Exactly How To Use Text Messages To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

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kuulei

April 13, 2014 at 4:45 am

What if he doesn’t text? He’s never really gotten into the texting thing. He’ll reply to email and phone calls and is very friendly and open.

admin

April 13, 2014 at 4:59 pm

Email will have to work then.

desired woman

April 12, 2014 at 5:32 pm

I broke up with my ex last january. I havent got any contact. I cought him cheating but instead of talking to me, he never talk to me at all even a single sorry. I want her back but hes with other girl. I send sms to him once but i told him its wrong send. Then one time i got txt from him saying to call him and when I ask why he said its wrong send. What will i do? I really want him back.

admin

April 13, 2014 at 4:35 pm

If he cheated on you what are your reasons for wanting him back?

depressed

April 12, 2014 at 2:18 pm

Hi,
My boyfriend recently broke up with me.He was being abusive and i compared him to my ex.This is the reason of breaking up.I tried covering up for that.It was his b.day the next day after we fought.I took a cake at his place arranged a surprise with all his friends.But instead he started behaving bad with me.Even his friends were stunned with his behaviour.
I tried to call him but he has blocked me with some stupid blocking app.I texted him.But he replied using slangs.Today i went and dropped all the gifts he had given me.He removed me from Facebook.
I still want him back.I miss him.And i want to know what he is doing.I love him alot.A minute without him seems like years without him.please tell me what to do.please.

depressed

April 13, 2014 at 1:29 am

Everything felt beautiful with him.Once I was talking to him about the fact that we should not fight anymore and breakup every time like a 12 year old.i remember him saying “hey!i love you and don’t worry even if its after a month I will come back to you eventually”
Well the thing is that I feel a lack in communication brings a distance between two people.Im scared of letting him go.We had a lot together and everytime we were out together,or talking or in bed I knew he loved me.Please I really really need your help so that i can bring him back as soon as possible.I love him.And he is all i want.

Brenda

April 11, 2014 at 7:58 pm

So I’m 17 days down no contact from my ex boyfriend but I was wondering if this included Facebook. Obviously I’m not sending him messages or posts directly, but I’m posting positive things about going out and things I’ve been doing on my own wall of which he can see because we’re still Facebook friends. Is this ok? Or should I go silent on Facebook too?

admin

April 12, 2014 at 4:15 pm

Its PERFECT! keep it up.

Please Help

April 11, 2014 at 6:46 am

My boyfriend and I were together 5 yrs and have a 3 yr old daughter together. We broke up after i made him chose between a breakup and marriage and well here we are. He has been dating his new girlfriend for 2 months now. He had picked up with her where he and I left off and even now makes comments about her that he use to make about me. I am trying to get him back and save my family but he has introduced this new woman to our child and I am unsure how to take that. Im really beginning to freak out and am in need of your guidance.

admin

April 12, 2014 at 3:45 pm

Ultimatums are a bad idea. Though he should have probably stepped up.

Can I ask you what his reasons were for not committing?
Please Help

April 13, 2014 at 9:05 am

He wanted a women who cooks and cleans however because I work 40+ hours a week I was unable to do this so I hired a housekeeper. He took a housekeeper as a sign that im unable to upkeep our home myself.

ig

April 11, 2014 at 1:16 am

When i met my boyfriend everything was wonderful. We live 3hrs away, distance was an issue w/ him. I told him we could take turns driving to see each other. We text an talked for hours. He told me he felt like we were soulmates. He wanted to share everything and the greatest part of life withe me. Everything was so magical, he cried on the phone saying he wanted me there with him. then he thought i was checking up on him oneday, which i was not. He stopped talking to me, wont answer my calls or text. Four days later i found out through a mutual friend what he thought and why he stopped talking to me, now he says I’m not for him. I don’t understand everything felt so real. Don’t understand what happened to him. I know he is not seeing anyone. I have never cried so much.
mimi

April 9, 2014 at 9:47 pm

so I was recently dating a guy that seemed so perfect until I noticed him being funny when he’s phone would ring around me. I was suspicious got the number and managed to stalk the caller on a social network and turned out to be a girl. She had pictures with him all over her page so I confronted him. I was made to look like the silly girlfriend with trust issues until he finally accepted it was his ex and she couldn’t let go. Unfortunately it was a lie because some pictures were recent and he couldn’t explain in detail so I dumped him. its been a month now tried to be strong but I never git answers and I miss him, which is quite stupid. to make it worse I drunk dialed him a couple of times. what can I do? please help
Qua

April 9, 2014 at 11:13 am

I am finish my Nc. He contacted me during the Nc I send a text but he has not respond
Simone....Believer....THANK YOU CHRIS (I need your opinion)

April 8, 2014 at 1:56 am

I was mortified and filled with anxiety to the point that it was affecting my life. First of all this guy and I were not a couple but intimately involved. We had a bad ending where honestly he was in the wrong. During the argument, I hung up on him and that for him was unforgivable. I attempted to contact him about three months after and it went very wrong, he was cold and dismissive, down right cruel even though I really needed his help…I couldn’t believe it but still I apologized and let him know that the door was opened, he never entered. Recently I started to experience extreme anxiety again, something just felt unresolved and unsettled. I found your page and it really caught my attention because it made sense…still I was scared because of the initial rejection a few months ago. Ironically I remembered his birthday so this is what happened:
Me:Hey,I realised your birthday just passed, just wanted to wish you happy birthday. I hope your life is going well. Be good.

Him:Who is this? Thank you for the greeting (he didnt have my number in his phone)

Me:(told him it was me) just wishing you a happy birthday.

Me:I remembered some old stuff that made me chuckle. I’m sorry about the bad ending and wish we could take it back. Take care of yourself.

Him: That’s ok,I have no bad blood. I saw you in the mall one day.

Me: I’m happy you feel that way. Perhaps we can catch up so if you ever see me again don’t forget to say hey..

THE END (He didnt reply but that’s ok)
I feel much better because I have better closure
because life is too short to hate. How did I do and what’s going through is head now?

admin

April 8, 2014 at 5:48 pm

I think you did fine!

Seriously, you were classy and you did great.

sara

April 7, 2014 at 3:43 pm

Okay so me and my ex were in a long distance relationship. Everything was great and we fell in love with eachother. We text eachother all the time and talking to him everyday and every minute. Here’s the thing he’s all the way in England and I’m In America. So after awhile I started to feel as if he didnt want to speak to me and I asked him about it. I said is there something up or am I being stupid. He got so mad. And he’s like you always think somethings up this and that.so we didnt talk. Then one morning I text him and he said he fingered his ex last night. That literally broke me. At that second I said its over. And he was all fine by me I don’t care. I said he cheated on me and he’s like no that’s not cheating. So we talked about it and I said I acted on anger but I don’t want this to be over but he eventually made a decison and said I can’t take the long distance anymore. I don’t know what to do what he did is just horrible and his ex cheated on him before so its like really her??? But I love him so much. I can’t stop thinking about him. Everything is about him. I messages him Saturday morning saying good mornig and he never responded. Please help me someone I’m a wreck right now.

sara

April 7, 2014 at 3:49 pm

He also said he has no feelings for his ex and he wanted to do that to hurt me but he said he didn’t know it would hurt me this much. He apologized for it. But all I see is him cheating on me. He said they didn’t even talk while he fingered her and that more could’ve happened but he thought of me. And he says I’m a lad my hormones?? Cause we aren’t intimate given the long distance? He said he still wants me but he’s not sure about us. He says he still Cates for me. I love him so much I just want him back in my life

Confused.

April 6, 2014 at 8:05 pm

My boyfriend and I dated for 13 months and broke up last December 2nd. Right after we broke up I called him several times asking him the reason for why he broke up with me (he broke up with me over skype) and if he wanted to meet me in London (we were doing long distance). He told me he couldn’t see me because he would “cave” in and we would be back in square one. I know he was under a lot of stress during the time. I drunk called him 30 days after he broke up with me, saying that “i’d always love him…” he then blocked my number afterwards. It’s now been over four months and I really want to become his friend. I don’t want him back because of the way he treated me, but I need to see him to get closure and I feel like he owes me an explanation. He has unblocked my number, should I text or call him just asking how he is? I don’t want him to get the wrong idea.
Elise

April 4, 2014 at 6:33 pm

I have been dating my boyfriend (now ex) for 6 years on and off. I am 21 and he is 23. We don’t fight too much, mostly bicker but we have fallen into a bad habit of spending too much time together. We see each other most thursdays-sundays. He out of the blue has broken it off with me (as he did last december when we took a break for 9 months). I stupidly begged for him back (humiliating) but I just feel if I don’t try, it won’t happen. He also told me he is forcing himself to leave me because he is afraid our fighting will never stop. I have come up with changes we can make (like seeing each other less and having more time for ourselves). He has told me several times in the past few days since he left me that he is going to block my number but still hasn’t. I realize I should ignore him in order to make him miss me, but part of me feels if I ignore him and stop talking to him, he will go away for ever..HELP

admin

April 6, 2014 at 4:46 pm

He won’t go away forever. Besides, if he did then that just proves he isn’t willing to fight for you.

ashley

April 4, 2014 at 6:30 am

ive written an email i need your help iam so confused its not even funny your a guy so i need your opinion about my ex there is more detail but i didnt want to put it all in this comment
Tylen

March 30, 2014 at 7:27 pm

So it’s been almost a year since we were together. We have been on and off for about 4 years a few months ago I found out he was dating someone he was friends with from hs they wounded up going to the same community college. I left the state, I want to know if it’s too late to get h back I think about him everyday and I cry like there is no tomorrow I don’t want my happiness to be at the expense of someone else’s lost but I love him always have. After we initially broke up I started dating someone else he came back and was kinda upset with me for doing so and I decided to tl date both of them they knew if and I told him it was he ause he was shaky. How ever he decided to end it again and since then I have texted him and have been ignored every day. About month ago he hit me with the I have a gf I can’t talk to you anymore line and I haven’t even attempted to reply since . I can’t , I really don’t know what to do . I need help. I feel as though she and her friends kinda played off if what was going on in order to get him in that situation but you never know. I just think if was an outlet and I want to communicate with him about it. I miss him much please help.
MC

March 30, 2014 at 6:10 pm

I really need your help. A few months ago, i kissed a guy who wasnt my boyfriend. I read the mistake scale and determined it was 4 points. I was able to keep what happened to myself, but eventually my boyfriend figured out i was hiding something and i confessed what i did. He was really angry, but he said he would give me another chance. As of now, we’re still together but i’m not sure what i should do to gain back his trust. He’s made a few requests, very similar to some of your advice that i’ve read. But i cant accomplish the NC period because we’re still together and i also see him everyday at school. I dont want to lose him.

AdviceGirl92

April 6, 2014 at 12:26 am

Hi MC,

I read your post and I think I can help.

Your boyfriend gave you a golden opportunity to win his trust back. It’s by giving you a the second chance and to be together. You both obviously care about each other but Actions speak louder than words and only time will show him how committed you are. Tell him that you are committed and then show him you are!

I’m quite curious to these “requests” he is making. What kind of requests?
As for the No Contact Rule, I don’t see why you would have to enact the NC Rule. This is the crucial time to make things right!

It’s seems like you can let go or accept the mistake that you made & it was a mistake. We are all human and make them. But if the cross is too heavy to bear, maybe you need to have a conversation with your guy to really clear the air.

I hope I helped.

All the best,
AdviceGirl92

AA

March 27, 2014 at 10:53 pm

we didnt break up because we were friends with benefits. But when i told him i wanted more, he said he didnt see me as the one, when i talked as if we will not see each other again. ( we live in separate countries )He had tears in his eyes, and he said we will.

Next day i texted him asking him if he felt any attachment at all, he didnt reply so i called him. But he made a joke about why i say its the last time i am talking to him. I put the phone down on him. So can i still apply the no contact rule??
sarah bolton

March 27, 2014 at 9:41 pm

hey i need some help. my boyfriend texted me today and said the we should go on a walk, we were walking and everything was going okay and then he said we needed to talk. i knew where that was going he said that he dose not feel like he can trust me and that our relationship is nothing and that we should break up, he went on to explain why and he begain to cry. i was really upset and emotional as well and pushed him away i didnt understand and i felt like he had been using me the entire relationship, i walked away and he called after me and tried to grab my hand i told him not to talk to me and to leave me alone he proceded to try and talk to me and say he was sorry and that we can work things out, he called out to me that we need to talk tomorrow morning about it and see what we think over the night i told him okay and im willing to talk to him tomorrow about it. i love him and i dont want to loose him weve been together for 9 months. i would like some help with coming up with things to say to him , i have two ideas one being that we can work things out as a couple and work on some things or to take a one month break and to focus on ourselves and try to work things out when we are able to. i dont want to loose him please help
Tshidi

March 27, 2014 at 8:47 pm

Hi its Tshidi here,2 years and 6 months since I broke up with my ex boyfriend!He called me a year after our break up apologizing for hurting me and asked if we could be friends,but everytime I try and get closer he pushes me away,but its ok for us to communicate when he feels like it.This year on feb I gathered strength and called him up and asked if we could meet up.He wasted no time,asked me to meet him up 2 days later!I went to his house and I told him that I still love him and want him back!I even asked what were the chances of us getting back together and he said 50/50!He was so happy to see me though,he was even glowing. He was dancing for me and staff and he started reminding me of the 1st time we made love and things I said to him,I couldn’t even remember those things but he did,he reminded me of the things I had forgotten.

I slept over at his place and yes we had sex,the following day he didn’t want me to go home,but I left anyhow.He took me home,dropped me off and kissed me saying that he’ll call me later and he did call me before he went to sleep!I didn’t hear from him for a week. So I was around his neighborhood late in the afternoon,I called him to come pick me up and take me home and he did that,but now its been a month since we last spoke. Today I sent him this sms (D day God helps me 2 stop loving u I’ll b d happiest woman alive n I swear I’ll neva luv anada man d way I luv u,unless dy vow 2 spent d rest of their lives wit me n marry me!!Loving u hurts cos I knw dat u dnt luv me bt u jst dnt wanna say it n missing u hurts evn more cos I knw ur nt thinking of me.I’ve tried so hard 2 stop loving u,2 4get u n gt ova u by ol means,bt its nt working,only God cn intervene n help me on dis1.)and he hasn’t responded. I find myself so confused by his actions,because one minute he acts like he’s coming back to me and the next its like I’m chasing the wind and he’s not interested!

I am really confused help,what am I missing here?
Jen

March 27, 2014 at 2:16 am

dated 1 1/2 years, i was pushing for a commitment and more definitiveness for the future.. things got heated and it ended fairly quick with little to no emotion during the breakup. “i dont know what i want” was the response when the pressure started to be pushed on him for the past couple months. ex started texting 4 days after breakup.. even threw in a i miss you. i didn’t buy into it and never begged or questioned the breakup. had lc for 3 days, then i cut him off and told him NC due to me having to move on (ugh regret that comment). jumped the gun (ugh again) on the old memory text after only one week.. response was receptive and pretty much mimicked exacty what i said. i didn’t follow up with another text. now what? leave the seed planted and do 30 days?
Sarah

March 26, 2014 at 6:23 pm

He texted me yesterday after 3-4 months of absolutely no contact at all. He said “You crossed my mind and I’ve been wondering how you’re doing. I hope all is well.” We were very hostile to each other the last time we talked so I believe this was very intentional of him to text me. I replied after a few hours, “Hey, ____, I’m doing really well, [casual but happy comment about the weather]! How are you?”

However now it has been 24 hours and he hasn’t responded. I’m a little afraid that maybe he has my number blocked and never got my text? but I do not want to text a second time and appear too eager I guess. Help??

admin

March 27, 2014 at 11:03 pm

He is probably just ignoring you but if he did block you then don’t woryy b/c I just wrote something on what to do if that happens to you.

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