What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

2,564 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”

sadgirl

March 31, 2015 at 7:46 pm

he blocked me of facebook, I decided to use no contact. After 17days he unblocked me and sent me a friendship request and an inbox message saying ‘I miss you’. I didn’t reply nor accept his friendship request yet either. What should I do? I’m scared that If I keep ignoring him he will delete the friendship request or block me again. I don’t even know what to say to him. I’m too emotional

admin

March 31, 2015 at 10:59 pm

Hahah well, I would say that if you are in NC do not accept the firend request. If you are not in it any longer hen accept it.
sadgirl

April 3, 2015 at 1:09 am

He deleted the friendship request!!!!!!!! 🙁 I think I blew it. He unblocked me on day17 no contact and sent the friendship request last sunday but I didn’t accept it and I didn’t even read the msg saying he missed me but I saw the header.
I didn’t get back on facebook until today when I’ve noticed that he deleted the friendship request 🙁 exactly what I was afraid of. Today he sent me 2more msgs besides “Hey”, “Missed you” from sunday. Todays msgs says: “as a friend”. and “maybe some other time.”. I didn’t break no contact, it’s been 20days now. Did I blew it? Im so scared because I didn’t accept the request and didn’t reply his msg. I guess he will hate me now. I’m afraid that if I complete the 30days contact and msg him when it’s over he will probably feel like he got the upper hand, won’t he? gosh I I regret now that I didn’t accept his request on sunday. I just didn’t know if I should add, I kept no contact.
Now he will see that I read his messages today. And it’s day20 no contact, I can’t reply. Tell me Chris something positive, I feel like I lost the chance to reconnect with him

Taylor

March 31, 2015 at 5:15 pm

Hi Chris,

I just found out that my ex boyfriend or six years just blocked me on Facebook. We broke up over a month ago and he just blocked me yesterday? I’m not sure why he waited that long to block me.. Any ideas?

admin

March 31, 2015 at 10:50 pm

How long total did he wait to block you for?
Taylor

April 1, 2015 at 8:49 pm

It’s been 45 days since he left and he just blocked me two days ago.

sadgirl_JaniceD

March 29, 2015 at 10:24 pm

hey Chris, I just want to say you are a genious, I think you are my fave writer after Aldous Huxley and I want to thank you for all your advice!! You are really wise! Lol I left previous comments about my situation (my alias ‘sadgirl’ and ‘JaniceD’, I talked about a pretty chaotic online LDR). I stuck to no contact and after 17days he unblocked me on facebook and sent a messaged saying ‘i miss you’. I haven’t replied and I don’t know what to do. I don’t feel ready to talk to him and I wonder why he is messaging me. Remember his excuse was that he wasn’t blocking me but he was blocking himself, he didn’t want to be aware that i was online because he can’t resist me. This guy dumped me because of another girl told him she was trying to get a Visa and would buy a ticket to meet him this month while I didn’t do anything to pursue him. It’s MArch 29 so I thought he would be having fun with the other chick but I guess he was dumped or she changed her mind and won’t visit him anymore. I don’t know why he got in touch. I cried all these days, lost weight, look really bad and I’m depressed, I’m not ready to talk to him and pretend everything is cool. Maybe he unblocked me and is saying he misses me because the other chick dumped him and is not going to visit him in his country anymore? Maybe he is bored? Maybe he wants to get his ego stroked and test if I still like him? I don’t want to be his emotional tampon or fill the gaps while he is with someone else or even if he is alone. And i don’t want to entertain him until he find someone better.
I need to work on myself, this whole thing affected my self steem even though it was just a LDR. Your no contact rule works and your advice about working on being a better version of ourselves is totally right. Listen to Chris everyone. If someone else read my comment, please try to work on yourself while you are doing no contact. I didn’t do that, I’m depressed like hell and feel powerless. I will stick to no contact because it’s been only 17days and I do not know his intentions. Saying he misses me is not enough in my book, he doesn’t know how rejected I felt. Thanks Chris for everything and I’m sorry my comment is messed up, my mind is a mess. I just wanted to keep you updated.

admin

March 31, 2015 at 10:06 pm

Aldous Huxley…

Hmm… that is some serious company to be compared to!

I am screenshotting this comment because it makes me feel so good and it serves as a great testimonial.
sadgirl

April 1, 2015 at 7:05 am

He unblocked me on day17 no contact and sent the friendship request last sunday but I didn’t accept it and I didn’t even read the msg saying he missed me but I saw the header.
I didn’t get back on facebook until today when I’ve noticed that he deleted the friendship request 🙁 exactly what I was afraid of. Today he sent me 2more msgs besides “Hey”, “Missed you” from sunday. Todays msgs says: “as a friend”. and “maybe some other time.”. I didn’t break no contact, it’s been 20days now. Did I blew it? Im so scared because I didn’t accept the request and didn’t reply his msg. I guess he will hate me now. I’m afraid that if I complete the 30days contact and msg him when it’s over he will probably feel like he got the upper hand, won’t he? gosh I I regret now that I didn’t accept his request on sunday. I just didn’t know if I should add, I kept no contact.
Now he will see that I read his messages today. And it’s day20 no contact, I can’t reply. Tell me Chris something positive, I feel like I lost the chance to reconnect with him

Kim

March 29, 2015 at 8:48 pm

Hey Chris,

I’ve been reading your website and your male perspective has been really helpful in navigating this break up. My ex blocked me on his phone (I deserved it! Clearly haven’t been taking all of your advice) but I’m trying to be a confident, ungettable girl now and am in a no contact – haven’t tried other ways to get in touch. He doesn’t use social media, and I’m wondering what do you think is the next best way to reach out after the no contact? I feel like I should just wait until he reaches out, and if he doesn’t, move on completely. Thoughts?

Thanks again for your insight!

Kim

admin

March 31, 2015 at 10:26 pm

Glad I could lend a helping hand.

The next best way to reach out after NC would probably be email (texting is the best way obviously)
Kim

April 2, 2015 at 1:06 am

Thanks Chris! I guess if this doesn’t work at least I’ll be a breakup Jedi for the next one. 🙂
admin

April 2, 2015 at 11:52 pm

Haha I never think of that but ya.. your right. You will be a breakup jedi (more importantly youll know how to prevent one.)

Kelsey

March 29, 2015 at 5:59 pm

Here’s my story…

So my ex boyfriend and I met 5 years ago on April 10th. We met at Disneyland through a mutual friend. Long story short, the first few years were amazing. He was loving and thoughtful no matter what happened between us. He was essentially the perfect boyfriend in my opinion even though we had our problems. Then about 2 years ago his mom got diagnosed with ovarian cancer. He had said plenty of times that he and his mom were never close and so I did not know how much my negativity about the situation was taking its toll on him. She had NEVER liked me, even told him straight up that she thought he should dump me. He had always told her that he loved me and that he wouldn’t but I was insecure. I was also very nasty to him during the whole process. If he was spending time with his family I sometimes got upset that he wasn’t spending time with me. When he was playing video games I would get upset that he wasn’t spending time with me. I’m sure you get the point by now. I wasn’t willing to share him with anyone. Even stuff as simple as him giving me a chocolate covered strawberry at his mother’s funeral. At first I asked for it and he was nice enough to get me one. Then when he came back 20 minutes later after talking with some family members I got all bent out of shape about how long it took him to get it so I told him I no longer wanted it. Needless to say this behavior is APPALLING! I can’t even believe I was like that anymore because that is not who I am.

A year ago we broke up. I was DEVASTATED but I fought with him and broke it off then begged for him back. He said we should try to be friends before we try to get back together. So basically I went out to a club with my girlfriend (also a friend of his). I ended up kissing another guy (it was OVER between me and my ex) and this girl I thought was my friend told my ex. He got crazy angry and confronted me a couple days later saying that he wanted nothing to do with me, didn’t want to see or speak to me again, and was DONE. So I went through 3 months of major depression. Then I found this system and got a confidence boost. I used the across the bow texts and things instantly got great between us. He was inviting me over for dates, calling me all of my cute nicknames again, dressing up super fancy, making me dinner etc. Then one day he read a text over my shoulder to a friend of mine where I told her that he and I were basically back together and that scared him a little bit so he backed off. A few weeks later we were talking and I went to a rave and he was worried sick about something happening to me (which made me feel good because if he didn’t care he wouldn’t worry).

Since then he’s been SUPER hot/cold towards me. I have done 3 No Contacts and he still goes hot/cold. Until about 10 days ago. We usually talk through snapchat. There’s a chat option through it and that’s how we have talked for the last few months. So about 10 days I send a text:

Me: I was packing up some stuff the other day and found that old picture of you working the first game after we met. It made me smile so big because you always looked so good in uniform!
Him: Why thank you!
Me: Well I gotta go! But it was good talking to you!

2 days later I sent another. Things were really great. He was flirting, calling me adorable and sexy, saying he “needed” to see me.

Me: I was out the other day and saw these two adorable puppies that remind me so much of Maggie and Murphy. How are those cuties doing? I hope you’re doing well too 🙂
Him: They’re still adorable! Just like me 😛
Me: I wish I could give them a ton of kisses! So you think you’re adorable huh?
Him: Unless you come up with a better word then yes
Me: I’m sure I can come up with some lol I just think it’s funny that you think you’re so adorable
Him: That doesn’t mean it’s the best word to use lol. If you come up with something better for me I’ll let you be the adorable one
Me: See but I am the adorable one no matter what 😛 especially after finishing insanity
Him: I dunno you may be more sexy than adorable now
Me: Alright fine I’m both! 😛 so what’s new with you? Anything exciting?
Him: Well I’m currently laying in my hotel bed in Hawaii flipping through the new records I bought and waiting for Amy (his sister) to wake up so we can go surf boarding. What’s new with you?
Me: That sounds like fun! I wish I knew how to surf lol. Well I got a new job, I got signed to a talent agency, I am doing insanity, and I got another tattoo
Him: Where are you working and when do I get to see the tattoo and insanity results?
Me: I’m working as a dog sitter in San Ramon which pays surprisingly well so that’s fun. As for the tattoo and stuff probably not for a while
Him: Sounds like a fun job! What’s the tattoo/where is it?
Me: It is! I get to play with doggies all day haha it’s a bible verse somewhere super secret 😛
Him: Pics or it didn’t happen 😉
Me: It’s super private!
Him: Well then I’ll show you something private in return! Or something else of your choosing
Me: The only way anybody is going to see it is in person lol sorry
Him: Well now I need to see it! Where is it?
Me: My bikini line
Him: That sounds… really sexy actually
Me: You seem shocked lol
Him: Well I’d never really thought about it lol and now I’ve got an erection just imagining kissing it
Me: You’re mind immediately jumps to sex doesn’t it
Him: No but my body does
Me: Well then you’re body will have to wait
Him: Haha my body can be patient if I tell it to
Me: Oh yeah? You sure about that? 😛
Him: Well as long as you’re not within touching distance of me I’ll be able to control it. Hopefully.
Me: Well that shouldn’t be a problem haha I live in San Ramon now
Him: Back at your dads place?
Me: Yeah I moved there a few weeks ago
Him: How is it?
Me: It’s okay I mean my dad drives me nuts but I don’t have rent to pay and it means you’ll have to put a little more effort in to seeing me 😛

Then BOOM out of nowhere two days later he blocks me entirely on snapchat (the usual way we communicate), which he never did during the entire time we have been broken up so far. I waited two weeks to send another text just to see if maybe he would unblock me. Today I sent the text, “I went to dinner in concord a few days ago and had a delicious piece of salmon. It made me think of you because it was almost as good as the salmon you always make. Almost :)” he didn’t respond to that message. It makes no sense to me whatsoever and I have no idea where to go from here. I know this probably isn’t all that unique of a situation but I really would like your help with this. I truly feel like this man is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. I want SOOO bad to at least have a second chance at a relationship with this man.

admin

March 31, 2015 at 9:57 pm

Yes it does seem out of the blue doesn’t it?

Bria

March 27, 2015 at 12:58 am

My boyfriend & I’ve been on & off for a year & he finally said that we should stop & take it slow because he doesn’t want a relationship right now because he doesn’t want to be locked down yet & that he doesn’t want to hurt me. We started messing round again & became “friends with benefits ” he said he loves me & i love him but its really complicated. He told me that he is talking to another girl & that he isn’t going to “cuff” her because he still isn’t ready for a relationship. I called him the other day & she answered the phone & said that he asked “what do i want ” so i hung up because arguing with both of them isn’t worth my time (me & him are long distance ) I reallllly love him & want to take it slow. He blocked me several times & came back & I’m now currently blocked because of that phone call i guess. I live in Fl & she & him live in Ga. I don’t want hmhim to fall deeply for her. He is single still & I am still single but he’s the one I want to be with but I don’t wanna rush him . He said he wants to be free right now but later in the future he wants to be with me. I called & called but I know I’m blocked im blocked from kik, instagram, twitter, texting, callung etc .I’m going crazy & don’t know what to do . Help me get him back?

admin

March 29, 2015 at 3:03 pm

So, they are closer together than you and him were.
Bria

April 1, 2015 at 8:18 pm

Yes, he said he still loves me then he told me that him & that girl are together now & that he loves her too. How can he love both of us? Im starting the no contact rule today & im scared that his love for me will fade & that he’ll forget about me.

sabrina

March 26, 2015 at 6:59 am

So I was engaged to my boyfriend of five years. Things ended pretty badly a couple months ago when I broke things off with him. He immediately started talking to other women (I’m talking like literally the next day) and like a week later he’s dating a girl he works with. Yesterday I realized that he has blocked me. But I’m not sure if this is his doing or hers. I don’t really see him doing this on his own but like I said things ended badly. And when they first got together he and I were still talking and I know for a fact she was very threatened by this. I’m not trying to get him back, I just want to know Why. I truly wanted to still be friends but that just wasn’t going to work. So I gave him space but then he stopped replying to my texts and eventually blocked me. So I guess I’m just really fucking confused

admin

March 31, 2015 at 8:21 pm

You just want to know why he blocked you?

I cover that in this article 🙂

Dylan

March 25, 2015 at 11:11 pm

Hi Chris,
So I had a relationship with my ex for 9 months (last 6 was an LDR) and we came at a crossroads on the topic of religion. She’s super religious, and I realized I wasn’t as much. I asked her if she could give me a little space so I could figure out my beliefs. Well.. She broke up with me instead. We went back and forth, flirting for a week and then had a fight on the phone. We didn’t speak for 5 days then we talked on the phone and she said “her hearts not in the relationship anymore” and gave me the “lets be friends” spill. The day following this, my stupid ass tells her about how I’ve lied to her (this was my first relationship and I lied about having a girlfriend before) and she was pissed and claimed no contact “until we can move on from our lives.” She blocked me on everything, Facebook, Twitter, Skype, maybe even email.

I know deep down I truly care for her, I was even planning on proposing in half a year. I am 10 days into NC from her, I’ve truly found my beliefs again on my own, been working out and eating well, and I’m going to a salsa dance class this weekend just to try it.

I’m gonna go for 45 days NC but I just don’t know if this can be mended. What do you think Chris?

admin

March 31, 2015 at 8:09 pm

Dylan, hop on over to Ex Girlfriend Recovery.

that site is perfectly suited for you.

Sophiii

March 25, 2015 at 5:43 pm

Hi,

Thanks for a greatly detailed lines.I actually,-weird as it sounds-enjoyed reading it!!
I have a very strange way attracting guys and get my heart broken almost all the time even if most times ,-I have to be honest here-I do possibly the same to them.
Here is a scenario I just stepped out of and I feel rather strange as I only been with the guy for just under 6 months and we haven t officially been in a relationship.We seen each other about twice a month,I stayed at his and we have talked a lot.At the beginning he was more into me than I was to him ,but gradually I started to fall for him.We had similar interests but he was very direct coming from a broken ,rather bad family.I thought we got on well but after seeing him last he sent me a txt and said I should not tell people that I see him or discuss his private life.He said he called one of my girlfriend on a date(the cheek)and she told him what he deserved !!!We didn t get in touch since and this was in the beginning of
January.Yesterday however I realised he blocked me from facebook,twitter and instagram. However not on whatsupp……I wonder why now??? I havent searched his sights,I did click like on.one of his photo but because I am.like that…..I just take every day as new,I am not angry or upset with him because of those txts….I dont call or txt since the incident in January so why block me so visibly now?Did he just forgot to block me on whatsupp??Help!!!

admin

March 31, 2015 at 8:01 pm

Maybe he was just thinking about you and your relationship and got hurt by it so he blocked you as a result of that.

Cyn

March 24, 2015 at 11:46 am

This is quite different from the usual. We were initially dating (not in a relationship) and he wanted me to be his girlfriend but after a few months, when he got into his final year of uni, things changed and he wasn’t sure he wanted a relationship. After almost a year of been what I would call ‘friends with benefits’, he ended things because he didn’t think he wanted a relationship. I did 2 months of no contact and initiated contact again and things were going really well and we would communicate like 3 times a week.

After a month of resuming communication with him, I told him how I wasn’t comfortable been just friends and he said he leaves uni in a couple of months and that he wouldn’t be coming back so it would be easier for me to get over him. I told him that wasn’t nice to say and said he shouldn’t have led me on for so long if he knew he was no longer pursuing a relationship. He walked me home and then said bye without responding to anything I said. I found out last night that he blocked me on whatsapp.

This is the same guy that always said I would make a great wife at the start of our ‘relationship’ and he seemed to adore me. I fell in love with him somewhere along the line but he doesn’t know this. I’ve noticed that he is emotionally unavailable and has trust issues but overall he’s a good guy. What do I do now?

admin

March 31, 2015 at 6:38 pm

You should read my post on mixed signals.

Maria

March 24, 2015 at 3:53 am

Well, I have an unusual situation. My fiance of four years passed away from cancer a year a go. I had a male friend who I let myself get a little too close with after the fact for super. Eventually, we started hooking up. I don’t know if he expected me to suddenly snap out of the recent tragedy, but he would text me things like, “you’re being very unattractive” when I would go about things we would normally text about- usually instances while we were out drinking since we both worked in nightlife. It got all too confusing for me, because I was still in a state of tragedy. I wasn’t trying to have a relationship with him, but maybe my neediness at the time (for God’s sake- who wouldn’t be needy in the time like this?!) pushed him away to the point where he eventually told me we weren’t a “good match” and said he was blocking my phone number for a while because he couldn’t deal with me. I felt pretty used because of the surrounding circumstances. I see him occasionally around mutual friends and try to play it cool, but I guess I’m still blocked. It’s been over a month. Was this guy taking advantage of me in a horrible situation or was he really unable to deal with it and plans to cut me out for life?

admin

March 25, 2015 at 8:31 pm

I don’t know if its that cut or dry but he does sound very immature about how he handled things.

guest

March 23, 2015 at 5:40 pm

this article is false. if your getting blocked, then im tried of dealing with your bullshit. I have no regrets, if your trying to get back with your ex then you have some serious issues with moving on and letting things go.

admin

March 24, 2015 at 9:06 pm

Hi There,

Thanks for your comment.

I understand your position but could you please not berate the people trying to repair their love lives. I understand your position but please show some respect to the other readers of this article.

stephanie

March 23, 2015 at 7:52 am

Hello , my name is stephanie, my ex broke up with me a week ago because i became a model and send the pictures to a bunch of my friends because i was so excited , some of them were guys , he went throw my phone and got very upset (although he didnt show it the day he saw the pics ) that i had send them to guys and the next morning he send me a message saying” ive seen u send the pictures that were suppose to be only for my eyes to hella guys , and all this other bs, dont ever talk to me again im so serious , dont even reply, im done with u and were offically through.” This came as a shock to me because for the past year i was madly in love woth him and he loved me every much to , after i read that message i broke down and blow up his phone , he blocked me from everthing (fb and instragram and phone ) i was very upset and desperate for his my first love i did the mistake to try to cobtact him every way possible but every phone i used he blocked n including visting him twice , he pushed me off and i feel so heart broken because i thought he was the one , i still think that . it there any hope for me ?

admin

March 24, 2015 at 8:49 pm

Have you attempted the NC rule?

LC2015

March 22, 2015 at 10:32 pm

I already buy your e book but i never get your response

admin

March 24, 2015 at 8:13 pm

Hi there,

I am so sorry I didn’t give you a response.

I am having trouble keeping up will all the inquries and your might have fallen through the cracks.

Caroline

March 22, 2015 at 7:39 pm

Well I’ve been reading this site for 10 months now! Apart from two genuine accidental running into each other in town there’s been NC since a text dump out of the blue. We never argued, just days before he was excited about our future plans, that were his idea! Mainly me moving in and I was making major life changes towards this goal.
I’ve had no chance to discuss why he broke it off with him (I could go to his house I suppose but that’s a bit bunny boiler), I can’t move on without knowing what was wrong, I feel we should learn and grow from experiences and relationships. I can’t move on when I want him back either!
He suggested we should be friends and he needed space. Which he got thanks to NC, he then a few months later blocked me on facebook out of the blue (we were no longer fb friends anyway).
Now soon I will be in the same room as him for a thing. I’m furious on one hand that he can be my friend for years, my lover for a couple of those and then discard me with no proper goodbye. So disrespectful. I wonder perhaps because I am so easy going he mistook this for being a doormat, he has never seen me cross. So perhaps I should let it out. Or do I just be sexy and indifferent in his presence? The latter will probably prolong the agony of me hanging on though. Without an answer there is still hope.
Thing is I’m so angry the sex would be mindblowing if I got him back. Such a missed opportunity.

admin

March 24, 2015 at 8:06 pm

10 months!

Wow, your a veteran.

Question, why do you want him back?

What is your reason for wanting him back?

I am curious.
Caroline

March 25, 2015 at 3:27 pm

Because when I am with him it feels like I’m finally home. I don’t trust easily. I finally met someone I could let in. I have just never known anyone like him. It was the happiest time of my life.

He made me a better person, challenged me and I could be the whole me. According to him I did the same for him, I do hope so. There’s a bit missing now.
I miss him as a friend terribly too.
And yeah the sex was out of this world.
Caroline

April 2, 2015 at 8:00 am

Well NC is broken!
It was flirty and happy, he was very complimentary on my looks and how I was in our relationship. Because he is currently having an awful time with the girl he left me for.
Told me he made a bad choice.
Then I saw him again a few days later. More flirting.
He smiles at me like he used to, it’s still there.
I need to work out my next move!

Sandra

March 21, 2015 at 9:05 pm

We had been dating for about four months. We were inseparable. We spoke of marriage, traveling, moving in together. He even said she’s a keeper and the one in front of his parents. I got pregnant, he wanted an abortion, I did it without him, then he started hating me because he felt I cut him off by not telling him the date or giving him a choice. We tried hanging out again but he was distant. For a month we fought on and off. A few nights ago he deleted me off fb, snapchat, unfollowed me on Instagram. I messaged him asking him what he gains from making me fall in love with him so deeply to cut me off so cold. He said he doesn’t love me anymore and wants nothing to do with me, not even friends. Wants to close all doors so I can move on and heal. I love him, and I can look past all the bad because the good was worth it.

I sent him a text, but it’s been two days he hasn’t read it. Does that mean he’s blocked me on his phone?

Is there any hope for me being back with him!

admin

March 22, 2015 at 5:31 pm

But he wanted the abortion?

I thought he’d be happy.

Not neccessarily. It might mean he is just ignoring you.

LC2015

March 20, 2015 at 3:51 am

Hi,
I dated my ex bf for 2 years.our 2nd year was awesome in the beginning but later i was so needy and demanding so much of him and finally he broke up with me. Normally i was the one who always threaten to break up with him many times but he didn’t want to till he had enough of me. He is a lot older than me. We had big fights a lot and swear a lot as well.I never did to anyone. Today is the 27th day of no contact with him. He was the one who told me not to contact him so i had cut off but the 3rd day i asked him back and crying. Then i will never do that again. After i broke up with him, he went back to his ex wife. Before i found ur website, i decided to really move on and will not contact him again because 1.he block my number and block some chats application but not all of them as he is using 3 cell phones.he jus block from main cell phone.because of this,I also block him too all of 3 cellphones because i had to make sure i wont contact him during no contact period 2. I thought i was pregnant with him so i asked him to do the test with me but he refuse.i was so stress out that my hormones level changed so i thought i was pregnat with him 3.he is my client that i have to talk on the phone with everyday and the way he talk to me not as nice as before.(btw i am from thailand).in thailand, there is a level of politeness in term of speaking but he sometimes doesnt speak too polite to me or instead of call me my name like he usually does, he call me hey! It is considered not polite in thai.I dont want to take care of his account anymore.So, i try to exchange him with other client in my team.However, he scold my team member the first day of changing and he didnt give me sales when other team was taken care of.so i have no choice.I took his account back. Not only he is my client he is also my business partner that we set up the company together a year ago. I had to talk to him so i send him message last week about withdrawing his name from the company but he never reply me back so far. Chris, do you think my ex boyfriend still has feeling for me? So far, he never contact me personally. He just chat with me in the group chat about work. I dont know if am wrong,since yesterday i saw the way he talk to me in the chat was nicer. He is a trader and i am his broker. His job is very busy. He normally don’t reply chat much i know because before we broke up he was too busy trading. May b i was wrong. Please help me get back my ex bf. I miss him very much. These day i am working out and trying to get fit. I didn’t want to just sit and wait. Will i have chance of getting him back? In the future I may have to meet him as he is my client. I wont ask him out for meal under company bill yet i dont think it is the right time. Is there a chance of me getting my ex bf bk? I sometimes scared to talk to him so I am just being silence.
LC2015

March 20, 2015 at 12:03 am

Hi,
I dated my ex bf for 2 years.our 2nd year was awesome in the beginning but later i was so needy and demanding so much of him and finally he broke up with me. Normally i was the one who always threathen to break up with him many times but he didnt want to till he had enough of me. He is a lot older than me. We had big fights a lot and swear a lot as well.I never did to anyone. Today is the 27th day of no contact with him. He was he one who told not to contact him so i had cut off but the 3rd day i asked him back and crying. Then i will never do that again. After i broke up with him, he went back to his ex wife. Before i found ur website, i decided to really move on and will not contact him again because 1.he block my number and block some chats application but not all of them as he is using 3 cell phones.he jus block from main cell phone.I also block all his 3 number and some of chatting applications as well 2. I thought i was pregnant with him so i asked him to do the test with me but he refuse.i was so stress out that my hormones level changed so i thought i was pregnant with him 3.he is my client that i have to talk on the phone with everyday and the way he talk to me not as nice as before.(btw i am from thailand).in thailand, there is a level of politeness in term of speaking but he sometimes doesnt speak polite to me or instead of call me my name like he usually does, he call me hey! It is considered not polite in thai. And i try to exchange him with other client in my team.However, he scold my team member the first day of changing so i have no choice.I took his account back4. Not only he is my client he is also my business partner that we set up the company together a year ago i had to talk to him so i send him message last week about withdrawling his name from the company but he nver reply me back so far. Chris, do you think my ex boyfriend still has feeling for me? So far, he never contact me personally. He just chat with me in the group chat about work. I dont know if am wrong,since yesterday i saw the way he talk to me in the chat was nicer. He is a trader and i am his broker. His job is very busy. He normally dont reply chat much i know because before we broke up he was too busy trading. May b i was wrong. Please help me get back my ex bf. I miss him very much. Theseday i am working out and trying to get fit. I didnt want to just sit and wait. Will i have chance of getting him back? I can tell you in the future i wi have to meet him as he is my client. I wont ask him out for meal under company bill yet i dont think it is the right time. Is there a chance of me getting my ex bf bk?
Jess

March 19, 2015 at 11:50 pm

I may have turned into a text gnat this week and sent him a message on Facebook highlighting some things like his commitment issues.. and my ex sent this

So insightful!! You’ve really got no idea. Grow up, I don’t want anything to do with you especially now. Stop messaging me and find your own friends and your own life. Stop clinging on to mine!

Then he blocked me from Facebook. That’s the first time he has been angry at me since the break up. We broke up 3 months ago.

Not sure if I’ll ever be able to speak to him again? I suppose he means it doesn’t he.

admin

March 22, 2015 at 3:59 pm

He blocked you out of anger and your gnattyness.

I am sure the two of you can get back on speaking terms down the road but for now just stay silent.
Sarah

March 22, 2015 at 10:30 pm

Hope so, he did a complete block, even from Instagram and we didn’t even have each other on Instagram! He must really hate me

GK

March 19, 2015 at 8:12 pm

I need your input ASAP.

I had been seeing my ex, things were going good we’ve been on/off for 1 years but something happened last week and I honestly can’t remember what happened because alcohol [I rarely drink] got in the way, I fell asleep etc and I can’t remember the night… But I remember waking up at 3am and him gone and messaging him asking him where he is why he left etc he said his friend had an emergency and because I was drunk I was so confused and blew him up and he blew up at me after blowing him up… so i went a bit loco and called him 50 times but he blocked my number and then he blocked me on watsapp… it’s been a week and I am in one of the worst places in my life. Do you think he will unblock me? When i did get thru to him he told me not to contact him he will contact me when he’s ready but I dont think he will. I also lent him money that night. I said in anger “I want my money back” but truthfully, I am not materialistic and do not care about it, he said “you’ll get it” but I know he gets paid at the end of the month and I have a feeling he will block me until then or keep me blocked for good. If he unblocks me and offers to meet me, I feel like saying, “If the only reason you want to see me is to give my money back then I don’t want to see you” on the other hand he might not unblock me at all and I would never get him nor it back. I’m in a confused and hurt place. He has a lot of anger issues, I know he’s the type of person who likes people to chase him but to an extent and he sounded very aggressive about me not contacting him that night and literally said “if you call me again im going to call the cops leave me alone i’ll contact u when im ready”. I’m confused as to what I actually done because he isn’t giving me any closure?! What do I do?

admin

March 22, 2015 at 3:48 pm

I definitely think you pushing for closure isn’t the smartest thing to do right now because I think time needs to pass for you to even have a chance at getting him back.

« Previous 1 … 39 40 41 42 43 … 53 Next »

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

2,564 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”