How To Get A Long Distance Relationship Ex Boyfriend Back

5,236 thoughts on “The Complete Guide To Getting An Ex Boyfriend Back In A Long Distance Relationship”

J

February 11, 2017 at 9:55 pm

its more so i feel so embarrassed that i even sent him messages like that knowing he prob told his friends and will make me seem even more crazy. why am i like this?? why cant i control myself?? why do i ruin all my chances? i just really want another chance with him down the future

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 13, 2017 at 4:41 pm

are you still going to counseling? if you are, tell your therapist your sentiments because he/she might give you physical activities to help you with your situation.. your friend is actually right. And that’s probably the reason why your ex doesn’t reply no matter what, so you would stop hoping..

J

February 11, 2017 at 9:50 pm

when i messaged him i went as crazy as saying that i am seeing someone right now (even tho i am not) and that i just want to remain friends cause he was someone i cared about…idk why i said it, i guess i just wanted him to talk to me, but he still never did. but obviously, i dont want to be just a friend. why do you think even a message like that he wont respond to me? do u think he actually wants no communication for the next year and a half for the clean slate? remember the story i told you before? i know you get a lot of stories on here, so you might not remember mines clearly….im so scared i really want another chance with him, but my friend said i went above the line of crazy and desperate. ive sent him a total of 10 messages in 2 days since he hasnt responded or even opened any of them.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 13, 2017 at 4:42 pm

are you still going to counseling? if you are, tell your therapist your sentiments because he/she might give you physical activities to help you with your situation.. your friend is actually right. And that’s probably the reason why your ex doesn’t reply no matter what, so you would stop hoping..

Maria

February 11, 2017 at 8:50 pm

My ex and I broke things off about two weeks ago. After I went about 10 days of not contacting him, my sister and he had gotten into it over a post on his Facebook stating I had left him. This started on a Monday. This infuriated her because it wasn’t the truth, so she said what she needed to say and left it at that. He reached out to her through her inbox and they pretty much went back and forth in regards to how he hurt me by leaving me the way he did (via text). After talking it over for a few minutes, he said he knew what he needed to do and reached out to me. He sent a whole paragraph stating how sorry he was for putting me in the position that he did, for hurting me or causing me any pain throughout the relationship. We talked it out and he said he was in a dark place because of our break up and needed to come out of it in order to be himself again. I told him I would be there and we could take things slow if need be, he agreed. The next two days, I waited until he contacted me. He wanted to see how I was doing and checked up on me. On Wednesday, he invited me over for the weekend because he said he wanted to see me. He invited me to the party he was hosting as well, and I accepted. But after giving it some thought, I thought better of it. He called me that same night and I told him I couldn’t make it. He looked sad about it, but I did invite him over next weekend to which he said yes. He actually seemed excited about it. We stayed on the phone for about two hours and it went very well. He kept blurting out that he missed me and accidentally called me babe twice. The next day, I didn’t reach out nor did he. Friday, I texted him later on that night to see how he was doing, but he seemed busy and told me he was attending a meeting in regards to the party the next night. I said what I needed to say and told him if he wasn’t trying to be in a relationship with me, to be upfront about it because I didn’t want to invest any more time and energy into something that wouldn’t progress. He said I was right, to let him sleep on it, but if I wanted to know where his head was he was leaning towards making us go again. He said he wants to take things slow (the process to get there) and he is up for fixing us as well. He assured me it wasn’t out of convenience, otherwise he would’ve rushed back in. He wants to take his time to understand me better and said he would obviously do his part and understand where I was coming from. My question is, should I believe him, does he really want to work things out or is he dragging me along as an option? And if so, should I just take things slow and let him come to me when he feels it is right?

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 13, 2017 at 2:19 pm

Hi Maria,

there’s only one way to know that, let him prove it. You already had a talk, let him prove what he said. Of course it would hurt if he doesn’t, but at least you wouldn’t wonder what could have happened otherwise..

J

February 9, 2017 at 4:25 pm

everyone keeps telling me that its too late now for a chance…..i messed up again and i am trying but idk why it pisses me off so much when he doesnt reply to me cause i see him commenting on peoples posts and pictures and then ignore my messages and note ven open it. so i though hell why not tell him i am seeing someone and just say i want to be friends cause i care about you still…..and he doesnt even reply back either. my friend says im being even more crazy and desperate and that its too late now for another chance in a year and a half…….is that true? I know youll say I gotta move on because to him it looks like i didnt change…..i just want closure i feel….but i also want him to apologize for telling people i am crazy and i want another chance in a year from now………so is it too late since ive messed up these past 6 months chasing…..like do you know anyeone who has chased this long and was able to get another chance sometime down the future? i just feel his mind is very stubborn and he doesnt want to change it at all.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 9, 2017 at 5:55 pm

No, it’s ok. I understand. Actually they are right, the more you chase, the less chances you have. If you want closure just tell it him to him. If he doesn’t answer, then that’s the closure itself. He just wants you to move on.

J

February 9, 2017 at 12:07 am

this is so hard, i tried to hold in my control but i ended up spamming 6 texts again today just asking to be friends. idk why it angers me so much like even if i have no feelings i still want to remain his friend. obv atm i still want a chance deep down, but its like why is he not answering me? why are all my chances ruined

sorry if i am annoying again, as you can tell i mess everything up and there are no more chances no matte rhow hard i try
Joy

February 8, 2017 at 11:16 pm

Hi, I’m currently doing the NC rule but something came up. I was in a LDR and I just saw the news in his country that there was a huge fire. I checked the news online to get more information and found out that it’s in his area. Can I break the no contact rule and ask him about it? If so, what should I say and how do I start?

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 9, 2017 at 11:57 am

Hi Joy,
yes, it’s ok because it’s an emergency.. just ask him of he’s alright

J

February 8, 2017 at 4:27 am

yes i should stop worrying but how much time do you think i need to give him for him to talk to me again? it is clear he is active again today on fb but he didnt bother open my messages at all and left them unread…..like i understand why i have been sucha bad person, insecure, etc and why he felt so suffocated by me and then him telling everyone i am psychotic….but its like he will NEVER change his mind. 2 years will go by fast because its been 6 months already since we broke up and how it went so downhill, so basically been half a year since we broke up….and it felt like nothing changed and i can still remember all the fights we had when we were broken up like all the stories ive told you before if u remembered them all. see how fast it has been…..6 more months and itll be a year since we broke up but i feels like yesterday and i can still feel the hurt. i think maybe he feels it too which is why he is giving no 2nd thought to ever getting back together? what do u think? whatre my chances in 1 year and a half from now?

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 8, 2017 at 12:52 pm

if you’re in his shoes, does it look like you’re so different than the girl he left and that you’re not chasing him? That’s right that time passes by fast, that’s why you need to make the most out of it. 6 months has already been wasted with chasing, worrying and devaluing yourself. Are you going to do the same in the remaining year and a half?

J

February 7, 2017 at 9:38 pm

Also since i messed up AGAIN do you think i have a chance in 1-2 yrs?? Because everyone says 1-2 yrs will go by fast if you actually think about it and its clear his mind is still stuck on me being crazy and never want me back again

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 8, 2017 at 12:02 am

well, if you keep worrying instead of focusing in your growth, nothing will change too right?

J

February 7, 2017 at 7:48 pm

Do you think he will ever talk to me again one day because its so clear he wants to not date me again or even talk to me as friends
J

February 7, 2017 at 12:57 am

remember me? today i made the mistake and messaged my ex and he didnt reply to me. i just asked him how the military is going and if we can be friends again…since i know the guess what? or reminding texts after NC dont work on him. He didnt bother to even open my message. I am certain I am over him but after getting no response at all, its like i feel it all again in my heart and it hurts all over again…..what should I do? He didnt answer me and now hes offline again. Not sure if you remember my story. Where he told everyone I am crazy and psychotic and mental. and he said we should just not talk for 1-2 years only way for a chance but he probably only said that so i can stop chasing. TBH i just want to be his friend right now, i dont know if I want to get back with him, but deep down i do hope for another chance….what should i do? go back to NC for another month ? How can he just not even open my message when I see he is active posting on others walls, etc.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 7, 2017 at 7:12 pm

Hi J,

yes I do remember you! 🙂
For me,.that’s better that he didn’t respond because it would make you hope and not focus in moving on and improving yourself

AL

February 6, 2017 at 10:08 pm

Hi! I’ve been in a 2 year LDR that ended 2 weeks ago. He had to move to a new place with a friend, who has a girlfriend. Seeing them together made him feel sad that we can’t be like them. He opened up to me as to how our situation is frustrating for him because he doesn’t know how to close the distance. He lives in the US, I live in the UK. I have plans to move to the US but the process will take long since I need to get a visa. He wanted to think about how to sort out this problem and asked for time to think. We didn’t talk for a week. After a week, I initiated contact telling him I have some suggestions about visits that we can do. However, that conversation didn’t end well. He also misunderstood that I was planning a trip somewhere (not in the US) that would cost almost the same as visiting the US. He got angry. I tried to explain the misunderstanding but he didn’t listen. After a few days, he deleted me and my closest friend from his facebook. We tried talking one more time but he ended up just finding faults at everything I say and repeating the issue of the misunderstanding from before. I’m not sure if there’s still hope even if i do the NC since he’s already removed me from his social media.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 7, 2017 at 6:20 pm

Hi Al,

give him a week to cool down and bw active during that week before reaching out again..if it doesn’t work, start nc..

Anonymous

February 6, 2017 at 9:57 am

I’ve known my ex since 4 years. We only greeted each other with a smile and a wave. He and I happened to end up in the same class and he started texting me 3 months before he leave for other country for his higher studies. Things got excalated between us and we decided to give a try for relationship. We got into a relationship just a month before he leave, having spent a month with me, he left for his higher studies to US. We’d been very good to each other and I’d also decided to apply for his University for Masters. We thought the distance is only going to be for a year and that once I get admits from his University, we’d end up killing the distance between us. But, things didn’t work out as we’d decided, I got a reject from the university he is studying in, he’s been really upset about it since a week. I wrote him a mail saying he could walk out if he wants to as we don’t know how long we’re going to be away from each other. (Although, I might end up in the country he is staying at for my master’s but We can’t afford to see each other on regular basis as we’re students and still not earning). He didn’t reply for my mail. Since my reject, we’ve been talking very limited and there is no emotional talks happening between us. Yesterday, I broke down and ended up saying some harsh things to him like, I asked him to stop giving me a mental torture and I asked him to stop giving me a silent treatment. This text of mine made him go mad at me and he insisted that we should be breaking up. He feels like I’m blaming his love and he doesn’t want to give me a mental torture cause of his sadness. He asked me not to contact again and blocked me. But I left him a voicemail crying that made him unblock me but again he said that breakup is a good option for him that I blaming his love really hurts him. He has left me unblocked but we’ve not spoken after that. We both love each other and he is important for me, please help me deal with this situation.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 6, 2017 at 5:03 pm

Hi Anonymous,

The truth is, if you’re not going to see each other then, it’s not going ti work.. I think you need to check this and then come up with solutions:
What It Takes To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work

Chris

February 5, 2017 at 3:23 pm

Oh hi. I met someone on a dating site 8 months ago. Immeadiately we started text skyping for over 4 hours a day. Sometimes through the whole night. I missed a day once and she was pretty angry with me. She did most of the intial running. I visted her in late November and the electricty between us was instance. and the time we spent together was perfect. It was very dramatic for a few days after we left each other. I visited her again in mid january and it was even better this time. OMG more than perfect. she told me during one conversation that she was afraid i would dump her. She knows it’s not a problem for me to see every 5 weeks or so. But I’m a single dad with 3 kids that live with me. She has 2 grown up kids. It was very dramatic again when we parted. The next day she told me it was to difficult to go through this again. I wrote a nice letter back acepting this and told her it would get easier in time. She wrote back twisted a few lines and said I should forget about her. (As if) then a few days after wrote on Skype saying thanks for everything. Then bloked it. I emailed her 2 lines a few days later to see if she was okay. She emailed back immediately 5 words saying okay thanks. That was a week ago. I really miss her. from chatting all day for 8 months to having the best week of my life to this is hard. I’m sure I can keep to the NC thing. But realistically do you think she will ever come back. and how do i win her back. She knows i have already bought a ticket for next month. But to be honest i dont think I’m going to make that flight.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 5, 2017 at 10:35 pm

Hi Chris,

there’s a good chance she will regret her decision.. Be active in improving yourself during nc and in posting in social media

S

February 4, 2017 at 10:12 am

Hi.
I’m not chasing my boyfriend, but my girlfriend (same sex relationship, long distance).

We were great friends, if not best friends, for about 3 years then got together and got serious quickly 5 months before she took a two year visa to Canada. We kept it going, (but the distance was getting tough) for about 18 months. I went to visit with her for a week in October- very tough trip- I was nervous, she was too- and honestly, she’s just trying to enjoy her time… AND would like to extend the visa further, but reality is she will be able to have a few extra months, on a tourist, but likelihood of granted extension for anything long term is slim to none. She has the travel bug and I get that and support it, even… But we had plans… We counted on each other… We were a big deal sort of relationship, it wasn’t a fling, you know?

Anyway, 2 weeks after I got back from the visit, she broke it off with me. I fought her on it- and I just can’t see that when eventually she DOES come back, so long as we maintain contact and friendship- I mean, we started out that way- and once upon a time SHE was the one that convinced me ‘we will be ok. We’ll get through this’ she actually took a lot of time and effort to get me comfortably caring about her and us and a future together.

I think she got scared realising the finite time that she has over there doing her own thing and living life and she says there’s no one else she just doesn’t want to be with anyone now because she just wants to concern herself with herself. Fair enough- as hurt as I am, fair enough.

But to me- I want to work on the assumption that she DOES wind up back home here. (I’m not exactly a small town girl from home that she has completely outgrown either. This is her first time really going and fully doing her own thing in the world- but we met in her home country, where I have immigrated to about 9 years ago… I understand the want and need to see the world and go off on your own adventures, meet new people, have your own experiences, etc) I just want us to be able to start again, meet again and start a new chapter- not recreate the old good. BUT – she tells me ‘just because I’m not thinking about home or anyone from home doesn’t mean I don’t care…’ (Gives me hope) yet also texts that ‘yes, we can be friends but we’ll never be like we were.’ (Crushes me)

Seriously , I don’t expect ‘the same,’ time changes both of us- but I can’t see why we wouldn’t be able to manufacture a good relationship and environment to give ourselves a new chance. I can’t understand and I don’t accept it as a door closed… I mean, if she comes back and slams the door in my face, so to speak- I guess I’ll move on- but legitimately, I do love her, and I want to do whatever is within my own control of getting us back- even if we have to completely re meet. We’ve been friends since the first time we met… Just enjoyed each other. A lot. We were around for other relationships and breakups that the other went through, but we were special (I’m sure everyone thinks they are) and I believe we can be again- but I need to give her space to do her own adventuring (funny as it may be to give more space between Australia and Canada!). I just want your tutoring to make sure I don’t sabotage our chances of rebuilding. I have read through your 30 day NC – I’m starting off with 11 days already under my belt, but will continue with that. It all makes sense to me- I just feel terribly vulnerable. I’m guessing, but id like valuable, experienced advice. I miss her. I was always in her corner for going away and doing this trip- it was originally supposed to be a year only, but as I’ve already done lots of travel myself- I never thought it would be less than what the visa allowed for, so I missed her longer but not in despair. I always told her ‘I love you more than I miss you.’ But make no mistake- part of me just doesn’t want to be ‘dumped,’ to have ‘wasted all of this time and emotion,’ but mostly I just love her and I want my girl back… Even if she stays away longer still. I want to go about my life… But be ready for her when she does find her way back home. I need to be able to be her friend first- even though I make no bones about where I want that to eventuate. Can you help me? Please?

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 4, 2017 at 1:55 pm

Hi S,

you mean you haven’t contacted her nor replied for 11 days? if yes, that’s considered part of nc, if not start the count after this.. I think she doesn’t want to be friends now because of course she knows you still have feelings for her.. So, be very active during and after your nc so that she would think you accepted and you’re moving on..

Anon

February 2, 2017 at 3:03 am

I have been doing no contact with my ex boyfriend since 1/17. Before the 30 day NC period is up, on February 17, my birthday and Valentines day will have passed. What do I do if he writes me on my birthday and/or Valentine’s day?

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 2, 2017 at 7:27 pm

Hi Anon,

you have to ignore him..

Areej Abbas

January 31, 2017 at 7:28 pm

me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and everything was working amazing but today he suddenly messaged me saying he is sorry for everything, he cares about me and that he cant continue doing this to me anymore. I was left really confused. nevertheless he has decided upon ringing me tonight, i hope we can sort everything out because I don’t wanna lose him.

EBR Team Member: Amor

February 1, 2017 at 11:35 am

Hi Areej,

ok, update us after..

Maria

January 31, 2017 at 6:32 pm

I wrote about two days ago. I’m not sure if it went through because I don’t see my comment up at all, but it had said it was successfully submitted.

Maria

February 4, 2017 at 3:31 pm

So, it’s been 9 days since I’ve started the NC rule. I haven’t reached out to my ex once nor has he tried with me. But this morning, he added me back on Snapchat. He removed me from all of his social media when we had broken up. What I’m trying to ask is should I add him back or will that be breaking the NC rule? Could he be missing me as well?
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 5, 2017 at 3:48 pm

yes, that’s a good sign.. Im not that familiar with snapchat but if it’s an invite, accept it..
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 1, 2017 at 11:31 am

Hi Maria

yes it is.. I’ll paste may answer there here.

Hi Maria,

try it first..if it doesn’t work, then move on..

Anonymous

January 28, 2017 at 11:27 am

I feel as though my situation it a lot more complicated. I will keep it short but try my best to give details. Me and ex boyfriend been together for 5 years. He moved overseas 3 years ago. We’ve been on and off for various of reasons. My birthday is coming up and we were going to meet up in Dubai to celebrate I got my ticket and hotel and everything but he has been ignoring me for about 2 weeks. I don’t blow his phone up. I checked up on him to see if everything was ok? And if he’s mad he needs to tell me. No response? I’m confused. My friend took matters to her own hands and sent him a message basically telling him I’m a good girl and doesn’t deserve to be treated poorly. He didn’t respond. He’s active on Facebook but just ignoring me. Is he afraid of letting me down that he can’t come? Idk I’m left in the dark but I’m taking it as a break up. And I’m afraid I may never talk to him again. Also he HATES when I bring my friends into the equation. HELP MY SITUATION IS DIFFICULT

Areej Abbas

January 31, 2017 at 7:31 pm

Hi, i can relate a little because I have had such phases with my boyfriend, I’d recommend sending him one last message explaining how you have given him 5 years of your life you at least deserve an explanation for his ignorance. he may ring then, if not then try giving him some time
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 28, 2017 at 3:19 pm

Hi Anonymous,
he’s ghosting you… you can still try the advice above..

Sungin Rose

January 28, 2017 at 3:50 am

Hello,
I really need your help with this. so my ex and I had a long distance relationship (im in new york and he’s in germany) for 2 years. he broke up with me about 4 days ago. I had been rude to him lately but I still love him a lot. I have made pretty much all the mistakes, tried to contact him several times, cried and seemed desperate and needy and miserable. I just can’t believe he moved on so quickly. he always said he loved me and I knew he wasn’t lying. I always loved him too and I still do. he is currently in a relationship with his best friend who is very similar to him (we are very different), really beautiful, and lives in Germany. he seems to be doing pretty good without me. I just can’t believe he just doesn’t love me anymore, it all just went away. we had been through so much together..
he came to visit me last year on spring and we had the most wonderful time of our lives. I know I have been rude and made many mistakes but I want him back. and I am willing to do anything to get him back.
please please please help me. I really want him back.

EBR Team Member: Amor

January 28, 2017 at 12:25 pm

Hi Sungin Rose,

you broke up 4 days ago? did he break up with you to be with her?

Amanda

January 27, 2017 at 4:03 pm

Me and my boyfriend are long distance and have been best friends for years. We started dating about 5 months ago and It has been amazing and we barely ever fought. We are now back to college and have been arguing so he randomly broke it off yesterday. He says he still loves me and just needs time to himself and thinks we would be better as friends. I know we would be better dating because we were both so happy when we were dating and he just made a rash decision. How do I handle this situation?? This is so hard and sad.

Amanda

March 15, 2017 at 12:32 am

Not sure if my comment went through. We have been in contact a little (him initiating and me) but it seems like just friends. its very normal friendly conversation and im scared im getting friendzoned. What do I do???
EBR Team Member: Amor

March 15, 2017 at 12:31 pm

that’s ok. You’re just starting out as friends.. it’s ok to initate too and reply, as long as you’re the one ending the conversations at high point.. Use topics that are interesting for him and don’t stop your activities too, so that you have something to offer to the table..
Amanda

March 13, 2017 at 2:13 pm

Well i initiated, then the next week he initiated, then i did again yesterday but its all very … friendly conversation. as in just friends. We reminisced a few times on good times but how do i steer the conversation away from ‘just friends’?

also, I didn’t reply to his last message (snap chat) so that I had the upper hand, should I reach out again or wait for him to?
Amanda

March 2, 2017 at 5:26 am

Well the period of NC was up. Me and him have always been honest with each other and i didnt want to play games so i simply told him how i have missed him. The conversation went well and he opened up about how he was still upset and misses me too and was very protective when i casually mentioned a guy friend. Overall he still doesnt want a girlfriend at this time in his life.. should i just give up?
EBR Team Member: Amor

March 2, 2017 at 11:49 pm

The thing is, he knows you want him back. Even if you don’t want to act like you’re playing games, that’s really how it is when you’re not in a relationship anymore. It’s like trying to attract a person who doesn’t like you nor know you. You have to pick the right moves. I think for now, you have to rest for a week before initiating again, so that you don’t like you’re chasing him and then slowly rebuild rapport after that.
Amanda

February 27, 2017 at 5:27 pm

What does it mean if he keeps blocking and unblocking me from his social media?
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 27, 2017 at 8:15 pm

probably to get a reaction from you or because he’s still affected with your posts and he doesn’t know what to do.
Amanda

February 16, 2017 at 2:32 pm

Okay thanks, Do you have the link to the article about improving yourself?
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 16, 2017 at 8:39 pm

hmm.. follow this one:

The Ungettable Girl
Amanda

February 15, 2017 at 4:49 pm

Ugh. I am trying to think of everything to get him back because NC makes it feel like i am just sitting around waiting for him to move on!!

Do you think being friends with your ex makes it harder or easier to eventually develop those feelings for each other again?
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 15, 2017 at 7:48 pm

Be active in improving yourself, don’t just wait for nc to be over. After break up, being friends helps you more to be friendzoned because there’s no distance.
Amanda

February 13, 2017 at 2:10 pm

Amor- Do you think its best to not post on social media so that he doesn’t think im sitting around bored all day on my phone? Or best to post positive/normal things so he thinks im doing good?

also V day is tomorrow… any advice for no contact? gonna be rough.

-Amanda
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 14, 2017 at 3:41 pm

be active in posting.. v day is more of a commercial day for couples.. I know it’s hard, but being in a relationship now, me and my bf didn’t even bought gifts for each other. Yes, we did greet each other but we both thought that anniversaries and other occasions are more important because everything at this time for couples is over priced.. and here in our country, we actually greeted the singles happy independence day because for us, valentines should be celebration of love in all forms, for family, friends and mostly for yourself
Amanda

February 8, 2017 at 3:10 am

Im not sure if my comment went though but …

Ive done no contact for about a week and it’s just now hitting me that I’ve lost my favorite person in the world. I have been so upset and miss him more than anything. I am very tempted to contact him because it is so painful not talking to him. I know I shouldn’t contact him but I really don’t know how I could possibly not talk to the most important person in my life.

Not sure what to do 🙁
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 8, 2017 at 12:38 pm

check this one:
How To NOT Break The No Contact Rule With Glenn Livingston
Amanda

February 6, 2017 at 4:15 pm

If he is constantly with girls and getting lots of attention do you think there is a chance he is going to miss me? I feel like it would be hard to miss me when he is constantly busy and with other people. Again, thank you so much for the advice!
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 6, 2017 at 5:38 pm

yes, because we are a creature of habit.. unconciously he would think of you at times
Amanda

February 4, 2017 at 4:33 pm

He posted about 15 snapchats of him with girls last night. I think he is moving on.. i have been crying all morning
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 5, 2017 at 4:34 pm

dont get too affected, that’s probably his purpose of snapping that..
Amanda

February 3, 2017 at 3:35 am

Amor. We just broke up officially instead of a ‘break’ … He is not coming back and this is clear to me. Any advice on how to move on and be happy? I am heartbroken.
EBR Team Member: Amor

February 3, 2017 at 5:28 pm

are you sure you want to give up this early? why not try no contact first and then heal and improve
Amanda

January 30, 2017 at 7:19 pm

Amor.. Also his birthday is this coming friday (3rd) and i don’t want to create any bad feelings with him by not saying Happy birthday and wishing him well.. I also already have his gift which i cannot return. Ugh. what should i do ?
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 31, 2017 at 2:43 pm

it’s not really no contact..it’s just space to see if he would initiate.. that means you can still give the gift
Amanda

January 30, 2017 at 7:00 pm

Also.. yes different colleges two hours apart.
Amanda

January 30, 2017 at 6:59 pm

Hello Amor, a week of no contact?
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 28, 2017 at 8:03 am

Hi Amanda,

you mean you’re in differenr colleges now? give it a week..if he doesn’t talk to you try the advice above

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