin
November 15, 2013 at 7:13 pm
No problem. Keep me updated.
Sydney
November 14, 2013 at 5:10 am
If he does call what should I do? Should I ignore it and text him later? Any advice. Pretty please.
admin
November 14, 2013 at 7:28 pm
I think so!
Sydney
November 13, 2013 at 3:09 am
Btw in the 3 months I’ve got in a job and talking to friends and talking to other guys and tried dating. I have also been going to the gym and I’ve been keeping myself healthy and groomed. Everyone tells me I look great.
admin
November 13, 2013 at 7:31 pm
Well DUHHH with a name like Sydney how could you not look great 😉
Stuti
November 12, 2013 at 3:24 pm
hi
admin
November 12, 2013 at 7:42 pm
Hi there!
Dan
October 28, 2013 at 7:44 am
Hi Chris,
I’m a guy, 32 yrs old, from India. So you can imagine the dating/relationship rules are a bit different here. Plus my situation is kinda unique. Recently, my gf suddenly broke up with me after a year of being together. Basically, her family wasn’t too happy about our “growing friendship”, for which she got a severe scolding from her dad, which kinda blew her fuse. One other thing – we are relatives! Which basically meant we didn’t have a long term future together but we were happy during the time we were together.
Now, i’m not sure if the reason she gave me for the break up is true, coz i was having trust issues with her as i had found evidence of a brief “cheating” over chat in her mailbox. i didn’t confront her, but just tried to keep a watch. i didn’t find anything after that. But after that i’ve never fully trusted her. I can’t tell if she’s using this incident to get off me! I mean love does need to stand up against a few family objections i think!
So after the long story, my problem is this – She broke up with me – over chat 🙁 and said we can only be friends! For many days since then i cried, begged her, reasoned with her, kept in touch on text n call et all! But she refuses to heed!
Please advise. Are NC and the following steps void for me? Do i still stand a chance? I love her a lot!
admin
October 29, 2013 at 2:12 am
No you are all good. I would still do NC. You need to take back the power in the relationship. Too much begging and crying to girls can be a turn off. They like men to be strong and confident.
Isabella
November 5, 2013 at 8:30 am
But too much confidence and arrogance can also be a turn off.I am going through exactly the same thing and my ex(Not sure yet if he is)is too confident because I’m doing the begging and it’s making me lose a bit of him each day Dan.He is also Indian.
admin
November 5, 2013 at 6:21 pm
Don’t beg, you should have him begging you.
Mandy
October 27, 2013 at 5:54 am
Hi Chris
This has been a great read and very informative.
I have a bit of a complex situation, maybe you can shed some perspective on this for me
My “boyfriend” and I have been together on and off for 4 years. In this time he’s flipped back and forth between he loves me and then the next day he’s telling me about “look at the picture this chick sent me. Hot!”
So like an idiot I stayed thinking if I just got that much better that there was no way he would look at another woman.
He’s divorced and 13 years older than I am. He’s successful and as am I in my own career. So money isn’t the issue.
Trust is.
His ex wife cheated on him with his friend. And I have heard from many reliable sources that he cheated on her first.
Fast forward to now. We have a child together. He was sleeping around the whole time I was pregnant and sleeping with me. And denying it up until a few months ago…
Granted I made mistakes and I wasn’t always the most supportive girlfriend and I am very approval oriented. So I wanted to be the centre of his universe like he was in mine and he always acted as if he couldn’t be bothered to have anything to do with me. Then the next day he would be saying how much he cared for me and that we should get married. . .
And silent treatment would follow that.
Needless to say he’s a master at mind games and manipulation.
So I’m stuck in a place of I don’t know what to do… We have a child together so the NCR doesn’t really apply. Although when he is being a dbag I am happy to ignore him…
How do I get past this? He dangles the bait that we might work things out in my face and as quickly as he does that he pulls away and makes me feel worthless and insignificant.
How do I get the upper hand and take back some control? I’m tired of feeling so pathetic and like a doormat.
I want to be confident and even if we don’t get back together I want to be able to respect myself and set a good example for our child.
I just don’t want her to be poisoned by such a toxic situation.
Please help. I’m desperate for any direction.
And if we are being honest here I have one last “cherry” to add to this sundae. We slept together and since then things have been very strained. I woke up a couple days later with… well… Let’s say I’ve had to be tested for something that doesn’t deserve any applause ……. He’s the only one I’ve been with. I confronted him about it and he denied it initially and then his response was “well I guess if you have c******ia then you should probably kick me to the curb. At least we will be even for all the times you’ve hurt me”
Are you effing kidding me?!
PLEASE HELP!!!
admin
October 27, 2013 at 10:33 pm
Mandy I am so sorry this is happening to you.
You can do the NC rule you will just have to change it into LC.
Mandy
October 28, 2013 at 5:12 pm
Thank you for the feedback 🙂
Correct me if I’m mistaken, LC = limited contact?
admin
October 29, 2013 at 2:41 am
Correct limited contact
Mandy
October 27, 2013 at 5:59 am
Oh what I meant to add is that under my making mistakes I need his attention. I feel like I’m practically starved. So I made the mistake of being needy.
Not suffocating. But I wanted to hear him tell me that he loved me. Or notice when I’d dress up nice and take him for supper. Or clean his house.
You must think I’m a lunatic 🙁
admin
October 27, 2013 at 10:34 pm
It is a mistake. It should be the opposite way around.
You are not a lunatic you are just hurt and looking for help. No craziness at all.
Pratik Jones
October 24, 2013 at 8:37 am
I had a gf from past April….everything was going right but once when I was unable to speak to her for two weeks,I then said to her that “you’ve got time to talk to Sir but not me” she was very angry with me and ignored me for couple of days,then once I texted her to call me,I called and apologized..she slammed me for comment I made..later one day she called me and said that we can’t continue further and you can stay as my friend but not my bf…and she even Said I didn’t treat as a gf…she don’t use to text me…but after 20-22 days,I got a text from her saying she needs some subject notes from me….I agreed and our convo was going great..she used to send me love messages and talked politely….one day I was busy studying with my mate and she called me and asked me to explain a questionI did explain but very hurriedly..she felt I was arrogant but later I called her and asked her to note down,she refused and cut the phone….again in March we stopped talking due to some reasons…I texed on her b’day she didn’t replied,I used to text her still she didn’t! Reply….I met her in July in our class…and talked to her,she asked me why I want to talk and continue further,I said I have feelings for her,she walked away..next day she scolded me and we again stopped talking…after 4 days she accidentall. Met my friend who was stranger to her…and she told him that she has a bf from 2 1/2 years….but how’s that possible? She was mine from April….and this monday,she called a guy after I reached my class and talked just for 5 mins…..I JUST WANT TO KNOW FROM YOU THAT WHY SHE’S DOING ALL THESE THINGS,,? Just to hurt me and make me jealous??
admin
October 24, 2013 at 8:05 pm
Probably.
Don’t show you are jealous though. Don’t show you are hurt. Just be as classy as possible.
brit
October 18, 2013 at 1:59 pm
hi admin me and my ex were together for 3 years we split up and he has a girlfriend. we still live in the same house with roommates so its hard for the no contact rule.. but ive been trying to make him jealous he gets upset when i go out with friends or if i dont come home after work. he asks all my other roommates where im at and when im coming home. but when i come home he acts like such a jerk to me he confuses me to the point that i dont know what to do. and i mean i love him with everything i have and he told me the other day he still loves me but then goes back to being a jerk. please help.. dont know how to make him jealous when hes always here..
admin
October 18, 2013 at 7:10 pm
Well, have you tried any form of NC yet?
sarah
October 16, 2013 at 7:52 am
after almost 3 years me and my bf broke up he is the one brokeup because he had alot of isues of trusting me. he was really insecure eventhaugh i loved him so much never cheated on him. still love him .he brokeup because he said he is not ready to marry me , it was just an excuse becuz i never asked him to marry me …long story short i want him back but he texted me that never text him or call him and never try to think to get back to him…. and its been a month he didnt text me and i just checked his fbook he changed his status to single now . what should i do to get him back. and he still have my some stuff at his house.
admin
October 17, 2013 at 2:19 am
Alright youve started NC then I assume.
sarah
October 17, 2013 at 3:47 am
Its been a month that we brokeup and I did massaged him a week a go but he said dont ever try to text him or call him or even not try to get back to him . he said he is done with me .what should i do now ?
admin
October 17, 2013 at 6:11 pm
During that month you were in full NC?
cas
October 14, 2013 at 7:51 am
Hi chris, I am a victim of the grass is greener syndrome. My ex left me for another girl. I have tried to make him jealous many times during the no contact and he sure have gotten pissed off. Can I salvage the situation if I want him back? My no contact period is almost up.
admin
October 15, 2013 at 2:02 am
How have you tried to make him jealous?
cas
October 15, 2013 at 6:22 am
Through posing photos of me hanging out with guys. I guess it works.
cas
October 14, 2013 at 6:18 pm
Hi chris, today my ex talked to me on messenger and asked me how am I and I just reply casually.Then I asked how is his kids and he said they are fine.i said they are wonderful do take care of them and then he left the conversation without replying. Any idea why is that?
admin
October 15, 2013 at 2:31 am
He was probably expecting more of a response from you and got fed up. Thats ok, you have the power.
cas
October 15, 2013 at 6:21 am
Thanks chris, could it be that he is freaked out cause he thought he is giving me hope too?
cas
October 17, 2013 at 6:55 am
I actually doubt so..do u think I should just leave him alone for now or should I talk to him about it? thanks for ur help really chris
admin
October 17, 2013 at 6:30 pm
Hmm… leave him alone for now.
cas
October 16, 2013 at 4:24 am
Like could he be talking to me cause he wanted to ease his guilt nothing much,and he merely wanted to see if im ok.thus when I talk about the kids and all he is freaked out and left the conversation cause he is dont want to give me any false hope. Could this also be possible chris? Thanks a lot.
admin
October 17, 2013 at 1:53 am
Yea it is definitely possible but do you really think he is the type of guy that would do that.
admin
October 16, 2013 at 1:52 am
What do you mean?
Sorry speak like your speaking to a caveman I am a little spent again today hahaha.
dita
October 11, 2013 at 6:50 pm
dear admin, I dont know where to start….I have been with this guy for 4 years off and on. we have had problems from the start but always come back together. he finished with me for the first time in january, i was heartbroken. he said he was too old for me, thers an 11 year age gap, im 37. i have 2 daughters and live with them alone. I tried to get him back, i was clingy, needy and a bit of a txt terrorist lol. but still through the breakup we would still sleep together, he would take me shopping, do things for me….very confusing. he kept saying i should move on and find someone better. so in march i went on a few dates. he went crazy!!! accusing me of sleeping around, which i never did. this was after he told me he wanted to be friends and that he didnt love me anymore! so since then, i stopped dating and wehave been back and forth, but when i try to have a serious convo with him about what were doing, he pulls back. he blows hot and cold all the time, its messing with my head. why do i do this to myself? for love, im so in love with this man and i feel if we both got on the same page, it could be a wonderful relationship. he has a lot of trust issues tho and finds it difficult to communicate with me. hes a bit of a loner. i implemented no contact about 3 months ago, i managed 2 weeks, and he was hunting me down, it hurt him. so we got back together, only to break up a few weeks later as nothing was discussed or sorted out. He keeps the lines of communication open for me, and he would still be here at the drop of a hat if i needed him. do u think we have a chance? should i go nc on him, or should i reply to every 3rd or 4th txt? I have decided to stop sleeping with him, it kills me but i know its not doing me any favours. any insight would be greatly appreciated. thanx 🙂
admin
October 13, 2013 at 8:05 pm
You can call me Chris!
I think you do have a chance but there are a lot of variables in play here which could complicate it. Neverhteless, the best things in life don’t come easy. At this point i do think NC is ideal.
Shaishi
October 1, 2013 at 9:58 pm
Me and my boyfriend are 23 years old and we have been together for more than 5years and had broken up for a month now. I tried begging him to give our relationship another chance but sadly, he said that he doesnt have feelings anymore. Before he initiated a break up, I try to send him a text every now and then like “how are you? Have you eaten?” Or call him on how his day went, he then acts like I am choking him. When I ask him if something went wrong he would tell me “who the hell do you think you are that I should tell you about my problems?”. You’re not my family” then suddenly changes moods and slowly became distant.
After the breakup, I have lost contact with him since he changed his number. And I , too, changed my number after that. Now, I work at the hospital beside his school (since he started schooling again) and we sometimes bump into each other. I always pretend that I never saw him by rummaging through my bag or trying to text while walking past by him.
It was 2days ago when me and my colleague (a guy) decided to eat dinner outside of the hospital during our break. It was when I returned to our table after buying us drinks that I saw him drinking with girls (still students) and trying to woo one of them and the girl brought her friends along.
I wanted to confront him but my colleague instead suggested we change seats and we did. While we were eating, I saw him try to order or pay at the counter(I think) and caught a glimpse of him glancing at our direction. My colleague convinced me to ignore him and so I did and me and my colleague quietly left together.
A day after that happened, my friend informed me that his facebook status was about his love for someone and that she was his dream come true. I was not able to see this since I have blocked him from facebook ever since the breakup. But he is still friends with my friends and relatives (even my mother) on facebook.
Now I have just started dating again (with no expectations of a romantic relationship) but I am never open about it in facebook. It has just been my way of trying to distract myself.
Do you think there is still a chance of us getting back together or should I just forget about him completely?
admin
October 2, 2013 at 1:14 am
I think there is a chance certainly!
What are you doing so far? NC?
Shaishi
October 2, 2013 at 8:48 pm
Yes. Still on NC. That was the last time I saw of him and haven’t heard any news about him since.
I am still openly dating other people though.
Should I still continue with doing NC?
admin
October 3, 2013 at 1:49 am
Yup keep on keeping on. How many days do you have left?
Shaishi
October 3, 2013 at 10:17 am
It will be 2 months of NC on the 25th of October. Though I don’t think he knows that I am now dating other people. Would him not knowing that make a difference whether he would want me back or not?
admin
October 4, 2013 at 12:43 am
It could make a difference certainly!
Shaishi
March 7, 2014 at 3:53 pm
Hey! I meant to give a reply for a few months now —– Your advice worked! me and my ex are now back together since December.
I followed your advice and was on NC for like 3 months before he started asking me back. He had to find out from a friend that i started dating again and was surprised that the guy i went out most of the time was also the older brother of his friend (and just so happens to be from another department in the hospital that i work in)
Thank you for everything. 😀
admin
March 7, 2014 at 7:07 pm
Wow!
You are so welcome 🙂
Jeanette Huston
September 18, 2013 at 5:31 pm
It has been a long time since I talked to my ex. I texted and asked him How he was doing today out of the blue. I then texted like 30 minutes later I figured he was probably doing something fun. I was running out to dinner with a friend. It had been a while and wanted to see how he was. Keep Well=) He then told me something like he was in the middle of having dinner with his mom and for me to have a good dinner. Bye. I don’t remember exactly but he was really polite about it. In the past he never responded or answered. But he didn’t seem jealous either. Just friendly!
admin
September 19, 2013 at 2:08 am
Do you know how long exactly? Weeks, Months, Years?
Jeanette
September 19, 2013 at 9:13 pm
It has been about 6 months since we split. I initiated nc a few months ago. He texted a month in the middle if the night. He was a little drunk. I’ve been really slow with initiating contact.
admin
September 20, 2013 at 8:55 pm
Gotcha, well I think you can probably begin texting him now. If you need advice on that just reference the website or the E-Book.
Thembi
September 18, 2013 at 4:04 pm
I just broke up with my boyfriend of about 3years now…apparently he cheated and impregnated some girl and all this happend about a month ago, I blocked all contact except on facebook since his not much of a fan and last week he sent a message via facebook saying how sorry he is, he misses me and would never forget me in his life, and I texted him back, and now Im wondering if I did the right thing
admin
September 19, 2013 at 2:01 am
Why do you want him back if he got some other girl pregnant?
I wouldn’t have texted him back I would have gone full blown NC.
Thembi
September 19, 2013 at 12:24 pm
Oops..Im really sorry I must have overlooked the aim/purpose of this site and rushed into commenting..I do not want him back I was just sharing…My apologies. Otherwise I read them articles and I love them,hopefuly they will come handy one day… keep up the good work.
admin
September 20, 2013 at 6:57 pm
Hey, if you want to get over your ex boyfriend I can help you too!
toni
September 18, 2013 at 2:36 pm
I was in a relationship with my ex for a year and a half and broke it off now my ex boyfriend is moving to another city and I was the one who broke up with him because I felt that he had no dreams and ambition. but I realised that I really love him and want him back. I heard that he has another girlfriend. what must I do to get him back.
admin
September 19, 2013 at 1:59 am
Well, there is a lot you can do but I can’t really explain it in an email. Honestly, the best guide is my E-Book or you can pick up some decent infromation on this site.
princess
September 7, 2013 at 7:25 pm
We wer in a relationship for the past 10 months…he feels insecure…his sister hates me cos she feels i took him away from the family…it matters so much to him…he says he is not mature yet..n he is still a kid at heart…he is 19…he says that am perfect n he is not..he is too possessive …he loves me still but he doesn’t want the relationship to continue cos we wont b happy..he says am organizd n he is a loser…i want him soo badly..i lov him like crazy…wat am i supposed to do..
admin
September 8, 2013 at 12:33 am
You might want to try the no contact rule.
princess
September 8, 2013 at 10:07 am
This is the the second tym he is doin this…i tried the nc rule(before reading yur page)…it worked out…wil he come bak the next tym too if i try it.cos will a person comitt the same mistake twice??
admin
September 8, 2013 at 4:50 pm
I think it can work!
princess
September 8, 2013 at 5:00 pm
Again…sorry am botherin u with this..but am jus too tensed…i want him bak real soon..can u suggest something else
admin
September 9, 2013 at 6:44 pm
Honestly, you might want to check out Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO. There is a lot of valuable information in there.