What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

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Mary

May 6, 2014 at 12:07 am

Hello. my ex and I were in a long distance relationship so he spends some weeks here, i go there to his country and the initial speech he used when he said he wanted to be my boyfriend was that he has everything planned to move to my country soon , I never consider possible to be with him due to the distance even though i was falling for hi even before he made his final move and i saw a possibility when he mention the moving, and that is why i accepted being in a relationship. It stared beautifully, and we both were into each other and in love. But then we broke up in march 24 when i left him. I was visiting him in his country and i was supposed to stay 3 months but left after 5 weeks as i didnt feel comfortable and a series of things happened including him being very temperamental, saying a lot of bad words and even asking me to leave….and next day asking me to stay..he goes up and down like nothing. I cant say i had an argument w him coz i am not the type of person who like fights, i was only crying. Before i left, we made out and fix things,we went all over every thing that bothered me and that upset him and clarify everything to the point that we even talked about getting married, and me moving with him in a few months but just temporarily until he finishes something personal and he is able to move to my country. When we say good bye, it was very emotional, he was crying i was crying…u can imagine. anyways, , when i was back to my country we exchanged some messages through facebook but i noticed he was distant and cold…. a few days later he blocked me in facebook after saying he was broken, sad, depress because i left him. BUt he can sees all my activity because her mom is on my contact list. I sent him an email expressing how sorry i was for everything that happened and apologizing for my part of contribution to it. He never responded. I know he went to thailand for 2 weeks, when he was back he replied my old email, that was on april 2rd, and the first communication was like…oh i feel broken, sad, because of u , you left me, i cry when i hear something that reminds me of u etc etc. I never got involved in giving hi an explanation or justifying my actions as i didn´t want his anger to grow, and most important i didn´want him to feel more sad or depress. In the latest emails he just tells me how his day was, and asks how my day was and i just try all the time to be positive in my emails. He hasn´t unblocked me yet but as i said he doesn´t need to do it in order to satisfy his curiosity about me as he can see all my moves from his mom´s facebook. He says he realizes his mistakes and that he should have handle many things differently but i believe he is hurt and still upset. it is so easy for me to get him upset. I know this is not a game but i cant win with him. I think he has strong feelings for me yet, and that is why he emails me and he didn´t block me also on his mom account. What do you think should be my attitude towards him, or my next move??? should i deactivate my facebook account? i don´t want to block his mom because i believe it can be taken as I don´t respect her or as a bad thing for sure. I know he has feelings for me, but i want him to regret letting me go and to ask me to be back. Any advise??? I am willing to provide any information in private. Today is the first time i visit this site, but i certainly have followed some of your break up rules just by common sense. We never used mobile texts or whatssup to communicate, not even email, just facebook or phone. and he is not a person who likes computers at all or savy on interent or web…so i can say he is doing a lot by opening his email to read my emails and reply. sometimes he sends a few lines in one email and one hour later or more sends a continuation, of previous email. and he has said he misses me very much…..

admin

May 6, 2014 at 7:08 pm

Have you read my LDR post?

Was there ever a plan in place to get closer together?

Wendy

April 29, 2014 at 12:20 am

Well I tried no contact with my ex for a month then I started to talk to him again. well tried to. It was just persuasion back and forth. Then I found out he asked a girl to prom when he knew I wanted to go with him since we got together(2 years ago) and well i lashed out on him and told him how hurt I was and I practically argued back adn forth with him intensely for a week or so. And he told me that he can’t believe he actually considered getting back with me but he wants to take it back now since I lashed out on him. So i tried to argue and tell him to get back with me, but he got really mad at me and yelled(put in caps) many hurtful things. For example he told me that im lucky he hasnt blocked me yet, that he wants me to leave him alone so he can live his life, that he cringes each time he sees my texts to him, that im annoying etc. I got so hurt so I cussed a few times because I was so emotional(I dont usually cuss and he knows that). But I now like last time we broke up he kept trying to move on and I’m scared he will this time since I annoyed him. Well I stopped talking to him since the day he hurt me. But I don’t know what to do noe! I want him to regret this adn get back with me (hopefully). He always checks my snapchat stories constantly. And even started a fight with me right after he broke up with me when I posted a snapchat of my walls free from his posters. But I feel like I may have went too far to make him come back. I dont know what to do cause im tired of being that desperate ex girlfriend but I really want him back. But people always tell me to stop hurting myself because I always go back into a weak state of mind and argue with him to get back and then get hurt when he gets emotional.
Clary

April 28, 2014 at 10:08 am

What if my ex unblocked me on whatsapp after one month of no contact but is still blocking me on other social networks? Does it mean that he has moved on?
Cee

April 25, 2014 at 8:14 am

can i use his birthday to do my second NC attempt? I tried talking to him last march for the first talk after NC he didn’t responded so I did another NC and I will try doing it on his birthday. Can I do that?

Cee

April 29, 2014 at 3:09 pm

what will i try for a week? greet him on his birthday?
admin

April 28, 2014 at 3:58 pm

Try again in about a week…

Taylor Ohlendorf

April 24, 2014 at 12:55 pm

Hi!
I’m going to fill you in on my situation and hopefully you can help me out.. Me and my ex boyfriend are both 20 years old. We met in college and because great friends. For months we would hangout in groups of friends, talked all the time, did everything together but I knew he was a player (always talking and dating 4 or more girls). As his friend, I would laugh it off and continue being friends with him. Around Christmas time las year (2013) I called him drunk and confessed that I had feelings for him. Then next day he came over and said he did too but never was going to act on them because he didn’t knew I felt the same way. Well for Christmas Break we were apart for a month but talked constantly, all day everyday. When we both returned to school at the beginning of this year, we started dating. It was amazing.. Best friends who now could kiss and cuddle. He always used to say that he couldn’t like one girl, that he didn’t cuddle, that he didn’t have feelings, etc. and I thought I changed him. He was always faithful to me and he would act so silly around me, telling me he’s never been able to be so relaxed around anyone. We fell into the spend 24/7 time together and I was staying with him or vice versa every night. We dated for 4 months and we always had little fights but we always said it meant we cared about each other more. He was always calm in a fight while I was the one who blew up. He said he’d never lay a hand on a woman, never would say disrespectful things towards me. He said he could see himself with me forever and I know we are meant to be. Well I had always said I would leave him if he started doing hard drugs (cocaine, crack, etc) and he always said he would never. So one day I see him texting and telling someone he snorted coke the night before.. I get upset and ask him about it. He looks me in the eye and says that he’s lying to his friends to sound cool and he wouldnt do it because he didn’t want to lose me. Well I believed him. So after a couple days I find out he DID do that and other times too so I tell him I’m done and can’t go on like this. He starts begging and drops the L bomb.. Says I can’t go because he loves me. Says he’s never told another girl, can’t see himself loving anyone else, blah blah. I fall right into it and after that things are perfect. We’re so lovey dovey and happy for about 2 weeks. Then one day we get in a small fight (like always) and he snaps.. Starts cursing at me, calling me names, telling me he’s done, all for no reason. I leave and he gives me a hug and says he loves me and we’ll talk soon. So after a day I try to call him and find out he blocked my number.. Then come to find out he blocked me on all social media. So I’m heartbroken and crying, of course. So after a day he sends me a snapchat that says “I love you so much” so the next morning I try to call him and he curses me telling me not to effing call him.. So then he reblocks me on everything. Later that day he unblocks me to tell me about his haircut (I always ragged on him about getting a haircut). So I reply and then get no reply and get blocked again. That was over a week ago and I’ll admit I kept trying to make contact but he has kept me blocked and has been posting about all the new girls he has.. I believed him when he said he loved me, I know he tried to be good for me. Months ago, when he said he didn’t know how to care about people.. Did that mean something? I’m going crazy, I miss him and I know we both had something amazing. Everyone says try the no contact rule but I dont see him contacting me, he’s great at being able to turn off his feelings and be cold. What do I do?
lisa

April 23, 2014 at 12:54 am

hey chris, this is a great guide and definitely very useful btw!

I have a few things that have been on my mind lately and i was wondering if you would be able to help give me some sort of answer to them. So first off i’ve sort of befriended my ex’s friend (a pretty good friend of my ex) un intentionally we just happened to start talking and got along well when we were hanging out with a bunch of friends one time. Anyways we only became friends quite recently so i was wondering if i became even better friends with my ex’s friend would it make my ex jealous in any way that he would realise what he has lost -and as you said ”men always want what they cant have” do you think this would be true in my case…? Also my ex messaged me a few weeks ago asking me if i had any guys in my life lately…. but he was trying to act all friendly like we were friends or something but we hadnt spoken in atleast 3 months lol.. And i dont even know why he asked me this..

admin

April 23, 2014 at 3:58 pm

It would definitely make him jealous.

NADIA PALI

April 21, 2014 at 6:56 pm

Many thanks Chris
Half way during the no contact period he unblocked me on fb and whatsap, wrote to me couple of messages like how i am doing, this and that .. but once he saw my new profile picture on both applications, and a video of me having fun by London river, he started asking who is out with me? why i am still out until midnight ? I didn’t reply .. and he blocked me again ! do you think his reactions are caused by jalousie (unblocking and blocking? do I have to do do NC again?

admin

April 22, 2014 at 4:38 pm

DEFINITELY!

Kimberly

April 13, 2014 at 8:14 pm

If doesn’t say anything back, or if he says something mean..should I just wait longer to contact him again?

admin

April 14, 2014 at 5:21 pm

Yup.

kim

April 13, 2014 at 7:55 pm

my ex blocked me on facebook but i was in no contact on the 10th day when he did so…and the day before he sent me picture texts from when we were dating like our facetime/skype pictures. (We were in an LDR) it’s just confusing because even when i was in no contact he still called left voicemails and texted me even facebook messaged me and even told me he loves me. I’m so confused because he blocked me and all i’ve been doing on facebook was posting status’ on how great life is and i’m grateful to have a loving family etc… (all of which is true) when he broke up with me i cried and he proceeded to play games and say “I love you” as he broke up with me over facetime. and than that was that and 4 days after he broke up with me i initiated the no contact rule. so now i’m on day 11 and I’m confused as what to do…I don’t really like to think i was annoying or anything. I didn’t post anything negative about him, in fact I never even talked to my friends complaining. I was hurt…but I know better than to complain and mope about in public. I don’t think I’d like to give anyone that satisfaction ever. I still love him…and I tried so hard to make it work and he broke up with me because I found out that he cheated on me 3 months prior. he was ashamed and than decided to break up with me. the weird thing is, i feel like if i never found out and brought it up he would not have broken up with me because the day before he broke up with me and even when he answered my phone call for when i was going to confront him about him not telling me he cheated he was all lovey dovey. even left me a voicemail the night before telling me he loves me and i am his world. and when i brought it up he decided to break up with me and said i deserve better and he couldnt be with me after me knowing about his “weakness”. But than an hour later he starts flirting with EVERY girl and adds a whole more and still continued to tell me that he loved me but that he feels stress free because he doesnt have to worry about a relationship and is focusing on his school work when in reality i know hes getting wasted every weekend and flirting with every girl and even asked a few of them for sex.

admin

April 14, 2014 at 5:19 pm

Did you read my long distance relationship website?
kim

April 14, 2014 at 3:01 am

basically my question is what do i do? How do i go about this and why did he block me if i wasn’t even contacting him? I don’t understand and im so confused

Suzanne

April 13, 2014 at 8:05 am

I think my ex has changed his mobile number and has blocked me from ringing his home phone :-(. Do you think I have any chance of getting this guy back????? It’s 4 weeks since we broke up and I’ve contacted him 3 times since then and only got a response the first time, I emailed him on Thursday and got no reply, should I start the NCR from now?? What’s the best way of contacting after the NCR ends???? I love the man and any advice you can offer will be gratefully appreciated….., I’m going into hospital this week and he hasn’t even called text to wish me luck – do you think he just doesn’t want anything more to do with me????

admin

April 13, 2014 at 5:00 pm

How long ago was the breakup?
Suzanne

April 13, 2014 at 6:29 pm

3 weeks ago today :-((( any advice would be gratefully appreciated
Suzanne

April 19, 2014 at 7:17 am

Please help!!! I’m confused as to what to do???

Cee

April 13, 2014 at 4:27 am

he’s having his birthday and i’ve tried the contact after the NC already and he didn’t respond…now im planning to take his birthday an opportunity for the next try…do you think it’s okay?
Kimberly

April 12, 2014 at 4:44 pm

I can do that. I have been pondering on what I should text him when I do. Tought about something along these lines. “I was watching Safe haven earlier and I was thibking about our Vday date last year wheb we went to see it, and how after the movie we walked outside to the perfect snow fall and it seemed so perfect like we were in a hallmark movie” but not sure if saying that woukd make him stay silent or if he will talk. Since before he ignored things like that or would get upset.

admin

April 13, 2014 at 4:34 pm

I think that will work!

Leeri

April 12, 2014 at 2:27 pm

hey chris,

My ex havent blocked me in his phone. But he blocked me in facebook. But I am still in grade 12 and we both go to the same residential school. And we are classmates. Are there any chance that we can get back?

p.s. He took a new girlfriend right after our break up. But she studies in a different state.
Kimberly

April 11, 2014 at 10:32 pm

My ex hasnt blocked me,but he did take me off his Facebook and untagged his self in our pictures, except the ones of our pets. Except one picture he still has on Facebook of us. But I’m not tagged in it. before when we would fight he did the swmething. I can text him and he will reply back, but I have been doing the nc rule for 13 days now and he still hasn’t text me. Knowing him hes probably angry because I have never stopped talking to him. His emotions have always ran high. His friends have no idea we broke up. Not sure what to think in this matter. BEFORE when he played these games I told him if he blocked me again its over for good..well he hasnt dont that just deleted me. What should I think of that? In the past ge would tell me when we fight it was hard to look at our pictures..after the no contact is up how should i approach him? Wr live in two different states. So all I yave is texting to use.

admin

April 12, 2014 at 4:20 pm

Well, ideally you want to be very casual after NC. Find a way to get in touch with him if you can’t through texting.

ailieif

April 11, 2014 at 6:57 am

Hi,

Thank you for the written article about this.

Need it so badly.

I broke up with my ex, my bad for mention, then my ex still talk so nicely and love me, but the day after a argument my ex went dating with another girl. Then they were attached 4 days after. I tried begging my ex back for 2 days, my ex told me that was in love with the current girlfriend now and I was blocked in whatsapp and call. How is it possible to love another person so fast?

Then I just read about your NC and blocked article.

What can I do? Today is only the 2nd day of NC. 3 years of relationship just gone, I really want to fight back this relationship.

admin

April 12, 2014 at 3:46 pm

How long has he been with the new girl?
ailieif

April 13, 2014 at 3:43 am

probably 30th march till now? I’m not sure.
Unblocked me, and asked me how am I.

Ashlee

April 10, 2014 at 9:52 am

Hi,Chris,I’m from Taiwan,sorry for poor English.
I was about to get into a relationship with this guy,we’ve dating(only weekend) and chatting for few months.
There were some family issues between us,well,his mom doesn’t like me because she doesn’t like my mom.That was a month ago.
Few days ago,he told me that he wants to stay friend.
He didn’t block me in anyway,he replies when I talk to him on Line,of course in a short phrase or sentence and whenever I mentioned about getting back together,he become silent until I ask him if he’s unhappy for what I said,and he said no he’s not angry,just never want to talk about that.
I’m starting to do the NC today,do you think it works? Since he’s not angry with me and he’s not blocking me,but the serious issues make him got stressed.*sigh

Thank you!

admin

April 11, 2014 at 3:57 am

Sounds like you have a good idea of what to do to be honest.

Em

April 10, 2014 at 2:25 am

Hey Chris , I have been noticing he is completely acting like he is okay and acting as if he doesn’t know me. He is liking other girls picture and stuff I’m trying not to panic you know I don’t know how to reattract him now. It’s been 6 months… I wrote a comment earlier my whole situation is there my question is do you think there’s a chance?

admin

April 11, 2014 at 3:46 am

I think he is liking those pictures because he knows you are watching and it will affect you.
Em

April 12, 2014 at 12:20 pm

He won’t catch feelings? I mean they are his old friends but maybe it’s because I have so much feelings for him that’s why I care but idk. It’s been so long to the point I just don’t know what to do anymore I don’t wanna give up because everything you have written I feel can really help my situation. Anyway i see him with his friends and acts as if he doesn’t care/know me but when he is alone he stares from down the hallway then when we pass each other he doesn’t make eye contact but has a saddish look on his face. His birthday is coming up should I say happy birthday? I mean he didn’t say it to me. My friends were in the same class and they were talking about it he said ” who is that, i don’t know her” I don’t know if deleted/blocked my number so… Anyway I might have more questions they just are not coming to me I have so much going on sorry for bothering you

Ann

April 9, 2014 at 12:10 pm

Hi Chris,

I had written to you before about my situation & without going into detail about what happened, my ex & I have not had any contact since I posted my story which was a little over a month ago. Since then, a lot has changed. I found your website to be very helpful & I don’t think I could have gotten through the rough times without reading your posts & the posts of others going through similar situations. My ex blocked on me Facebook & I’m not sure if he blocked my number, but I didn’t bother to try it because I am 99.9% sure he did (so why bother adding more disappointment to my life). We didn’t use very many apps but we did have Skype. I don’t think he had blocked me on there. However, I decided a while ago to just cut him out of my life & deleted him from everything we were friends on. We were in a long distance relationship & yes I did read the article on it. But it was kind of hard to be optimistic about things I knew wouldn’t change because I felt like he wasn’t willing to put in the same amount of effort as I was. It’s been almost 1.5 months & I think I’m in a better place. I’ve had my weak moments where I broke down, but those are not frequent anymore. I still have flashback moments where I can remember every detail of every moment we were together & although incredibly painful, I manage to shake it off. Friends have told me that the reason my ex hasn’t tried to contact me is because he is still trying to deal with things in his own way. Well, no offense to them but I could care less about how he’s dealing with things. Is it wrong for me to care so little about someone who didn’t value/appreciate all the things I did for him? I’m not a praise seeker, but it would have been nice to feel some kind of appreciation by the person who claims to have “loved” me. Since it all happened, I feel like I have moved on as best I could. Sure, I’m not ENTIRELY over him, otherwise I wouldn’t be talking about him, but I realized what I’m worth & that someone else will come along & be able to appreciate & love me in the way that I need. (Not to mention hopefully not cheat on me several times) Although it was incredibly difficult, I forgave myself AND him early on. I have come to realize that time truly is a beautiful thing, & although I completed NC successfully, it wasn’t being able to get him back that made me feel good. It was knowing I was strong enough to go that long without him. I know I’ll stumble from time to time, but just knowing that I’ve begun to move away from all my stupid behaviors (neediness, argumentative, jealous) makes me feel 10x better than getting him back. I do still have feelings for him, but those feelings are strong enough to push me back into being that text gnat or that “crazy” girlfriend I saw myself to be. Thank you SO much for your insight about so many situations us women find ourselves in when it comes to dealing with broken relationships. I never thought my heart would heal & I never thought I’d be able to move forward but your words helped with that. It is comforting to know that there are guys (LIKE YOU) who actually care about how women feel in a relationship & not just about themselves. You’re a great person & the next time I have a girl friend in need (or if I end up in another situation), this website will definitely be the first source I turn to.

Melissa

April 10, 2014 at 8:21 pm

hat was really nice Ann, I was also in LDR and after NC pretty much realise that I don’t want him anymore and quite frankly, I’m better off without him…and yes! they are days when you feel down but when you look at the bigger picture,you know and feel that letting go is the best thing to do…you’re not alone in that boat 🙂

Taraxx

April 9, 2014 at 2:26 am

My bf and I we’re suppose to meet out last Monday. He forced me to come although I had my exam the next day. I spared some time for him. He was so sure about meeting that I had to cancel other program’s of mine. The next day I called him left him msges and he didn’t reply. Around 6 in the evening he replied that I’m sorry I couldn’t come I was busy. I was really angry angry because I had gone crazy calling him. And he was freaking busy. He forgot we were supposed to meet? But I forgave home. Then we we had again planned to meet on Thursday. He said I’d call you before I leave. I said ok.i got dressed and then he calls me I can’t come I have an imp work to do. This time I was so fed up of excuses I sent him a long msg I which I wrote when you’re not sure when to meet just don’t start. Asking plans and he’ll with you and your work. I tired of understanding. He replied around 11 that I’m sorry(only once) and he told me the reason. I said ok. He said you just gave me a lot of taunts. Really? Hell with me and my work na? Fine I’ll leave you. He sent me a long msg saying idk why I am sayin this but I am leaving you. You’re not my gf anymore. Fuck off. Although that time I panicked and I stopped him for going but then heblockedme on whatsapp. It has been 6 days he hasn’t unblockedme?what exactly should Ido.i miss him terribly :/ Ik ow beloved me well I guess :/
Elisa

April 8, 2014 at 2:51 pm

Hello Chris,

My ex boyfriend blocked my phone number, then whatsapp also doesn’t work at the same time and he unfriend me on Facebook. He said it’s end between us, don’t contact him again when he did it one month ago, he was annoyed by my texts from time to time. But he still keeps me as a contact on Linkedin, another tool. I think he didn’t block my email as well. So I can still contact him actually. I have completed 30 days NC since that. I sent a short email yesterday, just asked how he is doing, and told him I got myself back since he blocked me which is true, mentioned how things went wrong with between us with a short sentence. then let him don’t feel bad to blocked me and said intense words, I’m ok. I didn’t know why I suddenly sent the email, I just woke up, and felt like must do it yesterday. After 30 days NC, I know I truly miss him, not because I’m alone. Should I go another NC? he hasn’t answer or unblocked me, I am not sure if he unblocked me on his phone or not, just still not able to see his status on Whatsapp. Do you think it’s a good sign that he didn’t block me completely? Is that ok I sent that email?

Elisa

April 9, 2014 at 5:17 am

Please respond, I would really appreciate your advice. Thanks.
Elisa

April 11, 2014 at 6:03 pm

How to make him unblock me?
admin

April 12, 2014 at 4:08 pm

Well, if he hasn’t already and its been a long time that isn’t a good sign. Do you have any other way of reaching out to him?
Elisa

April 13, 2014 at 5:50 pm

Facebook message still working, he just unfriend me on Facebook. I can reach him via email, linkedin message, other message applications. I sent a message to him on Facebook yesterday, he said don’t contact him again, he doesn’t want to see me or/and talk to me. So I asked him why he is so mad at me, let him talk to me when he is not angry anymore, don’t be strangers. He read my messages next day, he doesn’t want me text him, but he read my email and messages. What can I do now?
Elisa

April 19, 2014 at 5:43 pm

I want to contact him every day, but I’m controlling myself hard. There are still many ways to contact him, I don’t want to ruin anything more, make any mistake more. We have one common friend, should I talk to him about us? I met him cause of this friend. our friend doesn’t know anything about us yet, cause he lives in another country. I got a part-time job, but I got to know it’s just next to his place at first day work. And I got a job interview from a company, failed, but the company still offers me another chance, and the office is in the city where he is going to move… I don’t know if it’s coincidence or nothing. Could you tell me what to do? Thank you, looking forward to hear from you soon.
Elisa

April 20, 2014 at 3:10 am

Should I try to contact him after waiting for him longer?
admin

April 20, 2014 at 8:57 pm

I don think it can hurt.
Elisa

April 30, 2014 at 5:43 pm

He seems blocked me on Facebook, I can’t see his Facebook page anymore. There is nothing more I can do anymore, he won’t talk to me anymore, right?
Elisa

June 19, 2014 at 6:37 pm

Hello Chris,

It’s 50 days NC already. nothing change, he didn’t unblock me. Just saw a pic from our common friend, he is traveling in other country now. Sometime I think about him, like today when I saw the pic, felt not good. He seems have forgotten me completely, happy in his trip. I’m smiling as I can everyday, go to gym, take classes to learn something new, work hard, signed another contract with my company, more income as well. I don’t know if I should contact him or not, my friends said he doesn’t deserve me, let me forget him, meet someone new. I’m not meeting anyone new yet, but trying to not think about him now. Do you still think it’s working between us if I contact him now or later?
Elisa

June 1, 2014 at 2:36 pm

but he hasn’t unblocked me… still contact him?
Elisa

May 30, 2014 at 4:44 pm

I completed 30 days NC. What should I do? Keep NC?
admin

May 31, 2014 at 3:50 pm

Time to contact him.
Elisa

May 24, 2014 at 3:26 pm

Chris, It’s 24days NC now. He didn’t unblock me, maybe he has a new girl already.. I don’t know, it’s been almost 4 months now. What should I do, contact him after 6 days or keep on NC?
Elisa

May 15, 2014 at 5:45 pm

Do you still think I should contact him when I finish another 30 days NC? It’s 16 days NC already. Or just leave him alone for a long time.
Elisa

May 14, 2014 at 8:23 pm

He is not active for any social media usually. Use messages, post stuff rarely, just some football, music stuff sometimes, he use fb to message or keep in touch with friends. He use linkedin, just changed a profile pic which he never changed before, he might see I viewed his profile a few days ago, but didn’t delete me.
Elisa

May 13, 2014 at 5:13 pm

But why does he still keep me on Linkedin, he could just block me everywhere, he only blocked me the tools that I tried to contact him.
admin

May 14, 2014 at 3:53 pm

Is he super active on Linkedin?
Elisa

May 13, 2014 at 5:05 pm

What do you mean? What should I do tho?
Elisa

May 12, 2014 at 8:48 pm

It doesn’t work for him. He still hasn’t unblocked me from any, I am not sure if he unblock me from his phone, didn’t try anymore. Probably still block. If he doesn’t unblock me, then he still hasn’t changed his mind at all, am I right? How can I try to talk to him in the worst situation like this.. I really can’t see any hope now. Chris, you met a really tough case, I can’t do anything, can’t try to talk to him anymore, can’t talk to our common friend anything, just wait for miracle if that happens…
admin

May 13, 2014 at 4:42 pm

Not necessarily… he could just be too proud.
Elisa

May 10, 2014 at 3:56 am

How and what is more compelling text? His reaction is too strong, cold, and hurt me. I don’t really know what to do at all.
admin

May 12, 2014 at 5:19 pm

Have you read any of the guides where I dive in to that?
Elisa

May 9, 2014 at 5:55 am

Why do you still think I can contact him again? It’s 10 days NC now after I tried the second time. He blocked me on FB this time. I have told him I will not try anymore, leave him alone by email, if I contact him, won’t him think I am crazy etc.. Chris, miss him, but I’m afraid of contacting him now.
admin

May 9, 2014 at 3:44 pm

Because you probably just need a more compelling text.
Elisa

May 7, 2014 at 5:10 pm

No, I didn’t memorize his number, but I remember it. I can’t forget it, forget him or hate him at all, still worrying about him, thinking about him. I don’t contact him now, unless he does. I can’t see any hope that he will contact me again… but expect there is still hope. Do you think it will happen?
admin

May 8, 2014 at 4:21 pm

Isn’t that the same thing as memorizing it hahaha?

I think you can contact him as long as 30 days of NC have completed.
Elisa

May 6, 2014 at 7:00 pm

His phone number is on my head, saved it back to my phone, put the pic back into my wallet again. Because I miss him so much. But I don’t contact him at all now. Do you still think he will talk to me someday? Need your advice badly, Chris.
admin

May 7, 2014 at 3:25 pm

You memorized his number? Is that what you mean?
Elisa

April 30, 2014 at 6:55 pm

Chris, I think if I try to contact him with other tools, he will do the same, he still keeps me on linkedin. I just sent him an email, told him I have been trying to open his mind, apologized for everything whatever it is wrong or right, only because I like him truly. I pushed him away even if I didn’t mean to do it, I also told him I will leave him alone, not trying anymore, hope everything goes well with him, said goodbye to him. Then I deleted his phone number from my phone, didn’t block him like he did to me. I took out our picture from my wallet, put everything about him into a box, closed it. I don’t know, but it’s the only way for now. And I received an email from the company today, I failed on the test again. But they asked me to discuss about another position if I am interested. I will accept the position if they hire me after an interview, change my job, the office is in the city he will move in September, but I will still move to there if the company hires me. If it meant to be in this way, just leave it, let him go, let things go naturally, You said, all those women who get back with their exes after they block them do nothing to get them back, maybe it’s the only way not push him away forever. I don’t know what is going to happen to me, but I will do all I can do to live a better life.
Elisa

April 21, 2014 at 12:26 am

Actually I purchased your e-book about 2 months ago. I just couldn’t do NC completely. I did LC from time to time, use some texts that you mentioned, he thought I’m not moving on, he felt annoyed, told me he was going to block me, then he really did. Actually we looked at each other’s eyes for minutes, no words, and I saw his eyes wet when he was telling me break up, move on, meet people, meet someone else etc. I feel I will regret if I don’t fight for him, he is very cold, push me away, cut me out of his life now, but I can’t walk away this time. Chris, I really want to face it maturely, do whatever I can do in a right way. How long should I go NC this time? I did 30 days NC, and then tried to talk to him, didn’t work, he thought I was doing the same over and over again, asked don’t I realize that I’m getting the opposite of what I am trying to get. I stopped, didn’t try to talk to him after a week, now it’s another 10 days of NC. I have asked our common friend to make time for me, I think he can help me in some ways, cause they are fiends for years already. But I am also afraid that he will be angry at I tell the friend about us. Should I tell our friend? Thanks. I appreciate your replies.
Elisa

April 30, 2014 at 6:04 am

I sent a message on Facebook after 19days NC. He hasn’t read it, maybe he set my message to his junk box (other inbox)… I didn’t mentioned anything about me on message, because it didn’t work before. So just congrats his football team won again, and mentioned my students were very exciting and happy for it, they are fans of the team, said have a great holidays as well, it’s holidays here. He is very passionate about the football team and football. And I’m not able to access a project that we did before from yesterday, I don’t know if it’s system error or he canceled the invitation. Now I really don’t know what else I can do for him and myself. I’m sick the whole night till now, have a strong headache. Chris, do you still think he will talk to me, there will be a chance for me? What else I can do now?
Elisa

April 28, 2014 at 4:48 pm

How and what should I say to him? And when is a good time to contact him again? I tried after he blocked me when I finished 30 days NC, but failed, pushed him more far… I thought about unblock me on his phone or not the whole weekend, cause I ended the call after once ring at once, I was afraid of him mad at me call him.. I was used to not call him, didn’t want to bother him work before, just a few texts. I wanted to call one more time to make sure unblock or not, but not brave enough. I just remembered when I called him after blocking me, the phone didn’t go through at all, dropped off immediately… but whatsapp still being blocked for sure. Please advise me how to approach him again, thanks in advance.
Elisa

April 26, 2014 at 9:26 pm

I don’t know when he unblocked me on his phone, but what made him unblock me? Is it good sign? but whatsapp still seems blocked, why? I am confusing…
Elisa

April 26, 2014 at 3:32 pm

Chris, I didn’t know why I just wanted to call him today, I don’t really call him before. I had a dream last night, I was writing an email to him…two days ago, we were texting each other, I was on my way to go to meet him in my dream… anyway…I tried to call and cancel for 8 times, then the 9th time I didn’t cancel…my call went through…I was really nervous and surprised, ended the call immediately. He unblocked my number on his phone obviously. But I am still not able to see his status on whatsapp. Now I’m worrying if he found I called, he will block me again… What can I do?
Elisa

April 25, 2014 at 10:49 pm

Chris, then what is the next step for me? Wait for him talking to me? It’s 14days NC today since I tried to talk to him after I finish my first 30 days NC.
admin

April 28, 2014 at 4:08 pm

No, you need to strategize and come up with a great first contact text message.
Elisa

April 24, 2014 at 4:14 pm

Could you tell me why you think he will talk to me again?
admin

April 25, 2014 at 10:11 pm

I think the chances are high because in almost every case the two exes end up talking at some point.
Elisa

April 23, 2014 at 6:28 am

Then should I just wait till he starts to talk to me or give it a try after my second 30 days or longer NC? He is too cold now, even rude somehow. He said he can’t say it in a clear way, please don’t contact me again, I had to say I’m not trying to get anything now, then he said ok, don’t text him again… It was hurt, his words on my head every day. I’m afraid of loosing him forever now, hopeless, but try to think in a positive way.
Elisa

April 21, 2014 at 5:02 pm

I followed my mind, then I screwed up, like he said I’m getting the opposite of what I am trying to get. Chris, please advice me what to do, I can follow your advices, if I have to wait for months, I can wait as well. I don’t know what to do to get him talk to me again now honestly. Actually I tried to meet other guys, end it with him, but I was thinking about him the whole time when I was with other guys. I couldn’t open to anyone. Thanks in advance.
Elisa

April 21, 2014 at 4:42 pm

Do you think there is still a chance to get him talk to me again? Can I try to say Hi to him after another 30 days or longer NC? I am not sure what he is going to tell, I’m afraid of him telling me the same, maybe worst.
admin

April 22, 2014 at 4:24 pm

I think absolutely he will talk to you again.
Elisa

April 21, 2014 at 4:37 pm

The friend knows I have a problem with a guy, he asked who is the guy, I didn’t tell him before. If it’s not good to tell him about us, then I don’t want to make this step to screw up more. Then what should I do now?
admin

April 21, 2014 at 4:17 pm

I wouldnt tell the friend but you know your situation better than I do. Final decision is ultimately yours.

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