145 thoughts on “Why Did My Ex Boyfriend Unfollow Me On Social Media?”

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   Meg

   August 24, 2017 at 4:01 am

   I did 43 days of no contact because I didn’t feel like I was quite ready emotionally. Today I sent him a text asking for a favor because something made me think of his work but stating that there was no pressure and to take care. He texted back within ten minutes, first calling me something weird, which I’m not sure what he meant by it, then stating that he won’t be working there anymore so can’t help me. I waited a few hours and then texted a simple “Okay. Thanks for letting me know!” Now I found out that he no longer follows me on Youtube or instagram, plus he unfriended me on Facebook. Just earlier today I know I was still friends with him because he was on messenger at the same time as me. I’m trying not to freak out, but I had felt really good about how everything was going. I’ve been improving myself, posting on social media, and he was even liking a lot of my posts before. What should I do? I was originally planning on waiting a few days and then starting another text conversation with him, but I feel a little hopeless right now.

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   August 24, 2017 at 11:17 pm

   yep, wait a few days again before initiating.. Act as if you didn’t know he unfriended or unfollowed you.

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   M

   August 2, 2017 at 12:21 am

   Heyy,

   I got ghosted and unfollowed him because I was so mad. I’m channeling my UG-ness and doing a ton of stuff in my own life, but I keep thinking about him. We don’t have any mutual friends and he recently unfollowed me on Instagram. Do you think I should be the one to refollow after a 45 day no contact is up?

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   EBR Team Member: Amor

   August 4, 2017 at 4:57 pm

   Do that once you’ve already built rapport