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558 thoughts on “Is It Even Possible To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back?”

  1. Kristen

    January 26, 2016 at 3:57 am

    Hi,

    I would really appreciate some advice. My boyfriend and I broke up almost four months ago. I completed 33 days NC and then I started texting him. He responded to my first, ignored my second, responded to my third, ignored my fourth and then on my fifth (sent last week) we finally had a good conversation. The next day he initiated and we talked for a little bit. Then the next day, last Saturday, he asked me to hang out. We end up meeting up and having a good time. He talked about how much he missed me and we caught up. We kissed. But then he told me he was recently diagnosed with skin cancer. He has been very depressed the past month. He is going to undergo treatment and his prognosis is really good. He said he is going to be fine but wanted to tell me because he trusts me and could use my support. I guess I just don’t really no where to go from here. We are not back together yet. I feel like I have to tread lightly with all he’s going through right now. He said he would like for us to hang out this week. Should I wait for him to initiate? Should I just offer my support but lean back in terms of reconciliation?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 2:16 pm

      Hi Kristen,

      I’m sorry for what happened to him but right now I think it’s best if you support him through this and set aside reconciliation for now. He’s going through a very tough time in his life, and being there for him is actually even greater than getting back together. You get to be this person whom he can rely.

  2. Kristen

    January 26, 2016 at 3:57 am

    Hi,

    I would really appreciate some advice. My boyfriend and I broke up almost four months ago. I completed 33 days NC and then I started texting him. He responded to my first, ignored my second, responded to my third, ignored my fourth and then on my fifth (sent last week) we finally had a good conversation. The next day he initiated and we talked for a little bit. Then the next day, last Saturday, he asked me to hang out. We end up meeting up and having a good time. He talked about how much he missed me and we caught up. We kissed. But then he told me he was recently diagnosed with skin cancer. He has been very depressed the past month. He is going to undergo treatment and his prognosis is really good. He said he is going to be fine but wanted to tell me because he trusts me and could use my support. I guess I just don’t really no where to go from here. We are not back together yet. I feel like I have to tread lightly with all he’s going through right now. He said he would like for us to hang out this week. Should I wait for him to initiate? Should I just offer my support but lean back in terms of reconciliation?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 2:16 pm

      Hi Kristen,

      I’m sorry for what happened to him but right now I think it’s best if you support him through this and set aside reconciliation for now. He’s going through a very tough time in his life, and being there for him is actually even greater than getting back together. You get to be this person whom he can rely.

  3. Ellie

    January 26, 2016 at 3:37 am

    Hi Chris!

    I can comment! Hooray! I sent an email with more about my situation. I got a reply from Leia with lots of support. (I don’t see her name in your article, but considering your Star Wars references, an alter ego? :D) I think it is a very stupid reason that my ex broke up with me!

    He broke up with me because he’s constantly busy with farm work and after our university graduation he wouldn’t be able to see me much. He wanted to end us before we’d end badly like a previous relationship he had. We were almost always happy and I was sad that I couldn’t see him much, but not having him at all is so much worse! I also really hate that he is comparing me to an ex when everybody is different and I’m his longest relationship by at least a year. I too had those notions about exes considering this was my first relationship so I denied being friends. I knew if he ended up being with another or if I’d hang with him as just a friend that it’d hurt me terribly. He has said that he doesn’t want to be with anyone because he doesn’t have time for it and that he doesn’t want to hurt me or another. I hadn’t run into your site so I made many mistakes like begging, denying being friends and being a GNAT. Had I known better I’d probably have him back already!

    Almost done with the NCR so I’m hoping for the best! I know we kick butt together! I’ll keep you guys updated. Thank you tremendously for the support and help!
    -Ellie

    1. Ellie

      February 9, 2016 at 2:34 am

      I’m really happy to be on positive texting terms with my ex! I’ve been the one initiating and sending more characters though. I’m worried that I may have done too much damage post break up though. I’m really trying my best. He’s a nice guy. How would I know if he’s moved on and just being nice to me? That I’ve done too much damage? Thank you for any insight! 🙂

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 9, 2016 at 11:31 am

      Hmm.. More likely if he isn’t initiatibg being flirty

    3. Ellie

      February 4, 2016 at 3:00 am

      Thank you! That could be it. I said a general Hi for everyone and that is when he nodded. I texted him the next day and so far I’ve been following the texting rules pretty good. I’ve been getting responses mostly quickly, somewhat his usual texting style and positive. 🙂 Tomorrow I send a memory text. I’m worried though. When we were together, I would normally be the one to text more character wise. I’m not sure if he is with another. I’m also not sure if he is just being nice and has moved on from me considering all the mistakes I made post breakup. When we broke up he wanted to be friends. I didn’t want to because it would hurt and I thought that being friends with exes were not good. He had said that it is tough, but he has done it before and it just takes time. I didn’t think he was friends with exes when we were together. Is that what he is thinking with me now? I know I can find another, but I really want us again. We didn’t have any problems. The only thing was he couldn’t see me often. That isn’t a good reason to break up to me. Also it is kind of scary to know I’m really trying, but may get hurt again. Thank you so very much for your help in advance! You have been truly a lifesaver! 🙂

    4. Ellie

      January 30, 2016 at 1:23 am

      Hello Amor or Chris!
      I’m very sorry that I didn’t include your name Amor. I did so in the email and had trouble submitting the comment. I also didn’t ask much of a question, but I definitely have one now. I met my ex unexpectedly today being 29 days into my NCR. About 6 months since he broke up with me. We were at a convention and I saw him with friends. I only recognized his best friend and I said hi and talked a bit. I was my normal self. I just said a couple of things and wished them a fun time. My ex just nodded and didn’t really look at me. His best friend knows we broke up and he was nice to me. When I walked away, I cried, but I made sure he didn’t see. Should I restart my NCR? I feel extremely down. It was nice to see him, but I’m afraid he doesn’t want anything to do with me. I’m no longer my depressed whiny self as after he broke up with me to before my NCR. I just miss him.

    5. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 30, 2016 at 2:54 pm

      It’s okay not to mention me 🙂 No worries! You don’t have to restart nc, maybe you’re meetup can also be a good topic. It doesn’t have to be the meetup itself but the subject you talked about there or the place. Don’t get too upset. Maybe he didn’t interact because you didn’t initiated interaction also right?

  4. Ellie

    January 26, 2016 at 3:37 am

    Hi Chris!

    I can comment! Hooray! I sent an email with more about my situation. I got a reply from Leia with lots of support. (I don’t see her name in your article, but considering your Star Wars references, an alter ego? :D) I think it is a very stupid reason that my ex broke up with me!

    He broke up with me because he’s constantly busy with farm work and after our university graduation he wouldn’t be able to see me much. He wanted to end us before we’d end badly like a previous relationship he had. We were almost always happy and I was sad that I couldn’t see him much, but not having him at all is so much worse! I also really hate that he is comparing me to an ex when everybody is different and I’m his longest relationship by at least a year. I too had those notions about exes considering this was my first relationship so I denied being friends. I knew if he ended up being with another or if I’d hang with him as just a friend that it’d hurt me terribly. He has said that he doesn’t want to be with anyone because he doesn’t have time for it and that he doesn’t want to hurt me or another. I hadn’t run into your site so I made many mistakes like begging, denying being friends and being a GNAT. Had I known better I’d probably have him back already!

    Almost done with the NCR so I’m hoping for the best! I know we kick butt together! I’ll keep you guys updated. Thank you tremendously for the support and help!
    -Ellie

    1. Ellie

      February 9, 2016 at 2:34 am

      I’m really happy to be on positive texting terms with my ex! I’ve been the one initiating and sending more characters though. I’m worried that I may have done too much damage post break up though. I’m really trying my best. He’s a nice guy. How would I know if he’s moved on and just being nice to me? That I’ve done too much damage? Thank you for any insight! 🙂

    2. EBR Team Member: Amor

      February 9, 2016 at 11:31 am

      Hmm.. More likely if he isn’t initiatibg being flirty

    3. Ellie

      February 4, 2016 at 3:00 am

      Thank you! That could be it. I said a general Hi for everyone and that is when he nodded. I texted him the next day and so far I’ve been following the texting rules pretty good. I’ve been getting responses mostly quickly, somewhat his usual texting style and positive. 🙂 Tomorrow I send a memory text. I’m worried though. When we were together, I would normally be the one to text more character wise. I’m not sure if he is with another. I’m also not sure if he is just being nice and has moved on from me considering all the mistakes I made post breakup. When we broke up he wanted to be friends. I didn’t want to because it would hurt and I thought that being friends with exes were not good. He had said that it is tough, but he has done it before and it just takes time. I didn’t think he was friends with exes when we were together. Is that what he is thinking with me now? I know I can find another, but I really want us again. We didn’t have any problems. The only thing was he couldn’t see me often. That isn’t a good reason to break up to me. Also it is kind of scary to know I’m really trying, but may get hurt again. Thank you so very much for your help in advance! You have been truly a lifesaver! 🙂

    4. Ellie

      January 30, 2016 at 1:23 am

      Hello Amor or Chris!
      I’m very sorry that I didn’t include your name Amor. I did so in the email and had trouble submitting the comment. I also didn’t ask much of a question, but I definitely have one now. I met my ex unexpectedly today being 29 days into my NCR. About 6 months since he broke up with me. We were at a convention and I saw him with friends. I only recognized his best friend and I said hi and talked a bit. I was my normal self. I just said a couple of things and wished them a fun time. My ex just nodded and didn’t really look at me. His best friend knows we broke up and he was nice to me. When I walked away, I cried, but I made sure he didn’t see. Should I restart my NCR? I feel extremely down. It was nice to see him, but I’m afraid he doesn’t want anything to do with me. I’m no longer my depressed whiny self as after he broke up with me to before my NCR. I just miss him.

    5. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 30, 2016 at 2:54 pm

      It’s okay not to mention me 🙂 No worries! You don’t have to restart nc, maybe you’re meetup can also be a good topic. It doesn’t have to be the meetup itself but the subject you talked about there or the place. Don’t get too upset. Maybe he didn’t interact because you didn’t initiated interaction also right?

  5. Relentless

    January 25, 2016 at 10:34 pm

    Hi Chris,

    What if you don’t fully know/understand the reason for the breakup. My ex of under 2 months used a range like “he’s not feeling it anymore, “thinks we rushed things(funny cos he was the one so eager to take things further) and doesn’t see himself falling in love with me. But these all seem very different excuses and he would not tell me the main reason. He was as you say in the article a hypocrite, all the trips we had planned, meeting the family was his idea then he turns round and says I like him more than he likes me. Yes I’ve tried NC, hasn’t worked though. The worst breakups are unexpected ones, and when you are denied a proper reason it makes winning them back harder.

    Are reasons vital for reconciliation? What if the reasons are hurtful. I have also gotten those preconceived comments that I am better off without him and to a point I agree as it was like a huge betrayal to me but when you connect on so many levels it’s hard.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 12:00 pm

      Hi relentless,

      It is important because if not, why would you be thinking about it in the first place?

  6. Relentless

    January 25, 2016 at 10:34 pm

    Hi Chris,

    What if you don’t fully know/understand the reason for the breakup. My ex of under 2 months used a range like “he’s not feeling it anymore, “thinks we rushed things(funny cos he was the one so eager to take things further) and doesn’t see himself falling in love with me. But these all seem very different excuses and he would not tell me the main reason. He was as you say in the article a hypocrite, all the trips we had planned, meeting the family was his idea then he turns round and says I like him more than he likes me. Yes I’ve tried NC, hasn’t worked though. The worst breakups are unexpected ones, and when you are denied a proper reason it makes winning them back harder.

    Are reasons vital for reconciliation? What if the reasons are hurtful. I have also gotten those preconceived comments that I am better off without him and to a point I agree as it was like a huge betrayal to me but when you connect on so many levels it’s hard.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 12:00 pm

      Hi relentless,

      It is important because if not, why would you be thinking about it in the first place?

  7. Sara

    January 25, 2016 at 9:26 pm

    Hello, my ex boyfriend of 7 years broke up with me over 6 months ago and we hardly had any contact. He said he missed me once and two months before this he said we would never get back together, so I went into a 2 month NC. He messaged me 3 weeks ago with an inside joke, which I responded to with the rest of the joke. Heard nothing from him since. Feels like an awkward situation. There have been other messages he has sent me during this time where he brags about where he’s been with his friends etc, but only a couple of times.

    Also just found out he’s been liking other girl’s photos on instagram – I know… super stalker of me… but that really hurt me. Especially when I saw he liked a photo of this girl who used to like him when me and him were still together. Seeing that really hurt. I’ve also seen he’s been going on other adventures, like snowboarding etc.

    I really don’t know what I can do or say at this point. Any pointers? I miss him a lot and am still very much in love with him, and this time apart has made me realise that. I feel pretty hopeless.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 10:21 am

      Hi Sara,

      If he’s messaging you and a he tlaks about is himself, let it be. Because everybody loves it when somebody is interested with their story. Ask him about it, be engaging. Like when he sent a joke, when you responded with the rest of the joke, it should have came with yiur own joke as well for him to answer

  8. Sara

    January 25, 2016 at 9:26 pm

    Hello, my ex boyfriend of 7 years broke up with me over 6 months ago and we hardly had any contact. He said he missed me once and two months before this he said we would never get back together, so I went into a 2 month NC. He messaged me 3 weeks ago with an inside joke, which I responded to with the rest of the joke. Heard nothing from him since. Feels like an awkward situation. There have been other messages he has sent me during this time where he brags about where he’s been with his friends etc, but only a couple of times.

    Also just found out he’s been liking other girl’s photos on instagram – I know… super stalker of me… but that really hurt me. Especially when I saw he liked a photo of this girl who used to like him when me and him were still together. Seeing that really hurt. I’ve also seen he’s been going on other adventures, like snowboarding etc.

    I really don’t know what I can do or say at this point. Any pointers? I miss him a lot and am still very much in love with him, and this time apart has made me realise that. I feel pretty hopeless.

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 10:21 am

      Hi Sara,

      If he’s messaging you and a he tlaks about is himself, let it be. Because everybody loves it when somebody is interested with their story. Ask him about it, be engaging. Like when he sent a joke, when you responded with the rest of the joke, it should have came with yiur own joke as well for him to answer

  9. Beth

    January 25, 2016 at 8:41 pm

    Hi Chris, um close to a week ago, me and my ex broke up but he kinda broke up with me, never really said it, he just kinda changed his relationship status. We’ve only been together for 4 months and he kept telling me that he saw a future with me and he wanted to get married, and have kids, but 2 weeks ago we rushed into moving in together, it was great at first but then things started getting rocky, he just lost his job, was fixing to lose the insurance n his car and barely had any money. We just started having fights and arguments over little things .. so one day i was told by a friend that he wanted to gone so i just packed up and left and the day after i left he wrote me telling me he made a mistake of letting me go and he wanted to be with me but he needed to be by himself for a while, while he focused on building a foundation for us, and getting his life in order again. but then he turned around and told me that he wanted to be with me while he did all of that, and he said he was lost, his world is flipped, and he kept saying he lost me.. i told him he didnt lose me and he could just say the words and we will be okay but he never did, he just kept saying he lost me and hes afraid of losing me again :/ he also told me that he wasnt focused on anybody or anything else and he only wants me and his heart is mine and i shouldnt be focused on anybody else either but just recently, friends of his tell me that hes been talking to other girls, trying to hang out with them and move on so fast.. that he tells them i tried to trap him and stuff.. im hurt and broken because i truly love him and i know he loves me but he just confuses me in what he wants.. PLEASE HELP!!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 11:33 am

      Hi Beth,

      Has his actions been consistent with what his friends are telling you?

  10. Beth

    January 25, 2016 at 8:41 pm

    Hi Chris, um close to a week ago, me and my ex broke up but he kinda broke up with me, never really said it, he just kinda changed his relationship status. We’ve only been together for 4 months and he kept telling me that he saw a future with me and he wanted to get married, and have kids, but 2 weeks ago we rushed into moving in together, it was great at first but then things started getting rocky, he just lost his job, was fixing to lose the insurance n his car and barely had any money. We just started having fights and arguments over little things .. so one day i was told by a friend that he wanted to gone so i just packed up and left and the day after i left he wrote me telling me he made a mistake of letting me go and he wanted to be with me but he needed to be by himself for a while, while he focused on building a foundation for us, and getting his life in order again. but then he turned around and told me that he wanted to be with me while he did all of that, and he said he was lost, his world is flipped, and he kept saying he lost me.. i told him he didnt lose me and he could just say the words and we will be okay but he never did, he just kept saying he lost me and hes afraid of losing me again :/ he also told me that he wasnt focused on anybody or anything else and he only wants me and his heart is mine and i shouldnt be focused on anybody else either but just recently, friends of his tell me that hes been talking to other girls, trying to hang out with them and move on so fast.. that he tells them i tried to trap him and stuff.. im hurt and broken because i truly love him and i know he loves me but he just confuses me in what he wants.. PLEASE HELP!!

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 11:33 am

      Hi Beth,

      Has his actions been consistent with what his friends are telling you?

  11. Shai

    January 25, 2016 at 8:12 pm

    So many people are telling me to give up and move on, but I feel like I would regret it for the rest of my life if I did. I can’t even talk to my best friend about it because she just rolls her eyes and says “not this again…” It’s really discouraging. How do you deal with the frustration of trying to win an ex back if everyone is seemingly against you?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 11:20 am

      Sometimes it’s because they don’t want you to get hurt. One thing that can help is that you have to keep in mind that they can think whatever they want to think with oh without your approval. You don’t have to agree with them. Just give them the right to express their opinion.

  12. Shai

    January 25, 2016 at 8:12 pm

    So many people are telling me to give up and move on, but I feel like I would regret it for the rest of my life if I did. I can’t even talk to my best friend about it because she just rolls her eyes and says “not this again…” It’s really discouraging. How do you deal with the frustration of trying to win an ex back if everyone is seemingly against you?

    1. EBR Team Member: Amor

      January 26, 2016 at 11:20 am

      Sometimes it’s because they don’t want you to get hurt. One thing that can help is that you have to keep in mind that they can think whatever they want to think with oh without your approval. You don’t have to agree with them. Just give them the right to express their opinion.

  13. EBR Team Member: Amor

    July 4, 2016 at 3:41 pm

    hi Crl,

    it’s ok to be scared..just make the most of nc to heal and improve for yourself and for him to see you in a new light

  14. Maria

    May 31, 2016 at 5:01 pm

    hi again.
    No he dosent stop chasing me, after sex. after a half year he stopped.
    but i think your right, i miss the guy that chased me. 🙁

    i have just tried everything to move on, and it kills me, when i think ” is he with someone else and so”
    thanks for answer!

  15. EBR Team Member: Amor

    May 1, 2016 at 5:15 pm

    for me you should move on.. if he really loves you he would try to make this work because you already talked about it but then he went back to not standing up for you

  16. EBR Team Member: Amor

    May 1, 2016 at 3:27 pm

    I think it has to do with his age.. he says things as he feels them and right now, he’s just really not that independent yet to stand up for you..

  17. EBR Team Member: Amor

    May 1, 2016 at 12:28 pm

    don’t give yourself an ultimatum on when you should be over him.. it’s a process that differs with every person.. accept that.. it means just going on through life and exploring new things and taking what happened as a chapter in your life story

  18. EBR Team Member: Amor

    May 1, 2016 at 8:41 am

    if you’re asking what you feel is normal, yes it is.. if him not contacting during nc, it depends on the reason you broke up and his personality.

  19. Lost and Heartbroken

    April 30, 2016 at 4:06 am

    Do you really think that if I became more independent that he would notice? Also, I guess I didn’t realize that I could have “hurt his ego” by dancing with another guy…

    I come to realize how clingy I was after the breakup by listening to what my ex had to say and what my friends and family had to say and it’s hard for me to think about how co-dependent I was. I guess I depended on my ex to make me feel happy, secure, and for support and that’s not healthy. In order to learn from my past I’ve been seeing a therapist who has helped me work on my depression and doubts.

    I know that at 7 months I should be 100% over him, but I still can’t help but miss him and it’s weird seeing him act like a stranger when I end up seeing him around campus or town. I also feel weird going on dates with these new guys who are really nice but aren’t my ex. Any advice on how to move past that?

    I guess I just need some advice on how to begin to move on since it is so unbelievably hard to move on when I have to see him every so often and we share many mutual friends.

  20. Mel

    April 27, 2016 at 12:07 am

    Now it’s been a week , a whole week which has been beyond a bad week for me- not a word – I dunno how I’m supposed to get through this. I need a sign this will work

  21. EBR Team Member: Amor

    April 17, 2016 at 1:44 pm

    I’m not sure if that’s friendzoning or that’s him wanting attention.. If we’re just going to based it on him being thankful, that’s like friendzoning you because it’s like saying goodbye… but right now, if he persists texting you even if you’re not reply, it can be because he misses you.. I don’t want to give you false hope but I just want to be honest with my thoughts. That’s a good idea, because that’s the purpose of nc… start over and start as friends and then work your way to building rapport and attraction.

  22. EBR Team Member: Amor

    April 11, 2016 at 1:35 pm

    with him accepting that she’s lesbian and you looking like moving on.. I think he misses you

  23. Alex

    April 11, 2016 at 6:43 am

    Thank you Amor for giving me advice 🙂 He reached me with a long text yesterday which is my NC 17. The text is about we have not spoken about a while now and its because he wanted to give me some space and not because he didn’t want to talk. He said he really hope we can be friends and we said we can try to remain friends when we broke up, and he genuinely mean it. He mentioned he looked at my Facebook and seeing me doing lots of interesting stuff, seems like I am having fun. Then he said his current thing doing is dissertation and it is so boring. At the end he said he hope all is well with me and I am taking care of myself.

    My ex is the kind of very nice man, I am so afraid this text is he just being friendly to me and I am friend zoned. Plus he said he genuinely want us to be friend, is it a good step or it means he would never want me back? My BFF is still flirting with him by keep introducing him to watch some superhero films which he likes it, he even send a snapchat to my friend of himself draw to be a superman. My BFF is turned into lesbian recently and he knows it too. But I feel like he is still chasing her, I feel so awful about them.
    May I know what he is thinking right now from his words and action? I will still do my NC till Day 30 🙂 Thanks !

  24. EBR Team Member: Amor

    April 10, 2016 at 4:42 am

    Hi Alex,

    Let’s say I’m just going to based his thoughts on what he said to your friend. It means he got tired of the relationship because you were always angry.. That doesn’t mean he should be angry or forget you too all of a sudden, he just is, tired of the relationship.. If that’s true, when he sees you’re being happy and trying to move on, he might think you’re not the same as before and if he sees you’re make over there’s a chance for attraction.

  25. D

    April 5, 2016 at 9:38 pm

    I’ve told him many times that I think it’s an excuse but he insists that it’s not. He claims that while I never did anything wrong and while there wasn’t actually anything wrong with our relationship, he realized that he wanted something different. He says that he wants to be with someone who is also Arab and has had similar experiences to him. Everyone, even his closest friends think it’s ridiculous but he says that it was the right thing to do. He says that he still cares for me but if he were to try again at our relationship that it would end the same way and he doesn’t want to hurt me more. So for now he asks that we remain friends because he doesn’t want to lose me.

  26. EBR Team Member: Amor

    April 4, 2016 at 12:38 pm

    If he’s an introvert you would realky have to do more of the initiating

  27. EBR Team Member: Amor

    March 9, 2016 at 9:19 pm

    I think he’s feelig guilt.. if he’s like that for now..it won’t be healthy to get back with him

  28. EBR Team Member: Amor

    March 8, 2016 at 6:50 pm

    That’s nice.. It’s oknto give him advice.. it’s a way to build rapport too

  29. EBR Team Member: Amor

    March 8, 2016 at 11:36 am

    oh so, that means he’s really not comfortable talking about it in chat or text, then of that’s case don’t..just continue to build rapport and attraction through calls and chat or texts until he would want to meet up..but for now, rest for a week

  30. EBR Team Member: Amor

    March 3, 2016 at 11:59 am

    yes but don’t put it in a way that you’re chasing him.. just talk calmly..ask him what he reay feels

  31. EBR Team Member: Amor

    March 1, 2016 at 5:13 pm

    Yeah, you should.. let your daughter get used to him not being there… and also for you to heal.. coz even if you try to reach him now..he won’t probably reply

  32. EBR Team Member: Amor

    March 1, 2016 at 2:57 pm

    oh.. I mean not right the day after he went back from the trip because of course he’s tired.. maybe make it three days after it

  33. EBR Team Member: Amor

    March 1, 2016 at 9:54 am

    awww…that’s an awkward situation.. of he didn’t say it was ok.. then it means he’s not ready to talk yet.. basically yeah, it’s better to move on than appear to be chasing him

  34. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 22, 2016 at 9:10 am

    Hi Natalie,

    it’s ok that you’re school mates.. just don’t talk to him and keep your distance.. only talk about school matter and be busy on oher activities to improve youeself.. have a make over.. join an org.. build a new skills and hobbies

  35. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 21, 2016 at 11:03 am

    It’s okay! Just shoot a comment.. but bear with me though if it takes a day..but I will answer as fast as I can.. I think it’s good because you included the “if not you know where to find me” if it weren’t for that he may misinterpret your message…

  36. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 19, 2016 at 9:19 am

    It’s ok..just ask, we’re here to help as much as as we can… if he asks if you have feelings for him, return the question by asking him why he’s asking and ask him if that’s how he sees why you’re being nice.. and also ask him, feelings or not, can you not be friends? in a nice way.. 🙂

  37. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 18, 2016 at 4:55 pm

    you’re welcome! 🙂

  38. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 18, 2016 at 1:28 pm

    if he’s angry.. just let him be for now and don’t say sorry..

  39. Hii

    February 18, 2016 at 12:53 am

    Thanks for your reply!

    I end the conversation first by not replying back to his text for 1.5 days .. about 24 hours .
    And when I reply back to his previous message, he ignored me and did not reply till now .. its been more than 24hours already. And he did not reply. I am feeling sad . But earlier on he is the one who initiated the conversation first. What should I do now? Do you think he feels that I am doing it on purpose and is ignoring me ? I used to reply quickly last time as a GNAT. I think he is angry

  40. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 16, 2016 at 11:43 am

    Hello Hii,

    the important thing is you keep the convo interesting and you end it a high point politely.. It’s better of it’s series of texts one after anither and then you end it…

    and then maybe another series of text hours later or the next day, and then you end it a lt high point..

    Try it on your next convo..

  41. Hii

    February 16, 2016 at 3:32 am

    Can you tell me what does it means in my current situation??

    Thanks in advance!

  42. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 17, 2016 at 8:05 am

    hmm..if you put it that way.. he might still resist.. because he gets you yo chase

  43. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 16, 2016 at 11:50 am

    No, you’re not annoying! I understand..

    Yeah, it’s like reconnecting to be friends again.. He also said, he’s open to that right? Build attraction from there but don’t ask him if you can go back together, instead make him feel that bay building the attraction again and being the ungettable girl..

    You will still makr mistakes, because we’re not sure how he will react but that’s ok, because it will not be the same as before

  44. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 15, 2016 at 10:13 am

    yes I think you should go into nc again so that you can focus on moving on.. go for 45..and then during that don’t think about getting back with him… think about it when you know you love yourself more than he has loved you..

  45. Amber

    February 15, 2016 at 5:15 am

    Thanks Amor! I’ll try that out

  46. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 14, 2016 at 9:19 am

    Hi Amber,

    look your best and keep a little distance during the date, meaning don’t be all over him.. Initiate fun and include his friend.. Don’t put all your attention on him..

  47. Lisa

    February 14, 2016 at 11:07 am

    Thank you for the reply Amor. Appreciate it. Do you think I should go into NC again and just work on myself for the next few months? Do you think there is any point in trying to pursue him again after NC?

  48. EBR Team Member: Amor

    February 14, 2016 at 7:22 am

    Hi Lisa,

    June is too far to think about right now..Okay, honestly, you have to really try to move on now.. Nc doesn’t seem to take much effect with your self esteem and you went back to begging him again.. You have to learn to take care of yourself first.

    And also, this can be confusing but if he said, you can be friends, then in a way, you’re still connected, when he sees you’ve truly moved on and you’re happy, that can be the time that he will try to come back because men want
    beautiful things thay they know they can’t have.. if that happens don’t be surprised..but as of now, pushing further can only show him more that you’re not over him, even though it’s true

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