42 thoughts on “I Broke Up With My Boyfriend And He Went Back To His Ex”

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   Flaming

   May 8, 2019 at 7:20 am

   Hey
   I started dating my guy for about two months plus, he broke up with his ex a week before we started dating. But recently she made a flight from a different city to go see him, all calling and buying him gifts, sending gifts to his sister and all. On his birthday she bought him cake and all. That was the last straw, so I broke up and sold the gift I bought him. I’m still in love with him, he claims I over react and likes Issues, his Bestfriend asked me to move on that I’m beautiful and any one will want to date me. So I’m writing to you. What do you think is best for me to do.
   Thank you

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   Amy

   December 29, 2018 at 9:29 am

   Me and and my ex were arguing for weeks and decided to end it. A week later we thought we could make it work and tried again but a few later we argued and said that it wasn’t meant to be. A few days later I realised that he was friends with his ex again and invited her to a New Years party that I was not invited to. He has told me multiple times that there was nothing between them and despite our breakup being mutual, I feel like he’s going to go back to her because he is lonely. I don’t know if I should feel hurt or angry? I am sad the relationship is I’ve but it was for the best but the reappearance of his ex has me pining for him, probably because I am worried that he will go back to her and forget me.

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   Bless

   November 25, 2018 at 10:40 am

   Me & my ex broke up & his ex girlfriend laughed at the fact that i was hurt & now they are back together. What will happen in this situation?

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   Chris Seiter

   November 25, 2018 at 7:24 pm

   First of all…shame on them for making fun of a very serious situation. They need to grow up. Perhaps they deserve each other.

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   Chris Seiter

   November 25, 2018 at 7:24 pm

   First of all…shame on them for making fun of a very serious situation. They need to grow up. Perhaps they deserve each other.

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   Kensley

   November 14, 2018 at 1:12 am

   Me & my ex broke up & he went back to his ex after 2 years of them being broken up. She would try to do things to get him back before & during our relationship but he didn’t want her back. We were broken up for 6 months & she was still trying but he still wouldn’t go back but he finally did but now they’re not together. It’s been awhile since me & him talked i still love him a lot & honestly i want him back but he cut ties with me after a rumor. I don’t know if he still loves me but the times we’ve talked after the break up were good conversations & he said he missed me. But he’s been acting horrible towards me since the rumor incident but i wanna know if he still loves me but maybe he doesn’t right ….

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   Chris Seiter

   November 14, 2018 at 1:49 am

   Sorry Kensely he has been acting horrible…NC is in order

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   DcP711

   April 4, 2018 at 3:13 am

   Oh my God! As i read this, i realized his ex used the being there method! What do you recommend i do now? She succeeded. I got tired of competing and feeling insecurity on my end. He is clueless. We lasted almost 9 months. She used the kid as an excuse to constantly communicate. I mean constantly. Over 100 messages a day, video calls, talks. All friendly. Started w the kid then just general friendly conversations. We never really were ever alone. Physically yes but she was always on the phone. I finally ended it because i told him he never ended that relationship and was giving her the gf place and attention. This realization is insane!!!!! Help!

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   Chris Seiter

   April 5, 2018 at 10:49 pm

   The “BEING THERE METHOD” I talked about this a lot on a webinar yesterday and a lot of women told me exactly what you just said with someone using it on their ex and causing the breakup.

   I am glad that I gave you a bit of a light bulb moment.

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   Nadya

   March 23, 2018 at 7:22 pm

   Hi Chris, I ended things with my bf 6 months ago. Last month I tried to reconcile, owing up to my mistakes in the relationship. He refused to consider reconciling (I may have pleaded abit out of desperation). He said he was not dating anyone at that stage.

   Only to find out last week that he is low-key back with his ex for about a month now. And they trying to work things out.

   What do I do? Is it too late 🙁

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   March 28, 2018 at 6:34 pm

   Hi Nadya,

   Try the nc rule of at least 30 days and check this one:
   How To Win Back An Ex Who Is With Someone Else