What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You On (The Phone, Facebook, WhatsApp, Etc)

2,562 thoughts on “What To Do If Your Ex Boyfriend Blocks You”

Cat

April 7, 2014 at 12:42 pm

you know what… i tried everything i can strictly following your ebook…and i think, it’s enough. i don’t deserve this kind of treatment anymore and i guess i’m just making a fool out of my self…within the process of this bargaining i realized that i deserved more…my worth is more than i can ever imagine…i just can’t understand why he has to post public pics with a girl publicly because we are not friends in fb anymore…on the other hand i did a lot of activities and focused on improving myself…but he still keeps on posting pics with the girl so i could see? well it doesnt affect me that much anymore and i’m done with degrading myself…i am more than this…i deserve the same love im giving…anyway, can you just interpret his actions why he keeps his photos with girl public but other photos of his fb private like his bike stuffs and all. is he trying to show me something here? please reply thanks

admin

April 7, 2014 at 5:19 pm

I am here.

I am sorry its been so tough. I love your attitude about this about not taking crap anymore. I agree that you deserve the same love you are getting. Often times you will find that an ex realizes when its too late how good he had it with you.

Annie

April 6, 2014 at 3:59 pm

Hi Chris,

Would like to ask for your opinion, my relationship currently going bad since my boyfriend lost his job and I think he’s depressed now. He doesn’t open up to me like before and keep distance. When I asked, he said there’s nothing wrong. That made me feel helpless and clueless of what to do. I’m afraid this eventually will affect my relationship badly.

What should I do?
1/ Will it be annoyed if I keep caring for him too much? or

2/ How should I leave him alone for a while without making him think that I don’t love him anymore?

Maybe you can come up with new guide about “what to do with a depressed ex boyfriend (or boyfriend in general) 😛

Thanks
honey

April 5, 2014 at 5:29 pm

Our mutual friend says he still misses me (after 3 month) and told me that he once said that I am the only true person that he knows for sure loved him so much and that he loves me too! They said he doesnt read my emails nor answering the phone cuz of hit would just hurt too bad! I did a lot of irritating in past after 1 month of nc…I sent him so many msgs, emails, acted jelous and desperate too. No reaction to nothing!!!
What do you recommend here??? Another nc time?? Nothing works!!!!!!!!

admin

April 6, 2014 at 5:14 pm

Are you still blocked? Like fully blocked?
honey

April 6, 2014 at 6:21 pm

No…just on chats…text msg, email and phone is unblocked. ..but they say he won’t read my emails!
admin

April 7, 2014 at 5:01 pm

Give him some time. He will mellow out. Give him time.
honey

April 7, 2014 at 10:13 pm

You mean I should wait until I see that something happens on the other side? Like unblocking or anything? So now I should just wait no matter how long it takes?
honey

April 6, 2014 at 6:22 pm

And he wont anser the phone too!!

rach

April 5, 2014 at 2:01 pm

Hey Chris! I decided to come check out all of your hard work since I haven’t been on here in a few months. Why haven’t I been on here? Cuz I’m happily back together with my ex of course!!!! We’ve been back together since January 10 and we’re doing great. You were a lot of help keeping me level headed and helping me think things through during everything. I really appreciate what you do.

admin

April 6, 2014 at 5:06 pm

Wow, this is fantastic! Congrats on getting back with your ex.

em

April 3, 2014 at 11:19 pm

Hey Chris, this is an amazing guide! i love it!
so heres my situation…
You have probably seen my story a lot sorry to be a bother, anyway I don’t know how long this will be but i will explain as best I can.. Both my ex and I are in high school. We dated for about three years and we broke up october 2, its been sixth months and I’m lost and don’t know where to go from here. I’m afraid to contact him because all he did was ignore me. It kills me every day just to see him walk by day by day acting as if we never met. Do you think there could be feelings there? Before the official break up, we broke up in July for a week but he came straight back. we have broken up in the past also and he has always come back. Recently I was talking to my friend of this situation and she said I should tell him i have still feelings for him. I don’t think its the best Idea but she said most people regret most is not telling the person, also, she said its never really to late to get your ex which was a little uplifting to hear that maybe not all my chances were gone, you know? Back on the topic, we have been in no contact for about 5 months, emotionally i am over the break up, but mentally not so sure, the feelings I have towards him is not an “Lonely I miss you” its a real I miss you where we were happy 80%-85% of the relationship maybe even 90%.

Do you think you could make a guide on “subtle signs your ex is still in love with you” because Im really not sure anymore. I don’t wanna see him go off with another girl and say i never even existed. On my birthday one of my Friend were talking and they asked him and he said “who is she, I don’t know her” Maybe he is trying to forget me to get rid of the feelings? I don’t know anymore Chris, What is the percentage after six months an ex still thinks of you when they dated for an extensive period of time? Ok so here is a question related to the guide: If you stated that it hurts to for them to much to talk to you then what would it mean if they follow you back but don’t talk to you? Well here is another (sorry:/) Is it still possible to get an ex back if they are being stubborn and if it seems hopeless after 6 months?

Please respond,
Thanks Chris all your guides are so helpful and uplifting!

admin

April 4, 2014 at 5:14 pm

Well, the next guide I am working on is on male psychology.

Umm… but signs he is still in love with you is very interesting. I think I may do it.

If they follow you back it means they want to keep an eye on you.

Amy

April 3, 2014 at 6:27 pm

I don’t see my comment. Do I have to wait to be approved or was it deleted?

admin

April 4, 2014 at 5:07 pm

I have to approve all comments. As you can imagine I get a lot of spammers. So, I try to figure out the legit comments from the bad ones.

Amy

April 2, 2014 at 11:51 pm

Chris,

Can all this work with an ex that has commitment issues and says that’s why he left? He has left multiple times and this past time he changed his phone number and blocked me on Facebook. The only way we can contact now is through email unless I show up somewhere he is at. He has responded through email and actually the last 2 messages were from him and I haven’t responded back yet.

admin

April 4, 2014 at 4:45 pm

Explain the commitment issues to me a little better.
Amy

April 4, 2014 at 5:47 pm

Chris,

I actually sent you a more in depth email on Facebook. I really hope you read it and get back to me. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and living together 6 months. He has left a few times, but always came back after a day or two. (I guess this is where the commitment issue comes in. He said he was afraid of commitment, but it could be an excuse, because we were living together and had looked at engagement rings.) But this last time was different and horrible. To make things worse I lost my boyfriend and my job the same week and than the very next week I received some scary health news.. I gave more information in my email. I’m just lost and hurting. The person I thought would be by my side through everything bailed right before I needed him most.

Jackie

April 2, 2014 at 1:18 pm

My ex and I broke up about 5 weeks ago. I just finished my 30 days of no contact. A couple days ago he decides to unfriend me, over a month after we broke up. He hasn’t tried to reach out to me at all except a couple weeks ago when he texted my friend asking how I was. I know that he hasn’t been on facebook for 5 weeks until just recently, and that was when he unfriended me. He did not completely block me because I can still go to his page, message him, and see a lot of his wall. Another thing that was weird was I woke up with a notification on my phone that said that he sent me a friend request but when I got on my facebook it was gone. So i think he unfriended me, then sent me a friend request, and then decided to delete that request, but I still got the notification on my phone that he sent it. Also his birthday is in a week. When I talked to him last which was 30 days ago he said we shouldn’t talk again at least until the summer. So i guess my question is should I continue no contact? I was planning on doing it for another month or so. We had been dating for over 3 years prior so this was not a new relationship.
Mandy

April 2, 2014 at 8:41 am

I can’t say how much this website has helped me and Chris being very patient to the ladies.

I had a bad breakup last summer so I found this place and read a lot. I’ve tried to follow the instructions, though things didn’t work out. Then I’ve met someone new, he’s wonderful but too bad we didn’t work out either. Deep inside of course I want him back so badly, we still live together and we’ve been in on and off relationship, he just doesn’t love me and clearly told me that I’m not the one. Knowing keep holding on to him is stupid, and I’m not planning to get him back, because I understand when it’s done it’s done, I’m now reading this just for clean up and mind and try to be rational.

The story was, after last summer my ex broke up with me, I quickly moved on and fall in love with this guy, he could be my rebound but now he becomes the love of my life from time to time, I guess it’s because I never actually lived with somebody and this is technically the first real relationship I had. But I’ve done something very stupid. We had a fight last week, that’s when he said something hurtful it really broke my heart. Over the weekend we seem to be good again, I’ve keep checking if anything he said during the fight was all come from his mind and he actually meant it, the result was positive, and I’ve tried to talk to him about it but he wouldn’t. So out of rage and the gamble mind, I bought myself a ticket to someone far away, and I didn’t tell him that, it was all fine and yesterday morning he went to work he was so happy. But the moment he left to work I packed all my stuff and went to the airport. When waiting for the connecting flight I started to think about him, thinking about how sad he will be once he returned home, all I could think of was to go back and be with him, I didn’t even care about all those issues between us anymore, I was so in love and confident that we will work this through. I guess this is very not cool of me, and when I returned I told him the whole story and why I wanted to leave. Obviously he doesn’t understand me and all he sees me is being crazy, immature and irresponsible. It didn’t end up well, he’s really mad, even unfriended me on Facebook, says my actions already made it clear and no matter how many words I put in, we’re done.

I understand what I did was very horrible, but what upsets me more is that he doesn’t understand me at all. I’ve tried to understand him and apologized very hard, but still, he wouldn’t take it. I gotta admit I still hope there will be a chance for is but I’m really done try to make it happen. So if it’s not meant to be then it won’t be, I’m sure there will be someone out there can actually appreciate me and understands me, wouldn’t put me onto a situations that I’m sad enough to want to leave.

Anything thank you for reading this, I just really need a place to speak it out loud since no one around me seems to understand.

Wish you have a good day

admin

April 2, 2014 at 5:48 pm

I don’t understand you either… if a girlfriend did that to me I would have doubts about how serious she was about the relationship. It would really frustrate me.
Mandy

April 15, 2014 at 6:44 pm

I guess the way guys and girls really think different.

So we lived together for over half year, not trying to brag myself and make him look bad, but I do his laundry, cook for him, clean his room, he likes to being head scratched so I do it every night. Listen to his problems and always be supportive. I’ve tried very hard to make him happy and be good to him. His in an on call job, and the call comes in anytime during the day, it often happens in midnight so when he has to go on the job I’d wake up with him, make him coffee and sandwich and send him to work. Looks like I’m his maid and mom. I never started a fight with him, instead he often takes out his anger on me when he’s frustrated by job/social relationship/family etc,all I do just try to understand him and sort things out. I respect him in any way, I play video games with him sometimes, and when he plays I wouldn’t even nag a word out of it.

I’ve been trying so hard to be the perfect girlfriend, knowing being nice and all couldn’t trade love, but I still hope one day he will fall in love with me.

So then one day he made me realize that no matter how hard I try, it is not gonna happen. He told me that I’m not the one, he doesn’t appreciate everything I did to him even though I never asked anything back but his love. He will never fall in love with me, I’m not in his picture of future. He made all that clear, still wouldn’t break up with me because he enjoys it, til he has found someone else we will break up then. So I lost all my hope, thought I should move on. But what really hit me was at that airport thinking about if he would be sad, that’s all I care about, to make him happy, so I went back. Sadly all he sees was that I left, and never see the reasons behind it. I’ve been put out with all these for so long, I just feel like it’s too much I couldn’t handle anymore. If he has even show me a little attention or something close to love, I wouldn’t have done that.

And I tried to explain, still he doesn’t understand.

🙁
admin

April 16, 2014 at 4:12 pm

VAstly different.

and yes, that looks bad on him. He seems kind of ungrateful…

k94

April 2, 2014 at 12:45 am

OK.
Weirdest day ever. I have no idea if its just me thinking its weird or whether there is something to it…

So, I came back from to my hometown as Uni semester has finished. I’ve been out and about for about a week meeting up with some old friends, occupying myself -having a detox from Facebook, but still being tagged in a few things since I’ve been here.

Today, I ask my girliefriend to meet up. So her and her boyfriend (who is also a longtime friend of mine but also a friend of my ex) met up to enjoy some sunshine. We discussed who else we could ask to hang out, a name popped up and I suggested a mutual friend of ours who I bumped into a few nights ago and had a pleasant chat with (the boys are all mutual friends of mine and my ex-boyfriend)

So nothing more was said, I turned up, my girliefriend and her boyfriend, I noticed they only brought themselves so assumed it’d be us three…which it was for like 20 minutes..
We saw my ex, his best-friend, and the guy I suggested we invite to hang out walking by..so I think, oh, no wonder he didn’t come out with us, he was out with them and obviously he’d rather pay loyalties to the ex. Awkward momemt (me and my ex both blocking each other at the momemt, the ex’s best friend loved me at first and then near the end of the relationship reeeeeally disliked me -conflict of personalities?)
So i think…ok they’ll walk past, we’ll move on. And then I notice that the three of them are walking towards us… to join us..
Weird. Awkward. Why.
The ex wants to block me…so why is he here? And his best friend who avoided being in a room with me in the past turned up too? What? Why would they bother coming. But hey, time to be civil and fake some smiles.
So we all say hi. My ex sits near to me. Me and him didn’t share conversation directly…but were part of a group one. I didn’t make any really eye contact but tried not to seem overly distant…ex mentioned he has work in an hour, so that made me wonder why he’d even come.. I don’t know…you’d probably leave early if you’d know you were all about to meet an ex of yours.
In that moment a good friend of mine messaged me that he was in town so I thought the universe was giving me a way out so i TOOK IT. i said to my friend ‘oh I’ll be back in 10-15′ minutes, bye’. (OK. I wanted to get out of the situation so metaphorically and maybe literally ran away – but walked).
I said bye, the ex called out bye to me along with the others….
I was gone for 45 mins with the other group of friends and then I returned to my awkward situation (the ex left for work) but his best friend was still there with the others…
And immediately as I was sitting down the ex’s best friend was TALKING TO ME. actually….being nice, friendly, laughing with me. Now he was like this when I first met him, but this guy even un-friended me after me and the ex broke up so. He really resented me for some reason that is unclear to me. But NOW he was making am effort….a good one. So I went along with it.

Mind….blown.

That is the end of my tale.
Please tell me what that could have possibly been about? Or is that just a weird day to draw a line under?

admin

April 2, 2014 at 5:41 pm

Did he talk to you directly at all? The ex I mean?
k94

April 2, 2014 at 7:37 pm

No. I don’t think so. Except saying bye as i left. However I didn’t stay longer than 15 minutes really.

Elle

April 1, 2014 at 7:38 pm

We started getting back together then I screwed up by keeping secrets from him which is what had ended it with us in the first place. I didn’t know that’s why he was mad and tried to fix things with him anyway. He blocked me on whatsapp, etc. I gave him space and after a couple of months, I sent him a voice message and told him I was sorry for how bad things had got between us, I hoped he was doing well and I missed him. He texted back a week later thanked me for my message and said he he was glad it seemed I was doing well. I sent a thank you and asked what he had been up to, etc. no response.

He called completely randomly about a month later and we chatted for maybe an hour. Nothing major, mostly casual but good talk. A few days later, he called again, we talked a bit longer than the last time and again, nothing major, mostly casual but good talk. He ended the call because people came in and he had to go but his last words to me were “we’ll talk later?”

That was 3 months ago. Since then he hasn’t called, answered my texts, answered my calls, responded to my emails, etc. The only thing I can think of is that he wanted me to say something about the problems from before during one of the times we talked which I would have but it seemed too soon to bring up. What do I do?

admin

April 2, 2014 at 5:27 pm

What kind of secrets did you keep? How bad are we talking here?
Elle

April 3, 2014 at 2:07 am

Basically I caused drama by trying to handle everything on my own in the background to try to avoid drama

The first time I was going through serious family/financial problems and someone who was supposed to be one of my best friends was causing me a lot of drama. I was embarrassed and I didn’t want him to think I was high maintenance/drama so I didn’t tell him what was going on and acted like a spazz instead.

The second time, I fell into a habit of being passive aggressive towards him when I was upset instead of telling him what was wrong or that I was still hurting from before. He tried to make friends with someone I was involved in in a work project in order to have a reason to be closer to me. I didn’t want him to think I was jealous or trying to create drama by telling him to stay away because I don’t like or trust that person. I found out she was trying to rip him off and I tried to stop it rather than tell him. I also told him what happened with my friend who caused me so much drama the first time he and I were together, he found out I was talking her again and was mad about it and that I didn’t tell him that was. What he didn’t know is we were only talking because I needed closure, we’ll never be friends again.

I get what I did wrong/ what I should have done but I have no idea what to do to fix it? How can I get him to even talk to me?

honey

April 1, 2014 at 4:29 pm

Ok he hasnt block my number on phone…I tried once to call him and it went through but of course he wont answer…is it a good sign though??? I am blocked on several chats but not my phone number as I figured out. Why he doesn’t block me if he doesn’t want to talk to me and answer the phone

admin

April 1, 2014 at 5:19 pm

Very good sign!
honey

April 1, 2014 at 6:48 pm

Ok but IF it is a good sign why you think its a good thing? I mean he wont pick up anyway. Could xou please explain it short, Chris?
admin

April 2, 2014 at 5:22 pm

It/s good b/c the possibility of him contact you is still there. If he blocked you on everything that is a very big statement saying leave me alone.
honey

April 2, 2014 at 5:33 pm

Yea I see!!! True! But then should I do another month of nc??? I already made it in the beginning after the break up, then contacted and spamed him with texts and emails. He never responded. So he wont trust in my action anymore I guess and maybe he just see it through? He will probably think, aaahhh after her silence the same spamming s gonna start again! So what do I do? Without risking him to forget about me. I mean its been already 3 months now!!!:-(
honey

April 1, 2014 at 7:09 pm

Btw its been 3 months now since he blocked me on chats! Since then I tried several emails…plenty of text msgs…nothing worked so far. What you recommend now???? Another nc time???? Please help

Pragya

April 1, 2014 at 3:53 pm

So Chris… I am commenting on this site for the first time but I have read every word you have written until now. I want to share my experience:

My ex and I are in a long distance relationship. He blocked me when I was doing the NC thing on him – probably wanting to “get back” at me as a desperate measure… and what a party pooper- he blocked me on Valentines Day! Imagine the cheek! I couldn’t sleep the whole night- I also cried a little- but I am quite stubborn and didn’t break the NC! You know- “we don’t negotiate with terrorists”. Post blocking me, he messaged me to “inform” me that he has blocked me “just in case I hadn’t noticed.” lol. Then when I didn’t respond even to that- he called me twice and again I didn’t pick up – so he resorted to commenting on statuses I had commented on, so that I get a notification- and mostly were comments indirectly directed at me! I still ignored.
After NC was over, and I had gorgeous pictures of myself and fun stuff- all my travel, work achievement, weddings I had gone to- all over my wall, I contacted him- he was SO happy, so happy that he thanked me for contacting him and even added me back the same night. After NC, he stopped making those hurtful comments and snide remarks at me too. I had him almost eating out of my hands…
Except that he was still not ready to commit. He kept telling me that he’s been out with other girls- to the extent of asking me- “Are you jealous, yet?” I was enraged, but kept concentrating on myself. He wanted to “remain friends” from his side but keep a tab on who I was meeting or hanging out with. He would keep wanting to have Skype sex (and each time he’d say that, I’d stop speaking to him for a bit… and then he slowly stopped saying it). Another angle here was that I am from India and his family is really very keen on us getting married and were banking on me to sort of “close the deal” so there was a lot of calls I’d get from his mom asking me about “updates” and “progress”.

Eventually, somewhere I lost my patience with playing this game Chris. Or maybe I became emotionally stable enough to not need him anymore unless it was a balanced relationship. So I asked him if he wants to work it out or not…. he gave me sort of a roundabout answer but in action started working on it… within a week, we were deciding on where to meet- he wanted me to come over and holiday with his couple friends.. and was ready to speak to my parents. But somewhere, on the day he was supposed to speak to them – either because he got cold feet or because somewhere I might have said something insensitive- he told me that “no matter what you say or do now, you cannot work it out- you and I shall never be more than friends.” Somewhere I feel he wants to punish me and make me feel bad about myself and he’s constantly bursting my happiness bubble.

I was at the end of my tether now. I was prepared to hear a no when I had asked him- and I was angry as to why he didn’t tell me then. So I told him sorry, we cannot be friends either and I blocked him. And started working some more on myself. I know that if I had followed your advice some more, we will eventually get married, but seriously, any guy who realizes my importance won’t be confused and immature about it. Part of me still feels he and I might get together again (since he’s doing that common friend’s status message thing again)- so I know he misses me. But he needs to man up. I want and DESERVE a guy who crosses the oceans for me and climbs mountains and takes a bullet for me- not someone who can’t even make up his mind! And this concentrating on self has made me so strong I cannot tell you! I still love him to bits but I have started considering other options. So if he ever comes back to talk to me, I am going to tell him that he and I cannot be friends. He knows me well enough and none of us are kids anymore. Either he talks or considers commitment- or he can just go take a hike. And I think now that I am becoming more and more the ungettable girl each day, this is the message I am going to give to every man I meet! I am nobody’s half-time or pastime! If you don’t think I am not enough to be “the one”, stay friends. If you think I am the one, be man enough! You cannot have your cake and eat it too.

Right, Chris? 🙂

admin

April 1, 2014 at 5:17 pm

Did you read this:

https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/the-complete-guide-to-getting-an-ex-boyfriend-back-in-a-long-distance-relationship/
Pragya

April 2, 2014 at 4:27 pm

Yes I did. Like I mentioned in the first line, I have read every word you have written on your website. And I have followed it to a T. I am sure your method works. It has given me all the results so far. It is just that I am not sure if he’s worth so much thought and energy of mine anymore.. that’s all… perhaps I am the one losing interest slowly in the relationship..

Glutten

April 1, 2014 at 8:44 am

I have a close (married) male friend who I have been chatting with for 18 months. It started on facebook and continued via text. I learned quite early on he is a bit of a womaniser – actually a serial cheater – but too late for me to get out. It has always been a text thing. Occasionally he gets very sporadic and is sometimes very unwilling to talk to me, especially if I initiate contact. I hardly ever do. Last week out of the blue he said he never wants to text again. “too risky”. And that was that. I know he’s unavailable, and probably very bad news, but I sort of miss it. He hasn’t dropped me on facebook, but won’t text back. He is all over other women on facebook. Hows this for a crazy situation? Do I just walk away? (finding that a bit hard).

admin

April 1, 2014 at 4:39 pm

Explain how getting involved with a man who is probably going to cheat on you is a good idea?

Sparrow

April 1, 2014 at 5:19 am

Hey Cris I’ve been really struggling with my break up with the whole why won’t he call, that’s he’s blocked me on FB, I’ve tried all that I can do and still nothing. I didn’t go crazy with the calling and texting and all. It’s been 3 weeks no contact. It hurts and I’ve been working on bettering myself but its so hard in these moments where I feel alone. He was there and was my everything to gone and nothing. This is dumb and I need to get over it but I need some hope it even a little. If you unblock someone and decided to re block them you have to wait 48 hours so I’ve been typing his name in to see if he’s looked me up and he hasn’t. It’s been a few days since he blocked me. My questions are:
Will he look me up?
When should I give up on any sort of contact?
Thanks for having this website and being here for us girls and all!:)

admin

April 1, 2014 at 5:05 pm

1. probably.
2. Probably in a few months.

Sophia

March 31, 2014 at 11:21 pm

article sent from heaven!! once again.

He blocked me on whatsapp about 2 months ago and haven’t talked to me except a few emails since then, I’ve lost all hope but he still follows me on twitter, that’s a good sign right?

admin

April 1, 2014 at 4:41 pm

Sent from heaven huh?

It is a good sign yes but don’t get too hung up on it.

Nic

March 31, 2014 at 4:28 am

So… what do you do when your ex, who has been contacting you, caught up a few times and wanting to catch up on a regular basis, NOW wants to “block” you, suddenly tells you that his current gf found something out about his past and is uncomfortable with your friendship, that she has said she’d be ok with it if we were to become acquainted, however for he and i to remain in contact, that would have to happen before or on, the next time we caught up. I had already gotten a text message from her, which blew me away, saying she’d found some stuff out that worried her about him and she was open to conversation/information, however i didn’t replay straight away as i was thrown for a loop to be honest and was trying to figure out how i felt about it. This text was a few days ago, i text my ex tonight to ask about a gift his mother had given his sister to pass on, and if he could get it and i could get it from him (i don’t really see his sister that much) and the response i first detailed in this message is what i got. Wtf? Seriously, the contact between he and i is sporadic at best, and mostly via text, there is nothing to it so i don’t understand why this all of a sudden. The only thing i can think of, is that she thinks i am a threat and i’ve no idea where that come from…
melissa

March 30, 2014 at 5:15 pm

Hi,
I read your article and it is amazing, i hope that my ex unblocks me. We were not getting on much and when I went to his house on Friday night we had a massive argument and he told me he didn’t want to be with me. I know he didn’t mean it because he has said this in the past and when i asked him about it he said it is because he dosen’t like it when i am annoyed or upset with him. He wants to be with me when i am happy, but however I obviously wasn’t when we fell out, and we argued and then i was asked to leave his house.
The next day i could not resist to text him, and I did that and he never replied. Then I found out he has blocked my texts. It had been 2 days with no contact from his side, but i have never considered no contact from my side. I am really really worried in case he dosen’t get back in contact, im 19 years old and we have been together since I was 15 and its really hard to have no contact.
Katie Lyon

March 30, 2014 at 12:48 am

my ex has contacted me now but over text messages and he called me and asked me in a text message if i wanted to have sex with him and I said yes to him. He told me to tell my parents that and I don’t want to tell them at all so if I do have it I will not tell them at all.
Adelle

March 29, 2014 at 5:48 pm

Chris, I’m stuck.

I was the annoying girl who picked fights and made accusations all the time. That lasted about 6 months. We didn’t exactly break up but more sort of shifted to being ‘just friends’. That pissed me off because I didn’t understand what had happened and I kept on picking fights, etc. That lasted another 6 months before I pushed him too far and he stopped talking to me. After about another 6 months of occasional communication, I saw him briefly which seemed to go okay but afterwards he completely cut me off and blocked me (apps, that’s all as far as I know)

I found out later that he finally cut me off because someone had said something awful to him behind my back. I realized I needed to do some serious work on myself and figure out why things kept going so wrong between us. I realized how badly I’d behaved and that I had taken out personal issues on him. I stopped trying and took a few months to deal with my problems and figure out my feelings towards him.

Eventually, I worked up the courage to call and leave him a message apologizing for what had happened when I last saw him and told him that I’d realized my mistakes, I was sorry and I was working through them. A couple of weeks later he texted me to say he got my message and was happy about it. I tried texting him a few times but no response. About a month later, he called me out of the blue and we talked for awhile. We talked again a few days later and during that conversation he hinted around about what I’d been doing to deal with things. I thought I should keep things upbeat and ignored what he was hinting at.

That was a couple of months ago and we haven’t spoken since. I’ve tried but he won’t answer the phone or call me back. I think when we last spoke he was looking for a reason to support that things really would be different this time and when I didn’t give him one, he retreated. I ended up sending him an email and tried my best to give him that reason but I don’t know if it was too late to have any impact.

I’m scared of pushing too hard and seeming desperate but I really want the chance to show him that I’ve changed my ways and things can be different but don’t know what to do to do that. He has a Facebook account but never uses it. We don’t have friends in common. He’s terrible at responding to emails.
I can’t call/text him because he doesn’t have his cell right now and I don’t have the number for his loaner phone.

Is there hope that I can fix this? Any ideas on what I should do?

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