Is My Ex Boyfriend Even Thinking About Me- Here Is How You Find Out!

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Amber

February 5, 2019 at 4:02 am

I dated my first love (boyfriend) 30 years ago. I was 18 and he was 22 we were inseparable for 4 years. He asked me to marry him and I said yes, however my parents came the day I was going to run off with him and picked me up and took me to another state. Four years later he got married and had kids and I got married as well and had kids. He was never happy in his relationship because he said he always thought about me and never got over me. He divorced after 12 years of marriage and had 3 children, the youngest one is 11 years old. We just found each other about 5 months ago by coincidence which I think it was destiny after 30 years. I was also married and with 3 kids but not happy at all, I wanted out of my 21 year marriage. When he came into my life 5 months ago he helped me get out of my marriage. He gave me strength and advice. I got the courage and filed for divorce right away. My first love and I met up 4 months into the relationship. While talking, texting and meeting up it seemed just like old times we picked up where we left off. He was so in love with me and I loved him too, however he never could understand why at 22 years of age I did not stand up for him and waited for him, why did I go with my parents. I told him out of respect there was nothing I could do. He shared with me that he went crazy drinking everyday and fighting he did not care. I can only apologize. Well when we met up we had 2 wonderful days together and we continued to communicate by phone. I have moved out from my home with my youngest son 17 and would like to continue with my first love. However, he is divorced (10 years) however he still lives under the same roof with his EX and 11 year old son. I’ve asked him to move but he says he can’t because of his son. I do believe that it’s because of his son, there is nothing going on with his EX and him (it’s not his word only but friends in his town that I’ve known have shared with me) that they are not a family. Well, since the beginning he said the time was not right because he can’t leave the house until his son turns 13 and is older to decide if he wants to live with him or his mom. We had talked about being together in 2 years and he asked me if I would help take care of his son if he lived with us. Of course I would. However a week and a half ago we quit talking because I get sad, jealous and can’t understand why he has to be in that situation. He said he was only hurting me because everytime we talked I would either start crying, get mad or start questioning. I told him that my love was still there and he said he has always loved me that love was not the problem, the problem is the time like he said 5 months ago. I got so upset that I said do not call me or text me because you are only hurting me. He said if that is what you want ok. Well, he has not tried to call or text but I’m so depress and wished I would of never said that. I know that he doesn’t want to see me hurt and that he was going to continue texting and calling at least once a week, which would have been fine because we needed to get to know each other better. Also, my divorce will not be final until 2 more months so I need time for me. I think we rushed into the relationship but we wanted to see each other after 30 years. When together our love has not changed we are still the same. He said he never got over me, named his daughter after me and remembered that we promised that we would be together one day even if we were old. However, the time is not right because he has to be there for his son. What can I do for him to call me or text me. We have so much history together and he shares details of everything we did together as well as places we visited. He says he will never forget because we were meant to be together. I don’t understand why we are not talking and if he loves me why doesn’t he take the first step? I’m trying to do the No Contact and I’m on day 12th. Do you think he has forgotten me? When we talked these last 5 months we talked about everything and 4-5 times a day.

Chris Seiter

February 6, 2019 at 1:34 am

He definitely has not forgotten you and stay true to your NC and pick up my 485 page eBook if you have not already so you understand all faucets of how to implement NC and all the rest.

Lynette

January 6, 2019 at 10:31 pm

My ex-boyfriend and I enjoyed a loving relationship for a few months, and we have made plans for the future. He suddenly broke up with me after getting angry over (what I thought was) a small matter. He could be projecting memories of his ex-wife onto me.

He has since been in one rebound relationship (one week after breakup) and he has also called me ‘by mistake’ (one month after breakup / two weeks after no contact).

The delusional me thinks he misses me but is too proud to ask for reconciliation. The sensible me reminds myself that he’s failed in two major relationships, including going through an acrimonious divorce, so he may not miss me.

Are divorced men more adept at getting over breakups?

Chris Seiter

January 7, 2019 at 4:47 am

Hi Lynette! It seems he was rather impulsive and you may be right that he has some demons chasing around in his mind. Past history is usually predictive of the future. So every guy is different, whether they have dealt with divorce or not. So you may want to continue with NC, focusing on your healing and needs. You will have more time later to reflect more deeply whether you wish to invest more in trying to get him back considering recent developments and past history.

Namrata

October 22, 2018 at 7:40 am

Hi, this is the 3rd time that my boyfriend and I are breaking up in the last 1years and 10 months. 1st time we decided it to be mutual but we got back in 2 months, 2nd time we fought and decided to break off over call but got back after 7 weeks of NC and this time it was really really bad. I said nasty things in anger and then he said nasty things. We were arguing a lot already. This time we broke off over chat. We have known each other for 3 years before we got together and we were good friends for those 3 years. I can understand that all that he said was out of anger though it still hurts. I don’t mind talking to him but I am scared that he may not talk to me. What should I do? Is he thinking about me? We used to meet 2-3 times a week and talk atleast for a couple of hrs on and off during the day and we had some set patterns of doing things. I am more of a pattern person and he was more of a spontaneous person. I was the more insecure person in the relationship and this always put me on the edge and I was always questioning things he didn’t do or do. Would that have irritated him to this extent? Do you think he thinks of me? Would he be regretting all the nasty things he said to me in anger? Because I am regretting. Why can’t I see him hurting like I am? I just want to know if he is thinking about me.
Haway

October 9, 2018 at 12:10 pm

ogized and others he is wrong an apologize.
First year we were fighting a lot , but later we know each other better so fighting with each other not much as before .
Latterly he was sick a lot of time , and i was supporting him when he’s feeling down , no job or anything he do in his life now , we wish he will be ok one day , it’s not a big issue but he can’t over it .
We was so good until i feel so bored from everything , i was so stressed out from all things in my life.
My work , my family , his state,my insecurities that he may be not interested in me as before, i was extremely affraid he may be in a real depression one day ,my concern that we don’t see or talk to each other as before lately , i told him all my concerns when he asked .
Then he text me hours later that we can’t be together anymore , and ask me not to talk about it again, he want to just remain friends.
In the first i agree with him not to talk about it again, then i understand that i was so negative to him and he don’t want anymore load .
Unforthenly i break his role and text him that i will never be negative again and i love him, and i don’t want to lose him.
He was so angry and mean to me , he call me selfish and send text hours latter that all bad things happen to him because of me .
tell me nasty things like i’m a bad sticker and threaten me if i take to him again in any way or form he will make me regret and tell my parent to keep away from him, and he don’t want to see anything from me anymore. he told me he was in hell with me for 4 years and all bad things happens in his life because of that. then he send a text massage to my sister to tell her to keep me away from him otherwise he will tell my dad & it will cause a problem to me , so he won’t do it now. but if i do somthing, he will call him immidalty without even replay to me.

These texts i see them when i wake up, i feel shocked, i help him a lot, i was by his side all the time, sometimes i give him some money if needed,
i was with him & supporting him with all my heart, wish he will be ok (When that happens He was asking me to forgive him because he break up with me before this ) but now he see me as a reason for all bad things happens in his life.
I was wondering why he done that to me , what did i do wrong.
Why he changes,
I feel pain and hurt, after all this years he lost it , i think he don’t love me anymore.
i was shocked and bleeding until now , i hate him now , i can’t believe what he did.
Sure i don’t even talk or replay to him. I feel i don’t want to, but inside me i think i still have feeling for him, i wish he come and apologize for what he have done.
We don’t block each other until now.
i go no contact with him for 30 days and text him after it but he replay that he don’t want me to text him ever again,so i go to no contact again, i want to heal from this shock , i want him to regret losing me & apologies & text me first.
He moved to another city , we were planning he will moved to it one day
I want to be positive and a funny person to be around.
Is there any hope to get back together ?

Chris Seiter

October 10, 2018 at 2:17 am

Hi Haway!

Some guys are just not good eggs. Just take some time and space and focus on your own healing for a good while before you decide if you wish to invest any more time in trying to recoup the relationship.

LS

September 22, 2018 at 4:57 pm

Hi, I posted a comment 5 days ago but it hadn’t appeared & been responded to. I’m not sure how this comments work.

Anyway, my concern is basically the relevance of the no contact duration to the 60-days estimated period of getting over you/break-up. I’m quite confused as to how to gauge the length of no contact that I have to do. At the mo it’s been 22days since the break-up (contact every end of each 3wks) but only 4days since last contact. If I base it on the 60days til one gets over, I only have 3 more weeks to keep quiet to get on the ideal 45days at most after break-up. But it is suggested in all of your articles to do a continuous 30-45days of no contact which I also feel right to do right now though my worry lies in the fact that 30-45days is riskily hitting the 60days-after-break-up point. What best to do? Brief history below.

In my mentioned attempted post, I relayed what went on. We were 3 years together w/ a previous break-up on our 2nd year mark, 1st year lived in, 2nd year LDR, got back together & lived in together again for 3months in between the 3rd year. We broke up Aug.27 then silence from both until he drunk-contacted at the end of 1st week which got us peacefully talking for 2days. Silence on both sides again until end of 2nd week when I was so sad that i texted him ‘wish I never met you, ever’ to w/c he didn’t reply. At the end of 3rd week was his bday, I texted simple greeting & he replied his thanks, then I called him checkin up & said I miss him but he was on the negative tone & response telling me it’s bc I was the one who broke up & texted bad message/s. To which I replied that i didn’t want to end the relationship but that I didn’t have a choice bc he pushed me to it & I just couldn’t accept what it’s/he’s doing to me (I felt not prioritized & relationship’s lack of direction). He’s not replied & I haven’t texted since, that was Sept.18.

Chris Seiter

September 23, 2018 at 4:40 pm

Hi LS!

Great question…but my response would be lengthy to do it justice.

I would suggest you pick up my 247 page ebook, “The No Contact Rule Book” as I get into all of this and more. The range for NC is usually 21 to 45 days. Given your relationship history, I would think 21-30 days is a good range, but as you will learn from reading my book, this whole process is subject to modification depending on a variety of factors.

SadCherry

August 25, 2018 at 8:46 pm

Hi Chris,
So currently I am at 17th day of no contact. One night I went out and my ex was there. 10 minutes after I came he went home (mutual friend told my friend). Actually I think he is avoiding me. I live in a small town, haven’t seen him in 15 days, because I avoid places where I know he goes. Anyway he broke up with me, but it wasn’t ugly break up and we agreed to stay in good terms. I want him back, but for now I am in no contact. So why is he avoiding me?

Chris Seiter

August 26, 2018 at 1:30 am

Hi Happy Cherry….good job with sticking thru your NC! Not sure why he is avoiding. Maybe embarrassed. Right now, just stick with the program and execute your ex recovery plan and remember much of NC is about taking care of “you”.
Chris Seiter

August 26, 2018 at 1:30 am

Hi Happy Cherry….good job with sticking thru your NC! Not sure why he is avoiding. Maybe embarrassed. Right now, just stick with the program and execute your ex recovery plan and remember much of NC is about taking care of “you”.

Lucy

July 29, 2018 at 6:41 pm

If an ex-boyfriend is over the break up after 60 days, is it too late to start no contact after 3 weeks? Will he move on by the time I reach out?

Chris Seiter

July 29, 2018 at 10:38 pm

Hi Lucy…its different for everyone….depends on the guy and the circumstances leading up to the breakup. But I have seen people get back together after months..after years. It is really about whether you are following a smart plan. Go to my home page and you will see lots of resources!

Anna

May 7, 2018 at 4:34 pm

Hisorrys Anna.my boyfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago.we’ve been together for 8 years,we also lived together that long.he told me he’s breaking up with me because there’s no desire but later on when I was very upset he’s told me hugging me that all he asks for is just some space and that I need to trust him as he’s doing this for us.he told me he doesn’t like the living arrangement and that I need to move out (he owns the flat we lived in) and he helped me to find a secure apartment close to my work 20 mins away form place we lived in.he even helped me moving my stuff with his car and put himself as a guarantor for it and paid the deposit.he even took me to the airport and back with his car when I went to visit my family in my country. We meant to go together,but he cancelled his tickets saying that if he goes it will deceive the object(i think he meant that space he mentioned although i don’t know if he lied to me about it)When I was away he texted me twice then when I called to ask if he’ll still pick me up from the airport he assured me he will and he was very polite and asked me how’s my holiday. We had a brief nice chat.When he picked me up from the airport (he was communicating with me all the time letting me know he’s on his way etc) he was asking again what’s new happened on my holiday, asked about my family and then he’s behavior suddenly changed.he told me in anger that’s the last time he’s picking people up from the airport and he doesn’t have to do anything, I’ve told him he offered and that I didn’t expect him to do it(he has offered after break up that he will pick me up)and has lashed out at me that he’s in a hurry yet he’s spent already three hours in the car.he was so angry as we were stuck in a traffic he started banging the steering wheel and drove aggressively. I was shocked and even though I tried to act uplift he scared me behaving like this so I just stared in front of me not saying anything. I could only see him looking at me every few seconds.when he dropped me off he immediately called me but I was on the phone with my mom so he texted me to apologize for being such a d… And even though I’ve told him not to worry,that I understand and I appreciated that he helped me he apologized couple of times more same evening and thanked for the gift I’ve brought him back from my country.couple of days later when my mom invited me for a dinner he texted me thanking again for the gift so I waited a day or two before answering. Then I started the no contact on him.I’m already a week to it and haven’t heard from him at all.does he think about me or miss me?thank you

Chris Seiter

May 7, 2018 at 10:39 pm

I Anna….that is quite a story and thank you for sharing it with me. You picked up my ebook, “Ex Boyfriend Recovery Pro”, right? If not, go check it out as it will be immensely helpful to you given all of the things going on. You need to have a comprehensive blueprint on what to do and not do, to better your chances. Just go over to my website Menu/Products link to learn more. I have no doubt he think of you and misses you. It is nearly impossible for someone not to have these feelings and many more complicated emotions. The key is having an action plan and executing it. And part of that plan needs to deal with your own self recovery because you have been through a lot.
Chris Seiter

May 7, 2018 at 10:39 pm

I Anna….that is quite a story and thank you for sharing it with me. You picked up my ebook, “Ex Boyfriend Recovery Pro”, right? If not, go check it out as it will be immensely helpful to you given all of the things going on. You need to have a comprehensive blueprint on what to do and not do, to better your chances. Just go over to my website Menu/Products link to learn more. I have no doubt he think of you and misses you. It is nearly impossible for someone not to have these feelings and many more complicated emotions. The key is having an action plan and executing it. And part of that plan needs to deal with your own self recovery because you have been through a lot.

Sherry

March 24, 2018 at 9:29 pm

Hi, if my ex bf is in the “ego boosting” phase then where is he on the roller coaster?

Chris Seiter

April 3, 2018 at 1:08 am

Can you give us a little more context to go on?
Sherry

April 7, 2018 at 3:55 am

Hi Chris,

Sorry if this is long. It seemed like he went through shock when I moved out, and was in depression mixed with a rebound directly after our break up. Like, within the first week of our break up. I went through no-contact for thirty days, broke no contact and texted him. He was very receptive. The breakup and no contact did a number on him. He was physically gagging out of nowhere, had lost a lot of weight, and had dark circles. He had withdrawn from all outside activity and didn’t go wild or party like he thought he would when he broke up with me. He said he never wanted to lose me forever. He felt like an idiot for wanting to be alone and breaking up with me, and then even more of an idiot when he realized he didn’t want to be alone. Then he jumped into a relationship with his coworker. When I came back into the picture, he was still with this person.

Over the span of two weeks of being in contact with him, we saw each other almost every other day. He was initiating texts, saying good morning and good night, and over the course of those two weeks, we had many deep conversations (he initiated), and many fun outings and rekindling. No sex at all or even making it past kissing and handholding those past two weeks. He paid for everything: Food, drinks, even bought me gift. He let the rebound go around the second week, but was making a show of being on dating sites and basically implying he didn’t want a relationship with me. Like he was poking at me to react. Even though he had hinted at getting back together several times, I had never taken the bait. Never said I loved him or missed him. The last time I saw him, he asked me out to the movies, then took me out to eat, then we kissed and he said he loved me again. I finally told him I loved him, back. I mentioned getting back together for the first time, and he agreed. He said he couldn’t wait to live with me again, spend time with me, make me smile, etc.

The next day, he had pulled away by ignoring my text that I had sent. He then apologized for not answering my text a couple days later…but I knew deep down that he wasn’t ready to be in a relationship with me. So I did some damage control, asked him to meet up, and told him I think we needed some more space apart. He told me he was confused and didn’t know what he wanted. That getting back together would be a mistake. I kept it brief, agreed with him, and told him I wanted him to be happy and that I needed to take a step back because he seemed to have a lot going on. He seemed sad but agreed, hugged me tightly and kissed my cheek, and we went our separate ways.

Since then, three weeks ago, (it’s been six weeks since we last contacted) I have heard through his friend that he has jumped into seeing a new girl (but voiced that he wants to leave her and isn’t sure whether to be with me or find someone else) and I know he is going online and talking to girls that way. He has low self-esteem, so I figured this might be “ego-boosting”. Or, is it “exercising his freedom”?

By the way, he also checks my social media every single day for the most part, several times a day. Sometimes, even late at night.
Chris Seiter

April 7, 2018 at 9:26 pm

By any chance did you have a chance to check out my newest article,

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/how-to-know-if-your-ex-boyfriend-is-in-a-rebound-relationship-how-long-will-it-last/

I talk a lot about the mindset of a man going into a rebound relationship.
Sherry

April 7, 2018 at 10:37 pm

Hi Chris,

I did look, thank you. Where would rebounding be on the roller coaster, do you think? Since the roller coaster stops every time he is with someone, i’m not sure if he is just using women for ego boosting or not.
Chris Seiter

April 10, 2018 at 3:48 am

Rebounding is kind of like going up the rollercoaster!
Sherry

April 10, 2018 at 3:50 am

So going up means moving on?
Chris Seiter

April 11, 2018 at 12:02 am

It means it is a tough stage of the breakup

Beth

March 23, 2018 at 8:46 am

2 years NC here, however once or twice a year we are in the same building for a work thing, no words are exchanged.
We have a history of him going off for a few months, or a year, and coming back to me.
Even though we are amazing together he doesn’t want a divorced woman, I don’t fit his template. One day he will realise nobody will tick every box on his ideal woman list.

He looks like he’s in a beard, underpants and weight gain phase (although of course it could be for other reasons) and I am fighting the urge to find out if he’s ok. When I see our mutual friends they constantly talk about him, unnecessarily so and I am intrigued as to why.

EBR Team Member: Amor

March 28, 2018 at 6:21 pm

Hi beth,
Have you asked your friends why?

confused

March 4, 2018 at 8:08 pm

Hello…My ex and I broke up a year ago but he has had rebound after rebound .He has tried to come back but it makes me angry to know he has been with other women and I push him away and he goes into another rebound he .I love him and I would like to work it out with him.He has been with this rebound about 2 months and tried to rub it in my face.I changed my number and he found out try to reach me n changed his number also.We blocked each other on social media and I’ve tried everything to move on.I love him still.Dont know what to do.

EBR Team Member: Amor

March 9, 2018 at 10:36 am

Moving on doesn’t mean the feelings will go away instantly..it means going forward even if it hurts.

Bree

October 4, 2017 at 9:04 am

Hi Amor! I know this is a little late and all in this article, but I just came here because I needed to read exactly this.
We broke up yesterday and I know I’m sticking to NC because I want to heal and grieve alone instead of having him around. The fact is, we were really in love, we cried a lot and held each other during the breakup, but still he had things going on in his life (college, family, etc) and we weren’t who we used to be and couldn’t make each other happy anymore.
Still, before leaving he told me to reach out if I needed anything important, and he would do the same. I don’t think anything can be that significant if we’re not together anymore. I want him back, but this feeling of leaving “an open door” makes me uneasy. We could’ve worked things out but it was too much stress for him, and now I’m not sure if he will miss me in his life or realize I was just one more stressor.
Thanks for all the info.

EBR Team Member: Amor

October 5, 2017 at 7:29 am

Hi Bree
By human nature, he will miss you..

S

August 25, 2017 at 2:42 pm

It’s day 25. NC is ending soon and I’m not sure if I should try to get him back. The main problem i have is his parents. They disapproved of our relationship. I’m confident about us, but we’ll be fighting a battle with his parents.

S

August 26, 2017 at 8:46 pm

Warned him not to be with me*
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 27, 2017 at 1:51 pm

they just told him, they didn’t really stop him. The decision is still his. That means you have to think if you still want to continue fighting for a guy who won’t fight for you.
S

August 26, 2017 at 8:45 pm

In a way. They are literally stopping us. They told him to stop contacting me etc. warned him to be with me.
S

August 25, 2017 at 2:46 pm

What should I do?
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 26, 2017 at 12:42 pm

you’re not going to be in a relationship with his parents.. Just let them have their own opinion.. As long as they’re not literally stopping both of you from being together, that’s ok.. Let them hate if they want to hate. If you are good for each other, they’ll probably approve later on.. Just maintain respect with them even if they’re like that.

Ariel

August 17, 2017 at 11:19 pm

Hi. My boyfriend of 5 years and I broke up about a month and a half ago. I attempted no contact but failed, he came over and we had sex. That happened another 2 times. Due to external circumstances we had to remain in touch. He admitted he is still in love with me. He got a new girlfriend within a couple days of us breaking up. His new girlfriend has a youtube page and one of her videos was of them together trying new snacks and he genuinely looked happy with her. I bugged out and he said that he understands because if he saw me with another guy he would freak out too. (He thinks I have feelings for this guy anyway). Today he came over my house, we did not have sex but he said that he did want to kiss me, he also mentioned that he kind of wanted to get back together and that he misses me. He said he was not just gonna have sex with me again because he loves and respects me too much. He said he cares about me more than anyone in his life. What does this all mean? How do I make him want me so much more that he breaks up with his new girlfriend? (He goes to school with her but not me). I cant use social media because he doesnt use that. We arent going to be in constant contact anymore because the issue has been resolved. Should I do no contact or would it be better to just continue contact?

EBR Team Member: Amor

August 18, 2017 at 5:33 pm

Do no contact and still proceed to be active in posting because if he gets curious now or once you start building rapport, he will see your improvements and if mutual friends will see it, there’s a chance they will mention it that they noticed your improvements..

Maria

August 16, 2017 at 8:17 am

Hello! My name is Maria and i’ve dated my ex boyfriend for 10 months. We broke up about a month and a half ago. I failed the no contact rule after 10 days and then I started it again.
He texted me after 2 weeks after i failed the NC and we talked for an hour. He asked me if i want my cat back and then he seemed kind of interested in what I have been doing (he asked about some major events in my life). Last week was his birthday and i wished him all the best and we talked to each other for 3 hours. I tried to shut the conversation twice but he wanted it to continue. He told me he applied to a new job and that he wanted to get his driver license (one of the reasons our relationship ended was the fact that I told him that he is wasting his time on meaningless activities and don’t want him to be a loser. I know, I screwed up).
After 2 days I contacted him again because he posted something on his Facebook profile and it reminded me of something that we shared together. That day he told me that he didn’t eat anything that we used to eat together since “that moment” (he couldn’t/wouldn’t say “break up”).
He didn’t delete our pictures on Facebook even though he deleted some pictures with other persons. He also responds positively whenever we talk. At the same time, he has always stated that he wouldn’t get back together with any ex girl friend.
I really love him and I want him back but I think that he might be over me or he is trying to get over me. I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to be pushy and needy but I’m afraid I’ll lose him. I know I failed the NC but I couldn’t stop talking to him. What should I do now? Repeat the NC? What if he is over me by time I will have finished the NC? Is he just polite when we are talking (I contacted him three times since the breakup and he contacted me once)? Is there any chance we will get back together? Please, help us.

EBR Team Member: Amor

August 16, 2017 at 10:39 am

Hi Maria

check this one:
Your Worst Nightmares During The No Contact Rule

S

August 15, 2017 at 3:27 am

Hi EBR team,

Thank you for the insightful article.
However, I have a some confusions I would like to clarify.

Background: we dated for about 2 years, we had a fight, i said i wanna break up out of frustration and I did NC for 2 weeks. I approached him, and he was mainly giving me all kinda reason to break up/blaming me for the break up ( anger/blame stage), after which I restarted NC and I’m at day 15 now. He texted me once on Day 5 to apologise, I ignored it.

First of all, if he was at anger/blame stage before I started the second NC, does that mean he’s at ‘acceptance’ stage now? will it be wise to continue NC for anther 15 days? or should I end it earlier?

Secondly, how can I tell if he misses me/which stage he’s at, if I’m doing NC and not allowed and contact or news from him?

Thank you in advance for the reply! : )

S

August 16, 2017 at 1:50 am

Hi Amor,

You mean I can end my NC sooon, don’t have to do it for another 15 days ? It’s not too soon? Now I’m nervous about approaching him.

The day 5 apology was somehow ‘sorry I have to break up with you’ not so much of apologizing for blaming me for the break up. Are they the same thing ?
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 16, 2017 at 2:07 pm

Oh.. Then dont.. Continue in nc..continue in improving yourself and being active in posting
EBR Team Member: Amor

August 15, 2017 at 8:09 pm

If he already apologized that means he’s not angry anymore.. You can initiate contact and talk calmly

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