What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

2,564 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”

verge

January 6, 2021 at 2:30 pm

My first BF left me, I found him dishonest, I was not able to celebrate with him our first monthsary, I thought as what he said he was busy with his business to find out he had a girlfriend already, I was too mad, sending him harsh and threating words that if he will not see me in person, I can do something against him..then he said yes and at the end he still blocked me, he blocked me in messenger but friends in FB, still there is a chance he will gonna see me in person as what he promised? Thanks

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

January 6, 2021 at 8:24 pm

Hi Verge, honestly I would suggest that you move on, this is not healthy or good relationship and you mention it being a month? It really isnt worth your time when he was already in a relationship with someone else.

ZR

January 3, 2021 at 4:55 pm

Hello,

I was dating my bf for a few months and he broke up with me, two weeks later he came back and we met only once. It was November lockdown so we kept in touch but I felt like I was putting in alot of effort, he always had excuses on why he would go silent. Anyways, yesterday I asked why he is always hot and cold with me, then he messaged me another excuse and before I could respond he blocked me on WhatsApp and his phone. I messaged him from my mums phone and he said ‘ please stop’ so I did. But 20 minutes later he message my phone and said I’ll call you tomorrow xx. Then I responded but he didnt call me and tbh I dont know why he messaged me with hope. So weird.

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

January 15, 2021 at 10:43 pm

Hi ZR, I would say that you are being too available for him to be able to contact (not letting him chase you) I know this is hard when there are lockdowns etc going on but you need to find a way to make him think you are too busy for him. I would suggest that you do not reach out to him for at least 45 days now, and only on your own phone do not use your mothers phone again.

Lenovia

December 21, 2020 at 2:07 pm

He blocked me and bere blocking he said that he will delete ma number….I haven’t done anything wrong….he is so stubborn and wants me to make the first move always…what should I do
Will he come back? We were in a relationship for last 5 years…I don’t know actually what is the reason behind this breakup…we just had a small fight but how could that be a reason

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

December 22, 2020 at 6:54 pm

Hi Lenovia, so for him to end things he must have been considering breaking up or been unhappy for some time, as you said you had a small fight – is this one small fight in a number of small fights recently? I would suggest if you want him back then you need to start following the program, starting with a no contact where you read articles and work on yourself, ending where you reach out to your ex with a text suggested by Chris in his texting articles.

Annie

December 14, 2020 at 5:17 pm

My ex and I were very happy. He told me I was the one fast forward a week and he said he as unsure about the distance. We spoke. All ok. Then he text I’ve been thinking and want to be alone. Full block out.

I did send email from my buisness account saying I understand. Not sad or angry ( lie) and to reach out when he feels ready. I am heart broken. Side note, friends for 26 years

Is it over or is he processing? No argument or bad treatment from either side prior to blocking

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

December 14, 2020 at 9:08 pm

Hi Annie, I really tell you what he is doing, but right now he feels that it is best for him to be alone. I would suggest in the mean time that you work on yourself, read the articles about how to be ungettable and just focus on yourself. You are forced into a no contact minimum as you are blocked, but be sure that you wait 45 days before attempting to reach out to him if you want to follow this program

Honey

December 3, 2020 at 6:52 am

Hi , My partner at the time (now ex) have been together for 18 years. We have 5 beautiful daughters. We have parted numerous times in the last 8 years as he was chatting with other girls via calls , messages & emails (that I know of). During those times , we both were running back to one another . This time round , he has blocked me . At first it was & maybe still is , driving me nuts . Why ? Because I know , I love him . Why ? If I was & have been mistreated . I cant understand in why we just can’t be mature about the break up & to still communicate for our daughters only . Why does that seem so hard for him to do so ? As I have 3 of our daughters & he has 2 of our daughters . What should I do ?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

December 4, 2020 at 10:31 pm

Hi Honey, are your daughters not old enough to communicate with you and their father without you both needing to speak to each other for a short while? I would suggest that you follow a 45 day no contact for the reason you are blocked and also that he may feel guilt for his dishonest behaviour. While I get it is frustrating it is just about being the bigger person and knowing you deserve better.

Sharan

November 19, 2020 at 11:54 pm

My boyfriend cheated on me for an year but now only i came to know about this…. and i told him that I still love him and rebuild our relationship… He said that he won’t need any relationship now…. but I was very depressed that I contacted him again and again….. now he blocked me fully! Its been just 2 days…. I gave him soo much love but he left me helpless…. he even blocked all my friends.. I still wish and hope that one day he’ll come back…… what shall i do now? Plz reply……We have mutual friends but they don’t talk with him….. He left me crying and it was heartbreaking!

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

November 20, 2020 at 5:16 pm

Hi Sharan, it is hard to find out you have been betrayed. You need to go into a 45 day no contact, stop speaking to your friends about him or trying to reach out to him at all for 45 days. Work on yourself, work on getting over the pain you are feeling and understand that this had nothing to do with you, this is his wrong doing and he has an issue.

Harry

November 15, 2020 at 1:08 pm

My bf was a committed type with me, introduced me to his friends, agreed to whatsoever i wanted him to do (like removing girls from his life which were threatening our relation) , helping me study and we had a 1 year relationship (couple fights during curfew because of just chatting not talking). He was very posessive and insecure so i didn’t talk to guys or had male frnds. He even deleted his accounts so that i may delete my account and whn i did he again reinstalled them and denied to delete thm again. On our frst anniversary i got angry over him denying to delete thm so i reinstalled mine and he suddenly got mad at me and accused me “i wanted to hangout and cheat with guys because curfew is over and i m going back to clg so i reinstalled to catchup guys” and blocked me from whattsapp. Then i gpt angry and made him block me from other sites too. He didn’t contacted me after that and i also blocked him from everywhere. Idk where will my situation lead.
Sally

November 14, 2020 at 11:19 pm

Hi. my boyfriend of 11 months recently blocked me after I asked him why there has been a decline in conversation between us for some days. He just flared up and blocked me on phone and WhatsApp. I am confused as to what I really did to him for that decision?. Could it be he never loved me? We had just get intimate for the first time a few days before and I feel used. What should I do?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

November 15, 2020 at 12:51 pm

Hi Sally, it seems that he pulled back after being intimate which is common. Follow a no contact and reach out after 30 days and see what happens if you follow Chris’ methods

Priscilla

November 14, 2020 at 12:06 pm

So was dating this guy & things were going well & appeared like they were getting serious. Until he began being quite off with me.

So I decided to send him message asking him what we are doing as I need clarity. He said we would talk but it just felt like he was avoiding talking to me. He called a few day’s later, I called back he didn’t answer. By this time I got really fed up. And told him that it’s unfortunate because I would have liked to talk. I then told him I hope he finds what he’s looking for & take care.
He responds back “really, wow okay wish you all the best, take care” he then blocked me two days later.
Which I wasn’t expecting because we are both mature adults. Part of me feels like he wasn’t done with me yet but wanted to keep me there for when he felt like it, so when I told him I was done he didn’t like that I was speaking up & let him know how I feel
Kayleigh Ryan

November 4, 2020 at 7:46 pm

Very good advice!.
Erin

October 27, 2020 at 2:03 am

Hi my boyfriend and I been arguing for a week and in the middle of an arguement he blocks me from calling or texting him.. I feel so lost.
Someone

October 17, 2020 at 3:00 am

Hey its me again i’m blocked..again..but this time nothing was going on we didn’t get into a heated arguement i just asked for space since i made a mistake and ask about how he feels (which he said his feeli for me are weak) what do i do what if this means he’s just done with me and just dont wanna talk and forget about me and even if i text him he probably won’t answer why would he block me..i just asked for space
Sarah

October 12, 2020 at 3:21 am

Well we got into an argument about where we were headed (as in relationship) as he changed the rules on me into “friends”. Ive never received a proper answer btw.
Yet, still continues to pretend to act like he wanted a relationship. “I just wanna see where this goes” non committing b.s.
Ive asked several times and ended up more confused. So, I asked for clarification one last time…
He went in so many circles even Gaslighted me on what he had said 10 seconds prior!! “I dont remember what I said” (p.s he said something about exploring other people) lol anyway I was upset as he was getting angry, trying to confuse and push blame. I hung up on him as I said “im done right now..im just done”. I didn’t answer when he tried to call me back 4 times.
So he blocked me!
Seriously! The chicken sh*t blocked me!
I’ve never been blocked before…
I think hes punishing me as well as trying to avoid any responsibility.
Thoughts?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

October 23, 2020 at 3:25 pm

Hi Sarah, it sounds as if you are in more of a friends with benefits situation where you haven’t quite got him invested in the relationship and he got all the perks of a relationship before hand. This is common and when you try to get more of a commitment they leave. I would suggest that you go into a No Contact and work through the articles to help you understand the program and how to follow each step correctly.

jam

October 7, 2020 at 5:13 pm

My LDR fiancee ..now ex I guess has Blocked me completely ///we had a discussion that turned into a very heated discussion and I broke up with him by anger ,but few hours i did apologize ti him but he didn’t accept and he told me that he need personal time space and then he’s asking for space to think n focus for his self only. After that he remove all our photos in fb,ig.then completely blocked me. I don’t know what to do. Please advise me.

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

October 8, 2020 at 8:43 am

Hi Jam, it can be difficult but you do need to let him have some space to calm his emotions. Follow the rules of no contact, and work on your holy trinity in this time

Marcia

October 6, 2020 at 10:43 pm

Dear Chris, dear Shaunna,

My last post was 11 March, when my ex had unblocked me on messenger for just a week, (in which I did not reach out) then he blocked me back.

Fast forward to now, he just unblocked me, being 6 months later. Maybe he sets a reminder every 6 months, to unblock me…

In this time I have changed, and the pandemic has made me feel that I don’t need him any longer. Life is difficult enough disinfecting everything all day, without a boyfriend on top of my head.

So I am keeping a steely attitude and will not message him. But why does someone unblock me after 6 months? I don’t understand it. I hope he won’t message me, as it will feel too ackward after 6 months of silence…
Nadia L

October 1, 2020 at 11:27 pm

Hi,

I recently was told by someone I was seeing that we needed space. During the space period I kept sending him messages about how angry I was and now this week he has blocked me on his phone. I got him to call me before he blocked me and he said he didn’t want to get back with me and that it was over. I feel like my life is over what can I do?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

October 2, 2020 at 8:20 am

Hi Nadia, you need to follow a 45 day No Contact or at least until you are unblocked. In that time you need to work on yourself, working through the Holy Trinity and Ungettable information on this website

Jackie

September 30, 2020 at 7:52 pm

My boyfriend of 9 months has been the perfect gentleman, no arguing fighting just hanging out and enjoying each other’s company.( he’s 50)
Got intimate after about four months, he then stared pushing me away physically about a month ago, but still cuddled held hands and went out. He then drops the bombshell by text that he’s just had a herpes flare up which is ex girlfriend from ten years ago gave him, he said he’d talk to me about it then refused to because he wasn’t ready, got angry at me so I walked out, tried to reach out to him by WhatsApp.. no answer, so then I say he’s disrespected my health and feelings by not telling me about it before sleeping with me unprotected, he messages back saying I obviously didn’t know him if I could think that he’d do that but thanks for my opinion, he thinks because he kept me safe that’s good enough.
I kindly turned down an offer to go away with him at the weekend which he had planned but told him to have a nice time, didn’t hear anything back, I then left him a message saying I was sorry I reacted that way and I’d come if he’d have me and we could talk, no reply then I discover he has blocked me on WhatsApp and probably phone and text… did I over react ?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

October 15, 2020 at 5:53 pm

Hi Jackie, no absolutely not! I think he should have told you before you first slept with him that he had a previous with herpes, this is an awkward conversation to have with anyone but he should have taken measures to make you aware of the risks. It maybe could have been dealt with in a calmer manner, but I agree you have the right to be upset

Kim

September 29, 2020 at 1:58 pm

Hi
So my ex contacted me after 8 months of our breakup. I thought the girl he was currently with so no longer in the picture. We spoke about why we ended and later that night he called me and told me that even though he may be with other people I’ve always been on his mind and he misses me and wants me. I told him that why is he saying this if he’s currently speaking to the same girl and he said that it was over the phone type of relationship in all these months he’s never met the girl. He wanted me to send him snaps of myself and i didn’t want to and told him no. He was very demanding and told me if i don’t then he’ll blocked and delete me off everything. He said this is a way of starting over again and i said no its not, we’d have to start from the very beginning again. He was really demanding for pictures and i said no and he said its his way or no way and he’ll get angry. I later just said goodnight and went to bed. In the morning i saw he blocked me on WhatsApp and unfollowed me on instagram.
All of a sudden he’s acting serious about this girl again and tagging her on instagram and commenting on each others pictures. I know he’s not serious about her by the way he is but why is he acting like he is?
I do still love him and have really strong feelings for him but i haven’t told him that as yet. I know in some way he also thinks of me and wants me but i can’t handle behaviour like that.
Will he unblock me and speak to me again?

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

October 15, 2020 at 7:00 pm

Hi Kim, so it is up to you if you want to try to get him back but it doesn’t sound as if he is a good person when he threatens to block you and tries to manipulate you into doing what he wants, and when you say no he has a tantrum. He is also treating this other girl poorly based on what you have said. But if you want to try and get him back then you need to follow a 45 day No Contact and then follow the being there method.

Anonymous

September 14, 2020 at 11:11 am

Hey!

My ex an I broke up in April. He’s going through some personal stuff and didn’t wanna bring me down. I did the NC for over 30 days. We got back in contact and it was all positive. It felt like we were back together. When I last saw him, he said once this is all over, we’ll talk about getting back together and that he didn’t wanna jinx it too much. About a month ago, he organised to see me. 2 days later I msgd him asking if we’re still catching up and he Completely ignored me. And we haven’t spoken since. I tried for about a week and then decided to go back in to NC and deleted him off of Snapchat (which is where we started talking the most). On Thursday I msgd him to wish him all the best for the next day. I got no reply. (I re added him on snap chat). I tried to call him Sunday and he didn’t answer. Later that night, he deleted me off of snap chat and blocked my number. He’s never blocked my number. Do I just go back in to no contact again? He doesn’t have social media. Only snap chat. But I’m friends with his cousin and we also have mutual friends. Thank you!

EBR Team Member: Shaunna

October 2, 2020 at 8:38 pm

Hey there, yes you need to go back into a No Contact for 45 days and then attempt to reach out after that.

Sazzy

September 5, 2020 at 11:51 am

Hi
So I’ve pretty much finished my no contact ..I’m still blocked on WhatsApp which is our main communication..but he texted me about our daughter this week..so I responded to those ..I was going to keep no contact for another week as he is away on holiday next week.he emailed me a ride picture no of him but a joke one 2 days ago ..I responded as it was to my work email and said he couldn’t send it to that email and he replied it wouldn’t send to my phone…I was going to say just unblock me on WhatsApp but I just left it.i haven’t heard from him since.i don’t know what to do or if I’m making any kind of progress at all?? I don’t know what to do next really.he us away for a week from tomorrow so I won’t be contacting him at all. I can tell he is at least less angry about the breakup but I don’t know at all if he wants to get back together or not .I don’t know what to do next

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