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Lilly
March 19, 2015 at 5:26 am
I was on the phone with my then boyfriend 2 weeks ago and he hung up on me and texted me that he had enough of my disrespectful mouth for one night (wtf?) i told him not to talk to me ever 2 days later he calls i dont answer a day later i find he blocked me on whatsapp snapchat facebook(we werent even friends on fb!!) the next day i called him i find out he blocked my calls i was really shocked at how things escalated his sister is in town and i was supposed to meet here we’ve been dating for 5 months and it hasnt been easy at all but everytime i say we should break up (cause he does something asshole-ish)he would do a gesture and try to fix things so i was pretty surprised he blocked me i have no way to contact him so after a week i send him an email saying for someone who calls me immature hes the one whos immature and then 2 days later on sunday i send a super long email saying how what he did is not ok and how he treats me badly and i wish i never met him but i still love him i said i was calling to ask about him anyways i tried to make him feel guilty and that didnt work he never replied to both and i just kept thinking i dont understand why did he block me until i found your site which is super awesome but i need your help since that email which was this sunday i havent tried to contact him again maybe he blocked my emails i dont know but it made me feel like shit so should i just move on or try to get him back? Has he moved on? Is him blocking me a way to tell me fuck off and to move on? Whatever the reason is im going to maintain NC for my own dignity bur can you please shed some light on this situation and what he’s thinking
Lilly
March 24, 2015 at 6:59 am
Please answer š
admin
March 25, 2015 at 8:34 pm
Hi Lilly, how can I help?
Michelle
March 18, 2015 at 7:48 am
What if the blocking is how it happened? We have been together for three years and everything has been great. We have been long distance for a while, but he has been working to move here. He is my best friend and everything has been open and loving. His last text to me ended with he loved me and then nothing. I texted a couple times and called. Oftentimes we don’t talk for part of the day, so the next day I called and realized I had been blocked. I’m floored. I do NOT understand what happened.
admin
March 21, 2015 at 3:02 pm
Did you read the entirety of this article.
It can help you understand what is maybe going on in his head.
CANT WAIT It Out
March 17, 2015 at 5:13 pm
first let me say everything any article makes sense and I appreciate your honesty it really does seem what are giving a good overall perspective of how men think I myself am a psychology major I don’t have my degree yet but I don’t like to think that I’m somebody that’s full of common sense that being said this is the first relationship I’ve ever had in my entire life where I let the relationship be ruled by my heart instead of my brain I’m very analytical and logical and I’m numbers kind of person and not a feeling kind of person I think that’s what has led me to the point that I’m at now let me give a little background on the relationship we’ve been together for years now and I have three children from a previous marriage and he has been more of a father to them and deserve the title of father to them more so there real dad and when he broke up with me its during the worst time of my entire life my heart my family is putting us through hell and back and we’re going to a hellish custody battle and they’ve not marilize easy and if not meet his life easy and I know this but he knew this going into the relationship that it was going to be hard it’s going to be difficult and that my family was going to find us all the way to be together and had two children because he and he’s half step down and I’m going to quit fighting right now but in the midst of all this we got into an argument because our stress levels are high and he broke it off with me and went back and has fully blocked me now he knows type of person that I am and really I’m not going to lie I emailed him and called him and text him and it at Bloom up because all I wanted from him really isn’t this to know if he seriously done if he just needed a break I could deal with it either way I just need to know what is going on does he want to never talk to me again or did you seriously just need a little break in and he needs a little break I understand that I think that he thinks that I would not have understood they need a break but I do for anyone and now I’m going to go through it till the end because of my children in the end and I’m the one responsible and I’m the one that’s going to be with them no matter what but not only has he blocked me but he’s done that to my children to it took my 15 year old son of contacting him trying to get him to reply to a Facebook comment so I’ve repeatedly asked him through the text before I got locked in everything just tell me is it forever is a cyst a break I just need to know either way just please tell me what’s going on you know I’ll leave you alone I won’t contact you anymore if that’s what you really want I just need to know and after two weeks he finally replied back and said that he does that he was hurting and he was miserable everyday and he never wanted it to end like this and he just needed to move on and please understand and I was a good person in all this but he still didn’t answer the question and he knows that he’s in he’s just beating around the bush so I guess my question is cuz if you really can love someday is that what it is and the price is too high for him to continue on because he really doesn’t care is situation like this
admin
March 18, 2015 at 8:59 pm
One question…
Did you write this on a phone?
Haha I am having trouble reading it from my end.
Frances
March 17, 2015 at 8:07 am
Hi cris!
i have a LDR, but my ex boy friend lived in manila and i live in iloilo 1 hour by plane. he visited me for a week in Iloilo. first of all i dont want a LDR relationship but he pursue me and i was inspired. as 5 months came by were happy exchanging of text messages, chat, call and skype. days goes on im reviewing for nursing board exam and he was stay put on his house instead of going to philippine military academy i told me to follow his heart. sometimes he was busy playing online games and sometimes i feel that its not the same anymore i tried to give him time but it get worst. for 5 months he didnt contact me. i focus on my board exam. after the board exam i focus on him to fix everything. but it turns out even worst i called him 50 times a day he didnt answer. and he message me on facebook that he is guilty, i was he’s good girlfriend ever, last months that we dont have communication he just playing online games and didnt talk to any girls. and i wanted to talk to him sincerely but still he didnt answer his phone, i told him i will give him time to think whats wrong with us. and days goes on i bother him because he didnt do the moves to tell me and he message me on facebook that there’s nothing wrong. and he told me that he want to be single, he doesnt feel to be in a relationship. he wants to work for a living and he cant afford a relationship with. and i reply that i hope thats a good reason. that you dont have any body and good luck. Thats all i was seen zoned (January 20 something this 2015) after a month still smooth normal life. sometimes i stalked him. but my impending doom was this first week of march when i discovery that he block me on facebook, twitter, garena app games. even our mutual friends. and i discover lately that he changed his phone number. ouch! all i want is a closure, why? huhu. i wanted to move on but its soooo hard! all the memories. š all the things he send to me. This weekend i’ll be heading to manila for a concert and i’m planning to send off his things via package from manila. but i wont met him up. what do you advise? it is the right thing to return the stuffs he gave to me? how i can move on? do you have any reason why he block me? Thank you.
admin
March 18, 2015 at 8:45 pm
If you want to return them you can.
Do you want to move on or do you want him back?
These are two very different paths.
Rose
March 14, 2015 at 6:20 pm
What if he blocked me 3 times on wassup and even blocked me on fb but he stares at me each time…but we both feel shy to talk to each other… :'(
admin
March 15, 2015 at 5:11 pm
He seems like the type of guy that would unblock you after a while.
Julia
March 13, 2015 at 3:44 pm
My ex asked for a break 2 months ago & I agreed with it only because I wanted to give him some space. While we were on our break he blocked me from facebook. Before he blocked me he said his phone wasn’t working so instead of texting him I decided to get ahold of him through snapchat. He would just open my snaps but he never replied back. After that I just decided to break up with him and I had to do it through text because he was still ignoring me. After breaking up with him he blocked me from snapchat. I never tried talking to him after I broke up with him and a week after he blocked me from snapchat he blocked me from Instagram. I actually saw him posting flirty comments on girls pictures on Instagram & I eventually got tired of it. I never did him wrong but he still blocked me. I try to act like I’m happy without him because we do have mutual friends. I still have strong feelings for him but I only want to know how he’s doing.
sadgirl
March 12, 2015 at 6:26 pm
Hi Chris, LDR, he broke up because some girl closer who he been talking for only 2monts will visit him in his country and I didn’t buy a ticket before her nor pursued him. He said he wants to be just friends for now and see how it goes with the other woman if he changes his mind he will let me know. I wasn shocked but I didn’t do any drama, I was very cold and just told him I don’t want to be just friends and went straight to no contact. He didn’t accept it. He kept msg me everyday trying to chat random stuff and asking me pics but after 13days I broke no contact and spoke to him because he said he was sorry if he offended me and made me feel used and that he likes me very much. I told him again that we cant be just friends and if he doesnt want to date me anymore like we used to to let me move on. He said its too hard for him to stop talking to me. He blocked me the day after on fb but before doing that he wrote that he is not blocking me but he is blocking himself because he can’t resist me and keep obsessed seeing me online,he gets tempted to msg me and skype me. But the other girl already got a visum and ticket to visit him so he feels pressured to be serious and don’t want to mess around. He said that if i went to visit him instead that he would do the same, he would be serious. I’m heartbroken. I did everything you said, I quit contact as soon as he said the ‘just friends’ thing, no drama or texts, I respected his wishes so I don’t understand why he kept trying to talk to me if he already found someone else and end up blocking me because I don’t want to be just friends.
I know I sound like a loser and I probably am but I was married for 9years and don’t have dating experience, I had no idea that I was supposed to pursue him and pressure him about relationship when is long distance. Will he unblock me and want to hang out with me again? Why did he unblock me, this is so messed up, I never contact him after the split
sadgirl
March 12, 2015 at 6:31 pm
typo: why did he block me, I never contact him after the split. This is so extreme š
admin
March 13, 2015 at 8:24 pm
Probably as a way of healing for himself.
JaniceD
March 19, 2015 at 10:51 pm
hanks for your reply! should I keep no contact hoping he will be back? or the blocking means itās over between us and he will never talk to me again? š How can I know itās final?
he wrote in his last message that āif things change he will let me knowā so itās like he wants to try with the other girl and if it doesnt work out he will get in touch with me. Iām tempted to write to him a quick email saying that I miss him being online but in your guides it says we are not supposed to write anymore.
Iām doing no contact but it feels hopeless and after this outcome I regret I didnāt accept being just friends. Now itās like I will never see him again. The other girl is not even his type but she bought a ticket to visit him before I did. I know he is no good for me, he is selfish and lazy but right now I feel like the ultimate loser, I do nothing right, this blocking only makes things worse because I didnāt do any drama, I kept my distance and didnāt contact him after he said he just wanted to be friends, he was the one who kept msg me non stop and trying to be sexual after saying he just wanted to be friends.
There was no need to block me, he could have just unfriended me.
JaniceD
March 15, 2015 at 10:56 pm
thanks for your reply! should I keep no contact hoping he will be back? or the blocking means it’s over between us and he will never talk to me again? š How can I know it’s final?
he wrote in his last message that ‘if things change he will let me know’ so it’s like he wants to try with the other girl and if it doesnt work out he will get in touch with me. I’m tempted to write to him a quick email saying that I miss him being online but in your guides it says we are not supposed to write anymore.
I’m doing no contact but it feels hopeless and after this outcome I regret I didn’t accept being just friends. Now it’s like I will never see him again. The other girl is not even his type but she bought a ticket to visit him before I did. I know he is no good for me, he is selfish and lazy but right now I feel like the ultimate loser, I do nothing right, this blocking only makes things worse because I didn’t do any drama, I kept my distance and didn’t contact him after he said he just wanted to be friends, he was the one who kept msg me non stop and trying to be sexual after saying he just wanted to be friends.
There was no need to block me, he could have just unfriended me.
Melissa
March 12, 2015 at 2:06 am
Hi Chris,
My ex and I broke up 11 months ago after an almost 5 month relationship. He said he didn’t want to get onto a heavy relationship and immediately started dating a much younger chick. He wasn’t very happy with her after about 5 weeks and dumped her. We started casually hanging out having sex here and there and then that got weird too after about 4 months. I texted him to not contact me anymore and he called me the next day to figure out what was going on. I told him I needed to move on and he wanted to part friends. I said ok but I had I friended him on Facebook. I told him that I would add h back and would he accept and he said he would, but when I did, he ignored my request. Keep in mind that on the phone he said that he doesn’t want me to hate him. I do not contact him and I find him on Tinder 3 weeks later and swipe right. Lo and behold, we are a match. He then goes on Tinder almost immediately and “Unmatches” us. Weird! Then 3 weeks later we see each other at a bar and I greet him warmly and he gives me a long hug. We start talking but then he gets all weird and says he needs to go. I ask if we can talk later or tomorrow and he says yes. He proceeds to blow me off for the next 5 days so I basically tell him that if he can’t bother to take the time to talk with me that I’m done. No response. I do not contact him at all. 6 weeks later I see him at the same bar and ignore him. He leaves after about a half hour. No contact between us and It is now six weeks later and I ran into him the other night at a different bar, one closer to where he lives. I’m out with a friend and have met a guy I’ve been chatting online with there too and we are having a good time talking and dancing, etc. My ex is there with the woman he dumped me for and then got rid of after six weeks and telling me for months that he would never see her again as we both knew that she was after him. But she will accept scraps from him and take care of his dog when he’s away on business, etc. he kept looking at me all night but would not make a move to talk to me. He made sure he got a last look at me as they were leaving too. So I went on his FB page and was looking up this woman on his friend list and I accidentally sent her a friend request, but immediately cancelled it. An hour later I was blocked from his page. How strange is that after 11 months he is doing this?? I don’t get it?? He obviously doesn’t care about me anymore, or does he?
admin
March 13, 2015 at 7:58 pm
Hahaha you accidentally sent her a request.
This is exactly why I recommend NOT stalking an ex.
Liz
March 9, 2015 at 6:18 pm
Well, I was blocked from facebook a month ago. Truthfully, I deserved it and pushed him to it. Our relationship had gotten out of control. He had once said how he loved me trying to repair things when he was angry and I just went too far. I made other mistakes along the way. We were together so long there are just so many things left between us. He was very good with emotional manipulation whether it was purposeful or not. Sadly, I understand bith him and the situation much better now. I understand I may never salvage this relationship, but I am so much better for it. Truly, I am pretty amazing. I have a lot going for me, I am funny, smart, sexy, and responsible. I suppose the one thing I truly hope for is to help him, not get him back. You see, I do truly love him. I want his happiness. I also want to help him understand what went wrong with us , it is a mistake we both continue making. That way he may see and stop it next time. Yes, it hurts to think of him with someone else, but it hurts worse to think of him unhappy. It has been two weeks since I saw him. I did text last week twice, and get no response until friday. Then no response when i text back. I guess my question is how long should I wait to talk with him? Yes, I would love to get him back, but I am ok without him. I miss him. His scent, his laugh, the things we did together, the life we lived but I am also enjoying my new life. If our relationship continues it will be much different, I don’t know if HE would want that but this is my happiness I am looking after here. What I would hope for is that talk without anger without judgement or blame. Do you think both are possible?
admin
March 13, 2015 at 4:12 pm
I think it all depends on your tone and how you talk to him.
Sometimes tone alone can set someone off.
Anissa
March 7, 2015 at 8:27 pm
Hi Chris!
My boyfriend broke up with me on Valentine’s day, and we were trying to be friends, but every time we saw each other it just turned into me asking him to get back together again. He admitted to missing me yesterday, but then said some really hurtful things, like he just wants to hook up with a bunch of girls and doesn’t want to be in a relationship. I was so angry at him for saying this, because it meant he left me to just hook up with other girls, so I slapped him. I know now it was the absolute worst thing I could have done, and I regret it. He’s blocked me on just about every social media possible, and he said im psychotic. I really am not, I was just so angry and hurt, and lashed out out of anger. I’m at a loss with what to do, because there is still a part of me that wants him back, but it’s moreso that I want him to want me back. Please if you have any advice that would be great
Thanks
Anissa
admin
March 8, 2015 at 2:53 pm
NC is great for that.
Anissa
March 9, 2015 at 2:04 pm
I have started NC now that he has me blocked. But do you think my slapping him has ruined any chance I had at potentially getting him back? Or is he just extremely angry about it right now and needs cooling off time?
Anissa
March 28, 2015 at 10:05 pm
UPDATE:
I’ve recently noticed that I’ve been unblocked (his name appeared in my messages on Facebook again.) and im wondering where his mind is now, what’s his reason for unblocking me. I read about all the degrees of blocking, and I’m convinced that he’s waiting for me to open the doors of communication back up and request him. I haven’t talked to him for three weeks, since the full blockout, and I think maybe thats getting to him now. I’m not going to request him, I’m going to wait it out through NC and hope he requests me. What do you think the chances of him reaching out to me are?
Craw
March 7, 2015 at 3:47 pm
Ive been seeing a man 17 years older than me. We used to be VERY good friends. He is a bit immature & has on more than one occasion ignored me for really dumb reasons. If I’d call or text…pretty much be persistent….eventually he’d get over it until the next time. Well the last time he got angry, he started ignoring me, no response to texts or phone calls. That was a month ago. Still I kept trying. It was always like a game to show him I cared. Anyway, tried to call him yesterday & I’ve been blocked so I assume my texts aren’t going thru either. I got angry. I got an anonymous number & called him & texted him from there. I feel like a crazy stalker now as I realize this time it’s different. I really think he means it. He doesn’t have a computer so I have been completely blocked. Any chance for me? Now what? How do I convince him I don’t have issues as he’s been telling mutual friends. Because obviously I do š
admin
March 8, 2015 at 2:40 pm
I think time away is the best defense here.
Also, NC is a good idea for you especially if you feel like a stalker haha.
Craw
March 8, 2015 at 5:08 pm
Thank you for replying. I think I need help with NC! It’s like he is an addiction. Any ideas? I feel stuck. Seriously though in a case like this, is there really a chance?
admin
March 13, 2015 at 3:28 pm
He is an addiction.
Did you know that they did studies and they determined that people who think about their exes have the same part of their brain light up as cocaine addicts.
My advice to you is to make yourself so busy that you distract yourself.
Work, excercise, fun with friends.
Craw
March 9, 2015 at 10:46 am
AND I HAVE DONE EVERYTHING WRONG!!! Just finished reading about phone gnats (yikes!!!!)
admin
March 13, 2015 at 4:00 pm
Those silly phone gnats!!!
Glad you are reading and educating yourself though.
Isabel
March 7, 2015 at 2:21 am
You are the best! Thank you for giving such a great breakdown of nearly every possible reason and outcome for his actions. There is a part of me that hopes to get him back but it’s not the main goal. We work together (shoot me) and after my month vacation away from the workplace, I have to see him everyday. I love what I do for a living so reading this actually helped me realize he did me a favor. I think not contacting him will help me become better and I may not even want him back after that. Who knows! But either way it’s a win-win! Thanks again.
– Isabel
admin
March 7, 2015 at 6:12 pm
Wow thanks so much for commenting Isabel!
You have a perfect attitude.
Jennifer
March 5, 2015 at 7:09 pm
Hi Chris, my name is Jennifer and I am 25 years old. My boyfriend of 3 years, who is 27 years old, broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. He broke up with me because we had been fighting this past year about a few different things. Iām usually a quiet person, so he told me that he doesnāt always want to be the one talking in the relationship and he said that he wants someone who challenges his more, which I don’t completely understand. I also tried calling and texting him during the first week we broke up, but he told me to stop and said he doesnāt want to work on our relationship anymore. I even contacted his friends and family to see if they could help; they told me just to stay strong and that itās between me and him. He even blocked me on Facebook and most likely blocked my phone number on iPhone. His reason for blocking me is that is how he deals with things. The very last thing I said to him was that I do understand and if he needs anything to let me know. He said likewise, just give me some time.
I have been using the no contact rule and have been focusing on myself. But I would like to know when and how I should contact him, because I really do want him back.
I do want to thank you so much for your help Chris! Your website has really been helping me through this difficult time!
Jennifer
March 8, 2015 at 11:15 pm
Hi Chris! Just following up to see if you can give me any advice on what I should do about my situation. Thanks!
admin
March 13, 2015 at 3:42 pm
Hi Jennifer, how can I help?
I am getting around to answering everyone today.
Jennifer
March 19, 2015 at 11:42 pm
Hi Chris, Thanks for asking how you can help! I can explain my situation again:
My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me recently, because he was bored with our relationship and told me that I donāt challenge him enough. Of course I begged him to come back after he broke up with me, but he told me to stop contacting him. He blocked me on Facebook and possibly my number (iPhone makes it hard to tell if you have been blocked or not). I am now currently on day 21 of no contact, and I have really been focusing on myself, and working on my awareness and acceptance.
When I am ready to, do you think I should mail him a letter telling him that I accepted the breakup. And say that I also have had a lot of exciting things happen and would like to tell him about it when heās ready? (A lot of positive things have really happened to me). I feel like a letter would be a little more effective, instead of texting since I donāt know if he blocked my number.
I would really appreciate your help, because I do want him back, and I know working on myself would give my exboyfriend and I, a new relationship. Thanks so much in advance!
val
March 5, 2015 at 2:59 am
Hi Chris,
My ex bf broke up with me when we argued over text a month ago. He blocked me everywhere except whatsapp and told me not to contact him until May. Initially I continued to whatsapp him but stopped since a week ago. I don’t want to lose him and am taking small steps to improve myself until May comes. He is a stubborn and hotheaded guy when it comes to me being petty over trivial stuff. He forgave me time and again but I didn’t work being a better person. Is there a way for me to salvage this relationship when May comes? Thanks Chris.
admin
March 7, 2015 at 5:34 pm
I wouldn’t put a timeframe on it to be honest…
Once you do that you limit yourself.
Ava
March 4, 2015 at 7:37 am
Hello, well my exboyfriend and i wwere living together up until recently, he had decided to move back home and his reasons were tosave on gas and to be closer to his job. So i was ok with that because we are expecting a baby girl soon. So a day goes by, and he hasn’t called me or text. The next day i text him and he still doesnt respond so immediately im outraged and hurt so i admit i keep texting him asking if he’s dealing with someone else and with surprise he text me back telling me he’s tired of me accusing him and that was that…its been almost a week now and he’s called me once and said he can’t say he loves me and for me to let go. I cried for hours wondering why did i push to that point. So i tried to call him to apologize only to find out that he has blocked from everything now im even more hurt. What should i do especially because im pregnant
admin
March 5, 2015 at 8:40 pm
You are currently pregnant?
Jazmine
March 6, 2015 at 9:59 pm
Hi! I was engaged 11 years ago to an amazing man and I pushed him away. I was only 21 years old, immature and didn’t know any better. After one year of engagement, I broke it off as I really wanted to finish college before anything else and because I started having fun too. Before college, I never went out to nightclubs with friends or anything like that. He stayed friends with me saying he’d be patient as he knew we belonged with each other (and I enjoyed having him around). But I started dating someone else about a year after I broke off the engagement but I never told him about it (we were still in communication). The guy I dated was a pshycho and the law had to get involved. During this time, my ex-fiance stayed with me and he even went with me to court. Then my mother passed away and he was there with me too! After that, I saw him once when he asked me for a book I had borrowed and that was the last time I saw him. We only talked briefly and he told me “I had changed”. Then he disconnected his phone and I was not able to get a hold of him. I let him be… then I found out he started his career (in 2009) so he started traveling a lot (and still does).
I have dated other men but my ex-fiance is still in my mind. In 2011, he started e-mailing me (I no longer have a phone # for him or address and we’re not Facebook friends – no friends in common either). I was so happy to hear from him and I was more than happy thinking I could get another chance with him. During our e-mails he told me he still cared about me. I was so happy since it was going good (or so I thought). But then BOOM!! All communication stopped (it was only about 5 e-mails per year)! In 2013, I told him I would like to meet him and he said he couldn’t because of work (even when I offered to come to his location). That was the last time I was able to get a reply from him. I emailed him again in 2014 (twice) but didn’t get a response… is it too late for me? Your sincerity is greatly appreciated.
Nafisa
March 4, 2015 at 4:29 am
Hi! So I’m really stressed out and this lead me to this website! I’m in a long distance relationship for almost two years and I visited my bf a few months back he was also going to come where I live. However we fight a lot, and we broke up a lot of times but we eventually got back together again. I feel like he doesn’t want me anymore and lost interest on me but then he shuts me up and gets mad if he hears this. We were talking though phone about a week ago and I was a bit cranky so we had a stupid and meaningless argument which was he was making faces to me on FaceTime and when I told him to talk to me he said he got nothing to say,then I said hang up and go sleep. He hung up on my face like he does all the time and he never called me again. After two days he blocked me from everywhere except facebook. I texted him on facebook I started freaking out after 5days cause I just can’t be without him he’s 5 years older than me btw and both of our families know about us. So yeah he did this to me for a really stupid reason we were not even fighting. It was his birthday today and when I wished him I found out I’m blocked from whatsapp too I felt really bad cause it’s always me who’s trying to hold on to it and he always gives up but I haven’t seen a guy cry like he does for me
admin
March 5, 2015 at 8:34 pm
Did you read my long distance relationship page yet?
Niki
March 3, 2015 at 8:08 am
Hello,
My ex and I had a very strong relationship
Now that we are not together
He blocked me from instagram but yesterday night he unblocked but again blocked me when I had commented on his guy friends picture.
What does that mean?
admin
March 3, 2015 at 10:07 pm
It means he is watching you from afar and appears to be jealous.
Laura
March 2, 2015 at 5:18 am
I posted a picture on snapchat of a random guy and myself I met a bar because I knew my ex was looking at the snaps. Immediately after he saw that picture he blocked me from all social media and I mean all. He still hasn’t blocked me from his phone though (I think). What do you think this means?
admin
March 2, 2015 at 9:56 pm
It means he is jealous and upset and taking it out on you.
Laura
March 3, 2015 at 4:52 am
Do you think I screwed up my chances by doing this? I wasn’t really thinking at the time about the consequences and I feel like I should’ve never done it.
Sandra
March 1, 2015 at 11:02 pm
Hi chris.
Thank you for this page I red it much before when I wanted my ex back. My ex is a long stort but after he broke up with me in april last year, he still had control over me and treated me so bad. But I loved him and would do anything to get him back, just found out that he was psychological abusing me.. Anyway. I have mooved on but still I think of my ex sometimes because I was so hurt by him. I moved on at last and this year I met a new guy. I felt better and my ex who told me that he was happy and that he would find a better girl got what he want, I moved on. Now, he has contantly blocked and unblocked me on Facebook. I Don’t know why. Then one day I took away the private thing on instagram because I were in a competition. I have a pribate instagram so that my ex can’t see what I am doing. But the same Night he went in om my page and liked an old meningfull picture on my mother and also unblocked me on fb.
That was some weeks ago. And recently I had my birthday, that day, the guy that I am dating put up a photo of me and him on my Facebook page and wrote a cute text. I saw that my ex blocked me on Facebook that day and also on instagram. Why did he do that? And also the next day he tried to add my best friend on snapchat but she declined it. Then he came to my friends party when he wasn’t invited and I was out of town that day and then he followed my 2 best friends home in the night. Why does he do all those things? I really Don’t wanna think about it but i would be thankful for you answer… Why did he block me when I had my birthday and my friends and the guy I am dating putted up a picture of us?
Hope you might have an answer to this
admin
March 2, 2015 at 9:33 pm
He probably is hurt to see you happy.
Thats my guess.
Sky
March 1, 2015 at 4:57 pm
Hi Christ!
My situation is weird. We really never have a break up we were having an awesome time together until he told me he needed to block me from facebook for a day or two saying that his kids were visiting him and he doesn’t want them to know about us yet. He blocked me in case I will send him a message or something and the kids were around. When they were gone he unblocks me and we continue like nothing happens.
2 years long distance relationship with this guy, he visited me around 5 times in which we had a great time together, we never have a fight. He is very caring and respectful and treats me really nice. He lost his job and I lend him money and use my cc to pay for some bills. Well, I found out he used my credit card to order some pizza for his kids without my consent, and when I confronted him in a nice way he denied it even though I have all the proof that he ordered online and charge $75 to my card and the pizza was delivered to his place. Since I confronted him he is been acting cold and distant and doesn’t spend a lot of time in facebook like before. He told me he was going to pay me for everything but just to give him more time until he gets a better job. We used to talk for hours and hours and he is now only a few minutes on facebook. A week ago I receive an inbox message from his facebook, but this time it is his ex wife saying that he is been using me all this time and I will never see the money I lend him. That she doesn’t want him and to please take him with me and disappear from her life.
When I send him messages asking him what is going on, the ex wife is the one responding, but I enter into his friend’s profiles and I see him having recent conversations with them. And he is not sending me any message at all, like I said she is the one sending them from his facebook and now she is asking me if I can give her some proof that we really met and that I know him in person, because it is very important for her to know that this is not an online relationship.
I’m been ignoring the messages for the last 4 days. And the messages keep coming asking for the proofs.
What to do? I really like this guy, there is no other way I can contact him but facebook, but I don’t want to look clingy or desperate. I don’t know if they are back together and he doesn’t have the guts to tell me. I don’t know if I should drive all the way to his house and confront him … this is driving me nuts because I really don’t want him to get away with it and be taken for granted. It is a lot of money that I lend him and it is not fair just to forget about it.
Everything seemed so perfect between us and I don’t know what to do. Please advice…. Thanks