What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

2,562 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”

Amy

June 25, 2014 at 7:24 am

He sends me a message, I reply to him, but he doesn’t reply to me. He did this 3x times. Why would it be?

admin

June 25, 2014 at 5:21 pm

What are your message responses like?

alexarae

June 25, 2014 at 1:02 am

Hello. Your guide is very helpful but I still have one question. I am on day 3 of NC and I honestly think my ex is trying to get a reaction from me one by one. At first he changed his Facebook password so I wouldn’t go in, this is highly understandable so I just dealt with it. But then he posted a picture drinking with his friend inviting people to hang with them. Obviously this hurt but I stood my point and didn’t message him. Then the next day he blocked me from Facebook, however I checked from my mom’s Facebook and he never deleted or blocked her. Also his friends that he is always with still have me on facebook. Do you think he is trying to just get a reaction out of me so he can see I still care? If not,then why would he still have my mom on facebook? Do you think he still cares?

admin

June 25, 2014 at 5:16 pm

Well, he is definitely trying to get a reaction from you.
alexarae

June 25, 2014 at 6:30 pm

He just unblocked me again and wrote a status saying “got to do what I got to do to be happy” so idk if it worked. Thank you so much!

ana

June 24, 2014 at 10:38 pm

Hi Chris

How will the NC rule work if he has blocked me?

He said some hurtful things to me. He was really angry, it felt like he really hates me.

admin

June 25, 2014 at 5:15 pm

It can yes!

Selin

June 24, 2014 at 8:01 pm

Hi chris,
This guy and i met and he immediately liked me. I happened to like him in a friendly way since i had a bf back then. After some time passed he got a girlfriend and i broke up with my boyfriend. One day i got drunk and kissed him and realized i had feelings for him that aren’t just friendly feelings. He talked to me and said that he really wanted to kiss me too. After that i felt guilt y because he was in a rs and turned down all his meeting offers with me . Then he got angry and blocked me . Later , he apolagized and said he had no choice and his girlfriend loves him so much. (She still doesn’t know). I let go.. Then, i saw him and said hi in the school dormitory and he texted me when i went to my room saying that he wanted to come over. I gave him my room number and he kissed me . I sait it wasn’t the right thing because he had a gf and he said it was a bad thing but he HAD to do it. Anyways. 1 month later i outted on some Sincere photos with our mutual friend (a guy). And he tezted me saying that be conggragulated us for our rs. I didnt answer. But that night me and my friends drunk dialed him and they told horrible things to him and they said how could he wouldnt love me with that ugly face etc. (i know we screwed up) . He wrote me a day after that saying he is ignoring what happened because he didn’t believe that’s the girl i am.. I apologized and we started talking on the phone, laughing and suddenly we have met. We agreed on drinking smth outside so o said yes. But due to the weather he took us home.. As you could imagine we kissed and he tried to take things a little further. at that moment i suddenly had very intense emotions and started to cry. He hugged me and asked the reason, i just said that he knows whats the reason is. Then i saw a text from his gf and realized he is talking to her RIGHT IN FRONTOF ME . I got mad and asked ”who do you love”’ he answered by asking me questions like what do you mean, it’s complicated etc. i said he was out of line this time and i wouldnt waste anymore time on him and i left him. Now i am blocked. I know i am immature, selfish and stupid because he ibs a big d bag and couldnt be trusted. But i love him and want to be with him

admin

June 25, 2014 at 5:03 pm

Whats your reasoning for wanting him back? Sounds like he is kind of an idiot to me…

Mae

June 24, 2014 at 12:55 am

Why My ex boyfriend blocked me on facebook after i decided to unblocked him. I first blocked him on fb..instagram and everything about 3 days ago.

admin

June 24, 2014 at 6:54 pm

Payback probably..

ana

June 23, 2014 at 10:08 pm

I haven’t really started the N/C with him. I tried for a week but I keep on breaking it. But He has blocked me so I don’t know if it will work.

Do you think it will since he has blocked me?

Pls advice

Thank you Chris

admin

June 24, 2014 at 6:51 pm

Well STOP BREAKING IT!!!

Confused

June 23, 2014 at 3:19 pm

Okay, Chris: here are my question that you wanted me to ask again:
1) What could be the reason(s) why a guy would block/delete you and change their number (when you didn’t even contact them continuously after sending only one text when NC was over) so coldly after dumping you and leaving your for someone else and act as if I didn’t exist?

admin

June 24, 2014 at 6:32 pm

1. I gave you a lot throughout this article…

ana

June 22, 2014 at 11:51 pm

Hi Chris

In response to your question: He said that I was annoying him. I was sending him messages, saying that I need to see him and I am sorry. He got so angry told he doesn’t care about me. I think he is an emotional abuser. He told me that I am crazy and no guy will ever luv me. One minute he says he needs me then the next minute he ignores me.

I am stuck on him and addicted to him. Now he has just blocked me and rubbed in my face that he has a girlfriend now. He said all those horrible things and he has just walked off into the sun set without any care in the world. It just hurts. Sometimes I think he is right about me being crazy and no one ever loving me. He just blocked me fb.It feels like he raped my mind and emotions. My self has reduced drastically.

Facebook was the only contact I had with him. I have his numbers but he ignores my text as well.

Pls advice me Chris, will he ever unblock me?

Thank you Chris.

admin

June 23, 2014 at 2:22 pm

How long have you been in NC for?

ana

June 22, 2014 at 4:40 pm

Hi Chris

In response to your question. He said that I was annoying him.

Please advise me Chris.

admin

June 23, 2014 at 2:05 pm

But how? Can you give me specifics?

Dima

June 21, 2014 at 12:48 am

My ex blocked me today for the first time in our four years relationship, he said he cant afford long distance relationship (1 year) almost 5 months left for him to get back here, he said that” i cant be with you if I dont see you for months” Then I was like ” i think you dont really love me, you gave up just because of distance” then he stopped replying and blocked me. Why?!!
Confused

June 20, 2014 at 10:34 am

Hello Chris:
I dated a guy for 8 months (LDR serious relationship) and after he dumped (left me for someone else but lied about it), he blocked and deleted me off Skype and G-mail chat a month after we broke up. I had read your guide in the past and followed NC for 60 days and eventually reached out to him through text. I asked him why he did something so drastic after telling me he loves me. I received no response. I did not want him back but just wanted to know why he went all Jerkyll and Hyde on me suddenly especially when he had proposed to me after 6 months of our relationship and we didn’t have any major fights or problems. So I went into No Contact again for another 30 days. I found out he changed his number. I want to know as to why he would act like this after dumping me when I did not even cheat on him and was very loyal and committed through out our relationship. I did not even contact his now girl friend or even him except for that single text that I sent to him. Is there any chance for me to contact him to understand his reasoning or do you think it is a lost cause? What could be the reason(s) why a guy would block/delete you so coldly after dumping you and leaving your for someone else? Please respond!
ana

June 19, 2014 at 3:31 pm

Dear Mr Chris

My ex boyfriend has blocked me from fb, He told me that I annoy him and I should leave him alone and he doesn’t care about me.

We broke up about three weeks ago and he already has a girlfriend. He told me that I am always mean to him, that I always accuse him of cheating on me and he can’t cope with me anymore (I suffer from depression btw ).

I found out that he has a girlfriend.(which at first he made up because his girlfriends has different names and he used the story to get back at me.) He told me it is non of my business and that I should p*** off. He said that he going to block me from his fb.

I don’t know what to do???!!! My heart hurts. About three weeks ago before the blocking, he told me that he has strong feelings for me and he needs me,that he wants to hurt me emotionally so that I don’t talk to him anymore, but he couldn’t do it to me. He has been angry with me for the past two weeks. I know he still has feelings for me I know it. This is all my fault because I hurt him really badly by insulting him and making up a story (that I have met some else last yr) I wanted to hurt him because he doesn’t pay attention to me.

We have been in a long distance relationship for 2-3 yrs because of being in different universities from each other. About 4weeks earlier before the break up, we were planning to go to Venice but once again I accused him and this time he was being sarcastic and tried to stir me up. I lost it with him and told him “we are nothing” he got angry and broke it off with me.

Btw I have deleted him four times and blocked before this all started. I know I messed up but we luv each other. I did something really stupid as well I insulted a female friend of his on fb (he told me, he was sleeping with her and she means nothing to him) now he is saying that is his girlfriend now.

Help me Mr Chris I am so lost in my heart. My ex is loving every minute of it.

Thank U (sorry for my long story but I really need ur help )

admin

June 21, 2014 at 7:18 pm

Well, were you annoying him on Faceobok or something?

First Snow

June 19, 2014 at 6:07 am

My exes blocked me when they had already moved on with someone. It’s more often the case and I think your article has made it sound too positive. NC or not I think when you get blocked the chances of getting back together is much lower than you described. Guys do move on faster than girls in general. It surely is more comforting to think there’s hope but I would suggest moving on without looking back.

admin

June 20, 2014 at 7:46 pm

Well, the article is meant to teach people the best way to get their exes to unblock them. I did say multiple times that there is no guarantees.

Confused

June 18, 2014 at 4:36 pm

Hello Chris:
I dated a guy for 8 months (LDR serious relationship) and after he dumped (left me for someone else but lied about it), he blocked and deleted me off Skype and G-mail chat a month after we broke up. I had read your guide in the past and followed NC for 60 days and eventually reached out to him through text. I asked him why he did something so drastic after telling me he loves me. I received no response. I did not want him back but just wanted to know why he went all Jerkyll and Hyde on me suddenly especially when he had proposed to me after 6 months of our relationship and we didn’t have any major fights or problems. So I went into No Contact again for another 30 days. I found out he changed his number. I want to know as to why he would act like this after dumping me when I did not even cheat on him and was very loyal and committed through out our relationship. I did not even contact his now girl friend or even him except for that single text that I sent to him. Is there any chance for me to contact him to understand his reasoning or do you think it is a lost cause? What could be the reason(s) why a guy would block/delete you so coldly after dumping you and leaving your for someone else? Please respond!

admin

June 20, 2014 at 7:06 pm

Why would he think you cheated? Where did that come from?
Confused

June 21, 2014 at 3:49 am

I never emotionally, mentally or physically cheated on him. It would make more sense if a guy blocks you and cuts you off so coldly if you had caused him some pain like cheating on him. That’s where that thinking was coming from. Why would someone act like I didn’t exist right away when in fact they are the one who were unfaithful?
Confused

June 22, 2014 at 4:02 pm

Please reply Chris to my last question!
admin

June 23, 2014 at 1:54 pm

Could you ask it again?

Jessica

June 18, 2014 at 12:36 am

Chris my bf blocked me and changed his number what should I do now

admin

June 18, 2014 at 1:42 pm

Well, can I ask if you read this article from start to finish?
Jessica

June 19, 2014 at 10:24 am

Yes I have should no contact work or you think this is over for good and I just should move on

Stacey

June 17, 2014 at 8:06 pm

I read this article from top to bottom and i found that my scenario isn’t anywhere on it. so i thought id ask what you think about it.
today makes it 5 weeks since the break up with my bf of two years. ive followed all the rules of a break up. I read a bunch of different articles before ending up here so i broke NC early since i was under the impression it was a two week span and not a month. i since have restarted NC.
I just discovered today ive been removed. or at least i thought i was after a bit of investigating ive come to the conclusion i haven’t been removed he DELETED his WHOLE Facebook! i asked a couple of my friends to check his profile and its completely gone! i considered maybe he went through the effort of blocking them all but he’s way too lazy for that besides. one wasn’t even Facebook friends with him and she still couldn’t find him. he never really used it a lot to begin with and he murmured once or twice about getting rid of it a while ago but i find this a strange phenomenon since just last week he was using it to “prowl” (liking ALOT of girls pictures ect.)
im not sure if this scenario fits the article above or not. i feel its a bit dramatic to completely delete. whats your opinion on it?

admin

June 18, 2014 at 1:29 pm

Meaning he completely erased his profile???
Stacey

June 19, 2014 at 1:21 am

i asked four people i know to look for him and they cant find him anymore so as far as i know he deleted his whole profile. Which leaves me baffled because just last week he was using it to scope girls out..

What do you think it means that hes deleted his whole profile? Cause to me it seems like he might be taking things very badly even tho hes the one who broke up with me.
Stacey

June 19, 2014 at 3:44 am

I know i just wrote a comment and i dont mean to be spammy im sure you have lots of other comments to read but i wanted to ask something. How do you know if you screwed the pooch? Cause I feel like ive blown it big time.
Ive followed all your advice so well if this was a class id be getting an A+. Started becoming a UG during NC. I havent made ANY of your “biggest mistakes women make”. But i feel they arent working to my advantage.
Im my exs first serious gf. When he broke up with me i told him i have a rule about exs. I dont go back. As you can see im here and i was totally bluffing. But thats not the point.
Ive been doing so well taking your advice. But i think he was expecting “icecream bucket on couch girl” not UG and i think he thinks im way over him and hes given up.
I think this because I saw in one of your articles a small list of things hell do if he misses you: calling, texting, contacting your family, reacting positively when he sees you in public. He did all that. Did being the key word. The first two weeks he did all those and then I broke NC after two weeks because i hadnt found yourr articles yet that said 30days but after i discovered the 30day rule i went back into NC its been 11 days and in this time he hasnt reached out. Like i said in my previous comments he deleted his whole facebook!!
I think im maybe doing too well and its upset him. Is there even a fix for that?? And do i have to reach out to him first since i said no take backs? Can i bounce back from being “too good” and “moved on”??

Lindsay

June 17, 2014 at 2:37 am

I have been reading this blog for a while now without comment, and from reading and looking and not seeing my question, I wanted to ask: What about blocking him?

Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up in January, after dating for 2.5 years. He grew up with a rocky childhood, and was used to feeling like he didn’t deserve anything, and that I could always do better than him. He made me completely happy, and he has just always been too down on himself to realize that he was doing a good job when it came to me. The relationship was going good for those 2.5 years, and then he started experiencing alot of family issues, bringing up his problems of insecurity from the past, and that’s when he started to get down on himself. He’s always questioned his ability to take care and love someone else, when he couldn’t even seem to love himself.

Throughout these almost 6 months, we have talked here and there, and we have seen each other a few times, always with the same outcome. One time, he even went as far as getting us a hotel room, many bouquets of flowers, petals all over the room, begging for me back, and it ended the same way it always does, with him disappearing a few days later. He always ends up confessing his feelings to me, how much he loves me and how much he wishes that he could make me happy, then the same thing always follows at the end: He is too confused, and he doesn’t think he can make me as happy as I deserve.

I get that this excuse is definitely an excuse, but I’ve tried all that I know of, keeping my distance, dating someone new, and both sides of being there for him, and then not letting him use these excuses on me. Nothing seems to work. I know he does love me, but I also see what he means when he wonders, “If you can’t love and take care of yourself, how can you do that to someone else?”

I have a hard time ignoring him, and every time that I seem to get a grip on our breakup, that will be when he texts me again, or calls, or wants to meet up, and I fall for it every time. In all of this, this is why I was wondering what your views were on the GIRL blocking the GUY, instead of being the person getting blocked. I am just tired of being fooled and pulled back in everytime, for his answer to always being he’s still crazy in love, but is just too lost in life right now. I just want to save myself some heartache, and I just want to know what you think about me considering blocking him and trying NC, or if I should just leave him unblocked, and test my resistance when trying NC. I just don’t want to be the putty in his hands like I usually am! I don’t want to miss out on anything if he tries to reach out to me and I have his number blocked, but I guess that’s the whole point of NC, to not talk to him no matter what!

All in all, he was my best friend, and it was the best relationship I have ever had in my life. It wasn’t a sad story, no one cheated, no one left because anything specific happened. It just came to a point where I couldn’t convince him that he made me happy, and that he was good enough for me. And I can assure you, I did everything I could to prove to him otherwise. I know that our breakup was a mistake, and I know it’s not a matter of “if” he will realize it, only a matter of “when.” I just need advice to get me through until then.

Any views on this? Has anyone out there tried blocking their ex, without being blocked yourself? How did it work? What are your views on this, Chris?

Ultimately, I know that in the end, either enough time will pass where he will come back to me and it will be great, or enough time will pass where he doesn’t come back, and I will have had enough time to finally figure out how to be happy on my own. I’m sorry it’s so long you guys, I just want to make sure you can try to get a little grasp on my situation! Should I block HIM?

admin

June 17, 2014 at 8:53 pm

I am not a fan actually b/c it robs you of important information like how often he is trying to get in touch.

Kitty

June 15, 2014 at 8:01 am

Since getting with my ex he kept finishing with me over really silly things he was very insecure which led me to blocking friends on Facebook and deleting their numbers just to show him I loved and and wanted to be with him. It then got to a point where no matter what I did it just didn’t seem good enough. I have him all my time and attention and always tried to make him happy. We got on so well then one little thing would trigger him off and I would get the blame everytime. Yes everyone will say why would I want to be in a relationship like that but the truth is he’s got into my head and I can’t stop thinking about him. We broke up over something silly again it was over a picture of his ex that I had seen. He wanted me to send it to him and I got a little annoyed at why he would want it. Really really silly but he finished with me over it. Since then I Tried to make things right again! I went to his house wrote him letters called him thinking that I was showing him how much I loved him bit all he was thinking is that I was crazy and it pushed him further away from me. I just feel so stupid. He text me to say he had cheated on me then on the night told me he hadn’t really he had just said it to hurt me and that he loves me. So I went to his house and we kind of made up then the next day he calls me and finishes it again! Since then he’s ignored me and changed his phone number. I don’t know what’s going on. I feel physically sick, can’t eat and I’m making myself really Ill 🙁 I think he just enjoys playing mind games. Since he’s changed his number I’ve not tried to contact him in anyway bit I do really miss him. He’s twisted everything to people making me out to be something I’m not. All I did was try and make things right and show him I loved him. With the kind of person he is and very stubborn do you think this is over for good now? Baring in mind he has finished with me loads then we have got back together (all over silly stuff) but has only ever blocked me now he’s changed his number. I’d just like to point out that this guy is 36 years of age too!!
Kat

June 12, 2014 at 1:08 am

So he’s not really my exe, but there was this one guy who I used to know before he switched schools, and anyways he was always super sweet and tried to get me to date him a lot, but I just wasn’t interested. He blocked me like 5 months ago and I’m really starting to miss him. The only way I could contact him was through Facebook but since he blocked me I can’t even talk to him at all! He was like my best friend and I really want to know what to do. 🙁

admin

June 15, 2014 at 3:21 pm

Did you read this article at all?

Shayne

June 7, 2014 at 9:26 pm

i broke up with my ex for 10years already… a month ago we exchange messages and asked permission if its ok with him. if i will. contact his family. since i didnt received any reply. i tried to reconnect with his family still. we missed each other to the extent they are posting status on facebook looking forward to see me and exchanging comments as well… after that i stop sending him messages coz am. thinking he doesnt care at all. 2days ago i found out he blocked me on facebook. i dont know why… i am curious…

admin

June 8, 2014 at 8:14 pm

He is probably thinking about you a lot if he decided to block you.

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