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erica
December 26, 2013 at 10:36 am
My xbroke up with me, he said he no longer feel the same
way about me and of chorse just like any relationship we
had financial problems, alittle jealuouly, and disagreements.
We’ve been together off and on fór3years and í only
mat one of his friends bc he said the rest of them
are no good. He has only talk to me on the phone
while beenin around them and í’ve always thought they had
á big influnce on him. When we brokeup at first there where
no calling, no txting. Now we still dont call or txt everyday
but we do talk off and on and we still have sex as if nothing
has changed in the bed at all. He still wants to know my
where abouts sometimes. Í’ve only said this once since
admin
December 26, 2013 at 6:31 pm
Have you done any NC?
Gennie
December 23, 2013 at 11:22 pm
So I was out with a friend, her boyfriend and a bunch of his pals, and ended up really clicking with one of the friends. We danced together for most of the night and we ended up kissing (a few times) and I was really into him and it seemed like he was feeling me as well. He even kissed me on the head as I was leaving/ We were both sober, but I just would like your opinion on this type of bar makeout…did it mean anything to him? Or was this just an opportunistic move on his part? Thanks!
admin
December 24, 2013 at 7:04 pm
I think in the moment it did. The real answer lies in the next few days. Has he attempted to contact you or take you out?
Gennie
December 30, 2013 at 8:29 pm
No, he hasn’t contacted me at all, (I’m not making excuses for him, but he’s in the process of splitting with his ex, they have been broken up for a while but she’s moving out and has left the country for the holidays) but we are going to be at the same New Year’s Eve party. :/
j
December 23, 2013 at 10:15 pm
Chris! I’m not too sure where to leave this specific comment because it’s not really related to this article but I hope right here is okay…
my ex and i had a great relationship, we were really close and genuinely loved each other, we hung out whenever we could on weekends and this came from both sides, not just mine. when he broke up with me he said it was bc he wanted to be free and didn’t want the responsibility that goes with being in a relationship anymore, but that he could see us being together again someday. not that he expected me to wait for him or anything though.
can you help me? is there any possibility of you maybe writing an article on this type of situation? I realise that nothing can be guaranteed but I’d really like some help if possible. We said we’d see each other in the new year but I don’t want to push my luck by mentioning it you know? Yes I’ve done no contact, this was about two months ago already. you always ask when people comment so I thought I’d mention it 🙂
thanks so much.
admin
December 24, 2013 at 6:59 pm
Hahaha Ok, well what has your communication with him been like?
j
December 25, 2013 at 10:33 pm
it’s been okayish i guess- he’s friendly and i called him once a few weeks ago and we spoke for quite a while and had a really good conversation- nothing really about the relationship, it was just everyday stuff. the one thing he mentioned though is that he misses me, but he’s happy…so I’m guessing that probably means happy without me. we haven’t seen each other in a few months and I don’t really know what to do when we do eventually see each other- I don’t want to be too emotional but at the same time I don’t want to be too distant either. ANY advice would really be appreciated!
PS- does it help if his friends really liked me too? will it have any influence on the chances of us getting back together? it sounds so obvious but well its been a few months and we’re not back together yet- definitely moving towards the medium to long timeline.
PS again (i’m on a roll it seems 😉 ) hope you’ve had a good Christmas 🙂
admin
December 26, 2013 at 6:16 pm
It helps that his friends like you. It really does.