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82 thoughts on “I Miss My Ex So Much”

  1. Stella

    March 1, 2018 at 12:12 am

    I did not meet him in real person.

  2. Julie

    February 24, 2018 at 8:53 pm

    My ex broke up with me because he said he didnt feel the same way as he did at the start, but after doing what you suggested i think it was more i was a bit clingy, i always asked for more effort but i realized after being in his position that it isnt what i want, i have had the nc rule for two weeks now and after the third im planning on talking to him about this and telling him i realized i was controlling and i asked for things that i now realize i dont even want, do you think this is a good idea because we would be on the same page now, he was my bestfriend before we dated and i feel that if i go slowly back into the friend zone it would be very hard to get out of, i was thinking doing this approach instead and if he doesnt want to get back together kind of ice him out until im over him and all feelings are gone.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 27, 2018 at 11:37 am

      Hi Julie,

      telling him what you think was wrong with you and what you can improve long after the break up is still chasing.. if you really changed, you wouldn’t try to convince him.

  3. Stella

    February 21, 2018 at 8:41 am

    He and I know each other for 7 months because we chatted. I was helping him a lot. I promised him to take care of my health because he was everything in my life. Last 2 month ago I told him that I was sleepy because I took my medicine and then he refused to reply me back. I found that he already blocked me in what’s app and Skype and also he already changed his new mobile no. I cried and depressed but now i feel better. My wish is that I want him to get back together. What do I do?? Should I wait for his reply or what?? Please help me..

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 25, 2018 at 4:42 pm

      Hi Stella,

      Have you met in person?

  4. Tanna

    February 18, 2018 at 1:05 am

    Hey! thanks for taking the time to respond
    but Im not quite satisfied…I had 3 questions in there that I was hoping to get answers to.
    Especially my question if it was likely he really wanted to work on himself or was trying to lay me off gently, based on our history.

    Thank you

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 20, 2018 at 12:42 pm

      If a man wants to be with you, he will no matter what..so, that’s just probably his excuse to break up with you.. If he initiates during nc don’t answer.. You can initiate contact after nc

  5. Mel

    February 14, 2018 at 7:31 pm

    My ex and I were together for 9 years and after he dumped me, I begged and cried for DAYS. Now we are supposed to meet at my parents’ house in a few days to let them know of the breakup, since my ex is basically family to them. But I don’t want to see my ex because maybe he just needs some space and will give me another chance. Should I lie to him and tell him I already spoke to my parents on my own, and avoid seeing him at all costs?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 18, 2018 at 3:12 pm

      Hi Mel,

      Did you proceed in telling your parents?

  6. Tanna

    February 11, 2018 at 8:36 pm

    My ex and I were together for 6 months. During the time, we both acknowledged that it was the most compatible relationship we had ever been in, the most fun, passionate, the most understanding. It felt perfect. We both knew where we were headed long term. I’m 27 and he is 32. Not long before we started dating, he left a six figure job to start his own business. While we were dating, the stress of starting a career afresh started to really get to him eventually and he decided after Christmas that he couldn’t keep me a priority. He had to pick up a second job to make ends meet and in his words – he couldn’t be the man I deserved right now, he doesn’t know how long this “drought” in his career will last and he doesn’t want me to resent him eventually. He’s very traditional. He made it very clear he wants to be the provider in the relationship. I’m comfortable and make a very good salary myself. Initially, we agreed to be friends (maybe too quickly) and he also stated that once he was more stable I would be the first to know. But then the lack of free time on his side started to get frustrating. I went off on him and accused him of using his financial situation as a cop out. He couldn’t believe I would suggest that but he apologized that I felt that way and blamed himself and bad timing for the current situation of things and…. that was the last he spoke to me. I since apologized for the things I said, with no response from him. I started NC to give myself the space I need to reevaluate things and a possible friendship in the future.

    It’s been 3 weeks. I’ve been working on myself. He has no social media and he knows I’m not active on social media either. I broke no contact today using an edited sample text from Chris’s book still with no response. I’m wondering – was I too harsh? Is he really trying to work on himself or is he just not that into me? Should I just let him reach out on his own time?I planned to give it a few days and try again or should I just let it go?. Any comments will help me. Still miss him terribly

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 15, 2018 at 1:02 pm

      Hi Tanna,

      Restart nc, and still be active in posting and make your posts public because he will probably get curious and check.

  7. Tanna

    February 11, 2018 at 3:29 am

    My ex and I were together for 6 months. During the time, we both acknowledged that it was the most compatible relationship we had ever been in, the most fun, passionate, the most understanding. It felt perfect. We both knew where we were headed long term. I’m 27 and he is 32. Not long before we started dating, he left a six figure job to start his own business. While we were dating, the stress of starting a career afresh started to really get to him eventually and he decided after Christmas that he couldn’t keep me a priority right now. He had to pick up a second job to make ends meet and in his words – he couldn’t be the man I deserved right now, he doesn’t know how long this “drought” in his career will last and he doesn’t want me to resent him eventually. He’s very traditional. He made it very clear he wants to be the provider in the relationship. I’m comfortable and make a very good salary myself. Initially, we agreed to be friends (maybe too quickly) and he also stated that once he was more stable I would be the first to know. But then the lack of free time on his side started to get frustrating. I went off on him and accused him of using his financial situation as a cop out. He couldn’t believe I would suggest that but he apologized that I felt that way and blamed himself and bad timing for us and…. that was the last he spoke to me. I since apologized for the things I said, with no response from him. I started NC to give myself the space I need to revaluate things and a possible friendship in the future.

    It’s been 3 weeks. I’m wondering – was I too harsh? Is he really trying to work on himself or is he just not that into me? Should I just let him reach out on his own time?I plan to re-engage him slowly after my 30 day NC period and when I’m ready to be friends. Any comments will help me. Still miss him terribly

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 15, 2018 at 1:02 pm

      Hi Tanna,

      Restart nc, and still be active in posting and make your posts public because he will probably get curious and check.

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