How To Get A Long Distance Relationship Ex Boyfriend Back

5,236 thoughts on “The Complete Guide To Getting An Ex Boyfriend Back In A Long Distance Relationship”

Lori

September 24, 2015 at 2:10 am

Hi Chris. I met my ex online. He is 51 and I’m 44. He’s divorced with three kids, 16, 15 & 11. When we first met, he told me that he & his ex “get along” because they are coparenting and I fully supported that. He lives in Manhattan and they live in upstate NY in the former marital home, an hour and a half train ride for him. He travels to see them 3 out of 4 weekends each month. I live in PA. We talk first thing in the morning, text throughout the day and facetime nightly. I began having issues when our time in person started to become more than every two weeks (I would take time off of work, like Thursday and Friday when he had to go upstate. Sometimes he would come to PA). I started to feel like I wasn’t a priority in his life. He has told me that he needs to keep his ex happy because it will cause problems for him with his time with the kids. I’ve fought with him for more time and he tells me he is doing the best he can and that he needs me to support his situation. I feel like she has an emotional hold on him so recently I told him I’m giving him space, time apart from each other until he can find a way to incorporate me into his life, his whole life (he tends to keep that part of his life from me). His ex had an affair with his brother and that has destroyed his relationship with his brother. It’s hard for me to understand why he feels her happiness is his responsibility. I feel like her needs come before mine. He says I need to be patient and think of the big picture in terms of our future together, but he doesn’t articulate what exactly that means and how long things will go on as they are. The distance is a challenge for us and I know that if we didn’t have that challenge, I wouldn’t have an issue with not seeing him three out of four saturdays each month. When I started fighting, and I mean yelling out of frustration, breaking up with him, because I felt he wasn’t giving me the time I deserve, he went online behind my back and actually met a woman for drinks. All the while continuing our relationship and telling me how much he loves me and that I just need to support him in his situation. I decided to forgive him, and trust him, but it’s hard. I just want him to make me a priority in his life and focus on MY happiness because I am his partner. He didn’t want to accept the time apart and kept calling me and begging me and said he loves me and needs me in his life, but I screwed up and responded. Then the doubt he created in me arose again and we got into a huge fight and he ended it with me because he said “I don’t let up”! One day after begging me not to do the time apart thing. How do I start over with the NC rule at this point. And should I? We are great together when we’re together and when I’m not feeling slighted or as if he’s keeping things from me. I just want him to put me first. Is it possible??
Jey-Jey

September 22, 2015 at 1:51 am

Hi Chris!

Great site by the way! Lots of useful information here!

My ex just ended things with me a week ago, that was a Sunday. After we talk on the phone, we had a short convo in facebook then after my last message, i didn’t wait for him to respond and blocked him off in facebook. He can still text or call me but he didn’t. I decided i will start NC.

So by Wednesday, I had the urge to text him so I did, it was just saying if we can still think of ways to work things out which I followed by ringing his phone to ensure he didn’t block my number. But he didn’t respond to that.

So now it’s Monday, 5 days from my last text to him. I’m planning to do NC all the way with him. His reason for the breakup was he is confused about how he feels towards me, that it wasn’t the same as before, he also told me the line “It’s not you, it’s me.” By the way, we are in a long distance relationship.

Before everything happened, we already had plans for the future but it hurts me that he had a change of heart.

Do you think this is a lost cause? Or can I still try to get him back? Any advice.

Chris Seiter

October 1, 2015 at 6:38 pm

Definitely not a lost cause.

You definitely have a shot.

Nicole

September 20, 2015 at 6:49 am

Hey chris,
I really need your help.My boyfriend of 3 yrs is cheating on me we are in a LD from 1yr.Everything was ok 1-2 mnths back.But i noticed a sudden change in him.In short i found he is cheating on me.He really loved me and we were sooo close to each other.But now it seems like he really dun care if i stay or leave.I think he is in love with his new girl.It hrts alot.I want to get him back.To be honest i want to make him feel guilty.Bcz i really cant move on im trying my level best but i still love him like mad and i want him to atleast feel guilty.There is no hope.I know he has moved on to a new girl.Iam in my NC.Actually i started it again bcz i broke it for wishing him b’day.And at time i felt that he still miss me.First time when i started it he started calling me for the first few day but then he became silent till his b’day.I have started it again and its my 8th day.He didn’t tried to call or text me.Is there any chance?I love him alott?
Plz help me out..i would really appreciate it..or else i ll die..
MJ

September 19, 2015 at 6:28 pm

Hey Chris!

I messaged you on Facebook, and you said I should post a comment on your article instead because you can’t advice on Facebook. I want to make this super quick and short, so I can get a reply from you.

Both I and my ex are in college. We are about 2 hours apart. After tomorrow, I would have had no contact with him for a month. I’m just really nervous and scared.
(It’s been 2 months since we broke up. He did text me about 2 weeks after we broke up but it was super casual. I did not reply to him. We did see each other A LOT after the break up, cause we have mutual friends. I gave him the cold shoulder though.) So with all that said, Is it okay that I send him the first text message after so long? In the article you said it was fine, but this is going to be so out of the blue.

I plan on following what you said exactly, but I’m afraid of his response. I’m afraid he’ll think “something’s up” and be distant.
Gina

September 19, 2015 at 5:23 am

I think I just found my answer. In rereading this you say the type of woman who is cut out for a LDR is one that doesn’t have kids. I have 2 teenagers and his kids are in their 20s. His main reason for breaking up with me is saying that he belongs in his state and I belong in mine where we have our families. (My ex husband does not have contact with my kids, nor does his ex wife with his kids so we are both the sole parent that our kids depend on.) That plus I am waiting for my divorce to be finalized so I am technically not free yet. I think that is the bigger problem. Should I try to just contact him once the divorce has gone through or is it even worth it to hold on to any hope for this relationship?
Gina

September 19, 2015 at 4:35 am

Thank you. I am on day 8 of NC after he broke up with me from our LDR and I really appreciate your insight and all of the pages of advice you give on this website. I would love to follow this but at the same time he is going through the death of his father and some other stuff and I am wondering if I should still contact him and try to get back with him when he has made it clear it didn’t work out and he just wants to be friends. Is 30 days too soon when he is grieving and dealing with other stuff? I was a bit of a GNAT before I started NC so I think this break has been good for both of us and I wonder if its a good idea to try to do these steps while he is still a mess? Thank you.
Paola

September 18, 2015 at 5:24 am

Hello! So my now to be ex went off to college 13 hours away from home. We were each other’s first love and my first kiss. We dated for 2 years and a half. At first we tried the long distance since we had already done it besides college started. I went to Mexico for a year and we would talk everyday, but now that he’s in college, he decided to break things off. I actually visited him along with him family a month ago. It’s been 3 weeks since the break up and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to move on. After 2 days that he broke up with me, he would text me and lead me on and I would go along with it but then I would just end up getting my hopes up for nothing. 3 days ago, he even told me that we would get back but instead, he told me it was best if we didn’t. I agreed. His brother is getting married in a month and I was invited which means he will be in town in a month. Should I wait to reach out to him one he gets here? The reason we broke up was because he’s too jealous and because he wants to go out with his friends without having me to worry about. He has made it very clear that he doesn’t want a relationship with anyone during college so he dientes dump me for anyone. What should I do? I want him back so badly!
Thank you.
Asun

September 17, 2015 at 8:57 pm

Hi Chris,
Many thanks for this website. My story:

I met my boyfriend on the last year of university and we started right away. After the first year I went to another country for a Masters degree but we kept the relationship. During the last five years twice for 6 months I moved in with him were he was working in summer, but unfortunately, in autum, everyone had to move back to their parents home because we didn’t had no job and money to live together. This has been the situation for the last 5 years. I have to say that during all this years we had been seeing each other at least once every month, and we talked on the phone 3 times a day, plus phone messages. This last july when I went to visit him we were talking that I would finally move in to his island (I am from the mainland), we started to see which areas we were going to search for a house, to build a bussiness together…..and all of a sudden, in august he wanted to split up. He has been extremely stressed because he’s preparing to work for the government and need to pass some tests and that means that since november 2014 he has not had a proper life, he’s not working, only studying. But this august he had been partying quite a lot.
At first we broke on the phone and on whatsapp, really bad. After a week I went there to apologyse and see if we could start again, that I was finally moviing in with him, that I could help him study….his answer was that he had lost the “sparkle” of the relationship. I was devastated and went back home. When he left me in the airport we couldn’t stop crying and HE was kissing me. After another week, I called him, and begged him to explain me what happened, why all of a sudden, all the life plans we had were ashes. He told me: “right now I don’t want to be with you, I need to be selfish and look for my self”, but also that he’s afraid to regret later. That call was 8 days ago, so I have started the NC rule.
I feel empty enside. I had so much love and happiness only one month and a half ago and now all that is gone. What do you think?

Asun

November 7, 2015 at 8:00 pm

HI Chris

After a couple of months of the break up, we finally got the chance to talk, in person. It went really well, he was surprised with my change of attitude (he thought it was going to be a drama) and first thing he told me “wow, you look so beautiful”. The thing is the mixed signals (in fact I sent him a meme: your heart says “yes”; your head says “no”; you say “I don’t know”, he told me that those words defined him perfectly). I don’t know how to handle this. He was terrified (literally) that I was going to tell him that I was with another guy, but at the same time he is telling me to go out and have fun and don’t think too much about him. When I told him that I will wait until he clarifies his mind, I also told him that my patience has a limit and I might not be there if he wants to get back later. Reply? “what do you mean? I get shivers when you tell me that”. WHAT CAN I DO??? Please reply me, or give me the chance for a skype chat, I need answers
Asun

October 15, 2015 at 10:37 am

Hi Chris,

My ex didn’t make through all the no contact rule, he contacted me before. He wants to talk and I see he wants to text. My friends tell me he is not ok, very stressed, but doesn’t seem he still wants a relationship with me. Does he want to put me in the “friend-zone”? because that would be a big NO. I don’t know what to do 🙁

Bekah

September 13, 2015 at 6:42 pm

Hi Chris, I was hoping that you could help me understand my situation because it’s breaking my heart. My boyfriend and I had been in a long distance relationship for two and a half years. We met online but everything was great. We had our ups and downs but we loved each other very much. After I graduated I had the opportunity to go and see him so obviously I took it. We spent a couple days together and it was the most amazing experience of my life. When we had to say goodbye we were both very emotional. I’ve been home for two months and everything had been going great, or so I thought. He had told me everyday how much he loved me and how much I loved him. When we talked on the phone he would always tell me that I ruined him for other girls. Than a week ago everything hit the fan. Suddenly he just wants to be friends and is confused about his feelings and that there was someone else. Up until the day he actually dumped me he told me he didn’t want to break up with me and that he still loved me. His exact words were ” It is tearing me apart to be in love with someone that I can’t see everyday” but he just couldn’t let go of this girl no matter how many times I asked. I said it was me or her, and he chose her. The day we broke up he still couldn’t tell me what he wanted. After fighting he finally said I know what I want and I don’t love you anymore. Whenever we would fight he would say things out of frustration and I feel like that’s what was happening, but I don’t know for sure.he literally started dating the girl the day we broke up. We talk but it’s so weird. He told me he doesn’t love me anymore and that this new girl helped him realise that he could have someone closer, but he still wants to be friends. I am trying so hard to let go but I can’t. He’s so cold toward me and told me that it was a long time coming, but yet he was telling he loved me and wanted me up until the very last minute, now all of a sudden he doesn’t love me? I sent him a letter with a picture of us from the trip. I sent it before everything happened and when he got it he burned it and then showed me and tried to tell me “I didn’t think it would hurt your feelings” I do want him back, but how am I supposed to compete when I’m not there. We have so much in common and we were so good together.. Now he’s acting like we didn’t have anything and like I don’t matter to him at all.. It just hurts so bad and I don’t know what to do..
Help me

September 12, 2015 at 2:19 pm

Hey Chris,
I met this guy in NY on vacation and wasn’t really that into him at the time. We were never dating but we did plan to date when I moved there. Basically I was insecure and my insecurities made him feel like he was good enough and he started to pull away. In July, he told me he liked someone else. In August he said he wants to be invested in her (not dating) and that we should be friends but he’s not sure how he’ll feel when I get there. Two weeks later, something happened between them and they’re no longer dating or whatever they were doing. He hit on me, sexually. I just ignored it. He’ll randomly send me pictures sometimes which is what he used to do. But I told him the other day I missed him. He didn’t respond well. I’m now constantly initiating contact and we text very briefly. I’m not as insecure as I was but I think he might still see me that way.
He asked me to be his friend August 11. I’ve been talking to him steadily and being there for him since then(not that he has asked me. I just go out of my way) Is it too late? Will No Contact work? Should I do mixed signals and friend zoning him? And when should I be willing to walk away?

Help me

September 12, 2015 at 2:22 pm

I meant to say he felt like he wasn’t good enough. He also said when he pulls away it’s hard for him to be interested again but you never know what could happen. I’m tempted to tell him how I feel. But I’m sure that was part of the problem. Please reply. I’m doing no contact for 21 days until you do.

Baz

September 12, 2015 at 1:14 pm

Hey, Chris!

Thank you for sharing info in your website – that’s one of the most complete I’ve seen!!
So I followed the plan pretty much and I’ve been talking to my ex bf since last week. He always replies within 15 min – 2h. Despite being positive, he’s always brief, cold and objective. Like “Nice. Good for you”, no matter how exciting, average or boring my messages are. When I say “catch you later, need to go. Have a nice day”, he says “You too. Have a nice day, dude”. Like really distant.

I am not confident to keep going with the compliment message or even i miss you message. When I used the jealousy message, he simply didnt respond. What should I do now?
Once again, thank you very much!
Emily

September 11, 2015 at 4:10 pm

Hey Chris!

So here is my situation:

My ex and I were together for about 9 months. We had a pretty great relationship. He moved 3 weeks ago to the other side of the United States to attend school. We discussed we would take it a day at a time and me coming to see him, and working on our relationship when he would come home. He told me all these sweet things before he left , making me believe we were in a relationship. I heard from him the first week and he texted me saying he loved me and was going to call me the next day. We talked on the phone for about 10 minutes and after that I didnt hear from him for about a week (I did not contact him) I finally texted asking him if he didn’t want to talk to me and he said

“My name. Actually, no.” I’m busy living my life and going to school. I don’t know how to make it clear that you and I arent together.”
Like what?! This is not what we discussed. I of course blew up and was upset. Like how is it that easy for you not to talk to someone you love? I ran into his mother actually and even his best friends and non of them have hardly heard from him. I felt like he would always distant himself in situations he can’t avoid. I just dont get why he all of a sudden is ignoring me and I feel like I could get “ghosted”
I did text him a week later and said “I hope you’re well and I miss talking to my best friend.” Since then I am about 9 days into the no contact rule. I do see him post on social media frequently. I just don’t know how to make myself visible to him. This is such a horrible feeling. I love him so much and he is my best friend. I just don’t get why he’s doing this and I need help.

Thanks!
Candy

September 10, 2015 at 8:24 pm

Hi Chris, I’ve been on and off dating my now (semi) ex boyfriend for about a year. He has broken up with me several times, once for his ex, once on vacation…and another time because he simply didn’t wanna be committed. He is deployed currently, and before he deployed we talked about where we stood and we confessed that we did love each other and wanted to make it work.

I knew he was always jealous, but I told him a male friend was taking me out for dinner and he freaked out. He accused me of using him for money, and I disrespected him. He essentially ended things over facebook chat. Since then, he has deleted me, and unfollowed my instagram. I deleted my Facebook now, and haven’t checked my instagram. He redownloaded snap chat onto his phone, and he snap chatted me this morning (it’s been 12 hours since he sent it, and I viewed it 4 hours ago) all he said was he was reminding me to mail back his things to where he is deployed. Which he told me to do over chat before I deleted my account.

Is this his way of trying to communicate? I was already breaking down today, and I almost cracked and messaged him. Then I saw his message.

Any advice? He won’t be home from several months, still. Thank you.
Adriana

September 8, 2015 at 5:49 pm

Ok, I cheated on him emotionally, not physically which is basically the same. He left me because he said his insecurities are driving him crazy, that he needs peace of mind and he can’t cope with everything (still have to figure what it means). He went away for 28 days and I knew nothing about him and basically kept pestering him with small emails. We spoke after he went back to work (Note: we used to live and work in between three continents) we spoke as we did every day, without fail for three years. He sent me a message a couple of days ago saying the emptiness is easier to accept since he had it for years. He states the true problem with love is the great feeling when is working and the complete opposite when it goes wrong. Last thing I asked him is where is he going when his days off come up (next week) he said back to the UK – I am in USA. So, how can I approach the NC rule and then try to send him the text msg when we are continents apart? Also, he told me he’d been thinking of coming back home but he knows the insecurities and doubts will resurface at one point and we will drift apart even more. I am totally lost. We love each other but I don’t know what to do!
Amy

September 7, 2015 at 4:34 pm

Hey Chris!

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years, and he broke up with me about 2 months ago. We are both currently in college, but our colleges are not that far apart. He said time and distance was the real deal breaker. Throughout the year we didn’t get to see each other often, but we thought that would change for summer. However, we were both working throughout the summer and only got to see each other once. We discussed this, and we realized we wouldn’t be able to see each other until the last few weeks of summer vacation. At that point, he said he didn’t even feel like we were even in a relationship anymore.

What sucks about this entire situation is we both have the same circle of friends. As we discussed, both our schedules freed up in August. There were many hangouts, and it was kind of sad and awkward to see him so much. We never had the chance to have a NC period. Side note, I also made the mistake of asking him to give us another chance (a week after our break up), but he said he “didn’t think it was a good idea”. During all those hangouts, he kept talking to as if nothing happened. He even texted me a few times, but I constantly ignored him.

Now college has started, and I’m following your advice. The last time I saw him was Aug. 20th, so I’m waiting till Sep 20th to initiate a conversation with him. But I’m really nervous…
By Sep 20th, it will have been more then 2 months since the break up. Wouldn’t he have moved-on by then? Also, we’re in college. A month is enough time for him to get into the routine of college, and he may just prefer not having a girlfriend? The strongest emotion that’s needed, is for him to miss me. But he saw me so many times after the break-up, and I highly doubt that emotion will occur anymore :/ I don’t know what to do.

You may be asking, what’s going to be different in our relationship if we do get back together. Well, like I said, our colleges aren’t far apart (1 hour to be exact). And almost every other day I have work, and my work place is about 10 minutes from his college. I have been at his college about 5 times by now, but I’ve never seen him. I have only spent time with my other friend that attend that college. I genuinely believe that our relationship will work out if we just give it one more shot.

All advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for this article, Chris!
Katherine

September 5, 2015 at 7:31 pm

Hi Chris,
here’s hoping you’ll reply. So I met my ex boyfriend last year in my hometown, I live in Peru, he lives in England. He usually comes here every 3 months because he has a company here. At first we took it for something nice that happened for 2 weeks but we decided to keep in touch over skype. I was heading to Europe in january and after much thought he decided he wanted to spend new year’s together and since then we started to date seriously. In February he stayed here until June and we started dating seriously and decided that we could do LD for 3 months till he came now in September (he stays till december). Everything seemed to be going well he even sent me flowers for my birthday two weeks ago which is a huge gesture cause he even asked my friends for help. So when this monday he wanted “to talk” over skype I was confused. The distance has made him think things through last wekend and he thought it was best if we were no longer in a relationship because it was not fair for us. He wanted to do this first over skype becaue he didn’t want it to be out of the blue ruining our first week together. He still wants to talk face to face and is coming the 19th of september, so roughly two weeks. A day after we broke up over skype I thought it was best to not be in no contact and we haven’t spoken since. Is it ok if I do that till we see each other? Or should I start the no contact after we’ve spoken face to face? I think we definately need to talk things face to face so I’m not sure how to proceed. Hopefully you can give me lights on this. Thank you so much.
Cher

September 5, 2015 at 1:02 pm

Hi Chris!

So I did no contact on my boyfriend bc we were fighting a lot; we were not broken up. we are in a LDR (6 years) have been together 13 years. Anyways, we agreed to talk on Sept 1st and he called me. I could tell he was acting weird & found out he had started dating someone else over past 2 weeks. I immediately freaked & drove there & did the you love me not her thing and acted like a crazy person begging him! He said he loves me but he wanted to do what he wanted for awhile and maybe we could try later but right now he didn’t want to. I was devastated! He has sinced texted me making sure I’m ok but his texts are very short & vague. I was sending him book length text messages & sometimes he responds. Last night I had enough. He did the same thing about 6 years ago where he wanted to play around and I waited & we got back together. I honestly feel he’s afraid to commit to which he says he won’t commit bc we fight. I don’t know what to do! I will not sit by while he runs around again; I should mean more to him than that! I’m so confused! I was thinking of doing NC on him again but just completed it less than a week ago! Please give me some guidance. Thank you.
S

September 5, 2015 at 12:16 pm

Hi Chris,
My LD boyfriend has stopped responding to me 2 months ago, which was his way of breaking up with me I guess. I tried NC but failed. I send him messages that he continues to ignore. I can see if he’s online and has seen my messages… I don’t know what to do anymore. My longest NC was 2 weeks. Should I try NC again or just give up?
Elly

September 5, 2015 at 10:40 am

Hi Chris!

Thank you for having this site going. I feel so supportive by just reading your articles. You are doing a great job. It’s like you being a dumped girls guru or even angel.

So here is my story that I need your advice about. Me and my boyfriend, ex-boyfriend now, are from different countries (I’m not a native English speaker). We met online, and clicked from the first text. It was feeling so right for both of us. He said that it was God who put us together. It was just a perfect relationship. We were best friends, soulmates. In a few months we met in reality and things got even better. He said that our week together was the best week of his life. We began to discuss marriage and life together. We talked everyday via Skype, we texted everyday, we had phone sex. In a month he got promoted at work and everything changed within two days. He said he got to work and he felt it wasn’t the right time for us. He broke up with me forgetting that he promised to love me forever having plans to marry me next year. I was devastated. I didn’t see your site at that time, so I texted him in a week. His response was the same: “I love you, but now I have to work”. In a week he sent me “I miss you” text. I responded “miss you too” back, but no answer. In two weeks I visited the dating site we met at, and found his profile. I got upset and sent him “you couldn’t have hurt me more” text. No answer. However, he stopped to log in to the site. All this time after breakup I dated guys and non of them was even close to him. I didn’t feel connection to any of them. So after one date when I got disappointed again, I texted him “I miss you. Be happy with or without me”. We began to text saying that we both missed each other and couldn’t forget each other trying to get over through dating others. We agreed to text again. But next day and day after he was silent. I sent him “Have a good day” text. Still nothing. I got furious. First in my 28 years I got that furious because of the hurt that I sent him a very bad text saying that he had no right to call himself a man after all this because he was pathetic. He gave me an immediate response that he was at work all this time and I had no right to act like that. I felt sorry. We had an argument but agreed to have a fresh start on the weekend. I texted him first. The conversation was intense. At the end he said that he agreed to have a fresh start, but ha didn’t have enough time for me because of work and he would be dating other girls while talking to me so he asked me to be understanding. He beat me with every word he said. I said it was over. In two weeks he got back to the dating site, visited my profile (yes, I got back too to forget him), and now he spends days there. It’s so painful seeing him there. How to understand his behavior? Should I get over him or try NC and contact him again when he has his birthday in November? Or he hurt me with the only purpose to get rid of me?
Thank you for reading this. We broke up 2.5 months ago, and it still hurts.
Elly
Liezl

September 5, 2015 at 5:44 am

Hi Chris! I need your help. Please give me some advice.
My LD ex and I broke up this past Monday and he didn’t talked to me since then and I also didn’t send him message until now. This is our story, I met him in online dating sites last January and then he decided to visit me in person last February because he said that he is really interested on me…and when we met each other in person we proved to ourselves that we really liked each other. He is an american and he lives in China. This is really what I’ve felt after his first visit I still have doubt on him I don’t know and I ask myself is he really serious to me? I was afraid maybe he doesn’t like me that much. I admit that I always over thinking things too much and also long distance relationships is really hard. So what I did, I made a back up, I was just afraid that maybe he’s not going to serious on me. I just want to know him well first. But I didn’t expect that one day, he found out my Skype password and he read that Im still talking to other guy but I ddint mean to fool my boyfriend and I tell him my reason and he forgive me. From the bottom of my heart I am not really a two timer or stupid girl. I was just that maybe he’s not serious and I end up broken hearted again. I explained that all to him and he forgive me and things went our okay and he visit me two times again March and April and he spent time with me atleast one week. I can tell that he really loves me for all the efforts that he made and even he is very busy with his work he never failed to contact me everyday and let me know where and what he’s doing everyday. And he introduce me to all his friends and he is very proud on me because he share our pictures and moments together in Facebook. I like him so much because he is really honest person and he always made an effort to work our relationship and he always makes me feel happy. From then, everything is okay until we gave each others Facebook password. Then one day, I didn’t expected that he was so upset with me again, it’s because he checked my Facebook history and he saw that I viewed a profile of my friend which is boy and that boy once sent me a flirty message which is my boyfriend read that before. I viewed his profile because I was only looking for a picture for fun which I would going to send to my friend… I try to explain everything and my conscience is clean that I really never talked to him anymore. I promise with all my heart I really never talked to other guy when I was with my boyfriend. I am really serious to him. But he didn’t believe me anymore and he didn’t trust me. After of what happened he’s starting to be cold at me anymore and then he always said that he can’t forget of what happened until last Monday he wants break up… How can I prove to him that I never really playing games with him? That I am really serious to him? What should I do so that I can get him back? 

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