What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

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Tammy

February 12, 2015 at 8:31 am

Hi, I have a question and I was hoping you could answer. My ex and I got into a big fight and we broke up a little over a month ago. I blocked him on facebook as I was extremely angry (long story short I did exactly as you predicted with your flow chart) sent him a long message of why I was angry and that I didn’t want to see him again, said some sh*tty things in that too which I totally feel silly for and regret, and I blocked hid phone number, I also deleted him off snapchat (except my snapchat stories were public meaning he could see it, please note I have no idea how to change this haha) for the first week we had broken up we didn’t talk and every so often I’d update my snapchat story on the things I was doing, ect and after a few days I noticed my ex would look at all my stories which gives me the impression he was interested in what I was doing after the break up. After a week though, I caved and tried to contact him by calling him. It didn’t go well and he hung up straight away which sucked so I messaged him and told him I was sorry for what I said ect. he didn’t reply so I’m not sure but it’s possible he blocked my number then. and I noticed a few days later he wasn’t viewing my snapchat stories any more so I’m assuming he blocked me on that. since then I’ve gone no contact and it’s been a little over 30 days since I’ve spoken to him. I unblocked him on facebook a few nights ago and his number too. I’m not sure if he’s unblocked me from snapchat or my number and I don’t think he noticed I un blocked him. now I want to reestablish communication with him. I want to send him a message on Facebook (using the techniques you’ve given in your awesome articles. also I know you’re really big on texting but texting was not a common way of communicating for my ex and I. facebook is how I and most if the people I know communicate with each other hehe so that’s the way I want to go) but I’m afraid that once I try to reach out to him he’ll block me on that too. How can I prevent this? And what should I do if this occurs? what should I say?

Thank you 🙂

admin

February 16, 2015 at 10:14 pm

I think in this particular case Facebook would be ideal!

Only because that is the norm for you guys.

That is like texting for you two.

Uni

February 12, 2015 at 6:26 am

What if he is not an ex but a friend? We just met and hung out, kissed, both had an intense chemistry and mental connection. He is very busy and 6 years younger than myself, but mentally seems older.

However, I chased him too hard. Soon after an intense conversation, he deleted me off one of his FB’s (hs business one that he never uses) and I sort of freaked out on the phone with him. He was surprised it was such a big deal to me. He rarely updates his.

I deactived my entire facebook and the next day he deactived his personal FB account. So I showed up at his place, and he said he didn’t even notice that I deleted mine, he just felt like going off the grid because he had so much work. We talked and decided to start fresh and take our friendship slow. He told me to text him when I got home and I did, glad we talked. He said me, too. That was the last I heard from him (6 days ago). The day after our talk he deleted his personal facebook and his business facebook.

Is the fb deletion really because he doesn’t care about such things, or does it have somethimg to do with me?
What is going on and what do I do?
Devon

February 9, 2015 at 9:06 pm

hi, me and my ex boyfriend has been going out for 5 years we split early last year because he was texting another girl and then eventually got back after 4 months. we was doing fine and then i became ill since december last year and the doctors were not listening and kept sending me away, i had no energy to do anything and just felt down (probably moody and a bit naggy) i recently end of January this year me and my ex had a argument because of something i put on snapchat(like social network) but was never meant to hurt him i just went out for dinner with my dad but he took it the wrong way even though he knew i wouldn’t cheat on him or anything. he then kept delaying the time to speak to me about it all, then i went into hospital because i had severe anaemia and had to have a blood transfusion. He came and saw me and when i came out we talked and he said he wanted me to get better first then we could sort us both out but we were fine and that he loved me and i was his girl and so on. Then i saw him4 days later and he finished me because of this argument we had and he doesn’t think i will change. he then text me 3 days later asking how i was and to let him know how the hospital went and i did not reply, then sunday he text me saying when i wanted to meet him for our things and i have not replied, but now i have been on Facebook and he has blocked me.I don’t know what to do because i love him and want to get him back

admin

February 10, 2015 at 3:43 pm

Are you just blocked from Facebook or are you blocked on the phone and other mediums too?
Devon

February 10, 2015 at 7:06 pm

hi, thankyou for replying i am just blocked from Facebook but he text me friday and i ignored it, he text me sunday asking when i was going to meet him to give our things back and then text me again this morning asking me to please speak to him and its only been a week since the break up.
admin

February 11, 2015 at 1:48 pm

You are allowed to break NC to give your things back.
devon

February 12, 2015 at 1:10 pm

thank you i know but i don’t want to see him at the moment, i want to make a difference in myself and show him that i have changed. it was over something so little and he was not there to support me as in myself when i felt so down and ill, fair enough he helped me by taking me to the hospital and so on but was not there for me. I just don’t know what to think with him texting me 3 messages in a week of breaking up. also when i left his house as he broke up with me he text me saying he loved me :s
Devon

February 11, 2015 at 2:21 pm

I just don’t know what to do. Why contact me 3 times in a week of the break up? I want him back and for him to realise that it was a silly little argument and that I am now better so I can be myself and I have changed.

Huang

February 4, 2015 at 6:18 am

Hi, my bf and I were in a long distance relationship. We were suppose to meet when he came back, after 5 months. He was eager to meetup immediately after he came back and texted me to arrange but something happened to his family and we couldn’t meetup. He promised he would call me that night. I texted him to make sure his family was ok and waited for him to call. However, he did not. Naturally, I was upset as I really missed him and was eager to hear his voice. The next day, I texted an angry message saying that I felt unloved and he ignored me. The following few days, i texted him everyday asking what happened to him and was starting to get really worried as he continued to ignore me. One week later, he texted back and it felt very cold. He said that he felt like we had lost connection due to time and distance. Due to the week long ignorance, I was prepared that he would end it. I apologied for the things he said that he felt I hurt him and asked him if we could still meet as friends. He said ok but see first when. I asked him if it was ok if I pestered him to meetup and he said ok and then I ended it by saying that I hope we can meetup sooner rather than later as the meetup would serve as a conclusion for me. However, I did not contact him at all since. Here is where I need your help. On the day we ended, he posted some childhood photos a few hours later on wechat. I saw it but did not do anything about it. I was feeling hurt as well. I decided to apply no contact to him and probably like the pic on day 21. However, on day 14, he suddenly hid his album on wechat from me, which I don’t understand why. I am the type who does not post comments and definitely won’t spam his pictures. I will usually just like his pics. What do you think is the reason for this behaviour? Should I text him after 21 days, or should I still wait until 30 days? Is there still hope? Today is day 17 of no contact and since the day we ended.

admin

February 4, 2015 at 2:25 pm

Wait the full 30 days.
Huang

February 4, 2015 at 2:46 pm

Is this a bad sign that he has hid his album in wechat from me? But he has not blocked me from sending messages. Just some background info, wechat is our usual form of communication and he does not use fb.
admin

February 5, 2015 at 3:01 pm

I would say its not a bad sign .. He hasnt blocked you from sending messages.
Huang

February 19, 2015 at 11:58 am

It’s been slightly over 30 days now. I tried to send a text to him via wechat today but I realised that actually he did not hide his album from me but he deleted me from his wechat. I need to send a friend verification code in order for my text to be received. I did that since its been 30 days with the text included. But I guess that this is a very bad sign and it seems he has moved on from day 14. What should I do now if he does not reply to my text or add me back as friend?
Huang

February 9, 2015 at 11:27 am

Thanks for your insight. Just one more thing, my ex bf schedule is such that his rest day is on Sunday and the rest of the days he is usually very busy to the point where he might not have the time or energy to read text messages. I was thinking of texting him on day 28 instead, on his rest day. Can I text him on day 28 or should I still persist till day 30? Regardless if he has the time or energy to process what to reply me on his work day?

Tuma

February 2, 2015 at 11:09 pm

Hi,
Me and my boyfriend live in the same house.Its an apartment so its me, him and his sister. We had a fight about two months ago and he blocked me on kik. Then we started talking(in person) and everything was just fine.O n New Years I sent him a message saying happy new year on Facebook ,he read it then blocked me without replying.When he came back home he acted like nothing happened and started kissing me. After that we was okay and today he blocked me again on his phone.

admin

February 3, 2015 at 1:19 pm

Very hot and cold this guy…

Are you missing something?

Is this not out of the blue as you think?

Beth

February 2, 2015 at 7:52 pm

Is there anyway to get an ex back if you have broke up multiple time and broke the rules listed above and contacted him and he put in place the full block after the contact?

admin

February 3, 2015 at 1:07 pm

Yes there is but you really have some work to do.

sweetha

February 2, 2015 at 2:18 pm

He close friend cut there friendship because of he breakup me but i haven’t anything i don’t know who say wit her and my ex call me scould me i feel hurting he knew i haven’t do that but still he angry with me and say i am the enemy for him in life i m crying try to tell my situation but not hear that.then i call to he’s friend she ask to me what happen to you n he?thaen i say we got some problem first he talk with one girl like him sister i knew but all in college tell they are couples so i can’t take it and tell to him don’t talk with she he also agree then after few days i need to tell the truth why i asking him to won’t talk with she and he also give some advice me then we ok ready,suddenly the next week we got problem again he not spend time to me so i ask to spend with me but he not then we got fight afret that he tell why he not spend time to me then we are again ok ready .then the following week i just kidding him he take it serieus then he angry with me after 2days we talk like normal but suddenly he say want breakup with me.Then she say why she want cut his friendship when he started to love me she tell to him “if u breakup she i will cut your friendship” but he think i m the one make problem for they bouth.Now this week saturday she want meet me n he to talk about this all i don’t know what will be happen?this is my problem now i can’t contact him because he block me all side ready but i want him,i still love him.Give me idea to get him back to me….
sweetha

February 2, 2015 at 1:38 pm

I hope u will reply to me.Last week monday me n my boyfriend breakup ready.i say i want him in my life n talk to him but after 4 days he will block me in facebook and no any contact i can’t contact also but i wan’t him don’t know what to do for that.No any contact with us how can i get him back?i wan’t him please help me…

admin

February 3, 2015 at 12:56 pm

How long have you been in NC?
sweetha

February 4, 2015 at 1:40 am

No,I still try to talk but today still i haven’t do anyting
sweetha

February 4, 2015 at 2:05 am

NC ONE DAY

sweetha

February 2, 2015 at 1:36 pm

I hope u will reply to me.Last week monday me n my boyfriend breakup ready.i say i want him in my life n talk to him but after 4 days he will block me in facebook and no any contact i can’t contact also but i wan’t him don’t know what to do for that.No any contact with us how can i get him back?i wan’t him please help me

admin

February 2, 2015 at 2:51 pm

Well, you are already in NC correct?
sweetha

February 4, 2015 at 1:40 am

yes…what can do for get him back…
sweetha

February 5, 2015 at 1:55 am

What will i do now for get him back?I m already in NC.
admin

February 5, 2015 at 3:32 pm

Your focus should be on having no slip ups during NC.
sweetha

February 6, 2015 at 3:49 am

That means i can’t understand?no slip ups means?
admin

February 6, 2015 at 2:28 pm

Not breaking NC.
sweetha

February 6, 2015 at 2:35 pm

But tomorrow he’s friends want meet me he also must come but the still not confirm.I hope i will in NC 30days….
sweetha

February 6, 2015 at 3:58 am

Ok until 30 days right?
admin

February 6, 2015 at 2:28 pm

yes.
sweetha

February 6, 2015 at 10:43 am

But tomorrow he’s friends want meet to me how?he also come but he don’t know i m coming it’s not i m doing his friends decide to solve our problem.

Lauren

February 1, 2015 at 5:31 pm

I was never officially dating this guy but we had acted like we were dating and kissed a lot. Problem was the first time he kissed me he was dating another woman. After they broke up I had told her because she deserved to know and I felt horrible about it. Turns out she’s really sweet (opposite of what he told me she was like) but she ended up telling him I told her and he got VERY mad at me.. He was messaging me horrible stuff like how i was a wannabe and a freak and stupid (plus a lot of swearing) i pretty much stayed calm and was saying to stop and just leave me alone and that i was done. he kept saying i had nothing to say cause he was right. when i told him to stop again he said “No you started this shit face me like a grown up.” and before i could even reply he blocked me.. (On facebook).. He started dating someone else and is always posting stuff with her. I messaged him off a mutual friends account saying that he needed to stop acting like this and that he had hurt me badly and didn’t even care. He told me I was wasting his time and I said “no I’m wasting MY time on someone who doesn’t even deserve it.” I want him back badly.. I miss him. Even though he was a total dick he was still so kind. I just don’t know how or when to talk to him again

admin

February 2, 2015 at 2:19 pm

How old were the two of you?

He seems like he is acting immature…

Mel

January 29, 2015 at 3:35 am

Hi,
My ex is 35 and I am 25. We were together for 5 months, had basically no contact (he contacted me twice) for one month. Then I contacted him and we were in communication briefly. We saw each other once. Ultimately, he told me it wouldn’t work with us. He sent me a long painful text that this was so hard for him, but he doesn’t trust me and thinks I’m a liar. I can honestly say I have never intended to deceive him- this was a major battle for us that ultimately cause our breakup. I never cheated or blatantly lied. He feels I was not honest about my past relationships. He believes I kept important information from him. I honestly don’t try to think about my past, but he seems to be extremely preoccupied with it and can’t get over it. I have not been with many guys AT ALL. He just feels I gave my heart away to the wrong people made poor discussions and I didn’t tell him theses things right away (I gave him general but he wanted explicit detail). This was when I was a teenager, mind you.
ANYWAY, He blocked my number after a fight (this was when we were already broken up). The fight was because earlier that week, he demanded that I drive four hours to his house and miss work to see him (he wanted to reconcile I believe). He said some pretty horrible things to me after I didn’t respond positively. I didn’t go, and the next day I texted him that I wouldn’t want to see someone that makes me feel so horrible unless I hated myself. I gave him several days to apologize and when he did not, I texted him I was going to block him and to never contact me again. He immediately called me to “apologize”. I felt it was insincere. Long story short, it did not end well. He hung up on me in the middle of the call. It made me so angry that I just texted him a picture that I was about to block his number. I don’t think I meant it, I was just angry. Well he ended up calling me back, saying more mean things and telling me he was going to block ME. Then he hung up. I have not heard from him since.
I sent a couple texts after that, and called but nothing. I know he blocked my number now. I have not tried to contact him in any other form. (He doesn’t use social media and we don’t have that many mutual friends since we met online.) this was almost two months ago. I’ve been very tempted to drive to see him as crazy as that is, but he told me not to. I dont think writing a letter would work, I did that once before when we initially broke up, but he wasn’t as angry then, just sad. I miss him a lot. The stuff he did at the end seemed very very out of his character, which is why I was so hurt and angry at him. In other ways he had everything I am looking for. He was really crazy about me and thoughtful and was always telling me how special I am. I don’t know what to do at this point. I’m still blocked and it’s been close to two months. Way past no contact rule. Advice?

Thank you!

Mel

January 29, 2015 at 7:40 pm

Yes, he blocked my phone number. That is the only way I know to contact him. He doesn’t use social media. Am I completely at his mercy.. Is there ANYTHING I can/should do.
admin

January 30, 2015 at 3:58 pm

What about email?
Mel

January 31, 2015 at 9:39 pm

He told me his email address once but I never had the need to email him. I don’t remember it :(( I’m stuck. I guess my underlying question is if I should continue to put forth the effort if he still hasn’t contacted me by now? I will say he is very hardcore/stubborn and I don’t know if it is just pride, or if he REALLY never wants to see me again.. Like you talked about in your post.
admin

February 2, 2015 at 1:46 pm

How long have you two been breaking up?

Just trying to gauge how long you have been at this.
Mel

February 3, 2015 at 12:59 am

We were on the rocks for a couple months until Mid September, that is when no contact began. During that time he contacted me twice as I mentioned before (saying how much he loves me, special I am etc. but not trying to get back together). About a month and a half later we talked and saw each other at the end of October/beginning of November. We ultimately determined that we really care about each other and would be together in a perfect world but couldn’t seem to find resolve to our constant conflict (my past and the trust issues) There were a handful of moments of contact after that until the final blowup beginning of December. That is the last time I heard from him and when he blocked me. I don’t feel I ever was really “needy” or desperate so in don’t think that is the issue.. He did flip a switch it seems the second time. The first no contact in September we had a mutual understanding and ended peacefully. The last fight was explosive and angry and he blocked me.
Mel

February 3, 2015 at 1:04 am

I’m leaving out quite a bit of detail, but trying to be succinct and get the main thing across.
admin

January 29, 2015 at 3:08 pm

ARe you blocked full out everywhere?

jane

January 28, 2015 at 11:25 pm

I was seeing a guy for 7 weeks, very intense and he was very keen. He then decided our minds did not truly meet. He dumped me by email and ha blanked me since. Out of frustration and sadness I sent him a couple of emails/texts to tell him how I felt about him. No response. Then said hey, when he was online on WhatsApp – he ignored me. I then responded saying that I will not contact you again as I have seen that you have ignored me again and now he has blocked me. We never once argued, had a fantastic time, we connected deeply in more than one way and now nothing. He cannot even speak to me! What do I do? I have been so upset and sad over this. I really thought we were going somewhere.

admin

January 29, 2015 at 2:57 pm

Have you been in NC at all?
jane

January 29, 2015 at 7:42 pm

When he sent me the email he said that he is nervous as he does not see us as a 100% match and therefore will not have any contact with me. I have sent messages as i could not comprehend his coldness. He has not responded.

N

January 27, 2015 at 6:33 pm

This guy and I dated for six months, then out of nowhere lost interest and gave me the full blackout treatment. My friends have been harassing him (against my better judgement) but he’s just ignoring them too. I know this is annoying him, but is it doing more harm than good?

admin

January 28, 2015 at 3:18 pm

Usually these things don’t happen just out of nowhere.

Think hard, what was going wrong in the relationship?

Nia

January 26, 2015 at 6:14 am

Hi I never do this but hope I get a reply..I have been dating a guy since August and we had sex I’d say in September I rejected his advances and didn’t budge until I wanted to have sex.Anyway he was a perfect gentlemen at first but I started to notice a few thing that were red flags to me like him being rude to waiters and had an arrogant demeanor but still a sweet guy at the same time..He would get mad over trivial things in my opinion and that was a problem for me but I would still see him being that it was a long distance relationship sort of and I valued our time which he’d BEG for every couple of weeks..Anywho he has been my first disappearing/reappearing guy experience and he has just got tired of it and told him it was over which I’ve said before but never really followed through..He would say anything from I love you to I want you to have my baby to I want you to live with me and confided in me about a lot of his troubles and his life period…Needless to say we had built a great connection but it’s like he would disappear after we would have a great time together that is if we didn’t argue and the visit get cut short ;(!He blocked me today after randomly msging me for the first time since Wed.It is Sunday And he responded K Cool After I told him Game over as a result of being disgusted with the way he handles me.I did not see his msg for one but when I didn’t reply to his “wyd” msg within 20 min he goes Oh ok cool and then it said you cannot respond to this conversation and he is not able to be searched by me so it dawned on me that he actually blocked me and I’m so hurt but kind of feel like I had a right to not allow myself to be taken for granted…I told him it was over in hopes he would have some sort of ” I don’t wanna lose her” epiphany but I’m blocked…Any thoughts?Is this truly the end?N

admin

January 26, 2015 at 4:13 pm

You will get a reply!

Are you blocked full out or are there still methods in which you can get contacted.
Nia

January 27, 2015 at 6:17 am

Hi,Thanks ! I really enjoyed what I read thanks for doing this and yea he follows me on Tango I’m not blocked from there as of yet and he has my Email as well..I haven’t tried to connect with him in any way..No contact rule to the 10th power ;( I’m so offended and was tired of the games..so why do I feel like I did something wrong after I gave him so many chances?shrugs shoulders…Anyway yes there are other ways we could contact one another…

goldstar

January 24, 2015 at 12:06 pm

Hi I have been blocked a month after the break up . We had decided three day s ago we would have no contact and I had not contacted him since. What do you think happened in this case ans what shall I do

admin

January 26, 2015 at 3:10 pm

Well, it seems like the two of you agreed to go into NC.

EmotionalGirl

January 22, 2015 at 4:54 pm

My ex said lets be friends i refused and start no contact. I broke no contact after 2 weeks and contacted him from facebook. He became mad he said im playing with emotions. The reason why i broke no contact is i tought he blocked me on whatsapp. But he said he deleted whatsapp. Anyway next day after this event ( he implied he is done with me) he blocked me on whatsapp . I texted from facebook why he did this. I suggest talk about what i did to him and why he is angry with me. ( because i found it stupid, he dumbed me then he said he loves me then he said we cant be more then friends but he was talking with me everyday. Ibstopped talking with him first we said mean words to eachother but then he chased me little bit. Im fool i talked with him again after his attention but 3 days later he said we are friends again. Then i started no contact. Im trying to say how can i play with his feelings? He playes with mines.) Still there is no response about why he blocked me on whatsapp or why he is angry with me. Im so regret right now because you suggest no confront. I wish i could read this before sending that text. Im scaring, i hope he wont block ne on facebook too. Is it too late to start no contact? Sorry for my english im not native speaker.

admin

January 23, 2015 at 4:11 pm

It’s ok, you can’t change the past but you can affect the future.

Its not too late for NC.
EmotionalGirl

January 25, 2015 at 12:39 am

Thanx for reply you are the best. Your posts are very helpfull 🙂
EmotionalGirl

February 5, 2015 at 8:31 am

Hey it is me again 🙂

After he blocked me on whatsapp I started no contact. His last text was he does not want to talk me nowadays. But yesterday (5 days after his messages) he made himself in a relationship on facebook.

I want to explain my situation clearly. A month ago when I stopped talking with him first time he met with a girl next day, he knew her like a year. I did not care about it. He tried to talk with me again but after an argument I stopped connecting again. Like I typed before I broke no contact in 2 weeks and he said he wants to forget me. Then blocked me on whatsapp. He never mention about this girl and still he added ”nowadays” in his last message.

Now he is dating with that girl. I asked how he can claim he is a loyal person. He said he did not cheat, I stoped talking with him. I asked if he loves her and his response was yes. Then I said I dont believe it and I know it is a rebound relationship, I know he loves me. We were texting from FB, after my words he blocked me on facebook too. Should I give up?
EmotionalGirl

February 6, 2015 at 3:32 pm

I really need advice, should I give up and try to move on?

heena

January 18, 2015 at 4:41 am

my relationship with him is of 5 yrs+ and v had a rocky one. still v were together and then he felt m not right for him and he starte talking of break up n all. sp after this new year i started with nc but after 12 days i saw that on fb he added new pics with many girls and he went for a night out with those girls. he deleted me from his fb account before that but never added me back even after requesting him alot. then on the day v fought after 12days nc his granny died and he blames me sayin i killed her and its my curse that is causing harm to his family. so he went to his village and today after 2 days when i called him he just blocked me on calls, sms, whatsapp and m not in this fb list.. its a complete blockage.. what to do? how to get unblock by him and start good conversation with him.. plz help me…
Jordan

January 16, 2015 at 4:29 am

Hi Chris,

So after an extensive back and forth of getting back together and breaking up after our initial breakup and (I suppose) an eventual breakup that was horrible, my boyfriend of 9 months and I decided to officially break up in late October; however we remained in contact and we were still having sex on and off — the sex and spending the night together stopped in maybe mid to late November but we remained in contact until I decided to implement the no contact rule. Today when the no contact time was over I texted him — he’s a college athlete so I sent him a cute picture that stated the season was starting accompanied by the text “I was online and I spotted this picture and thought of you– I told you before you’d be great this season and I know you will.” I waited 3 hours for a response before checking my phone, and when I did I realized that he blocked me. I had very strong urges to act desperately and message him on facebook all other social media but I resisted. I haven’t tried to contact him since that text because I feel that he maybe needs more time. But I really need to know where to go from here. He’s a stubborn guy and won’t like to admit to being wrong, and his reaction is starting to worry me that the technique won’t work on him. PLEASE HELP!

admin

January 19, 2015 at 3:45 pm

Hmm… He may have blocked you to hide you from someone he is seeing?
Jordan

January 16, 2015 at 3:44 pm

UPDATE: he’s already unblocked me. I’M SO CONFUSED!!
admin

January 19, 2015 at 3:45 pm

Well, thats great news!!!!!

Kay

January 7, 2015 at 2:36 am

Hey Chris!

me and my ex of 7 months broke up a month and some ago. i have made so many mistakes. i begged i pleaded, i even left his house crying on day when he wanted to talk. his people thing im a perfect match for him, and he should still want to be with me. they think he is crazy about me.

but i believe he isnt, i believe he like another girl. and he has changed his number, due to my cousin fussing at him about liking another girl. so, we have talked before he changed his number and he wanted to be friends or good friends. but we couldnt have a realtionship.

he stated his feelings changed and things that happened made things worse, i felt like i pushed him into that girl arms. he has so much negative thoughts about me. but i respected he still wanted to be my friend. but i wanted/ want a relationship.

i know the world does not revolve around him, i just want him because i feel like we have had more good times than bad times. but i feel like i drug him to the point he doesnt want me anymore. at one point of time we was arguing he said ” i dont want a relationship with you anymore period.” then other times he wants to talk about us.

we were highschool sweethearts and we went onto campus together. school start up in like two weeks, and i still talk to his family and before he changed his number he still talked to mine. i figure my actions after the breakup drove him away, instead of closer.

he told me he still love me and he cares, and he doesnt mind being there for me. but he changed his number and he did not give it to me. i think he doesnt want anything to do with me because of what my cousin did (which would text and fuss with him all the time about me) and he told her to lose his number and she did all this without my permission and without my knowing.

do you think in some way i can change all this negativity? and we may be back together through time like my friends, family, and his family and friends are saying? or maybe they do not know him like they think they do. we broke up over something that couldve been talked out. no cheating or anything. but maybe with all my negativity ( like my mom says) im driving him into the arms of another girl.

can you please help me !

admin

January 19, 2015 at 2:56 pm

Sure, tell me specifically what you have done so far?

Maria

December 19, 2014 at 7:45 am

So, my ex unblocked me after a month, but during that month I sent him a ton of emails, and he hasn’t said anything since he unblocked me. I just read this post lol I wish I would’ve read this before. 🙁

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