How To Get A Long Distance Relationship Ex Boyfriend Back

5,236 thoughts on “The Complete Guide To Getting An Ex Boyfriend Back In A Long Distance Relationship”

j

December 20, 2016 at 5:11 pm

would sending a not going to stop fighting for u message be too much? i feel like I’m in competition with someone else when he made me the promise for the future & told me he will judge by then

Layla

December 28, 2016 at 7:10 pm

Hi Amore,
Thank you for your reply. Yes, it also seems like friendzoning to me but how could he just even consider someone new one week after we broke up? It seems like he never cared for me. I know the reasons for a rebound and all but it still hurts. I will adopt the NC and move on as he wanted me to, i dont know if i can be a friend to him though. Maye after a long time apart. What should i do if he contacts me though after not doing anything with the girl (just hang out) and going back home? I feel like i might get weak if he does. But i dont want to be any backup or a should to cry on – feeling for granted is something i just dont want to go for again.
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 30, 2016 at 7:30 am

just ignore him so you can fully heal
Layla

December 23, 2016 at 2:09 pm

Dear all,
My boyfriend have been in a long distance relationshop for over 1,5 year. He meant the world to me and of course had ups and downs but managed. He broke up with me a week ago because I was messagig him hurtful messages – all because he did not reply back and i was struggeling with a lot and was clearly missing him during his vacation. Yes, i am ashamed of what i wrote and i regretter it and told him sorry because it was just 4 days and i didnt think about how it may affect him. Anyway, he broke up and i could only do the NC for a week. I still have feeling for him and i know we could have worked it out if he jsut could have talked to me before. So we talked yesterday. I was all okay and showed him i kind of moved on – yes, i have accepted his wish for the breakup but im not willing to just give up. Im realistic and if we both put more effort, it should work. On skype he told me he still had feelings for me but he just cant see a future with me after what have happened – he could not imagine living with me because of this faulty trait i have. I told him i am aware of my impulsiveness and i cant change but can try to approach measures or methods in order to deal with it myself and not let it out on him. I def have a solution for it. Anyway, he told me he is firm when he makes a decision , but wishes to be friends because he still loves me in a way and cares for me. I just dont know what to do know. Hes in vacation and is hanging around with some girl he has been put together with and this adds to my misery … he told me to move on because he doesnt know how it might end up with her. I atill told him i will fight for him, for us, and i will wait until it seems hopeless and meaningless. He is my true and first love and when you love someone, you fight and should want to accept each others fault. THats what i want to do. Im so helpless right now – i hope you could help me somehow how to deal with it. WIth NC i might loose him, and i cant think of anything else. Have i been losing him completely?
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 28, 2016 at 9:19 am

HI Layla,

You’re already losing him. First, he’s friendzoning you because he’s still used to having you around. So, to make things easier for him, instead of committing back again, he just wants to stay friends. That way he can still talk to you while he talks to other girl too.
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 22, 2016 at 10:22 pm

Yeah, it shows you will not stop chasing him..

Harleen

December 20, 2016 at 2:55 pm

Hello, Amor…
How are you?
It’s been a while after my last post here…
Just to recap, I was in the NC process and I was doing it really fine… I’m three months away from him, physically. We had a relationship of three years.
The problem is that he insisted so much on contacting me, when I was having my own time… I answered him. And J. even declared his love to me, as before… I was extremely happy, but I was cautious. I wasn’t texting or calling him that much… The last time I talked to J. was last Friday.
Today’s Tuesday. I had seen he was with his usual group of friends last weekend, on Facebook… I didn’t mind that one, I didn’t want to feel jealous about it… I called him today (Tuesday). J. answered the phone… And my world has just crashed down… He was sincere and honest enough to tell me he is dating someone. I believe it started this last weekend… I asked him if she is already his new girlfriend, however, he said he’s only “dating” her… J. stated it’s not my fault, also that he wanted to be my friend… He explained it’s easy to talk to her, because they’re from the same nationality… He stated she’s not beautiful, on the other hand, she’s someone who shares the same thoughts and likes… She laughs at his jokes… He can understand her due to the same language they have as well…
Amor, I don’t know what to do anymore…
He said he loved me two weeks ago… How can that happen so soon?…
Please, could you help me again?…
Thank you very much in advance…

Harley (Harleen)

January 6, 2017 at 2:22 am

Hello, Amor!
How do you do?
I thank you very much for your help so far…
Well, to be honest, I have decided to move on… I am enthusiastic in having new perspectives and goals in my life in 2017…
I had a grudge on my ex boyfriend for weeks, after he told me he started going out with that other girl in his country. I felt betrayed… During that amount of time, I fixed myself – inspired by the song “I will survive”, by Gloria Gaynor.lol Really.
I changed my haircut, I started hobbies and I also got in touch with my old friends. I received a lot of invitations for many different occasions… : ) And I am happier now, instead of waiting for a response from John… I simply don’t care anymore…
He called me, after twelve days with no contact at all. I didn’t answer him. I got curious about what he might be thinking, though. What could have been his reason to approach me, if he said he is with another girl?… If I were the other girl, I would have got mad at this attitude of his…hahaha
From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much… You all have helped me when I needed the most… Thank you – “obrigada”: I am a Brazilian. : D

Regards.
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 7, 2017 at 3:54 pm

Hi Harley!

I’m doing good! Thank you for asking! I’m glad you chose yourself and that you chose to love yourself first. If you’re curious and you want to ask him or at least to be friends, I think it would be better to let more time pass. That was just 12 days in and it looks like he missed you.
Harleenu

December 23, 2016 at 1:25 am

Hi…
We stayed about 15 days in NC…
I had accepted him back, after his declaration…
But, two weeks after, this happened…
I believe the girl threw herself onto him… She was already interested in him. Well, Im far away… In terms of physical contact, I cant do any…
What gave me some hope is that he mentioned shes not his girlfriend yet…
Is there any I can still do?…
In February Im back to his country… I intend to improve myself much more…
Thank you…
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 28, 2016 at 3:07 am

So, you’re not really back together, you just went back to talking.. truth is, right now, it looks more like you’re friendzoned and you should approach it like she’s his gf.
check this one:
EBR 015: How To Get A Long Distance Boyfriend Back If He Has A New Girlfriend
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 22, 2016 at 10:13 pm

HI Harleen,

so, how many days did you do nc? And why didn’t you go back together when he said he still loves you?

Lolo

December 19, 2016 at 10:57 pm

Me an my boyfriend brok up for a week now coz he did find out msgs on my FB with a guy in my organization normal msgs about work , he got really jealous told me i cheated coz i didnt tell him , we tell each other everything ,i explained in ever way possible he doesnt want change his mind , i took off fb for that i did hide some stuff before normal things like going out he did too but we always came to an agreement , Ok I love him so much , i know he does too but his hurt wr still speaking speak about intimate also but his so cruel and wont forgive me , we where supposed to meet in January he told me his not coming i said i will come for u he refused that . Help me not to loose him what to do plz

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 22, 2016 at 12:43 pm

Hi Lolo,

do you want to try the advice above?

CL

December 19, 2016 at 8:28 am

He is also posting pictures he is enjoying life like skiing rock climbng etc. one picture with the word stress xed out in red with relax and a smiley face underneath it and just seems to have no intention on contacting me though it seemed like we beoke up on good terms but I knoe he had some resentment and lost feeling but was still confused 24 days now I believe…no message

CL

December 26, 2016 at 4:38 am

The whole theory of this website is for me to initiate contact and establish a connection that is broken and further asserted through no contact as far as I understand? So now Im just confused, shouldnt I be contacting and following your texting/calling/skyping advice etc. or what should I be doing then?
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 28, 2016 at 3:15 pm

always end the convo first in high note..better in cliffhanger style to increase the chances of him initiating contact.. you dont have to follow the tide theory by the book.. if you had good 13 texts yesterdays.. then procees to higher count the next time..or start over with 8 texts.. it depends.. as long as you’re having good convos that’s good..
Cl

December 25, 2016 at 3:27 pm

I thought I was supposed to initiate contact and gain his interest etc. by contacting first? I already started and I know him hes the most stubborn person in the world but I feel like hes dating someone else but just not telling me… should I ask?
CL

December 23, 2016 at 6:16 am

So I contacted him yesterday, I felt it was the right time. I sent him a picture of a young thai coconut because we used to go to Chinatown together just to drink them so its a good memory. I said it made me think of him and he said omg you drank a coconut? I did yesterday too! Then sent a picture of his and he said it made him think of me too. I said I had to go I was with friends then texted hm again today and sent to many messages for the whole tide theory. We just caught up a little. He ended the vonvo first and I sent the last message though when I shouldnt have responded its hard because the conversation is unpredictable and we have never had a problem with talking and connecting. I havent mentioned Korea and leaving in two weeks. He is super stressed and mad about work though… so thats always been an issue and he has no free time.

After I skip tomorrow should I go back to tide theory and greatly reduce my texts or should I continue to text casually and attempt to end the convo first? Im not sure how to gain rapport and interest enough for him to desire to text me… I feel like its super one sided though he probably misses me and cares its just like pulling teeth with him, his family knows him as the most stubborn person ever.
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 28, 2016 at 5:43 am

always end the convo first in high note..better in cliffhanger style to increase the chances of him initiating contact.. you dont have to follow the tide theory by the book.. if you had good 13 texts yesterdays.. then procees to higher count the next time..or start over with 8 texts.. it depends.. as long as you’re having good convos that’s good..
CL

December 21, 2016 at 2:15 pm

I think he would be reminded Im still coming there and possibly interested. I also dont want to message him the day after Christmas and look lonely. Im just worried we wont meet because I waited a week before I left to contact him. Maybe thats ridiculous but I do feel like Im very in control and no contact helped. The thing is he still has yet to reach out to me…
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 24, 2016 at 8:19 am

if he really wants to see you, you dont need to remind him..because it would like you’re chasing him if you cant resist messaging him
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 21, 2016 at 10:19 am

if you cut the nc short, would it prevent him from finding a date for Christmas?

J

December 18, 2016 at 11:18 pm

did anything go thru?

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 19, 2016 at 12:04 pm

Hi J,
yes, they did go through.. He probably said he wants you to change because nobody that is good, wants to see somebody else forget themselves for another person and there’s still a part of him that loves you… Let’s see first what he replies to your texts

CL

December 18, 2016 at 5:01 am

So an update since I was last on here. Its been 21 days today maybe two days ago he posted a picture of a milkshake with two straws in it red and blue so I got upset he know I see his messaging profule photos. I dont know if he is trying to make me jealous or he is seeing someone else but it really hurt, I hope Im over analyzing but thats way too fast I think worst case scenario such as he dumped me for somebody I really hope not but I dont want to be a naive fool about the whole thing. I had bought my Korea ticjet as he suggested and said hed pay for half then decided on the 30 day no contact since he wouldnt initiate anything. He hasnt texted me up till now day 21 but Im nervous not talking to him will maje him move on to another girl and my 30 days is up the day after Christmas technically and in Korean culture guys find a girlfriend for Christmas because it is a couples holiday….. so yeah Im worrued he will get a girlfriend then Ill be in Korea two weeks later devastated. Shoyod I break no contact and do shorter or should I stick to it considering hes not contacting. Just worried and I still want to fix things with him, I know we love eachother but the reactions to the distance were bad… very difficult but he should be moving here 2017.

CL

January 3, 2017 at 7:52 pm

I leave for Korea tomorrow, we skyped and he basically is acting like we are in a relationship and just expects me to go to Jeju island with him when I have to take a plane with him from Seoul and stay with him in his hotel room for a week. I told him shouldnt we meet first and decide but hes pushing it and made plans for the weekend because I said I had plans and didnt seem like he had any intention of meeting me except Friday after my dinner plans…should I go? Im so confused and hes not been totally communicative. Im feeling he just wants to use me while Im there. He also said just stay in my brothers place etc. But already booked my own place.
EBR Team Member: Amor

January 5, 2017 at 6:27 pm

dont expect too much, just in case he suddenly changes his mind. If he really wants to meet you, let him be the one to fly over

Flor

December 17, 2016 at 5:25 am

I have been in a LDR with my partner for about 1.5 years. We met online then I went to meet him in his country and our relationship developed. He is a divorcee and 15years my senior, had many relationships but is new to LDR. We skyped and talked everyday for hours and met up at least once a month. We had great times tog but we also fought a lot. my bf was very put off with the constant arguments and he has said many times that he can’t do this and that the love tank was emptying cos of the distance, lack or absence of sex and the fights.
The big change came when he had to relocate inter state for a better job opportunity. our communication dropped drastically from a few hours daily to about 30mins and video calls were reduced or almost non existent becasue of working hours limitation and time difference. We continued to meet up but things didn’t improve and it got worse when he started to block my calls on weekends or completely ignore me. I got even more upset and this formed a vicious cycle. It went on for months and I eventually found out on social media that he had already been seeing someone else the last 2 months. He confessed that they met at a bar one night while we fought he told the woman he was having problems with me and they met up again and had sex. This woman is 20 years younger. When I first found out he said it was gonna end and he doesn’t want to commit to anything or anyone becasue his priority was his job. And also cos he was returning to his original state so the affair was not sustainable. I thought things would really have ended and we may have a chance at it again. I was ready to forgive him at a whim becasue I felt regretful for all the fights we had and I wanted a chance to make amends. Also becasue I had trusted him 100% when it comes to fidelity as he loathed cheating because he was cheated on badly by his ex wife and this was really out of character for him. He told me though, as long as me and him were not in the same country, things would not work out becasue this LDR has dragged longer than expected and caused things to go awry. And he was not keen to spend any more money travelling becasue he wants to focus on other priorities like getting a house etc. I was desperate to win him back so I said I will move which was actually already in the plans, but he said I should only move if it is for myself and not move for him becasue he couldn’t promise or guarantee anything between us becasue he is so scared things will go back to before like how we used to fight. This baffled me. I flew over to meet him a few weeks to seek some form of answers or even closure. we met, he held me and kissed me like we were never separated. It was just like any other dates we had and we genuinely were happy but he also reiterated that i shouldnt think all is fine just cos we Hung out for that few days I was there. (He continued seeing the other woman cos she had no clue I was there). He also said he still felt like we both got along very well and he cans we we could actually still be happy and good without fighting in fact he was getting annoyed with the other woman. Clearly he was confused about his feelings. I tried to say this could be the last that we will see each other and then he got worked up and said I was lying about wanting to try and move there. I left and we continued texting or chatting almost daily for another month or so .There were episodes in between where I tried to insult the other woman incessantly and it got him riled up and he even tried to investigate on my claims about the woman being scandalous etc. He was clearly not trusting her enough. Then I didn’t contact him for a week but eventually I caved in and when we spoke he said he thought I had moved in and found someone new based on my instagram or facebook posts. He was stalking me and he said that helped him to move on also. It was bullshit cos he clearly moved on before that. He said our times have passed and he has moved on but he has not let go becasue I was really special to him and unlike his exes whom he will not bother talking to, he found it hard to do the same with me. So he hopes we can remain friends and talk ocassionally and he quoted, “who knows, things may change”. And he was still keen to know if I was moving to the same place as him. I felt like he was only doing this becasue he wanted to make himself less guilty about the cheating, it wasn’t about me but more about making himself feel good. A week later he moved in with the other woman and he said he also met her parents. My discovery about the affair actually made the RS official for them. I was shattered. They barely hung out for a few months and things progressed that fast. He said he had hesitations cos he felt inferior to move in to the woman’s house and also that it was a big step and may break or make the rs but it was good cos it saves him money. He still continued contact with me throughout the entire time from when he started the affair till when I discovered and he said he wishes to keep in touch. Though most of the contact were all initiates by me, but he has always responded and we would even chat or video call for hours (when the other woman is at work). As much as I was hurting knowing that he was clearly with another woman but it was also hard for me to break away and I told him that it’s hard for us to be friends. he said if it’s hard for me he will do that and he wanted to hear it from me that I do not want to be friends with him, which again I found it hard to do so. and now he still replies my text but he is intentionally being distant but went to like my social media pictures instead (which he doesn’t usually do). I feel so confused and messed up. Will we ever have a chance at this again? Should I start the no contact rule for real. I still have plans to move over and I know he is already in a rs now which i m not certain how serious it is given that he has been responding to me on the side, but I am still holding on to the hope that we may still have a chance to hang out at some point.

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 20, 2016 at 1:07 pm

Hi Flor,

so wheb do you really plan to move? What is your reason for staying friends with him?

J

December 17, 2016 at 2:42 am

i think i messed up messaging him already and he will read it all soon. alot is me bringing up good memories after i sent some angry texts cuz i was emotionally unstable. i hope those texts will cover the anger. i talked some good memories and how my life is. i did say smth like ik we said some mean things before u left but it doesnt change the fact i still want a future w/u bc i still do. ik i shouldnt have done that cause it may have ruined chances. HELP. why do i do this to myself. i just made it worse in so many ways by sending these texts
j

December 16, 2016 at 4:33 pm

should I not ask about it then? but hes gonna for those yrs…so therse no way he can see her but he can still keep in contact but its limited communication……..but he keeps telling me to move him wrong in 2 yrs so he doesn’t waste his time now thinking ive changed….sowhy would he say that stuff to me if he wasn’t serious with someone
J

December 16, 2016 at 3:28 am

Just found out he hookedup with the girl before he left when he clearly told me shes just a friend so now hes a fuckboy i see… does that ruin my chances in future? Do u think they had smth serious only known each other super short time

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 16, 2016 at 11:59 am

Dont message him if you’re not that emotionally stable.. We cant know for now if they are really serious.. If they still see or talk to each other over time, it can be..

J

December 15, 2016 at 2:16 pm

i accidentally let my emotions control me and i freaked about that all and telling ppl about us so he will have read that….when hes out should i just message him and ask how he is?
j

December 15, 2016 at 12:06 pm

what about that girl ive been telling u about? should i actually be worried? ik he cant do anything with her cuz hes gone now but what about when hes back or when has a vacation break off? he can see her but not me cause im in a diff country

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 15, 2016 at 12:26 pm

Worrying never helps.. If worry, you dont accomplish anything

J

December 14, 2016 at 10:59 pm

but he told everyone bad things about me and how he would never get back with me, etc and how i controlled him/neediness, etc. now i get dirty looks from his friends…..idk why i feel this def worsened all my chances in the future. sorry if this is annoying

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 15, 2016 at 10:35 am

It’s ok.. I understand! But, when did he do that? After you kept pushing right? He was annoyed so, he vented. It did worsened your chances but it wont get better if you focus in regret and what went wrong instead of just changing

Isabel

December 13, 2016 at 1:29 am

(I submitted this comment but something went wrong with my internet connection so I wasn’t sure if it actually submitted so my apologies if you see this exact same comment twice!)

Hello,
I commented a couple weeks ago about the no contact rule and seeing him after the holidays and I read your advice and since then everything was good so far. Well yesterday on snapchat, I was feeling kinda attractive one day and posted a kinda risque snap on my story and he saw it. Part of me wanted to make him jealous and another part of me figured he probably won’t even see it so it doesn’t even matter much because he doesn’t normally get on snapchat. But he saw it and got really angry with me for it. He called, snapped, and texted me asking if I was okay all last night. I didn’t reply to any of it, but I opened the snap this morning. (It was midnight when he tried contacting me so by me ignoring it he could’ve assumed I was sleeping so I wasn’t worried.) Soon after I opened the snap he texted me again confronting me about it sounding a lot more angry this time because it was evident that I was ignoring him. I wouldn’t have replied to it, but he said he was going to block me on social media and my number. If he blocks my number there’s clearly no way I could send a first response text so I broke NC and responded- I wouldn’t have broken it if he didn’t say he’d block me. He was really upset and said he never wanted to even be my friend. He said he was sure we could be friends and we’re also from the same hometown. I called him (which maybe I shouldn’t have) but he said he’d be willing to talk on Friday. What are your thoughts? We were exactly 2 weeks away from the end of our NC, and I got him a Christmas gift that I was going to give to him late.

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 13, 2016 at 7:30 pm

Hi Isabel,

It’s already broken, so might as well meet and talk.

William

December 12, 2016 at 7:43 pm

I dated my gf in Jan 2016 until August or September 2016. We are long distance. I’m in the military, she goes to school in a different state. Both of us went to high school together in a deifferent state though. She came to see me once while we were good, then I came to see her when over the summer in our home town. After we broke up, we starting talking like we used too and we were going to get back together. I went home in nov 2016 and she asked if I could come see her in a different state (16 hours away) while I was home in our home town. At first I didn’t know if I was going to be able to do I said we will see. (ALl of this happened 2-4 weeks before I left.) then i worked a lot and took her for granted and we didn’t talk for about 10 days. She asked if we could call and I said yes illl call when I get off work. I called her but she texted me and said she was going to a movie with some friends. We arranged to call the next day but she was then too tired to talk. So fast forward 3 days…. I’m home on leave, and still haven’t talked. I tried to call her but it’s goes straight to voice mail. I decdied I was going to come see her so I was going to call to let her know. SHe calls me and tells me that she doesn’t want to see me. I get her to call me 2 days later and she’s tell she me about this guy she hasn’t been talking to for 2 weeks (same two weeks before I went on leave where I didn’t hear from her). I’m crushed by this but she tells me she doesn’t know what She wants. SHe tells me she still loves me and that SHe missed me But she doesn’t know what she wants yet. We have it arranged to see each other this January, (3 weeks from now). One of the problems we had is that I took her for granted, and we didn’t talk regularly like we should have. Now she is doing the same thing to me (saying she is too busy and that she will text me when she can) but I’ll get barely any messages throughout any given day. But I can assume she is texting her other guy all the time and I know she is on Facebook almost hourly so she has her phone and she see so my messages. SO this is where my question comes into play… is she just playing with my feelings and leading me on? Or does she really not know what she wants? (I wondering ignore she hasn’t read this article before, because she has done 90% of the things mentioned on here, and being a guy, I can say it worked on me.) I know this is a site for women, and I’m a man, but I’m someone who hasn’t realized their mistakes and I love her More than anything. I would really appreciated input from a girls perspective… thank you.

Dominique

December 19, 2016 at 1:14 am

I’m in a long distance relationship and my BF has been taking me for granted, pushing me away a little, not making an effort – when I confront him he says he’s tired, working, lot on his plate etc .. it’s making me feel worthless and as if our relationship is going to fall apart at any minute (sounds like your gf yeh??) an old school friend started chatting to me on fb and I guess I felt. Flattered so every time BF pushed me away I was compelled to talk to the guy that gave me attention .. wrong but human nature, however he’s asked to meet and will not cross the line – I love my BF and want it to work out more than anything, perhaps that’s what your gf is doing simply looking for ‘attention’ elsewhere? I have been really needy and an aware have been pain in *rse keep asking if still loves me, pulling him up on why don’t give me attention anymore – not proud, so pulling away a bit to give us some space (again what yr gf may be doing?) scared what going to happen, want it to work so bad .. can I ask you how it worked for you? Did it work instantly or take few weeks for u to realise she was pulling away, what was it she did that made u do a u turn and start chasing her instead ?
EBR Team Member: Amor

December 14, 2016 at 10:37 pm

Hi William,

She can be getting revenge or she is just really confused because she doesn’t trust you won’t do what you did and she has feelings for the other guy too.

J

December 12, 2016 at 5:29 pm

lol i dont have a chance anymore in future right? Considering he told everyone bad things about me and how we are completely over

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 14, 2016 at 8:57 pm

Not never.. There is but change first. Don’t waste time thinking if you have a chance or not.

j

December 11, 2016 at 7:23 pm

well he just made a fool out of me, since we both decided to not tell anyone we ended things and to keep it quiet, and recently i didnt say anything to a friend of his & i said we were together still & started going on about how i hope to change for myself not for him, and i found out from someone else that ex told everyone we ended things & talked shit about me. so i just came off as a crazy ex gf that wanted ppl to believe we were still together since i kept promise not to say anything. so basically life is ruined, he did it, he ruined my life. and theres prob no more chances

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 12, 2016 at 4:56 pm

When did he say not to say it? Maybe he changed his mind, when he was fed up. If you’re really changing yourself, then your life is not ruined because he’s not your life. It’s time to grow and have your own life now. Get to know yourself. So, that when you have a relationship or go back to that one, it would be for the right reasons, not because you need somebody in your life.

Hellen

December 11, 2016 at 1:04 pm

Hi Chris, i have been with my boyfriend for four years but the last two years we have been a long distance relationship. We were fine and we shared a lot of good moments, and am sure he loves me so much. Unfortunately, we had a fight 3 weeks back about communication issues and he broke up with me. He is coming back to my country next week, Do you think he will want to see me after all those two years.?

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 13, 2016 at 11:23 pm

Hi Hellen,

If he’s annoyed with you, have you spent the last weeks focusing in yourself or did you keep reachin

Pretty

December 11, 2016 at 11:34 am

Hi, am going through alot as well, i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but the last 2 years we have been in a long distance relationship, he broke up with me 2 weeks ago because of communication issues, He is coming back to my country this week though. Do u think he will want to talk to me? Because am sure he loves me so much but he is so annoyed with me

EBR Team Member: Amor

December 13, 2016 at 6:53 pm

Hi Pretty,

If he’s annoyed with you, have you spent the last weeks focusing in yourself or did you keep reaching out to him, making him more annoyed? If he’s still annoyed. Why is he coming back in your country?

j

December 11, 2016 at 3:09 am

found out he told everyone we broke up when we promised no one should know about us. does this mean the future isnt there anymore since he went behind my back and told ppl without me knowing? i had to find out thru a friend..

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