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Candy
November 12, 2017 at 7:58 pm
I did the no contact rule for 31 days, and my ex told me he is with someone else. He did contact me about 4 times after the no contact rule, and I ignored him just like you said. Now I’m feeling sad. I don’t know what to do.
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 13, 2017 at 1:58 am
Hi Candy,
Why did he say that? Did you ask? How much did you improve yourself and how active were you in posting during and after nc?
May
October 30, 2017 at 6:39 am
I have done 37 days of NC and intiated the contact. First things were getting fine untill he brought back again about our past RS. He still feels negative about me and about breakup. Apart from us, he is still feel upset about my family too. Now things are going really back and he became a stranger/friend to me. Please suggests me what to do next. I want him back although I can live away from him.
EBR Team Member: Amor
November 1, 2017 at 3:20 pm
Hi May,
What did you say when he brought that up?
Net
October 21, 2017 at 8:25 pm
Please help. My ex invited me out for a first date, I asked what his intentions were and he got angry and said none. This was after 30 days no contact. I agree to meet and he was friendly but standoffish. As the evening went on, he asked if he could hug me, I said Ok, and he hugged me tightly and kissed my cheek. I kissed his cheek back. He then kept holding my hand and kissed it. He also put his arm around me and also put his hands on my waist to move me next to him. Towards the end of the evening, he asked if I would meet up again, that was a week ago and I haven’t heard anything from him since. HELP ME PLEASE.
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 24, 2017 at 2:14 pm
you have to restart nc, do at least 21 days.. Take it slow after in building rapport..
lee
October 19, 2017 at 9:58 am
i broke the no contact rule on 20th day .. i called him but he pick up the phone nd said hes busy..then next day i texted him hi.. after 2.3 days i again texted him .. after 4..days we talked on wts app ..and again 2 times .. so what should i do ? he also dating someone else too should i start no contact?
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 22, 2017 at 7:07 pm
HI Lee,
yes, restart it and do at least 30 days and check this one:
How To Properly Start A Conversation With Your Ex After No Contact
Andy
October 18, 2017 at 8:33 am
Hi,
Si i have successfully done the 30 day no contact rule. No texting, talking, calling. But he has not reached out to me or tried to contact me.
My ex and I were together for a year and a half. It was a kind of long distance relationship, but we saw each other 12 days per month. We did fight often because he kept on adding girls to his Facebook, and he was always looking st other girls. You could say I didn’t trust him much since I have I fought him lying to me several times. The last time we spoke I basically insulting him for two hours, I went Crazy because I found out he went out and slept with someone else while he we were talking!!! It’s a long long story ! I have broken up with him before and done NC and he always comes back beggin to be with me whithin the first two weeks. I so believe he’s the one, even though he went out with another person while we were talking… I know it sounds stupid….. I even made him believe that I was going tod ate someone else that I was done with the lies so he would see how it feels. I posted a picture with two glasses of wine that said Sunday funday and even though he’s not my friend on Facebook he liked the picture and then blocked me from WhatsApp this was two weeks into the NC. I felt kind of happy since he was stalking me and knowing that he was hurt made me feel happy….. I’m not dating anyone that day I was with my older brother, but I made it look like I was having a drink wth a guy….. so my question is it’s been 31 days of no contact what should I do? I don’t want to initiate contact at all since he was the one who lied!!! I know he still loves me but I need him to learn his lesson!!
Thanks
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 19, 2017 at 3:48 pm
Hi Andy,
check this one:
EBR 056: My Ex Boyfriend Cheated On Me Multiple Times… What Do I Do?
Loreal
October 10, 2017 at 2:16 pm
Hi. I met my ex the ending of april. He is a cop , a friend of mine contacted him because I needed help from the police. After contacting him , he started calling me, I immediately knew he was interested in me but I wasn’t and I never thought I would ever fall for him. But eventually I did. We talked on the phone almost eveyday for hours. We were both in a similar situation with our ex. I had a man in my life who didn’t show much care likewise him(meaning he had a girlfriend who treated him like trash, they dated for a year but she started ignoring him) . We talked alot about that and we were so glad to have found each other. We started dating in the middle of may. It was such a beautiful relationship. He told me continuously how lucky he is to have found me. He said he’s never had any woman love him like i do. He told me eveyday how much he loved me and that when he started talking to me he never thought he could get me to fall for him. He really helped me solve some problems, i was looking for an apartment , he helped me find one. We had plans. We even talked about our future together but after sometime he started to pull away and gave excuses that he was busy with his life and and wanted to work on himself so we can’t be as close as we used to and that his emotions are off but he still loves me. I tried to understand but I couldn’t take it. I did complain and appeared needy. later I found messages on his phone to his ex. He was literally begging her to come back but she was reluctant, I finally understood why he became so cold towards me. I confronted him about the text, he denied ever wanting to get back to his ex. I said nothing. But he kept pulling further and further away, he wouldn’t even come see the new place i just moved into. The place he helped me get. he finally broke up with me.( we only dated for 3 months ) It was painful. I begged him not to go but he just wouldn’t agree. I accepted the break up. from that night I initiated the no contact rule. I turned off my phone because I didn’t want to be tempted to call him. But we were still friends on facebook. I did post some pictures which he reacted to. He hit the love emoticon twice on two different pictures but he never messaged me on facebook. The no contact rule lasted over a month until one morning my mum told me she missed his call the night before. And I knew why he called. That night there was a massive gas explosion that took place on a root i usually take when going home. I called him back with my mum’s phone and he said he called to find out if I was okay. Apparently he was in the same area the explosion happened. We talked for a long time just like old times. He made me laugh. He has a really good singing voice and previously he used to sing to me on the phone all the time. I asked him if he could sing for me. He did sing and it was beautiful. We talked about the explosion. The lives that were lost. Of course we didnt talk about the breakup. But it was a really nice conversation. There was so much laughter. He later asked about my phone cos he said he called it and it was off. Told him I don’t have one anymore. Lol. He then told me to get a phone, he talked about calling me. I ended the conversation. After that I turned on my phone. I reactivated my whatsapp. I updated my status. Later that evening he asked about a picture i put up. It was something interesting. I casually replied. He made jokes about it. The next day he put up something regarding the same thing I put up, I asked about it, he casually replied. I then sent him a screenshot of a message I received on facebook by a scammer posing as one of the men of God we know. Never got any reply from him up until the next day when I saw him post something on his whatsapp status . He only replied the text I sent asking about what he put on his status. I know it’s not a bug deal but the fact that he never got back to me on the screenshot really disturbed me. Of course I didn’t send any message after that and i don’t plan to. But I’m getting desperate again and i don’t like it. Few minutes ago I was this close to calling him or texting and telling him I still love him and want him but I called my cousin to talk me out of it and she did. At this point, what do i do? Do you think I still have a chance with him? So far i am proud of my composure. I haven’t freaked out yet. Lol. What should be my next move. Honestly I’m scared to even text him. My plan is to not text him ever because i can’t bare any rejection. I just want to wait until he reaches out again, what do you think?
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 10, 2017 at 3:38 pm
Hi Loreal,
It would be better if you initiate again..just be the one to end the conversations of he replies..
Lena
October 5, 2017 at 9:28 pm
I have been in NC for 18 days. The day that we broke up, my ex told me that he knew he was still going to want to talk to me and see me. I told him I didn’t know if that was possible and when he asked why I told him it was because I had to do what was best for me. He told me that was logical.
But immediately after he left my apartment he texted me “hey” and a sad face. I didn’t respond and a couple days later he snap chatted me which I also didn’t respond to.
Since then, I haven’t heard from him at all and now I’m wondering if I should have stayed in contact with him this whole time. Because now I’m worried that he is moving on from me since I have been ignoring him.
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 8, 2017 at 8:27 pm
Hi Lena,
Check this one:
Will My Ex Forget Me If I Do No Contact
Jin
October 3, 2017 at 10:50 am
Hi Chris,
Does NC work if the guy knows of it? I didn’t tell him that I’m going on a NC but he’s aware of what that is/have heard of it.
EBR Team Member: Amor
October 3, 2017 at 10:02 pm
Hi Jin,
Nope, not as effective as it can be.. So that means you have to really makr it seem you’re moving on through your posting
Rosh
September 13, 2017 at 6:44 pm
Does no contact rule work for gay relationships? My bf broke up with me because he thinks we are both incompatible. I don’t understand because we love each other a lot. He was crying so much when he broke up with me. I tried asking him to work things out but he says no. Then I didn’t contact him and after 3 days he texted to ask how I was doing. I then again asked him to work things out and he says that he doesn’t feel the same way about me that he did earlier. Since then, he has texted me twice but I would be very short with my responses. Is it rude? Is there a chance to get him back?
EBR Team Member: Amor
September 15, 2017 at 4:17 pm
Hi Rosh,
It’s not a guarantee that it will work in any kind of situation. It just helps increase your chances. Tell him being friends is not workable for you now and then start nc
Ames
September 5, 2017 at 1:17 pm
Please HELP!
My ex moved onto a new relationship straight after ours (an ex girlfriend of his back in 2016). He’s still with her now. I successfully did the no contact rule for 2 months straight, I then reached out to him through email which he did respond. We exchanged emails and even a phone call. He gave me some mixed messages on how he has thought about me, gave me some hope of meeting up and how he’s missed certain aspect of our relationship. However, since then he’s gone ghost on me. Another 10 days past with NC and I received an email out of the blue from him saying ‘when is good to talk?’ – I immediately was so happy thinking he now wants to reconnect again. I offered for him to call me – BUT NOTHING! He never called…..and once again he’s ignoring me? Now I don’t know what to do? Do I reach out again? What was he wanting to call me for? So many questions I have running through my mind….. yet no answers! Please give me some guidance? Do you think he got cold feet?
EBR Team Member: Amor
September 7, 2017 at 8:59 pm
Hi Ames,
when did you break up? When did you get together after he broke up with her? When did he start talking again with her before breaking up with you? Did you keep talking after you broke up?
Meran
August 26, 2017 at 3:23 pm
I really don’t get the moving on without moving on tactic. I keep seeing it in almost every article, being mentioned as one of the most effective tactics, but what I don’t understand is the “without moving on” part. Where can I read more about this? I get I should have my own life, become ungettable, etc. I’m doing all those. But its confusing, either I talk to him or I don’t?
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 27, 2017 at 1:44 pm
Hi Meran,
That means preparing yourself, your life and routine of the possibility of not getting him back.. If after you tried building rapport and attraction, it didn’t work out, it will hurt but you will just continue on in your new routine and then fully move on.
Alisha
August 25, 2017 at 1:21 pm
I followed no contact rule since October last year. What to do now I still got no response from my ex bf? I didn’t give him my contact. But he blocked me on Facebook. What to do now? Just to shut my mouth and wait patiently?
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 26, 2017 at 12:35 pm
Hi ALisha,
Since october last year? What do you mean that you didn’t get a response? When did you initiate contact? How long did you do no contact? When did he block you? How many times have you done nc? HOw much did you improve yourself and how active were you in posting?
Jade
August 23, 2017 at 1:43 am
I’m not even sure what my question is at this point so I will just give you a little back story. I’m 27. He’s 29. We met online. On tinder to be exact. I kind of blew him off at first and then a month or so later we started to snap chat eachother again which lead to all day texting and phone calls. For months he tried to arrange our meeting. Invited me to his town which was 2 hours away in another state, or offered to come visit me. After bailing on him numerous times we finally met and hit it off. We were inseparable. Things moved rather quickly and he asked me to move in. I was nervous and hesitant and even wondered if he really were the one for me. I decided that I did really care for this person and took the risk of moving away from my family and friends to go live where i knew no one, would be taking a huge pay cut work wise.
I’m crazy. I know.
But this man is handsome, he’s a gentleman. His family is well off and just so friendly and come from a nice little town.
Anyway. Things were a little rocky at first considering we just moved in together afyer several months of dating and were really still getting to know eachother. Things smoothed out and at one point he told his friends he knew i was the one he was going to marry. His mom was already thinking about our wedding. We had a couples photo taken.
But then at one point he said that something was missing and considered breaking up. He changed his mind. Months later….same thing happened. He would avoid spending timd with my family but wanted me to go lengths to spend time with his. This caused a strain in our relationship. Earlier this month he officially ended things while I was back home visiting my family. This came after an argument due to him bailing on one of my family events. I was devastated and he knew it. The next week I went back to our home to gather my things and prepare to move back the following weekend. At this point I acted like I was fine. We would laugh and have fun but would sleep in another room. He would try to hug and kiss and sleep together. But wouldnt suggest staying together. Over the course of the week, i became more depressed since I wasnt getting the response I wanted and would cry in front of him but didnt act crazy. A couple of times he suggested I stay but but it seemed to not be sincere and out of pity for me. So I refused. I eventually caved, slept in the same room several times. In all fairness there was a bat in the house!! Lol but we did end up having sex. Our last night we went on a break up date to dinner and both cried to eachother the day I moved out. He said I was the best girlfriend he ever had but that maybe something was wrong with him, or that something was missing, or maybe just take a break. I hadnt talked to him for almost a week and he sent me a text asking how I was and that he missed me but was happy to have time to really think. I agreed that time to think was nice and said that I missed him as well then got no response. I then text the next day with a funny experience I had that reminded me of one of our last days together. He replied with a cheery text and then I did not say anything back. It has now been 4 days of no contact. I have a long ways to go.
So I guess my question is, does it sound like this is something that could be saved?
Im torn. I dont want to live there (not the life for me) but I want him (we had so much fun and had so many adventures and I know he wants the same life I do but feels stuck in his families business) and I want him to want me. Is that selfish? Is this pointless? I dont know if you can help me but it feels good to finally let that all out either way.
Thank you for any advice that you can give.
Marie
September 8, 2017 at 1:52 pm
It sounds like he does want you and when he says something is missing I think he means that you aren’t feeling it as in you don’t want to be there.
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 24, 2017 at 9:53 pm
Hi Jade
check this one:
Do You Have The Same Values As Your Ex? (With Chase Kosterlitz)
Claire
August 10, 2017 at 10:12 pm
It happened last weekend. The calls I made were usually about something trivial. Till date,I did my NC from that day but with 1-2 min calls.
Claire
August 16, 2017 at 11:37 pm
Hi Amor,
Doing the NC is really difficult. Going thru at least 1 day is already challenging. How can i make mine possible?
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 17, 2017 at 3:36 pm
It is hard..It’s not suppose to be easy but it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it.. Check this one:
The No Contact Rule Is Killing Me…
Lixka
August 14, 2017 at 4:53 pm
Hi, me and ex broke up 5 weeks ago and today we would have been together for a year. I implemented the no contact rule for 30 days and reached out to him and he responded so fast and well that I didn’t know what to do and took a day to respond. Now he won’t reply to my texts. What should I do? I really want him back
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 14, 2017 at 9:32 pm
Hi Lixka,
How much did you improve yourself and how active were you in posting during and after nc?
Claire
August 13, 2017 at 11:03 am
Hi Amor,
I have some questions to ask you. What do I do:
1. When it concerns our necessary duties? Bills? Saving plans?
2. Do i travel to meet him during no contact?
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 13, 2017 at 7:35 pm
settle the bills and arrange the schedule of payment before you do nc.. If you’re going to check with him on it during nc only make it about that. But be honest with yourself, if you’re going to use that as an excuse just to talk to him, you’re not helping yourself. You’re just making it worse for you. Why are you going to meet during nc?
Claire
August 11, 2017 at 5:48 pm
He even put me on hold when we did a video call!! Right now I am so gonna bang my head against the wall for being this stupid!!
Claire
August 11, 2017 at 5:38 pm
Hi Amor,
I was constantly checking for your reply. Cos I am part angry with him, with everything, with myself and also part missing him. The more we talked, the more angry I become and the more he got riled up. He called me crooked, dishonest and a liar. I asked him what made him thought of me in that manner. He said he didn’t want to tell as he had gotten fed up with me. HE even read out my messages that he had gotten angry with. I am so angry with everything!!
I feel like i need to chop my hands off from my phone. Its like a damned thing!!
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 11, 2017 at 2:19 pm
that’s not a no contact period if you’re still calling him.. is this your first time doing nc?
Claire
August 9, 2017 at 3:42 pm
Hi Amor,
What is the best arrangement to do a NC for a long distance marriage?
My husband and I are married for a year now. We both live in different countries (not too far, side by side) and have no kids yet. We do visit each other about 2-3 times monthly. During our recent visit, we had an argument which led me to be emotional. The argument happened when I visited him last week. I wept and cried. He approached me a few times to console me but I was still upset about the matter. He mentioned something about things not working out between us. So, to help me stabilize my sanity, he mentioned something like, “I wasn’t looking for someone else. I was browsing health products.” At that point, I called him out that he was merely testing me or playing mind games. That made him silenced. Mustering the remnants of my strength, I left his place earlier than I intended to. He sent me to the cab when it arrived. I was no longer crying anymore, partly because I felt stronger of discovering his games. Before I closed the door, I said 2 words, “Just watch.” I never turned back to look at him. When I got to the terminal, I received a text from him about an item. He called me “Baby”. I answered sarcastically.
At this point, I called him a few times but he didn’t answer. Yes, I wanted to find out if he would pick up. On the following day, I called him, not related to the previous argument. He answered but it was more like a 2 min conversation/discussion of a bill. He said that if it cant be done, he suggested that I should do it in my next visit. I told him that I wanted it to be done soon. Following upon that, I didn’t make any calls to him.
Should I do NC?
Thanks.
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 10, 2017 at 4:02 pm
when was all of this? And how many times have you done nc?
Kerr
August 3, 2017 at 9:07 pm
I completed the NC 30 days. I sent one of those you won’t believe what happened text and he is ignoring me. During no contact he contacted me once and i ignored it. When he came around with his new gf during my no contact I was pleasant and focused on me. I have worked hard on the holy trinity. He has kept his relationship a secret from me. I followed everything and NC didn’t work …what next??
Kerr
August 7, 2017 at 4:32 am
What I mean by pleasant is I didn’t know he was coming to the same outing as I was. A day before he contacted me i ignored him and the day of the outing he was all over his new gf and I behaved politely and appeared that it didn’t bother me and focused on the time with my friends…i have been posting and I continue to work on me.
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 9, 2017 at 2:38 pm
Ah..wait a week before initiating again
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 6, 2017 at 5:51 am
Hi kerr,
When you said pleasant, that means you did talk to him durinf nc right? And how active were you in posting..that’s very good that you’re improving yourself, are you still doing so now?
Ayrra
August 3, 2017 at 2:11 am
Hello! I need some advice. 🙁 This break-up is tearing my insides. It happened 3 weeks ago when my ex declared, “Let’s just break up. You’re too negative for me.” over text message. Before he sent me that message, I told him some pretty nasty words like, “You’re beginning to feel toxic to me.”, “You’re the wrong person to confide with.” and “I wish I was the one who dies, not my brother.” But none of them are true, I didn’t mean to say them. 🙁 I did not respond quickly to his message about breaking-up because my mind was in shambles because of depression and self-doubt. After collecting my thoughts, I responded to him asking for reconsideration and apologized profusely for the words I’ve thrown at him. But he strongly refused and told me he really wants us to break-up. I called him and begged him not to do this and that I was just under the influence of my emotions but he dropped my call. 🙁 We were together for 7 years and 6 months. I knew that he was pissed and angry over what I said and did. I begged him to talk to me in person but he really doesn’t want to see or speak to me at all. So I decided to go NC on him. I broke it after 3 days, I sent him a message telling him I missed him. And 7 days after the break -up I contacted him again. He replied telling me that he will be taking his things back and that I should prepare everything. When the day came that he was coming to take his things we were chatting in Line. I was begging him not to do this and was asking for a chance to mend our relationship. He told me there was no chance, I was toxic and that he didn’t love me anymore. What hurt more was when I asked him if I was not worth it, he responded, “You’re not worth it anymore.” That line truly broke my heart. I was furious and sad after reading that message. I asked my helper to be the one to give him his things. I refused to see him. Also, one of the reasons I decided not to show myself in front of him was because he brought along a friend. I did not want to look needy and desperate in front of his friend, too. Did I make the wrong choice of not seeing him on that day? 🙁 After that, all means of communication was cut by him. He blocked my mobile number and he even blocked me on Line. On July 26 I sent him an e-mail containing everything I wanted to tell him in person. I never got a reply. I love him so much. And I am in disbelief that he does not love me anymore. Can a person’s feelings change that quickly? 5 days before the break-up we were all lovey-dovey. He was so affectionate and loving. I truly didn’t mean the words I threw at him. Please help. I need someone’s opinion on this.
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 5, 2017 at 7:06 pm
Hi ayyra,
Check this one:
Does Begging For Your Ex Back Even Work?
Alicia
August 1, 2017 at 10:40 pm
My ex and i have been together almost a year and a half. As many would say, we were meant to be together. I’m 31 and he’s 36. We’ve had our fair share of heartbreaks and after an awful 4 years with the wrong man, (i thought my ex now) he was the one for me. Long story short, we have a great relationship. We get along very well and have the same sense of humor. We did everything together. I noticed his lack of making long term commitments, as in traveling, but i didn’t really think anything of it. Anyway, my lease is up at my place, and i thought id mention his thoughts around us moving in together… and well, that didn’t go too well. He said that we fight over little things and that he thought we weren’t ready for that. His tone changed and i just felt him close up. At this point i had no clue where this came from and i got upset. I said i was going to leave (i was at his place) I grabbed my things and left. He didn’t want me to go, but i needed some time to cool off.
The next day i sent a text apologizing for leaving and that i respected his decision to not move in together. He said he needed time to think and said i left. 2 days go by and he finally calls me. He said when i left i left the relationship. I was so upset. 2 days later i went to his place to apologize again for leaving and he was pretty cold to me. He said he didn’t see a future with me and that it wasn’t working. This was our first real fight and i was so confused where this was all coming from. We literally were just making plans to travel and now he doesn’t see a future? its just all too sudden and random. Anyway, i told him i respect his decision and that i loved him, gave him his key back, gave him a kiss and i left. Its bee 2 weeks since then and i haven’t called him, he hasn’t called me. Im doing NC for the 30 days. I hope he comes around, but i know he is very stubborn. advice? Do i wait for him to call and go about my life, or do i reach out.
Ive already apologized for my wrong doing, he has not.
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 3, 2017 at 6:26 pm
Hi alicia,
He’s 36, so it’s either he doesn’t have a plan of marrying you someday or it’s just too early for him to move in together with you because you’re just a year and a half in.. How much are you improving yourself and how active are you in posting?
I think you should check this one too:
Do You Have The Same Values As Your Ex? (With Chase Kosterlitz)
Karla
July 27, 2017 at 4:13 am
Hi, so my boyfriend broke up with me in March 2017. We decided to stay in contact to try and work things out. It lasted till June, he told me that he didn’t love me anymore and that he’s seeing someone else. He said he was barley talking to her. So I decided to follow the no contact rule and it came to an end a couple days ago so I messaged him yesterday but no reply. Also he had blocked my number so I had to dm him on ig which he’s no longer following me on anymore and I’m not following him. But he’s still following my sister and my cousins and they’re all still following him as well and they told me that he hasn’t posted anything about a girl and it’s been over a month since he told me he was talking to someone else. Any advice on what I should do now?? Is there a possibility that he might not be seeing anyone??
EBR Team Member: Amor
July 29, 2017 at 7:15 pm
Hi Karla,
Even if he didn’t follow you, how active were you in improving yourself, and in posting and were they public posts?
Km
July 25, 2017 at 2:02 pm
Broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago. After the break up, he still contacting me like normal chat. back to the 3rd day after the break up, he asked me if I have anything to request except for getting back together so I requested him to be my one day boyfriend and also the same day I keep begging him back to me but he rejected. After that day, he still message me. Then, yesterday we had a short videocall awhile, I asked him if he still loves me ? He said he still loves me and that’s why he keeps message me because he worries that I will forget about him. Then I asked if we still have hope ? He said no but maybe in future there will be a possibility or maybe not. He asked me to for lunch but I rejected because I’m scare. What should I do ?
Km
August 2, 2017 at 7:33 am
He message me and told me that he know we( he and I) not contacting anymore, but he can’t find someone to let him rant that something stuck inside his heart for very long time, and he said Im the most understand him so he ask if I can listen to his rant. What should I do ? He is a cancer horoscope man. He rarely open up to people. I just seen his message. Isit okay to reply him and let him rant ?
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 5, 2017 at 5:22 pm
Nope…
Km
August 1, 2017 at 10:30 am
He still post status about me like example I uploaded my selfie yesterday like I’m happy then he posted his status ‘you look happy and I’m relieve’. I liked his status and two hours later he message me but I only seen his message. Should I shorten the NC to 21days ? Because end of this month(August) both of us going to separate (going for University- different state) so it will be long distance. And on 22th Aug it supposed to be our One year anniversary. Please advice.
EBR Team Member: Amor
August 1, 2017 at 5:14 pm
Dont like nor comment back when your nc.. And nope.. Stick to 30 days.
Because shortening it will not stop him from moving away
Km
July 30, 2017 at 8:49 am
we had argument about the past few days back . And I told him I won’t disturb him anymore. But he still messange me everyday and all I did was seen his message. I started the NC. Today is the 3rd day. And yesterday he started to keep message me asking if I really don’t bother him anymore . What should I do ? Should I reply him and tell him to stop contact me as I need to move on ? Or just ignore his message ?
EBR Team Member: Amor
July 31, 2017 at 3:09 pm
If you already told what I advised or something like that then dont reply anymore
Km
July 26, 2017 at 2:36 pm
As you suggested this web at the comment , but I’m still confuse what should I do now. I never start to message him first after the break up because I worry he will excuse me as despo. And , he is actually the one who always start message me first after the break up. When I don’t reply /seen his message, he will send another message to me. What should I do ? As he told me few days ago that he don’t want get back into relationship.
EBR Team Member: Amor
July 29, 2017 at 7:04 pm
Tell him the current situation of talking to him is not workable for you for now, and you’re taking a step for yoursrlf and to move on.. And then start nc.. Dont reply if he still sends messages because you already said that talking to him is not workable for you
EBR Team Member: Amor
July 25, 2017 at 6:27 pm
Hi Kim.
check this one:
You Desperately Begged For Him Back And Failed… I’m Here To Fix That